April 16, 2025

(no music) REWIND | Let me bore your pain away #24 | Jason Newland | 16th April 2025

(no music) REWIND | Let me bore your pain away #24 | Jason Newland | 16th April 2025
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Hello, and welcome to Jasonnewland dot com. My name's Jason

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Newland and this is let me bore your pain away.

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Please only listen when you can safely close your eze.

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Just let you know that I do have a Facebook

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group called Jason Newland's Boiling Group. I have a YouTube

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chedel at oh if I can stop you ordered at

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Jason Newland and that's where I upload all of my

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podcast episodes whenever they're available. Really, so it's I kind

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of just share everything that I do onto YouTube now.

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So that includes all the different six versions of the recordings.

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I've got multiple podcasts, and all the latest recordings are

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available on my website Jasonnewland dot com. So you can

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just go there and you can download them, you can

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stream them, you can even play them slower or faster.

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You could search for older recordings and what else. There's

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also a form you can fill in if you have

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a question for this upcoming Q and a Friday. I've

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got so far, I've got a few Q and a

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Friday questions now, which is good? Whatever I got? What

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have I got? Whatever? Whatever? What have I got? One? Two, three,

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four one from Anne, Maria, Georgie and Hillary so I

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will answer those questions on Friday. So what this is

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really is to let me boil your pain away. It's

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kind of similar to let me buoy you to sleep,

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except I am focusing on helping with reducing chronic pain. Now,

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it's important that you only listen to this with the

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permission of your doctor because you do need to know

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the cause of that physical discomfort. Okay, So, and there's

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a few different things I do. Ultimately, it is like

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the title, I'm just going to bore you. When you

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get bored, you feel relaxed. And when you feel relaxed,

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it reduces any physical discomfort you may have been feeling

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before deciding to listen to me and enjoy that comfort.

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There's also other things that can happen. You're focusing on now,

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you're not You're no longer focusing on previous feelings, and

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you know, just it's just there's a few little things

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going on. And there's also I guess there's a sense

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of expectancy, especially if you listen to me regularly, maybe

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you listen to my other recordings, and you know that

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when you listen to my voice, you do you feel

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more relaxed. Just generally, you feel calmer, your mind slows down,

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your body starts to relax. It's just natural stuff. So

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I like to try and, you know, pick out an idea.

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So it's not so much that I'm going to go

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through a technique, although probably will, but I think it's

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fun to have an idea. You have an idea and

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play around with that, just ponder around it, wrap your

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mind around it, maybe test it for yourself. So I

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was just thinking, because I'm quite into time, and that

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might sound like a really weird sentence, it actually does

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now said it out loud, or like time I do.

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I mean in the sense of from a hypnosis perspective

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or from a movie perspective, time distortion, rewinding time, fast

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forward in time. And there's an old technique that Milton

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eight Erickson, who was a pioneer hypnotic pioneer a long

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long time ago, and he used to when someone had

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severe physical sensations that would come on, he would have

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them almost like pause what they were doing, but they

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automatically paused and fast forward in time so that that

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feeling that discomfort is over and then they're at the

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at the end of it and they just carry on.

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I mean this technique can only be allowed your unconscious

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mind can only allow yourself to do this if it's

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safe to do it. So of course you wouldn't want

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to be doing something like that if you're driving a

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car or you need to be aware of what's going on.

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But if he was in bed, or if you was

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just sitting down watching Telly, you were just relaxing, and

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that minute or that thirty seconds or that ten seconds

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of maybe sharpness that you would have normally experienced, just

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fast forwards to the end. It's a bit because I

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do this with movies, and this is going to sound weird,

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but I don't like, I'm not really into the love

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scenes in movies anymore, say anymore, you know, I watch

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a tea. There's a TV show called Power that I

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used to like, and also no one called Donathan rut Donovan,

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don Donovan Ruddick or Donathan anyway something like that, and

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they both had a lot of like hanky panky scenes.

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It's a very old fashioned term, and for me it

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got in a way. I'm not comparing someone's physical discomfort

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to you know, a love scene on a TV show.

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I'm not. I'm just saying it's something that I don't

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really want to watch. I don't really want to be

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part of I don't really it's more of an irritation.

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If anything. I want to just get back to the

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action or get back to what's really going on. It's

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just a pointless bit of stuff, which is a complete

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opposite to how I used to be. That used to

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be the bit I wanted to watch when I was

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a teenager. But you know, things change. So what I

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do is I fast forward those bits, and I is,

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you know, with power or the power whatever it was called.

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I was getting through an entire episode and our episode

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in about thirty five minutes by skipping all that stuff.

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I mean, it wasn't so much that it was like

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just got a little bit boring because it's the same people,

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you know, not that I wanted to watch anyone. I'll

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move on, but yeah, so I'd fast forward so I

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didn't have to put myself through it in the same

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way as when I'm watching if I watched back boxing

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on playback. So I've got the zone and they have

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adverts even though I pay money for the actual app,

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they have adverts in the middle constantly between rounds. So

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what I do is when I watch it on playback,

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or I watch it live, but I'll go back and

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i'll leave it for an hour. Then i'll watch it live,

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go to the beginning, and I'll fast forward through the adverts.

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So because I find the constant adverts throughout it's just unpleasant,

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you know, because I don't know how many adverts would

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that be, like one hundred adverts in a three hour

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a three hour, three and a half hour event, that's

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probably like one two probably about thirty thirty adverts probably

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which I don't need to be sitting through, so I'll

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just fast forward. I don't mind the color of adverts

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at the beginning, it's not really a big issue, but

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just like all the way through. So and also the

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gibber jella when they're talking about a fight coming up

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and they're talking about something else, I can just fast

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forward it. And if I know both the people that

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are fighting the boxing, I can just skip it through

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to the point where they're entering squaring off against each other,

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and just you know, I can miss all that bunk

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out bunk, if that's a word. Sometimes I like to

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see the introductions and that, but you know, occasionally with

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the big fights to have like a band playing or

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someone singing national anthems, like, I don't need to listen

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to all that stuff, so I'll just skip forward. It's

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all wonderful. I suppose it takes a little bit of

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the event out of it, a little bit of the

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chevaz chabaz the entertainment maybe, but I'm okay with that.

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If it's live, I just watch it all. So I

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like the idea of being able to just fast forward.

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Did you imagine you've got a physical feeling, So I'm

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just going to use the physical feeling, okay, that you

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don't want or that you didn't want, I'm not going

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to use the pai word anymore during this recording. And

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that's the kind of the marker you know that you

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want to just skip through. So what you could do

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is if you remembered the last time you had a

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feeling and just imagine just skipping through it, fast forwarding

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through it rather to the end where you don't need

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it anymore, and it can change the way you feel.

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Another thing you could do, you could rewind the rewind technique,

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or maybe you could call it the rewind machine, So

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it could be a machine that you literally just sit

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down in or you could just attach it to your

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bed or your chair and you could turn it on

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and just relax, and you can think of a time

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when you went through that physical discomfort and just rewind

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it to the beginning before. Rewind it. Keep rewinding it,

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keep rewinding it to a point where that part of

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your body fine. Keep rewinding toil that part of your

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body felt relaxed, felt loose, whether it's a minute, whether

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it's an hour, rewinding it a day, a week, a month,

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a year, even if you rewind it fast, really fastly,

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rewind it five years or ten years to a time

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when that part of your body felt fine. And that's

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the only part of your body you're rewinding. Everything else

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is just staying the same, but you're rewinding that part

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of your body, the physical feeling in that part of

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your body, rewinding it and just keep going. And why

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you're rewinding it. There's not really any feeling occur in

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any way because it's busy. Just notice how it feels

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as you get to that time I am when it

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felt absolutely fine, absolutely relaxed, peaceful, calm, and you can

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notice how that feels. Maybe imagine moving that part of

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your body in your mind the way you used to do,

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perhaps imagine doing some of the things that perhaps you

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haven't done for a while, and how free and easy

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it feels that part of your body. Just in case

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you're wondering, it's Vinie in the background chomping on a

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bony thing to so you know it's not me fidgeting

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with I don't know what would sound like that if

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I was fidgeting knitting needles. Maybe would you think came

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first knitting these or nittle? If I can see the

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word knitting needles or chopsticks, it's kind of similar, aren't they.

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It was just me. Makes you wonder if someone was

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eating using chopsticks one day and they got distracted and

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they were just talking, and so both the chopsticks in

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their one hand, and they got talking to someone and

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maybe a kitten was like playing around and had a

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ball of wall, and a ball of wall kind of

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got stuck in with the knitting need with the chopsticks rather,

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and they realized at the end of the conversation is

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knitted jumper by accident? Maybe that's how knitting was created.

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Maybe not. I think we need a time machine for that,

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wouldn't we to find out? So notice how that part

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of your body feels. I nearly said, notice how your

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back feels, because that's the part I'm focusing on. Because

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whenever I do these recordings, I always focus on my

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lower back because that's where my arthritis is. And right now,

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my lower back feels really good. It's warm, it's loose,

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it feels no different. In fact, it arguably it feels

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better than the rest of my back. I suppose it's younger,

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isn't it. It's now younger than the rest of my back.

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But it feels fine. And this is something you can repeat,

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so you can just skip back. What you can do

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is just when you open your eyes, you'll be back

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to exactly where you were before, back here with me.

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Or you just move a part of your body and

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it will stimulate you to be back here. Focus on

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that part of your body again, how it feels now,

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right now, in this moment. And rewind it again, rewind it,

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go backwards. Notice how it feels as you go back

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in time, all the way back to a time when

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it felt that body, that part of your body felt

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really relaxed and comfortable, felt free and easy, loose. What

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you may notice that this time it's quicker, which is

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a weird concept because really, when it comes to time,

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there is not really any quicker or shorter if you're

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moving time forward or backwards. It's all relative, I suppose,

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isn't it. And I realized as I said that sentence,

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it almost sounded like I knew what I was talking about,

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and I didn't even understand my own words. I understood

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the individual words, but just put them together. I don't

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think I'm ever going to be a scientist. I can't

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even play a harpsichord, not that that's really anything to

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do with is it harpsichord? A harpsy corn? What Stevie wonderplays,

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you know, the thing that he quits in his mouth,

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And that was not at that. I just want to

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point this out. That was not my impression of Stevie

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Wonder playing the harpsichord, because I'm a big, big Stevie

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Wonder fan. That was him singing. No, it wasn't him singing.

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A big fan. I love love Stevie Wonder. Can you

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believe he's been around since he was a kid? Before

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you say anything, technically we all have, I know, but

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he's I've got an album, Well, I've got a song

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that he did for Christmas, and he was about He

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started around the same time as Michael Jackson did like

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Age White. This is about ten or something I think

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it's like and it's now, what's seventy, So he's been

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going around since nineteen. I can have to look this up.

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So just why I do this? Just notice how feel

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in that part of your body, because I'm actually super

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excited to find out how long Stevie wonder he's got

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to be in his seventies. Now he's seventy four. Okay.

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His first his first WHA, his first Grammy nominated. It

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was nineteen sixty seven. His first Okay, discography, Funny Enough

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was the first nineteen sixty two. He's done twenty three

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studio albums, three soundtrack albums. I know. One of those

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was Lady in Red, Wasn't it? Was it? Lady in Red?

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The One Way Things that I Just Called to Say,

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I Love You? Ninety two singles, oh Man. So his

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very first album, The Jazz Soul of Little Stevie nineteen

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sixty two. So he was born in nineteen fifty I think, yeah,

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he was born in nineteen Yeah, that makes sense. So

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he was born in nineteen fifty that was released in

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nineteen sixty two, which means it must have recorded it

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at least a year earlier. So he was he basically

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released his first album at the age of twelve, and

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he's now seventy four. And that's like twelve, twenty two,

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thirty two, forty two, fifty two, sixty two, seventy two,

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that's over thirty years. Vinnie. So loo to everyone, not

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what I meant. I can't believe you. You've got no class.

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And so what we do go back to the beginning again,

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just as a flash bang. I don't mean well, just

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you know, yeah, just go to the beginning to now

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where we are now. I mean, you're probably where we

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are now now because I've been talking like Stevie Wonder,

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which is possibly some may argue is not necessarily relevant

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to the topic that we're talking about. But you know,

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so imagine we just just actually notice how that part

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of your body feels now in this moment. What we're

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going to do is going to go We're going to

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go back into time again with the older time what

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did I call it, the time portal, the rewind machine.

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It's going to rewind now, go back and just keep

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going back until you get to that point where it

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feels absolutely fine, going back in time, to that point

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where it feels that part of your body feels relaxed

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and loose, relaxed and peaceful and calm. Now I mean

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in and of itself, technically, this is something you could do.

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I suppose to just change how it feels in the moment.

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Here's a little thing you could do. So we can

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play around with this. So what I'd like to focus

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on is this is going to sound weird, but try

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and get that discomfort, try and increase it a bit, Okay,

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because if you can increase it, you can decrease it.

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But just try and focus on it, maybe try and

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get it back a little bit. And that's the opposite

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to what you wouldn't then normally want to do. But

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you know how to reduce it anyway, So it's fine,

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and what you want to do, it's the same kind

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of things. But what we're going to do is you've

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got the very beginning of it and you've got the

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end of it. You kind of and just basically go

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backwards and forwards in time, just fast forward and rewinding

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and just notice, just do that a little bit, so

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you notice it and that feeling of it coming on

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and then going away, coming on and going away, because

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you know, there's a thing this is sporadic, really is

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it all the time? It's like sporadic comes, it goes,

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comes and goes. So just imagine it coming on and leaving,

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coming on and leaving, but then going backwards, then forwards,

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then backwards and forwards and backwards and forwards, and just

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zipping it backwards forward, backward forward to the point where

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you can't even see it. I mean it's not I

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mean you might not being able to see it before,

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but it feels different, feels different as it goes forward, forward, back,

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look like that, and so many different things you could

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do with it. You know, if you can imagine that,

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it's almost like a the rest like a lawn. Can

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you imagine a lawn and it's all cut lovely like

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a nice maybe a golf a golf court, is a

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golf lawn, whatever, but just a nice bowls or something

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like that. It's really short grass, but there's a tuft

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of grass looks a little bit like my hair. It's

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a bit of toft growing out that's really in the way.

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It's annoying it doesn't need to be there. How did

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the was the lawn mower person drunk when they did

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the lawn? How did they miss that? Were they just

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too busy and knitting? You don't You don't know? Some

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people get distracted, don't they? So I'll just blang that

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little thing. Wish I need to move that thing? I

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tell you, Hello, Vinny, Am I done? You're right done

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in my little baby boy, Yes you are. Your daddy's

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a little baby, little chocolate honey pop. Oh, yes you

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are so okay. It's flapping his ears. So no, that

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wasn't No. I didn't so low to you as a

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reason for you to just start hassling me. I was

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just being polite. I was being a good friend. I

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was asking how you were, but not for you to

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start hassling me. He's now begging me for something. I

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don't have anything to give you other than my well wishes.

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Don't have it. He wants food. You've got a bowl

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of food down there, a whole bowl of food, and

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you've not touched it. You know what? Why? He doesn't

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know what I'm saying? Does he? If he knew half

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of what I said, he probably wouldn't talk to me,

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would come on, mate, just calm down, go and carry on.

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See he was minding his own business, chewing on his

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bony thing down there. He was happy doing that. What

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do I do. I start stroking him and start like

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I distracted him from what he was doing, to distract

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himself from me doing what I'm doing. And some would

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say this is probably to distract you from how you

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were feeling before. So there's a lot of distraction going on. Maybe.

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But you got that tuft of grass just really in

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the middle. It's like, no good. They got that in

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a local park, right the council started leaving the strips

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of grass to grow for the wildlife. Now they left

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it for about nearly a whole, probably a whole of

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the summer. It's probably a good three or four months.

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They left it totally overgrown for the wildlife. Okay, and

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specify that. Now, I went in there, and not once

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did I see any giraffes or elephants or gazelle's, no lions, nothing,

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what wildlife? I saw one butterfly. One butterfly. I see

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more than that when I look in the tree. There's

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more butterflies fly into my flat in my windows than

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they are in that bit of land that's for the wildlife.

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All it did was just annoy people because it was

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the dogs love it. Dogs love long grass. I don't

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know why, but and there was all these creepy crawleyes

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and all these little like knits and stuff getting onto

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the dogs, like just can you just cut it anyway?

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It was a little bit like that, but this it

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ruins the rest of the grass. You know, couldn't even

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get You had to walk around it to get to

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the paving because the grass was too long to get

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over to walk over anymore. So you mentioned if you

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cut that grass, cut it down and make it the

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same length as all the other grass, so that that

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part of your body feel the same as the rest

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of your body. That was what I was getting out.

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For a second, I actually forgot what I was talking about,

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which is hard to believe when I am so focused. Yeah,

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that's what I was focusing on. Wasn't it to have

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that one part of your body, or maybe more parts,

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but let's say one part of your body that feels

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different from the others, and maybe it needs to just

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be even doubt so it's the same as all the

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other parts. It's a little bit reminds me of this,

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and I realized, as I'm about to say it, it

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probably there's no no similarity whatsoever. But now started I'm

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going to talk about it. There was a squeaky bathroom

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door in one of my places I lived. See, I

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had an en suite. It was a room one hundred

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and twenty five pounds a week, ridiculous, but I was

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needed somewhere to live. I was being evicted, so this

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is the only place I could find, like quite quickly,

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and I thought, you know, it was a nice room.

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It was a fair sized room, and it had a

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non sweet bathroom, which was the first time I'd ever

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shared a house with other occupants where I didn't have

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to share the bathroom and the toilet, so that was nice. Unfortunately,

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the main bathroom was right next to my bedroom and

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it had a squeaky door, and it used to really

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bug me because I'd be in bed and all I

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hear was I mean, I thought there was a kitten

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trapped in a well to start with, but it wasn't.

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It was just like, there's that door, and I thought,

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and it was causing me a little bit of I

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don't know, because I'll be making recordings because I've been

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doing this forever now, I've been making recordings, and if

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you listen to something recordings from twenty eleven, you'll hear

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it like me saying, now, relax your feet and your

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ankles and relax your calf muscles. It's weird. I got

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that the wrong way around, because generally I'll my moof

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down from the body, you know, from the head downwards.

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It doesn't really matter, I don't think. Or we got

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the loud music now in the garden. They were playing

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it earlier and I was going to do recording, but

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I was, oh, can't because they just you might not

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be able to hear it. It's not quite as bad

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as the music yesterday because that was vibrating and that

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was downstairs. This is across over the fence. But what

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might happen, which often happens in these situations, is they'll

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annoy the neighbor downstairs with their music, so then the

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neighbor will start their own music going, and then another

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neighbors start their music going. It just it gets silly.

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It happened last summer and I'm sitting there and I

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was like, I don't I'd never have loud music. Ever,

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I mean, if I want to, if I it is

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me moaning. Really, this is not nothing to do with

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the recording. If I want to listen to loud music,

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I've got headphones for that. I don't know what they're playing.

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Sounds like bodywood music. Cool. I had a girlfriend once. Yeah,

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it's not really relevant. That's what I just want to

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show off. I once touched the girl's hand, she held

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my hand. Yeah, I did, thirty five years ago, but

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it did happen. Ooh. And I think if we'd stay

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together long enough, she might have kissed me. The marriage

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didn't work out. I'm trying to figure like this, the

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noise downstairs has distracted me. Well, the noise it's not downstairs,

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it's technique is downstairs, but it's over the fence. You

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probably can't even hear it, hardly because the windows closed

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and the microphones a long way away from it. And

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I think what happens is my voice bores the microphone.

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Sometimes I hear the microphone snoring, not even joking. So

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what do you think about the idea of the time

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the rewind machine, just rewinding that physical sensation. Is this

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something that's useful to you? To something that maybe you

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can try out a bit more often, play around with it.

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So because of all the noise, star and I'm going

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to end this recording because I don't it's a little

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bit distracting to me. I'm not moaning. I just you know,

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Vinny's also hassling me to go out. So I've got

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no idea how long I was talking on this one.

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I think it's going to be quite a short recordings.

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Have a look, it's not that short. About forty minutes?

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Blind me. Have I really been rabbit in on for

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forty minutes? What have I said? I don't know, So

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thank you for listening. Remember to be kind to yourself

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because you do deserve to be happy and be gentle

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with yourself. He deserved to feel safe. Lots of love, Bye,