April 25, 2025

(no music) Q&A Friday | LMBYTS #1339 | 25th April 2025

(no music) Q&A Friday | LMBYTS #1339 | 25th April 2025
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Hello, and welcome to jasonnew Land dot com. This is

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this is Q anny Q any Q and a Friday.

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It's been a year. Literally, I've been doing this Q

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and a Friday for over a year now. It was

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a year last week. I still haven't figured out a tune.

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Nice little tune, nice little ease into it. It's goen

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nee Friday maybe one day. So my name's Jason Newland.

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Please only listen when you can safely close your eyes.

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What else do My website's cool, got all my recordings

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on there. You can stream, you can download, and you

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can also ask me questions for future Q and A Fridays.

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Send me a message, send me a request. Also, I've

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got a Facebook group called Jason Newland's Boring Group, and

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that's another place I do post requests for Q and

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a Friday, usually Wednesday or Thursday. When was it twenty third,

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so yeah, it would have been Wednesday. And this time

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I've actually got eight questions. A couple of weeks ago,

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I've got I think two questions. Last week I had

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a few more, but I think eights the most i've

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had for a well. So yeah, and what else I've

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got YouTube channel at Jason Newland where I post. It's

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basically my podcast now as well. It's another place to

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listen to my recordings, so all my latest recordings go

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on there. It's yeah, I think I'm kind of ruining

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my YouTube channel a bit by doing this, but maybe

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over time it will be appreciated. I don't know, you know,

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it might be maybe over time people think, oh, that's Handy,

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it's another place we can go and listen to him.

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And I don't know. YouTube at the moment, it's you know,

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I've lost subscribers since I've been doing this, since I

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stopped making videos of my my funny face talking subscribe

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subscribers have gone down, not gone down a lot apart

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from okay, the views on a month hasn't gone down,

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but on a daily basis it's not. Yeah, it's gone

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a bit down. So I don't know. We'll see what happens.

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I just don't want to make videos really, but if

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that's the only way, maybe I need to keep the

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YouTube channel solely for hypnosis recordings, get rid of all

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the other stuff. Just have hypnosis recordings maybe, or just

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have whisper hypnosis recordings. Maybe we'll see, right, So, first question,

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So it's the twenty fifth of April twenty twenty five,

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and let's sort of look at all the questions, view

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all all the questions. So the first question according to

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this is from Ben Right. So I'm just I'm mildly

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distracted myself by doing I'm also editing another recording at

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the same time. I will give you my full attention. Partly,

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it's just I'm not editing, I'm just processing. So the

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editing's been done. This bit is just the easy bit,

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but it's time consuming. Is basically I can partly editing

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as well, so adding the background music or adding the

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bits where I'm just talking and doing affirmations and things

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like that. So okay, I need to go back music,

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just the music, right. The thing is, we got to

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a point where the day's gone by. I left things

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a little bit late. So I made a recording this

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morning and it was a whisper, just a Friday whisper,

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and I've done one for the last few days. I

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don't know why, but I just have. And then so

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I edited that. That takes a few hours to do

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all that, and then I made to let me boil

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your pain away this afternoon because it's now seven two

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in the evening. I finished that around five maybe, yeah,

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probably about five, and then I had something to eat,

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watched a bit of Telly. Then I took Vinnie out.

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I was out for a lot longer than I normally

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am because he's one of the neighbor's daughters. Was excited

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to see Vinnie, so he was like she was playing

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in the park with him. And I got back. I

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probably left here twenty to six, got back about twenty

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to seven in that time. Really, I should have had

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all the editing done, but I didn't, which meant I

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didn't know what to do because I like, it's twenty

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to seven. I still haven't done the Q and A,

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still haven't edited the let me boil your pain away,

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which gets priority. But if I record, then let me

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boil your if I know, if I record the Q

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and A Friday, I'm not going to be able to

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edit it and upload it for tonight because Big brothers

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on at nine, the live eviction, the final, the actual

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final show, and I'm not going to miss that, and

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that finishes, so yeah, that starts at nine, so let's

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be a Big Brother Final Eviction finishes at half ten,

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I think, and unless I feel energetic and do the

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editing then, or I suppose potentially, just potentially, I could

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do it while I if I do the very first

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edit and then I can do the rest of the

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processing while I watch it, that is a possibility, I suppose.

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So yeah, I kind of left myself a little bit

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late in the day to get everything done. You know,

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it's it's no one's fault. I'm the one that decided

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for some reason to do another Let me boil your

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pain away. I don't know why. I don't know. God,

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I started laughing during that one. I mean, you know,

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it's not hypnosis. It's not supposed to be hypnosis. It's

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just me talking. But you know, I just I caught

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myself off guard. I said something silly and it made

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me laugh. But what can you do. You know, there's

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going to be some people that take it serious, like

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what are you doing laughing? This is But you know what,

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I don't know. If something makes me laugh, it makes

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me laugh. I thought about editing it out, and then

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I just changed my mind. I reduced to sound on

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that bit because it was a little bit loud. But

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other than now, I'm just left it in. So only

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a few seconds. It was just silly, silly thing. So

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we'll see you never know. I'll by the way, I've

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lost Jason Newland's boring group on Facebook. It was two

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hundred and seventeen members. Now it's two hundred and sixteen.

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What's happened? Who's left? And why? Why have you left?

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That's the big question. Why would you eve? But I

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love you? Why would you leave me? So yeah, it's

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it's all right. I'm okay with that. Well clearly not

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because I've just made a big deal about it, but yeah,

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generally I'm not too bothered. Other than yeah, a little bit.

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It just makes me curious. I mean, the person might

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have actually left Facebook or come off Facebook temporarily. And

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as it is, I don't have any friends or family

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on my Facebook, and if I accidentally have them on there,

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I'll block them. Not because I'm being rude. I just

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don't have friends or family on my Facebook. It is

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our Facebook is how many more times I can save Facebook.

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It's specifically for what I do online. That's what this is,

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you know, it always has been pretty much from the

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beginning since two thaousand and six, I mean two thousand

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and five, when was Facebook first come out. Was it

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two thousand and seven, two thousand and six too, I

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don't know. I mean it might have come out. I

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was never necessarily trendy, so I might have discovered it

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once it became popular, So it might have been around

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a while before. So okay, here we go. Ben asks me, Oh,

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a couple of questions all rolled into one. So I've

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got questions from Ben Rich, Hillary, Tammy, and Cindy, Cindy

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and Ali. So Ben asks me best thing about life

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at the moment. I don't know. I think I quite

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like the change in the weather. I like this time

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of year. I do. I'm a springy person. I like spring.

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I got no issue with any time of the year,

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but I do. I quite like spring. It's the I

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like the lighter evenings, the lighter mornings, the birds singing

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till late at night, the bird's waking up again early

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hours of the morning, and more flexibility for when I

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can go out with the little one because it's lighter.

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Long ago in the winter, I was having to try

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and go out while it was light and get everything

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done before it got dark. Now we've got a bit

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more flexibility. Although I generally I'm in bed by ten anyway,

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so it hasn't made that much difference. But even just

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going in the garden so he can do a weei,

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I can see what he's doing up till is it

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nine o'clock now it's dark? I'm not sure. I'm sure.

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I don't think it's lightlight at nine, but it's fairly light.

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It's not dark dark. So I quite like spring. That's

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probably the thing I'm liking about life. The other thing,

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I seem to be having a bit of motivation to

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be making recordings, so that's not surprised me. Yeah, it

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surprised me a little bit because I went through a

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bit of a mildly manied state a couple of weeks ago,

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and I was doing like three recordings a day and

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I was just getting so much done, and then I

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thought I thought I was going to crash. And although

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I did, I didn't kind of completely crash. It was

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sort of temporary. It wasn't like full on. So I'm

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quite grateful for that. I know you've not asked you

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what I'm grateful for, but it's a similar kind of question,

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is it what's the best thing at light about life?

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At the moment, I feel quite good about sending my

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first step month the flowers of Easter. Even though it's

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not opened up. It's not open up communication. And I

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wasn't doing it for that. I was just doing it

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just there's a nice thing, and just to say thank

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you really for what she did all those years ago,

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and to let her know that she's appreciated. And I

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do appreciate what she did. I probably didn't at the time,

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to be honest, because I was a kid, and when

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she left, I probably she wasn't my favorite person for

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quite a while because she left. But ultimately it's kind

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of you know, if it wasn't for those nine years

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living with her, where would my life be? Where would

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I be now? I think she just caught me in time.

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I was just young enough to be positively affected by

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her in a substantial way that allowed me to survive

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at least, you know, I've got through got through life.

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I mean, made loads of mistakes. But I think I

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don't know. I just I like to think that people

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like her, my my nan Andre and some other people,

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my friends, you know, people, family, whatever, that I've been

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close to over the years, I've all had a positive

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impact and maybe perhaps made me a better person. Or

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want to be a better person. There's still a lot

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of work to be done. It will never be complete.

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I'm like the is it the Golden gate Bridge? Once

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you start painting one, you just basically once you get

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to the end of it, you have to start painting

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it again. It's never complete, It's never finished. I'm nothing

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like the Golden gate Bridge. That wasn't a good analogy. Really,

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I thought it was. Before I said it, I could

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have stopped myself saying it. I just didn't. I don't

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know why. So best things that life I suppose I'm

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I seem to be functioning well enough to make recordings,

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and hmmm, I think I'm seeing life a little bit

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differently these days and realizing that I can't put stuff off.

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You know. It's I can like think, well, next year

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I'll do I'll sort of maybe do two recordings a day.

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But actually all I is now, all I've got is

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this moment and try and make the most of it.

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I guess and hope that it's good enough, or that

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I'm good enough, or that I'm useful, that I've you know,

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that I've made a difference, because ultimately I know I'm

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going to be forgotten maybe maybe during my lifetime, but

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I know that, you know, eventually I won't be remembered.

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There's nothing's gonna nothing's going to make people remember me,

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not in decades or centuries. So only really what really

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matters is now and the people that are around now

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that hopefully I can help a little bit, and when

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I get feedback, I feel better about it. I felt

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feel bitter about what I'm doing, because otherwise it can

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turn into a little bit of an ego thing, like

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I have to pretend that I'm successful or pretend that

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I'm helping people. But when I see it in writing,

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you know that it's like, okay, when I'm not pretending,

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someone's actually is finding what I do useful because at

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the moment I'm doing this is let me bore your

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pain away. I don't know if anyone's I know people

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are listening to them, so that that's not an issue.

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I know that's happening, but I don't know really like how,

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I don't know what's the right word. I don't know

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if how people like, if they people like them or

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or not. Because mind you, then I look and I said,

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at the last thirty days, yep, stats has happened, so

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ten hours Let Me boyd to Sleep one three, one one,

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twenty fifth of March, the Woman's Toilet, then Trivia Tuesday,

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first of April twenty twenty five, let Me boy to

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two three the fourth most popular one of the month.

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moving Things okay, let me board to sleep third of

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March one two, three, four, five six, But the seventh

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most popular one was the let me Boil Your Pain

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away twenty five Ernest, and then a couple down another

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one face pain. Let me bore your performance anxiety way

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has been quite popular as well, which was a request

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let me bore you pay. Another one the relaxation Techniques

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that was fairly popular. So people are listening. I say popular,

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I mean like as far as statistics go within the

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different you know, over the last five thirty days, I

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mean I don't know over the last to see that

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I hold this whole year, what's been the most popular

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recording or should I say, for the last twelve months

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for the last twelve months most popular recording. In fact,

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I did, oh go, I deleted and stuff, didn't I

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I gotta stop doing that if I just go just

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this month this year, this year January to now, which

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is the twenty fifth, so the most popular. It's been

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noisy all right, okay, so this is for the last

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three months January, very much nearly four months, one hundred

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and seven thousand total downloads. That's what that's on speaker.

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But I've also got SoundCloud one as well. Did did okay?

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Just check in something you're working on the editing? Don't

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you know? Yes? You are? Okay? Maybe why can't you

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do that? Put it on pause and do that? Why

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have we got to listen to you doing it? Well,

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you're not listening to me do it? I mean I

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might not be doing it. The fact that I just

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told you I am doesn't mean I am constantly lying.

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So the last two weeks has been yeah, last the

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last three weeks have been quite busy. So anyway, it's

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it's quite weird. It's been noisy. That was number one.

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Susan Sue special Let Me Boil You to Sleep Q

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and A. That was one of the most popular ones

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for the last this year, Magic Mirrors, Deep Sleep, Whisper,

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of music eighth of January. So that was the one, two, three, four, five,

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sixth most popular one of the year so far. So

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someone's listening to them. I just don't know if it's

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it's kind of like I don't I want to do

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something if no one's listening. I know they entertain me

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sometimes and it might seem correctly so probably that I'm

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just entertaining myself when I'm doing these, and there is

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a degree of that. It's not why I'm doing it,

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but if it entertains me, then I'm going to enjoy

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doing it, if you know what I mean. It makes sense, really,

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doesn't it. And with the let Me Buoy Your Pain Away,

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I'm talking about stuff that I'm interested in. Yeah, I'm

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not just talking about my life. I'm talking about a

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subject that is that I'm actually quite passionate about. Actually

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don't tell anyone. But at the same time, do I

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really know what I'm talking about? I don't know. I

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like to think I know a little bit about it,

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but I'm not qualified in any way when it comes

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to medical stuff, and I do say that right at

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the beginning, you know, so if it helps, it helps.

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If it doesn't, then as a shame. But hopefully if

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people are still listening, then it must have something going

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for it, because I believe that people are too intelligent

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really to be listening stuff if it's not useful, even

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if it's just entertaining, or it's you know, a friendly

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voice to listen to a familiar voice, or relaxing. I mean,

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relaxing is a really good thing. This is so important

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to be able to relax. So if listening to me wobblon,

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it helps the good what's your chill out zone out music, right, Blue?

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I like classical music. I like piano music. But I've

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noticed when I listened to piano music, you can hear

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the clinking of the keys. It's almost like they've got

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the microphone in, like on the lap of the of

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the penis. So I kind of it's a bit clattery.

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Not all of them, but Richard, some of the older

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ones like Richard Claydenmannon, you know, from the eighties, who

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was a huge star back then. The reason actually I

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like piano music is because my first step mom was

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a pianist, and she had a piano in the house

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and she was really good, really really really great, great

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at doing it. And she used to play classical music.

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And I said, love listening to it. One of my

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favorite things. And I mean really, I've been listening to

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music to relax since I was a kid, since I

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was really really young, I've been listening to i'd say

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really young, as far back as ten, as far back

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as ten. I could remember lying down listening to classical

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music and also listening to an album of movie songs

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or soundtracks, and I just used to relax me. And

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then when I moved upstairs in the family home, I

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used to listen to albums like Buddy Holly, used to

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listen to Madness the Monkeys, like just my favorite albums.

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I'd listen to and I would just relax, you know,

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whatever it was, it was something I enjoyed listening to.

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I didn't so much. I usually listening to the radio

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as well. Once I left there. I can't just answer

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a question simply. Can. I have to give you my

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whole life story every time I answer a question. Sauls

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about that, and I when I moved always loved music.

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I remember I went to my uncle's and he bought

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me a Walkman and it was one of those. Yeah,

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it was a really good Walkman. And I got our

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Greatest Hits album on tape. I'd already got it and

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I was listening. So I was in the basement because

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that's where my bed was down there, and that was

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like his playrooms who had computed and all kinds of stuff.

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So I was sleeping down there, and sometimes I just

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go down for arrest and I listened to the music

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and it just be you know, now this know that

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was it. Now that's what I call music number two

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or number three or number four. It's very early on.

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So it was like nineteen eighty three times. And I

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used to relax, just lay on the bed and relax

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because I remember one of those songs. I just remembered

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one of the songs. Now that's what I call call music.

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Don't give up. Now, that's why I call music number eight.

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See that's what does me in really because I get

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the dates wrong. How can that be number eight nineteen

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eighty six, So it must have been a completely different

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time that we went up there. Don't give up because

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we have friends. Nineteen eighty six blimey. I really really

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thought it was earlier than that. I thought it was

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like eight, not a lot earlier, but I thought it

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was now and then. That's what I call music number

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four or three, nineteen eighty six. I loved it. Now,

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that's what I call music. So that's why our commune.

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So let's go. And that's what I call music number eight.

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So let's see if it's got the various. Now is

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what I call music. A few credits reviews tracks, Okay,

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here we go, so Duran Duranne, Notorious. So this is

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the first side, pet Shop Boys, Suburbia, Notorious, Suburbia, Run DMC,

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walk this Way, Walk this way, the Communads don't leave

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me this way. Swing Out, Sister, break Out, break Out.

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Steve Winwood, you gotta high Love. Then you've got orchestral

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maneuvers in the dark, livingly Die No, Live and Die Forever.

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So I don't know what that one is, Genesis into Deep,

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don't know that one cameo World Up, Grace Jones. I'm

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not perfect, but I'm perfect for you. Melan Kim showing out,

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Get Fresh at the Weekend, showing out, Germaine Stewart. We

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don't have to take our clothes off to have a

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good time. Oh no, Jackie Graham, step right up. Janet Jackson,

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what have you done for me lately? Human League? Human

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human Boris Gardner. I want to wake up with you.

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I want a wake up with you. Baby and Peter,

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Greg Gabriel and Kate Bush the one I was thinking

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about earlier. Don't give because you have us or friends

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the house Martins. Think for a minute, Think for a minute.

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O can madness? Ghost train? This looking for a ghost train?

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All the girls know it's the wrong one status quote

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in the army now, Oh well we're in the army now,

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how Huey Lewis and the News. Stuck with you, stuck

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with you, going of feeling down deep in my soul? No,

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stuck with you, stuck with you, Big Country, one great thing. Nope,

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this is really weird because I used to listen to

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this album and none of these songs I know the

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sock well, I remember most of them, but I don't remember.

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It doesn't seem like it sounds very relaxing. Cutting Crew

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A done in your Arms, The Node and Billy Bragg.

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Greetings to the new Brunettes. Kim Wild, you keep me

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hanging on it bites, calling all the holes. I'm calling

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all the heroes, Carle and Arna. Here he goes. I

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don't know. That's why I need to I need to

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forget that one and listen Doctor and the Medics with

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Roy Wood Wadoloo. How can you believe that you won

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the war? That was number one? I remember that one,

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Debbie Harry French kissing in the USA. French kissing in

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the Usay, Robert Palmer, I didn't mean to turn you Onlime,

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I remember that. Totally addicted to love. Robert Palmer, Paul Hardcastle,

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the Wizard, the we were a wizard. They were were

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a wizards. Gwen Guffrie DeLong. They longed to be close

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to you. Nick Berry, Oh, Nick Berry, I love nick Berry.

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Every loser wins wants to dream be in time. You'll

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see fat holes the key in every loser nose, not

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every winner nose. Do do so, Nick Berry. He was

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in EastEnders and Great Song, I just love it. He

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also did Buddy Holly's Heartbeat because he went away. It

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was a TV show called Heartbeat and Heartbeat and yeah

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it was good. See that's probably one of the only

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out of all these people that were in TV shows

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like soaps that went on to do a song, I

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would say Nick Berry's Every Loser Wins. Yeah, that's the

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only song I liked pretty much that I really liked

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out of all of the songs that were done from soapstars,

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apart from Eaglely New Nobal Lily, what was it? Nob

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was she and Home and Away or East or Neighbors?

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I can't remember her name, but she did a song

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in bat ninety seven, ninety eight, ninety nine that was

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really good day I've got to be there, have a day.

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I can't remember the name. Yeah, I might not be

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doing it very good justice, but it was a good song.

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And then when I left school, I yeah, I'm probably

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on a Sunday. I used to listen to music in

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the evening or now on a Sunday. She listened to

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music during the day, Michael Jackson, mainly his albums that

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used to relax me. I also got in the habit

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during the nineties, like the whole of the nineties and yeah, yeah,

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the whole of the nineties. I'd listened to the Top

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forty on the radio, and that would relax because I

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just sit there, We'll lie down and just fall asleep.

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Listening to it, and yeah I did. I just used

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to listen to just general music. Really, I think as

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the Internet's come in and there's more options like classic

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FM and with the streaming audio places, they're good. I

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like them. I've used Spotify, but I now use Amazon. No,

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I don't, Yes, I do, do I or Apple? I

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use one of them? I don't even know who I use.

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That's terrible. Now is that Amazon Music? It's I don't

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even know Amazon. Did I just bang the microphone? I

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think it's Amazon Music. I don't know who I'm with.

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I need to check this. I think it's either Apple

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or Amazon Amazon Apple subscriptions. I was Apple Music, okay,

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So why did I think I was of Amazon? I

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used to do with Amazon as well, not as well,

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but instead of I don't really need to but Apple

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Apple suits me. I like Apple, the Apple Music. It's

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it's what I do or what I listen to nowadays.

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I like to listen to classical music. I do have

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a tendency of listening to audio books to zone out. Really,

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so the only podcasts I do like, I mean, I

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don't listen to many podcasts now. I spend so much

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time making them and I do. I have started to

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listen to my own recordings. Every now and then, maybe

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a couple of times a week. I listen to but

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I only listen to the ones without music and for

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the length of the duration of the actual original recording.

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So if it lasts for an hour or fifty minutes

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or an hour and a half, whatever, they're the only

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ones I listen to. And I hope that answers your question.

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I think, well, I don't think. I hope I do hope.

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Rich asks me what kind of breed is your dog?

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And I've never seen a video and have never heard

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him bark? Is he boring too? Oh? Well, is Jack Russell?

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You'll never hear him bark? The reason he does bark

466
00:40:25.480 --> 00:40:28.679
during the videos or during the recordings, but I have

467
00:40:28.800 --> 00:40:35.239
to edit it out because it's so loud, and you

468
00:40:35.360 --> 00:40:39.960
might occasionally you'll hear him in the background. At the moment,

469
00:40:40.039 --> 00:40:44.280
he's obsessed with a fly. I wish he was obsessed

470
00:40:44.320 --> 00:40:47.559
with his food. He's just not been eating recently. If

471
00:40:47.559 --> 00:40:49.880
you didn't other stuff, he just won't eat dry food.

472
00:40:49.920 --> 00:40:52.760
He doesn't want the wet food at the moment, just

473
00:40:52.760 --> 00:40:57.559
a bit bored of it. I think, I yes, he's

474
00:40:57.599 --> 00:41:06.880
a little Jack Russell's red. He's I don't know how

475
00:41:06.920 --> 00:41:12.559
to describe him. Really, he is loud, and he goes

476
00:41:12.599 --> 00:41:17.239
from zero to you know, super loud in a second

477
00:41:17.360 --> 00:41:21.639
and in an instant. I try and keep the noise

478
00:41:21.679 --> 00:41:23.880
down because the problem is if he barks a lot,

479
00:41:25.079 --> 00:41:29.480
then the dog over the other in the garden will bark,

480
00:41:30.519 --> 00:41:36.480
or if the dog barks, he barks and then someone

481
00:41:36.599 --> 00:41:40.159
starts shouting to the dog stop barker, Or if it

482
00:41:40.239 --> 00:41:44.400
happens too often, then I hear music go on in

483
00:41:44.400 --> 00:41:49.599
one of the neighbor's flats, and then he barks again.

484
00:41:50.199 --> 00:41:52.400
And sometimes it gets to the point where another neighbor

485
00:41:52.400 --> 00:41:55.239
puts music on to cover up the music from that,

486
00:41:55.400 --> 00:41:58.960
you know, it just gets silly. So I just kind

487
00:41:58.960 --> 00:42:04.199
of I try to avoid that situation by keeping him quiet.

488
00:42:05.599 --> 00:42:10.679
Well that's weird, nice, but it doesn't always work. I mean,

489
00:42:10.880 --> 00:42:17.440
earlier on today I was in bed and he literally

490
00:42:17.480 --> 00:42:20.559
woke me up while I was asleep by barking in

491
00:42:20.599 --> 00:42:25.719
my ear. Not the best way to be woken up,

492
00:42:25.880 --> 00:42:28.960
if I'm honest. So that's why I don't, you know,

493
00:42:29.039 --> 00:42:33.679
I don't leave his barking in the recording if it

494
00:42:33.840 --> 00:42:38.280
wasn't supposed to be relaxing, then I probably would. I'd

495
00:42:38.280 --> 00:42:43.320
probably leave him in there, but because especially you know,

496
00:42:43.400 --> 00:42:46.960
after maybe an hour in or something, it just wouldn't

497
00:42:47.000 --> 00:42:50.800
be ideal. Although occasion I do leave in my laughing,

498
00:42:50.800 --> 00:42:54.039
which is probably just as loud. I try not to,

499
00:42:54.159 --> 00:42:59.039
but occasionally I just yeah, sometimes I just laugh. I

500
00:42:59.159 --> 00:43:06.960
say something and it makes me giggle. Is he boring?

501
00:43:07.719 --> 00:43:12.800
BlimE me? And did you say too? Are you calling

502
00:43:12.840 --> 00:43:18.840
me boring? Is he boring? No? No, he's full of it.

503
00:43:18.880 --> 00:43:24.320
He's really full of energy, very excitable, very excited. He

504
00:43:24.400 --> 00:43:28.119
loves seeing people. He's got a few dogs that he

505
00:43:28.239 --> 00:43:31.639
likes to say lo to. But he loves people, really does.

506
00:43:33.039 --> 00:43:36.360
And I do sometimes think I'm his least favorite person.

507
00:43:36.800 --> 00:43:39.079
But that's probably because he spends all his time with me.

508
00:43:41.320 --> 00:43:43.320
You know, if he got to spend a bit more

509
00:43:43.320 --> 00:43:47.599
time away with someone else, he might appreciate me a

510
00:43:47.639 --> 00:43:52.159
little bit. I don't know. But no, he does sleep

511
00:43:52.239 --> 00:43:57.119
quite a bit. But I do take him out a

512
00:43:57.159 --> 00:44:00.679
few times a day for a walk. So I just

513
00:44:00.719 --> 00:44:08.639
said that word. Yeah, he's all right, he's okay boor Now,

514
00:44:08.679 --> 00:44:11.960
I wouldn't say it's boring annoying, but I'm a boring

515
00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:18.599
and cute as well. So Hillary asks me, have you

516
00:44:18.639 --> 00:44:23.760
ever heard of missus Hinch? She sounds like the malver,

517
00:44:24.159 --> 00:44:27.079
You sound like the malversion of her, and she says,

518
00:44:27.119 --> 00:44:33.239
BlimE me as much as you do. I say, blimey.

519
00:44:33.360 --> 00:44:37.079
I don't really notice saying that, do I say BlimE

520
00:44:37.079 --> 00:44:42.599
me a lot? I noticed, I say so. I try

521
00:44:42.639 --> 00:44:46.119
not to say so so so so, but BlimE me,

522
00:44:48.199 --> 00:44:57.559
BlimE me, I don't do I I have to listen back, am.

523
00:45:00.800 --> 00:45:03.360
I think that's what you call a blind spot. I

524
00:45:03.400 --> 00:45:08.320
don't really notice, so I guess I suppose we all do.

525
00:45:08.360 --> 00:45:12.639
But I imagine I do have a few verbal mannerisms

526
00:45:13.840 --> 00:45:21.400
that I'm not aware of, and I know sometimes I

527
00:45:21.440 --> 00:45:24.360
can be a little bit. I don't always pronounce my

528
00:45:24.440 --> 00:45:32.199
words correctly. Sometimes, especially if I've been talking for a

529
00:45:32.199 --> 00:45:35.920
long time, occasionally are slur a little bit. It's not

530
00:45:35.960 --> 00:45:38.159
because I'm drunk. I think it's just because I'm tired.

531
00:45:38.519 --> 00:45:42.159
My mouth is a little bit tired. And Vinny just

532
00:45:42.199 --> 00:45:45.199
barked then, so I left it in so you can

533
00:45:45.239 --> 00:45:48.840
hear it, okay, Rich, so you can hear him barking.

534
00:45:49.519 --> 00:45:52.880
But that was just a tiny little bark then just

535
00:45:52.920 --> 00:45:59.320
as I was talking, he's trying to get that he's

536
00:45:59.519 --> 00:46:01.960
just rushed, traded with the with the fly, the flea,

537
00:46:02.239 --> 00:46:07.039
the fly, rather that he's trying to catch. I've never

538
00:46:07.079 --> 00:46:10.199
heard of Missus Hinch, so I sound like a male

539
00:46:10.280 --> 00:46:12.199
version of her. And she says blind men nearly as

540
00:46:12.280 --> 00:46:14.360
much as you. Is it just what? Does she do

541
00:46:14.440 --> 00:46:17.280
the same kind of stuff as me? Never heard of

542
00:46:17.559 --> 00:46:22.400
Missus Hinch? Is it someone that you actually know personally?

543
00:46:22.480 --> 00:46:25.760
Or is it a podcast or is missus Hinch? I'm

544
00:46:25.760 --> 00:46:29.480
going to look it up, look her up rather Missus Hinch.

545
00:46:30.199 --> 00:46:38.079
Sophie Rose Hitch Hinchcliff born sixteenth February nineteen ninety, known

546
00:46:38.119 --> 00:46:42.599
as Missus Hinch, is a British influencer whose Instagram account

547
00:46:42.679 --> 00:46:47.119
features tips for home cleaning. Well, that's where we divide it.

548
00:46:47.199 --> 00:46:51.840
I'm definitely I'm definitely very different from her, and that's

549
00:46:51.880 --> 00:46:57.079
that's the fifth I can't say the word. Her cleaning

550
00:46:57.119 --> 00:47:00.000
books and her memoir has been included on a Sunday

551
00:47:00.119 --> 00:47:06.840
Times best sellers list. Wow. Hinchcliff was born Sophie Barker

552
00:47:07.239 --> 00:47:10.199
in Basildon, Essex. So there's not that far from where

553
00:47:10.239 --> 00:47:14.480
I live. Before creating her Instagram account, she was a hairdresser.

554
00:47:15.159 --> 00:47:17.960
She stated that she suffers from anxiety and that cleaning

555
00:47:18.039 --> 00:47:21.719
helped her cope with it. I know someone that's a

556
00:47:21.760 --> 00:47:25.400
bit like that. This person said that I love cleaning.

557
00:47:25.440 --> 00:47:29.079
I didn't believe her. It's like, why do you mean

558
00:47:29.119 --> 00:47:34.840
you love cleaning? That just seems And her name is

559
00:47:34.920 --> 00:47:38.519
Sophie as well. Now, I just like I couldn't get

560
00:47:38.519 --> 00:47:42.920
my head around the idea that someone would enjoy cleaning.

561
00:47:44.639 --> 00:47:50.800
Really I don't. Yeah, I still can't, right, So she

562
00:47:51.000 --> 00:47:55.760
changed her name for the thing. March twenty eighteen, she

563
00:47:56.039 --> 00:48:00.280
created Instagram account, initially to show how she and her

564
00:48:00.360 --> 00:48:04.880
husband were redecorating the house. Within two years, she'd accumulated

565
00:48:05.280 --> 00:48:10.079
two million followers on the platform, known as hinches and

566
00:48:10.119 --> 00:48:14.480
by the hashtag hinch Army. By twenty nineteen, two point

567
00:48:14.480 --> 00:48:17.840
five million. October two, twenty twenty twenty, more than three

568
00:48:17.880 --> 00:48:22.519
point eight million so. Her content includes stories and short

569
00:48:22.639 --> 00:48:28.800
fifteen second videos in which she cleans and organizes her

570
00:48:28.840 --> 00:48:35.079
home BlimE me. March twenty twenty one, ratings site go

571
00:48:35.280 --> 00:48:41.360
compare listed her as the highest paid home fluencer or

572
00:48:41.519 --> 00:48:48.480
clean fluencer in the United Kingdom, second highest worldwide. Our

573
00:48:48.559 --> 00:48:52.800
first book, Hint Yourself Happy, sold one hundred and sixty

574
00:48:52.440 --> 00:48:58.239
three hundred and two copies in three days. Really wow?

575
00:48:59.719 --> 00:49:02.119
Is I guess that? I suppose? Is that be a

576
00:49:02.159 --> 00:49:07.679
digital version? I really don't know. I don't know if

577
00:49:07.719 --> 00:49:15.000
people if that's a lot theren't it? In October twenty twenty,

578
00:49:15.079 --> 00:49:18.920
her memoile this Is Me also became a number one bestseller.

579
00:49:23.079 --> 00:49:31.920
Oh wow, that's really so saying. Hinchcliff suffered health problems

580
00:49:31.960 --> 00:49:37.079
after a gastic gastric band operation. She lost eight stone

581
00:49:37.920 --> 00:49:41.400
and she was prescribed anti the presant's due to anxiety.

582
00:49:42.239 --> 00:49:46.239
Hinchcliff and her son Ronnie have been both being diagnosed

583
00:49:46.239 --> 00:49:52.840
as autistic. Wow. No, it's a first. I don't even

584
00:49:52.840 --> 00:49:55.039
know what she looks like, not that it's relevant, but

585
00:49:56.800 --> 00:50:01.800
never Maybe I saw on TV. I don't really watch.

586
00:50:02.280 --> 00:50:09.079
There's a picture of her. She's with a baby seven

587
00:50:09.159 --> 00:50:12.960
days ago. Wow. She's a star, isn't she. I've never

588
00:50:13.039 --> 00:50:19.000
heard of her? I have now? Did I just say

589
00:50:19.039 --> 00:50:22.239
playing me again? Didn't I? Well, I'm still I'm going

590
00:50:22.320 --> 00:50:25.480
to be self conscious. I got to stop. I can't

591
00:50:25.480 --> 00:50:35.159
be self conscious about things like that. Tammy, ask me

592
00:50:35.679 --> 00:50:39.719
what you're up to this weekend. There's only one thing

593
00:50:40.039 --> 00:50:44.679
that I'm up to, not only one thing, but there's

594
00:50:44.679 --> 00:50:48.280
one thing that's the main thing, and that is watching

595
00:50:48.360 --> 00:50:54.199
boxing on Saturday night, which is Connor Bend versus Chris

596
00:50:54.239 --> 00:50:57.880
hu Bank Jr. There's been a huge build up to

597
00:50:58.000 --> 00:51:03.000
it and lots of controversy, and yeah, I'm gonna watch

598
00:51:03.039 --> 00:51:08.679
that tomorrow night. I want to close this window. He

599
00:51:08.760 --> 00:51:10.599
gets so stuffy in here because I've got all this

600
00:51:10.679 --> 00:51:14.480
electric equipment and maybe it needs a little bit dusting

601
00:51:14.559 --> 00:51:18.199
to be fair, so it really gets on my chest

602
00:51:18.199 --> 00:51:21.920
a little bit. The heating might be on as well,

603
00:51:22.679 --> 00:51:29.239
I don't know. So yeah, that is it. Sunday. I

604
00:51:29.400 --> 00:51:34.800
like to just relax if I can. I have a

605
00:51:34.840 --> 00:51:37.119
tendency of staying in bed for a lot of Sunday.

606
00:51:38.679 --> 00:51:46.719
That's usually my Sunday, listen to some music, chill out.

607
00:51:49.519 --> 00:51:51.760
I mean technically that could be every day, I suppose,

608
00:51:51.840 --> 00:51:56.239
but I try, and I like to think that even

609
00:51:56.280 --> 00:52:00.239
though I'm not working, I'm not earning a living or

610
00:52:00.360 --> 00:52:05.639
doing anything like that, but I am contributing in my

611
00:52:05.679 --> 00:52:13.039
own little way towards society. Maybe not local society, but

612
00:52:13.159 --> 00:52:21.400
hopefully you know, the widest society, and yeah, I hope

613
00:52:21.519 --> 00:52:27.960
that's the case. But yeah, yeah, temmy boxing, that's what

614
00:52:28.000 --> 00:52:30.559
I'm gonna be doing. I'm gonna be watching boxing tomorrow

615
00:52:30.679 --> 00:52:36.000
night with Vinnie and I watch all the fights. I

616
00:52:36.079 --> 00:52:39.679
watch it from beginning to the end, and then I

617
00:52:39.719 --> 00:52:44.840
go to bed. So that that's it. That's tomorrow. I

618
00:52:44.920 --> 00:52:48.719
may make a recording tomorrow. I don't know, see how

619
00:52:48.760 --> 00:52:56.599
I feel Sunday. There's Sunday papers. In Saturday, I generally

620
00:52:56.639 --> 00:53:03.840
do like a catch up or Saturday summary. We'll see

621
00:53:04.079 --> 00:53:06.519
see how I feel. It depends what kind of noise

622
00:53:06.639 --> 00:53:09.000
is going on around as well, because if it's a

623
00:53:09.079 --> 00:53:12.320
nice day Saturday, there probably be a lot of activity

624
00:53:12.360 --> 00:53:15.400
in the garden and stuff. So we'll just say, see

625
00:53:15.400 --> 00:53:18.880
what happens, see what goes on. But boxing, that's the

626
00:53:18.960 --> 00:53:23.119
thing I'm going to be focusing on, and hopefully I'm

627
00:53:23.119 --> 00:53:30.519
not disturbed by anyone sudden. I got and did you

628
00:53:30.639 --> 00:53:34.960
ever get your chocolate egg from your neighbor? I did?

629
00:53:35.400 --> 00:53:40.639
I did? I did? I did? I did? I. I

630
00:53:40.719 --> 00:53:42.599
didn't ask him because I was playing around with the

631
00:53:42.639 --> 00:53:46.400
idea of trying to figure out a way to be

632
00:53:46.599 --> 00:53:52.280
subtle and you know, remind him to get me the egg,

633
00:53:52.519 --> 00:53:54.880
or remind him if he has already brought the egg,

634
00:53:55.000 --> 00:53:56.519
to give it to me so I could put it

635
00:53:56.599 --> 00:54:06.719
in my tummy. And he knocked on my door. I

636
00:54:06.760 --> 00:54:11.519
think Saturday. Was it Saturday? I think it was Saturday

637
00:54:11.800 --> 00:54:16.119
evening and he gave me a chocolate egg. Or was

638
00:54:16.159 --> 00:54:21.840
it Sunday? It might have been Sunday. Actually, was it Monday?

639
00:54:22.320 --> 00:54:25.719
I think it was Saturday. I lose track, but yeah,

640
00:54:25.800 --> 00:54:28.760
I did get an egg. It was a Cabre's cream egg,

641
00:54:29.480 --> 00:54:31.719
chocolate egg. So it's a big, well you know, it's

642
00:54:31.719 --> 00:54:36.280
a fair sized egg. And yeah, it was lovely. So

643
00:54:36.360 --> 00:54:38.920
that was nice. I know I'm not supposed to eat chocolate.

644
00:54:41.039 --> 00:54:44.360
I just got another letter from the NHS talking about

645
00:54:44.400 --> 00:54:48.280
my pre diabetic and how I'm a high risk and

646
00:54:48.280 --> 00:54:54.360
all that stuff. So yeah, after my chocolate's now done.

647
00:54:55.039 --> 00:54:57.880
I've eaten a fair bit of chocolate over the last

648
00:54:58.480 --> 00:55:01.719
probably two and a half week because of Easter. But

649
00:55:01.840 --> 00:55:07.599
now that's done, I'm not gonna have any more till tomorrow.

650
00:55:08.159 --> 00:55:12.599
I don't know, maybe, but yeah, so I did get

651
00:55:12.599 --> 00:55:15.960
the Easter egg, and it was the first Easter egg

652
00:55:15.960 --> 00:55:19.400
I've had for decades that I've had anyone give me,

653
00:55:19.519 --> 00:55:23.199
I think, unless, of course I've just forgotten. There's a

654
00:55:23.320 --> 00:55:30.000
chance I've forgotten. Yeah, but yeah, it was. It was

655
00:55:30.079 --> 00:55:34.440
nice and I didn't have to sort of put any

656
00:55:34.519 --> 00:55:41.800
hints like putting a new Yeah, I suppose I could

657
00:55:41.800 --> 00:55:46.119
have just have had a new letterbox put in in

658
00:55:46.199 --> 00:55:50.360
the shape of an Easter egg, but that would be

659
00:55:50.400 --> 00:55:53.360
expensive and i'd probably get probably get kicked out of

660
00:55:53.440 --> 00:55:55.960
my flat for doing that by the council. So it's

661
00:55:56.000 --> 00:55:59.639
not really worth it for the sake of a five

662
00:55:59.639 --> 00:56:05.599
pounds Easter egg is five pounders in money, not weight.

663
00:56:07.360 --> 00:56:09.039
But I don't know what the weight of an Easter

664
00:56:09.079 --> 00:56:14.960
egg is. I've never weighed one. I really don't know.

665
00:56:17.320 --> 00:56:22.840
And Cindy, what are some habits or things Americans do

666
00:56:22.920 --> 00:56:27.639
that baffle you? That puts me on the spot, doesn't it?

667
00:56:29.679 --> 00:56:31.960
I have to be very careful what I say next

668
00:56:33.360 --> 00:56:46.320
or or so I'm going to answer the next question first.

669
00:56:46.320 --> 00:56:50.440
Do you have Cabri's Cabrire eggs all year or only

670
00:56:50.480 --> 00:56:54.480
at Easter? Right? We only have Easter eggs at Easter. Well,

671
00:56:54.920 --> 00:57:01.079
the build up I'd say probably maybe January until Easter

672
00:57:01.559 --> 00:57:05.679
and then they're after shelves. I mean, it's been a

673
00:57:05.679 --> 00:57:08.880
while since I've been in the supermarket, but it always

674
00:57:08.960 --> 00:57:11.480
used to be a case of if they weren't sold,

675
00:57:11.599 --> 00:57:15.559
they'd be sold for a discount and rate the day

676
00:57:15.599 --> 00:57:20.400
after whatever, and they'd all be gone very quickly, and

677
00:57:20.440 --> 00:57:23.480
then no East D Eggs again until the next year,

678
00:57:24.039 --> 00:57:28.559
which will probably be you know, maybe January February, I'd

679
00:57:28.559 --> 00:57:32.239
say possibly January, so it's only during that period that

680
00:57:32.280 --> 00:57:41.119
East Dreggs are available. Cabury's Creamix on the other side, again,

681
00:57:41.559 --> 00:57:48.039
they're only available generally during that period as well. They're

682
00:57:48.239 --> 00:57:52.679
like beginning of the year, and some people buy them

683
00:57:52.760 --> 00:57:55.559
in they buy them so they can have them for

684
00:57:55.679 --> 00:57:59.599
much longer, so they'll buy like huge amounts and they'll

685
00:57:59.840 --> 00:58:01.920
like garage. I think they have them for like six

686
00:58:02.000 --> 00:58:08.519
months of the year, but eventually they run out. So

687
00:58:08.559 --> 00:58:10.360
you kind of have to make do with if you

688
00:58:10.519 --> 00:58:13.199
like chocolate in this country is have to make do

689
00:58:13.320 --> 00:58:19.679
with chocolate bars or those kinds of candy or treats,

690
00:58:19.719 --> 00:58:23.119
whatever you call them. So so we don't call them

691
00:58:23.119 --> 00:58:26.480
candy in this country, at least my age group don't.

692
00:58:26.519 --> 00:58:30.440
I don't know, maybe it's now called candy. I can't

693
00:58:30.519 --> 00:58:36.039
keep track I really can't is things that, you know,

694
00:58:36.800 --> 00:58:40.639
I now kind of a little bit understand how frustrating

695
00:58:40.679 --> 00:58:44.159
it was for the older generation when I was younger,

696
00:58:46.440 --> 00:58:50.039
because they weren't keeping up with the times, And now

697
00:58:50.199 --> 00:58:54.480
I'm not. I like to think I'm not way behind

698
00:58:54.559 --> 00:58:58.559
the times because I'm online and I'm seeing what's being said,

699
00:58:58.599 --> 00:59:01.079
and I'm kind of key up to date with the

700
00:59:01.159 --> 00:59:06.639
news and stuff like that. But when it comes to conversations,

701
00:59:08.400 --> 00:59:12.559
I'm you know, I mean, I was literally in the

702
00:59:12.599 --> 00:59:17.559
park just now, well a couple of hours ago, and

703
00:59:17.719 --> 00:59:21.000
my neighbor's kids and she's she was literally my neighbor

704
00:59:21.079 --> 00:59:24.039
was pregnant with her when I moved in here. So

705
00:59:24.119 --> 00:59:30.159
she's but nine or something, not my neighbor who's pregnant

706
00:59:30.440 --> 00:59:33.440
her daughter. And she was with her friend in the

707
00:59:33.519 --> 00:59:36.440
park and she loves Vinny, and Phinny loves her. He's

708
00:59:36.440 --> 00:59:40.239
known her for years and I've known her since she

709
00:59:40.320 --> 00:59:44.400
was born. But these two little girls have kept saying this.

710
00:59:44.519 --> 00:59:49.559
They kept saying, it's not that deep, it's not that

711
00:59:49.559 --> 00:59:51.519
that's like is that a new saying? Now? I know

712
00:59:51.559 --> 00:59:53.800
what it means. I've seen it on Big Brother, and

713
00:59:54.480 --> 00:59:58.039
I've seen people say it but but what I've noticed

714
00:59:58.280 --> 01:00:01.039
and it happened. I've seen it loads of times in

715
01:00:01.039 --> 01:00:07.719
the past where people they overuse it and it loses

716
01:00:07.760 --> 01:00:14.360
its context. In it was one of those where a

717
01:00:14.360 --> 01:00:16.840
lot of the young people would say in it, it's

718
01:00:16.880 --> 01:00:20.320
cold in it, but then they'd be saying, it's like

719
01:00:20.360 --> 01:00:26.400
I'm hungry in it. No, that's not a sentence I'm hungry,

720
01:00:26.519 --> 01:00:31.239
isn't it. That's not yeah, that's not like grammatically correct.

721
01:00:33.039 --> 01:00:35.039
So it went from but then there was like in it,

722
01:00:35.679 --> 01:00:39.079
every other word is in it. But then when I

723
01:00:39.199 --> 01:00:49.239
was growing up, probably fifteen sixteen, I was constantly saying

724
01:00:49.599 --> 01:00:51.199
you know what I mean, you know what I mean,

725
01:00:51.920 --> 01:00:54.239
after every sentence, you know what I mean, you know

726
01:00:54.280 --> 01:00:58.119
what I mean? You know what I mean. And I

727
01:00:58.239 --> 01:01:01.440
blame Frank Bruno for that, because he was an absolute

728
01:01:01.480 --> 01:01:03.880
hero in this country and he used to say you

729
01:01:03.920 --> 01:01:11.480
know what I mean, and and I really loved him,

730
01:01:11.800 --> 01:01:17.000
so I wanted to be like Frank. So I was

731
01:01:17.079 --> 01:01:19.440
like constantly, you know what I mean? And I was

732
01:01:19.480 --> 01:01:24.000
saying it all the time without even realizing it. And

733
01:01:24.719 --> 01:01:26.920
I think, I don't know, I've seen it as well,

734
01:01:27.239 --> 01:01:29.880
you get me, you get me. I heard that a

735
01:01:29.880 --> 01:01:36.039
lot in London. You get me and it's there's another

736
01:01:36.079 --> 01:01:40.519
thing like swear down. I've heard people say that as

737
01:01:40.519 --> 01:01:45.039
a kind of a joke and then it turns into

738
01:01:45.239 --> 01:01:51.639
normal language. It's weird. I don't know, it's it's kind

739
01:01:51.679 --> 01:01:57.800
of I think, and I'm the same. We just pick

740
01:01:57.880 --> 01:02:02.800
up from other people, just little men. I've noticed that

741
01:02:03.039 --> 01:02:10.079
my friend Luke, he would spend some time with someone

742
01:02:10.239 --> 01:02:12.960
and he'd come back. I'm not saying he didn't. He

743
01:02:13.039 --> 01:02:15.880
wasn't a mimic, but he'd come back and he'd have

744
01:02:17.119 --> 01:02:19.320
their mannerisms if he was with them for a couple

745
01:02:19.360 --> 01:02:23.440
of days, just solely with them, and they'd come back

746
01:02:23.679 --> 01:02:27.920
and it just just a few things because I knew

747
01:02:27.920 --> 01:02:30.360
the person had spent time with and he'd come back

748
01:02:30.400 --> 01:02:34.960
and he's like, yeah, one, it's this, that and the other.

749
01:02:36.400 --> 01:02:39.039
Now he never said that any other time. And this

750
01:02:39.079 --> 01:02:42.119
is something that I saw every day for years. But

751
01:02:42.159 --> 01:02:45.079
whenever he spent time with this one particular person who

752
01:02:45.119 --> 01:02:48.320
did say this, that and the other quite often, you know,

753
01:02:48.480 --> 01:02:51.719
as a like a I can't involve to explain about this,

754
01:02:51.840 --> 01:02:56.239
that and the other. And I was just like, wow,

755
01:02:57.079 --> 01:03:03.679
he just absorbed of a peace pause mannerisms sometimes a

756
01:03:03.679 --> 01:03:05.840
bit like when his dad visited, he kind of took

757
01:03:05.840 --> 01:03:08.440
on some of those mannerisms, and I wonder if you

758
01:03:08.480 --> 01:03:11.519
took any any mine on, But I noticed I took

759
01:03:11.559 --> 01:03:16.320
some of his on as well. So it's kind of

760
01:03:16.760 --> 01:03:19.480
if you're around someone I suppose it's natural, isn't it,

761
01:03:21.079 --> 01:03:23.800
And the other person that you know this that, and

762
01:03:23.840 --> 01:03:26.039
the other was a very close friend of his as well,

763
01:03:26.480 --> 01:03:32.280
so I guess someone that he respected. And yeah, I

764
01:03:32.280 --> 01:03:37.880
don't know, it's I don't know where I was really

765
01:03:37.960 --> 01:03:42.159
going with that, to be honest. Huh. Okay, So Cabriy's

766
01:03:42.199 --> 01:03:46.079
the chocolate's being sword, right. I can't of come back

767
01:03:46.119 --> 01:03:49.840
to this. What are some habits of things Americans do

768
01:03:49.920 --> 01:03:53.840
that baffle you? Okay, baffle baffles an okay, world, isn't it.

769
01:03:54.679 --> 01:03:57.320
I was thinking more annoyed, but nope, not doing annoying

770
01:03:57.400 --> 01:04:07.239
baffle Okay, things Americans do that baffle you. Right. I'm

771
01:04:07.239 --> 01:04:16.360
not going to get into politics, okay, right, but I

772
01:04:16.360 --> 01:04:19.519
do find and this is just from It's not really

773
01:04:19.519 --> 01:04:22.280
from the news. It's what I see online. I see

774
01:04:22.320 --> 01:04:29.360
a lot of stuff online and people seem willing to

775
01:04:32.480 --> 01:04:39.599
fall out with family members over a difference of opinion

776
01:04:42.840 --> 01:04:46.559
that baffles me. I had a friend that did that

777
01:04:46.599 --> 01:04:52.199
with her son. They had political completely different political opinions,

778
01:04:53.800 --> 01:04:58.840
like really drag, you know, extreme different opinions. And she said,

779
01:04:59.079 --> 01:05:01.320
I can't talk to him. I'm dn't have nothing to

780
01:05:01.360 --> 01:05:05.599
do with him because he thinks differently to me. And

781
01:05:05.639 --> 01:05:08.840
when I sat down and I said, I don't mean

782
01:05:08.840 --> 01:05:13.599
to be harsh here, but he's not your friend. He's

783
01:05:13.599 --> 01:05:22.320
your child. You're not friends. You're his mother because he

784
01:05:22.400 --> 01:05:25.719
was only like seventeen eighteen at the time. Like, it

785
01:05:25.719 --> 01:05:28.440
doesn't matter what he thinks, what his opinions are, does

786
01:05:28.480 --> 01:05:32.400
he treat you right? Is he kind to you? He's

787
01:05:32.440 --> 01:05:37.599
got different opinions, That's just normal, you know. The idea

788
01:05:37.760 --> 01:05:44.280
I've seen people actual heard people say I can never

789
01:05:44.320 --> 01:05:47.440
be any friends of anyone unless they agree with everything

790
01:05:47.480 --> 01:05:54.360
that I agree with. Well, I bet anybody any amount

791
01:05:54.400 --> 01:05:56.639
of money that you will never find anyone that agrees

792
01:05:56.679 --> 01:06:02.280
with you completely ever, because you'd have to really delve

793
01:06:02.320 --> 01:06:05.800
into every single subject. There'll be something you disagree on,

794
01:06:07.480 --> 01:06:12.480
whether the person keeps it quiet or not. Sometimes it's

795
01:06:12.480 --> 01:06:16.280
easy to do that, but I've known loads of people

796
01:06:16.599 --> 01:06:23.199
I had completely different belief systems to my friend Luke

797
01:06:23.239 --> 01:06:28.880
downstairs didn't stop me being good friends with him. Completely different,

798
01:06:29.000 --> 01:06:32.360
not completely like, not completely completely different, but you know,

799
01:06:32.639 --> 01:06:37.199
extreme different views. But we still cared about each other.

800
01:06:37.280 --> 01:06:39.840
We still had a laugh at each other. I laughed

801
01:06:39.880 --> 01:06:46.639
at each other and with each other. It just wasn't

802
01:06:46.639 --> 01:06:51.800
that deep. You know, you get me in it, swear down.

803
01:06:52.960 --> 01:06:57.360
It's that baffles me. But it's not just about anyone.

804
01:06:58.199 --> 01:07:02.719
It's the extreme side of things. And I think, well,

805
01:07:04.360 --> 01:07:08.639
I've had a friend stop being my friend because of

806
01:07:08.679 --> 01:07:12.280
a situation like this, because I just had a difference

807
01:07:12.280 --> 01:07:17.119
of opinion and it wasn't over anything political. It wasn't

808
01:07:17.159 --> 01:07:19.719
over anything. I think, whether he's having a bad day

809
01:07:19.840 --> 01:07:25.400
or I said something that he didn't like. But you know,

810
01:07:25.559 --> 01:07:32.039
a friendship that was from nineteen eighty nine all the

811
01:07:32.079 --> 01:07:37.159
way to two thousand and fifteen, quite a long time,

812
01:07:37.239 --> 01:07:40.599
isn't it. You know, he was happy just to let

813
01:07:40.639 --> 01:07:48.639
that that friendship go because of a disagreement. You know,

814
01:07:48.760 --> 01:07:53.400
it's it's strange. I don't know. I think that's what

815
01:07:53.480 --> 01:07:57.639
it is, like disagreements. I like to think that we

816
01:07:57.719 --> 01:08:03.440
can disagree and still get on, But if it's family

817
01:08:03.480 --> 01:08:07.840
members you know, if I had to agree, if I

818
01:08:07.920 --> 01:08:11.480
never spoke to anyone that I disagreed with, then I

819
01:08:11.519 --> 01:08:16.159
never speak to anyone. Because I've never met one person

820
01:08:16.560 --> 01:08:20.399
ever in my life that I completely agree with with

821
01:08:20.560 --> 01:08:23.399
every single thing they say or every opinion they have.

822
01:08:25.680 --> 01:08:30.119
And in a way, I think it's quite interesting to

823
01:08:30.960 --> 01:08:36.439
have different opinions. And I realize extreme lift different opinions

824
01:08:36.439 --> 01:08:40.680
can lead to war. I realize that, So that's not ideal.

825
01:08:43.319 --> 01:08:45.880
That's probably not the right word in is it? You know? War?

826
01:08:46.039 --> 01:08:51.199
War really is an ideal? Is it? No? But so

827
01:08:51.279 --> 01:08:53.720
that baffles me. But again, it's not just Americans, but

828
01:08:53.760 --> 01:08:57.039
I've noticed it recently, and we had a similar thing

829
01:08:57.279 --> 01:09:01.520
here during Brexit in this country where people were really

830
01:09:01.760 --> 01:09:06.920
against each other and the press and constantly bringing stuff

831
01:09:07.000 --> 01:09:09.199
up trying to get people to go against each other.

832
01:09:09.239 --> 01:09:12.680
And I don't know why that's, like, can't we just

833
01:09:13.840 --> 01:09:17.880
can't we just cuddle and get along? You know, things

834
01:09:17.920 --> 01:09:21.960
that people weren't even thinking about now I'm thinking about it,

835
01:09:22.840 --> 01:09:28.880
and that just surprises me. How easily people are manipulated.

836
01:09:29.800 --> 01:09:33.479
I don't know why it surprises me, but it just

837
01:09:33.520 --> 01:09:39.840
seems so obvious in ways sometimes, I mean, I have

838
01:09:39.840 --> 01:09:43.720
no doubt I'm being manipulated as well, so I'm you know,

839
01:09:43.840 --> 01:09:46.479
the things that I'm not aware of is the things

840
01:09:46.520 --> 01:09:51.680
that are going to affect me, I guess, but other things.

841
01:09:51.680 --> 01:09:55.000
I'll tell you one thing that really really surprised me.

842
01:09:55.239 --> 01:09:58.680
And I don't get this at all, And this is

843
01:09:58.680 --> 01:10:03.880
probably something that is going to make you maybe curious.

844
01:10:07.039 --> 01:10:11.560
In America, I don't know if it's every state or everywhere.

845
01:10:13.439 --> 01:10:16.560
I watched these YouTube videos of and I've seen them

846
01:10:16.560 --> 01:10:18.720
on TV as well, but I don't watch TV much now,

847
01:10:19.119 --> 01:10:26.760
but YouTube videos of police pulling people over and who

848
01:10:26.800 --> 01:10:40.760
they've suspected are drinking, driving or whatever intoxicated, and they

849
01:10:40.840 --> 01:10:43.800
spend the next thirty minutes trying to get them to

850
01:10:43.840 --> 01:10:46.960
walk down a straight line and hop on one leg

851
01:10:47.079 --> 01:10:51.880
and do a headspin and do handstands and all that

852
01:10:51.960 --> 01:10:57.199
kind of stuff to test their sobriety, get them to

853
01:10:57.279 --> 01:11:00.680
blow into a thing. It takes like two minutes and

854
01:11:00.720 --> 01:11:02.479
you can see whether or not they're over the limit

855
01:11:02.600 --> 01:11:10.439
or not. It's really simple. It's like faffing around, and

856
01:11:10.479 --> 01:11:14.239
I don't know why they do it. It's just in this country.

857
01:11:15.399 --> 01:11:17.920
As far as I'm not not a driver, but as

858
01:11:17.960 --> 01:11:21.000
far as I'm aware, if they think you're over the limit,

859
01:11:21.239 --> 01:11:26.960
they give you a breathalyzer, and if you refuse a breathalyzer,

860
01:11:27.640 --> 01:11:33.920
you get arrested and you get taken in and you

861
01:11:33.960 --> 01:11:36.039
know so. But when they do do the breath lieser,

862
01:11:36.119 --> 01:11:40.039
they take you into the police station and then they

863
01:11:40.119 --> 01:11:42.239
do another sample I think it might be a blood

864
01:11:42.279 --> 01:11:46.800
sample this time, and they get a correct reading. So

865
01:11:46.880 --> 01:11:54.520
the breathalyzer is a ball ballpark figure and I don't

866
01:11:54.560 --> 01:11:56.239
know if they put the two together to kind of

867
01:11:56.239 --> 01:12:02.239
make the correct figure. But if you refuse to have

868
01:12:02.279 --> 01:12:05.560
the breathalyzer, and you refuse to get tested when you

869
01:12:05.600 --> 01:12:10.920
get back to the police station, then you're in trouble.

870
01:12:11.239 --> 01:12:17.760
You run the naughty step. So I never I never

871
01:12:17.800 --> 01:12:21.439
really understood what because it seems like a waste of

872
01:12:21.479 --> 01:12:24.479
police time and the time of the person, you know,

873
01:12:25.159 --> 01:12:28.800
the the human. I don't know what you want to

874
01:12:28.800 --> 01:12:32.720
get the driver to be faft and around for like

875
01:12:32.840 --> 01:12:37.279
half an hour when it can be over and done

876
01:12:37.319 --> 01:12:42.279
with maybe five ten minutes. If they if they passed

877
01:12:42.359 --> 01:12:48.560
the breathalyzer, they're under see ya, I sit in it.

878
01:12:50.079 --> 01:12:54.079
But yeah, I'm sure there's a reason for it. Maybe

879
01:12:54.079 --> 01:12:57.199
it's it's just the way things are done. That's just

880
01:12:58.119 --> 01:13:01.119
maybe it works. It works in a way that I

881
01:13:01.119 --> 01:13:04.000
don't understand because I'm not a police, am I, So

882
01:13:04.119 --> 01:13:08.279
I don't know. It just seems a little bit wasteful,

883
01:13:08.439 --> 01:13:11.399
a little bit of a waste of time trying to

884
01:13:11.399 --> 01:13:16.920
get someone, especially when they're clearly drunk or clearly intoxicated.

885
01:13:17.520 --> 01:13:23.680
You know, some people are obviously intoxicated unless they've got, yes,

886
01:13:24.760 --> 01:13:30.279
a physical problem, you know, other than that, I've been

887
01:13:30.279 --> 01:13:35.079
around enough intoxicated people to generally tell when someone is.

888
01:13:37.119 --> 01:13:46.359
I think I might be wrong, though, I feel the

889
01:13:46.399 --> 01:13:49.199
thing is with It's like it's an old joke, but

890
01:13:49.399 --> 01:13:53.039
like the same kindition and used to say, or was

891
01:13:53.079 --> 01:13:55.520
it Bill Hicks? I don't know, you's so well, drunk

892
01:13:55.560 --> 01:13:59.840
people would never a sober person would never drink and drive.

893
01:14:00.119 --> 01:14:04.399
Most suburb people would never drink and drive. But a

894
01:14:04.439 --> 01:14:08.680
drunk person perhaps doesn't know, doesn't realize that they're not sober.

895
01:14:09.640 --> 01:14:12.159
This is one of those weird things. So in this country,

896
01:14:12.479 --> 01:14:18.680
how silly it is is pubs and places where they

897
01:14:18.760 --> 01:14:22.279
serve alcohol. Not only do loads of them have car

898
01:14:22.399 --> 01:14:28.119
parking space, but you're allowed to drink and drive in

899
01:14:28.119 --> 01:14:36.239
this country, but only a specific small amount drink drive

900
01:14:36.600 --> 01:14:44.960
limit UK. So the UK limit is you can drink

901
01:14:45.960 --> 01:14:52.840
blood alcohol limit. I don't know part of lager one,

902
01:14:53.920 --> 01:15:01.319
so let's go one part of lager. I had two

903
01:15:01.359 --> 01:15:05.239
point five approximately of alcohol. You should wait at least

904
01:15:05.279 --> 01:15:18.119
three point five hours before driving one pint of standard lager. Wow,

905
01:15:20.640 --> 01:15:25.720
two point five of alcohol. You should. But this is

906
01:15:25.880 --> 01:15:30.680
but it's not illegal to anyway. I don't know what

907
01:15:30.720 --> 01:15:34.680
the limit is, but you can. You are allowed to

908
01:15:34.760 --> 01:15:37.880
have a certain amount of alcohol, which just seems ridiculous.

909
01:15:37.920 --> 01:15:43.159
It makes the law harder. I think personally, just drink

910
01:15:43.239 --> 01:15:46.520
or not drink. Just make the raw no alcohol and

911
01:15:46.640 --> 01:15:52.880
driving cool done, you know, just simple. But I had

912
01:15:52.920 --> 01:15:56.680
to make it well. Actually, I remember the I've seen

913
01:15:56.720 --> 01:16:01.680
clips from the seventies on late seventies maybe early eighties

914
01:16:02.439 --> 01:16:06.000
when they were going to do the drink driving thing.

915
01:16:06.159 --> 01:16:10.720
So you can't and the amount of people are saying

916
01:16:12.000 --> 01:16:16.039
I drink I they just did this documentary and it

917
01:16:16.079 --> 01:16:19.520
was in the seventies, like seventy eight, seventy seven. People

918
01:16:19.560 --> 01:16:22.720
were saying I drink better, I drive better when I'm drunk,

919
01:16:23.079 --> 01:16:26.479
when I'm drinking. So they did a test they put

920
01:16:26.880 --> 01:16:30.000
like a bunch of people in the pub, gave them

921
01:16:30.000 --> 01:16:34.479
the exact same amount of drinks. And before they did that,

922
01:16:34.520 --> 01:16:38.600
they got everyone to drive around this little course. Everyone

923
01:16:38.680 --> 01:16:43.279
did fine, and after the drinks got everyone to do

924
01:16:43.399 --> 01:16:47.279
exactly the same thing. But they gave them some of

925
01:16:47.279 --> 01:16:49.079
them more drinks than others. So they kind of gave

926
01:16:49.119 --> 01:16:53.239
someone like a couple of pints than four pints, you know,

927
01:16:53.399 --> 01:16:55.840
like that, so that they could judge it. So I

928
01:16:55.880 --> 01:16:58.479
had like five people and a certain amount, and you know,

929
01:16:59.720 --> 01:17:05.439
so on and so forth and this that and the other.

930
01:17:06.000 --> 01:17:11.479
And it was funny because these people that were really

931
01:17:11.520 --> 01:17:17.359
good at driving weren't once it had some alcohol in them,

932
01:17:17.600 --> 01:17:19.760
and the ones that had the most there was knocking

933
01:17:19.800 --> 01:17:24.359
cones over and it was just they didn't even know.

934
01:17:24.800 --> 01:17:31.279
They thought they'd done really well. So I don't really

935
01:17:31.279 --> 01:17:33.960
know what the laws are in America over that. So

936
01:17:34.039 --> 01:17:38.680
Americans baffle me. That caused me just a bit surprise.

937
01:17:40.439 --> 01:17:44.920
Who but this isn't new. But I think some of

938
01:17:44.960 --> 01:17:49.920
the TV shows where the adults are the kids that

939
01:17:50.039 --> 01:17:53.720
look like adults so in high school and they looked

940
01:17:53.800 --> 01:17:58.840
in twenties. It just seems to be especially like you

941
01:17:59.800 --> 01:18:02.319
was it nine oh one, oh or whatever it is,

942
01:18:04.359 --> 01:18:07.680
and they all like they all look older than the

943
01:18:07.800 --> 01:18:12.159
age and what's it. The age of consent is a

944
01:18:12.199 --> 01:18:17.319
weird one as well, not just for whoopee but also drinking.

945
01:18:17.600 --> 01:18:29.600
So let's have a look. Okay, I know it might

946
01:18:29.760 --> 01:18:35.600
change depending on where you lived to be at but

947
01:18:36.119 --> 01:18:46.439
it's eighteen for whoopee. But then driving list of minimum

948
01:18:46.640 --> 01:18:56.479
driving ages is it seventeen in America, Algeria eighteen, camera

949
01:18:56.640 --> 01:19:05.000
in sixteen and Marley twenty one as a good age.

950
01:19:05.680 --> 01:19:11.000
I know, Morocco eighteen sixteen motorbikes. It's kind of the

951
01:19:11.039 --> 01:19:19.840
same everywhere. South Africa seventeen provisional license. Yeah, same here America,

952
01:19:20.560 --> 01:19:26.079
United Kingdom sixteen, So United States sixteen is legal driving age,

953
01:19:26.760 --> 01:19:33.239
but permits can be obtained at fifteen. Okay, so you

954
01:19:33.239 --> 01:19:35.359
can get a driving permit, but you can drive at

955
01:19:35.520 --> 01:19:53.439
sixteen in America and drinking age twenty one five years

956
01:19:54.880 --> 01:20:01.640
twenty one, so you can drive a car around, but

957
01:20:01.920 --> 01:20:06.800
you can't drink it just obviously the two don't go together.

958
01:20:06.960 --> 01:20:12.239
But that's something that's very different from over here. So

959
01:20:12.960 --> 01:20:20.079
it's I'm surprised it's not more Americans coming to the UK.

960
01:20:21.319 --> 01:20:24.159
Or anywhere to be any part of the world where

961
01:20:24.159 --> 01:20:32.680
you can drink at eighteen, because waiting too twenty one

962
01:20:33.079 --> 01:20:38.479
is it's a long time. It's you know, I mean

963
01:20:41.319 --> 01:20:43.520
I was, I think I was, and they don't. Let's

964
01:20:43.520 --> 01:20:47.000
face it, who waits to let twenty one anyway? So

965
01:20:48.479 --> 01:20:51.640
I think when I was. So's another word I seem

966
01:20:51.640 --> 01:20:59.640
to say quite a lot. BlimE me. Oh, I started

967
01:20:59.720 --> 01:21:03.680
drinking in pubs when I was sixteen, but I didn't

968
01:21:03.680 --> 01:21:07.079
look sixteen. I didn't even probably look fourteen. They knew.

969
01:21:09.159 --> 01:21:13.079
The only time I could get served was in a

970
01:21:13.119 --> 01:21:16.279
pub when it's really quite midweek, when there's no one around,

971
01:21:17.159 --> 01:21:19.319
and I have kind of had to hide in a corner.

972
01:21:22.079 --> 01:21:25.520
Sometimes you know that'd be it. But the other times

973
01:21:25.560 --> 01:21:28.800
is when it if it's really busy at the weekend,

974
01:21:29.439 --> 01:21:33.680
where you kind of just you pale into the background,

975
01:21:33.760 --> 01:21:38.199
no one really knows you there, and so yeah, and

976
01:21:38.279 --> 01:21:40.960
other people who knew people, so they'd buy me a

977
01:21:41.079 --> 01:21:46.760
drinks or buy it buy it for me. I think

978
01:21:46.800 --> 01:21:48.520
it helped a little bit because I worked in the

979
01:21:48.600 --> 01:21:51.000
chip shop, so a lot of people knew who I

980
01:21:51.159 --> 01:21:55.039
was or I served them their chips, you know, so

981
01:21:56.680 --> 01:22:00.399
they probably felt that maybe I was eighteen, I looked

982
01:22:00.479 --> 01:22:06.479
very young, and I did look very young when I

983
01:22:06.520 --> 01:22:10.000
was sixteen. I probably looked about fourteen when I was eighteen,

984
01:22:11.920 --> 01:22:15.439
probably sixteen now I was about two years behind. Really,

985
01:22:18.840 --> 01:22:23.119
So I find that I just find it interesting. The

986
01:22:23.199 --> 01:22:25.640
legal age twenty one. I don't know what it used

987
01:22:25.680 --> 01:22:34.840
to be. I don't know why is that though, I

988
01:22:34.840 --> 01:22:36.399
don't know what the rules are. I don't know what

989
01:22:36.760 --> 01:22:40.079
the history. I don't know what the history for it was.

990
01:22:43.560 --> 01:22:46.199
Most laws apply only to drinking our call in public

991
01:22:46.199 --> 01:22:58.880
places in so even it just barked again there so

992
01:22:58.920 --> 01:23:06.960
you can purchase twenty one, So I mean, this does

993
01:23:07.079 --> 01:23:11.680
make sense. Though it's an effort to reduce the amount

994
01:23:11.680 --> 01:23:15.399
of drunk driving rates among teenagers and young adults. So

995
01:23:15.720 --> 01:23:17.880
you can't I can't say that's not a good thing.

996
01:23:18.520 --> 01:23:22.800
So that actually, so yeah, thinking about it that way,

997
01:23:22.880 --> 01:23:25.039
because you think about it like they get used to

998
01:23:25.159 --> 01:23:33.199
driving and let's say sixteen five years, so yeah, yeah,

999
01:23:33.319 --> 01:23:37.199
it's a good idea. Actually, So this is things that

1000
01:23:37.239 --> 01:23:41.640
I just find they said like a bit baffling. I

1001
01:23:41.640 --> 01:23:44.960
think it's not. But I mean, I personally don't think

1002
01:23:44.960 --> 01:23:48.119
it's a bad idea to have people not driving untill

1003
01:23:48.119 --> 01:23:54.720
they're thirty and ban alcohol together, i'd be popular. Woudn't know,

1004
01:23:57.239 --> 01:24:02.680
But it's one of those things you can't aren't. You

1005
01:24:02.720 --> 01:24:05.439
can't do that. It just wouldn't go down very well,

1006
01:24:05.479 --> 01:24:10.880
would it. And other countries have tried to ban alcohol

1007
01:24:11.760 --> 01:24:17.399
and it just led to crime, didn't it lead to? Yeah?

1008
01:24:17.680 --> 01:24:25.560
The what's it? People like, what's his name? Al Capone

1009
01:24:26.800 --> 01:24:36.079
doing naughty things? Anny. I don't know what other things.

1010
01:24:37.720 --> 01:24:41.439
I think some of the words I find strange, just

1011
01:24:41.720 --> 01:24:44.159
not just baffling me. I don't know quite how we

1012
01:24:44.279 --> 01:24:50.399
got there, like pronounced differently. I mean maybe in this

1013
01:24:50.479 --> 01:24:54.880
country we pronounce it wrong. It's possible, I don't know.

1014
01:24:55.119 --> 01:25:03.039
But things like illuminum aluminum aluminum we call it aluminium

1015
01:25:03.119 --> 01:25:15.680
aluminum aluminium. What other words roof we say roof, and

1016
01:25:15.800 --> 01:25:25.479
like in America roof, sidewalk, pavement, just little things like that.

1017
01:25:25.600 --> 01:25:31.720
It's just zebra zebra we call them zebras. The alphabet

1018
01:25:33.039 --> 01:25:37.119
you know, it's H L M, N, O, P q

1019
01:25:37.359 --> 01:25:41.800
R S, t U V w x y Z. It's

1020
01:25:41.840 --> 01:25:45.640
not Z. We don't say z here. Perhaps we used to.

1021
01:25:46.119 --> 01:25:50.640
I don't know. They definitely said it on Sesame Street

1022
01:25:52.119 --> 01:25:58.159
and I've heard people say Z like in this country,

1023
01:25:59.800 --> 01:26:05.239
like English people use Z, not just by saying jay Z.

1024
01:26:06.199 --> 01:26:08.439
I call him jay Z because I don't do Z

1025
01:26:09.119 --> 01:26:15.920
it said. And I won't back down from there. I

1026
01:26:16.000 --> 01:26:21.159
just can't. But then if I met him, I just

1027
01:26:21.159 --> 01:26:23.840
called him JA, wouldn't I lthough that would be uncomfortable

1028
01:26:25.079 --> 01:26:29.000
because I'm Jay, not him. I'm the original J because

1029
01:26:29.039 --> 01:26:31.800
I'm older. Am I older? He might be older than me?

1030
01:26:34.800 --> 01:26:43.399
Jay Z our older Z. He might be older. He is.

1031
01:26:44.000 --> 01:26:46.600
He is a year older than me. But that's not

1032
01:26:46.640 --> 01:26:49.760
his name anyway. It's not Ja. It's Sean Cory Carter.

1033
01:26:51.000 --> 01:26:57.079
So he was born December nineteen sixty nine. We don't

1034
01:26:57.079 --> 01:27:03.680
really hear much over here about what's going on with him,

1035
01:27:04.199 --> 01:27:08.319
and just like we've yeah, just that kind of stuff

1036
01:27:08.319 --> 01:27:19.119
and what's his name? Puff? Daddy? Did he? And I

1037
01:27:19.159 --> 01:27:21.239
don't know if what's happened. I don't want to go

1038
01:27:21.279 --> 01:27:30.960
down that rabbit hole, but Puffy Puff, I don't know

1039
01:27:31.159 --> 01:27:35.279
is he I don't know where he is right now.

1040
01:27:36.319 --> 01:27:39.479
I don't mean like I've got no cameras on him,

1041
01:27:39.479 --> 01:28:01.920
but personal life BlimE me uh m, all right, okay,

1042
01:28:04.840 --> 01:28:13.199
so he's still in the same place he was before. Okay, So,

1043
01:28:15.199 --> 01:28:17.680
and I watched the news, and you know, I'm not

1044
01:28:17.720 --> 01:28:20.159
like watching the news all the time. I dip in

1045
01:28:20.199 --> 01:28:23.079
and out of it. But we don't seem to see

1046
01:28:23.159 --> 01:28:30.239
much about American celebrities on the news so much. I'm

1047
01:28:30.279 --> 01:28:32.279
sure there's a lot of it online, and I do

1048
01:28:32.399 --> 01:28:35.880
go on YouTube quite a bit, but they don't seem

1049
01:28:35.920 --> 01:28:40.840
to be covering it a lot as much as they

1050
01:28:41.039 --> 01:28:51.880
used to. Mmm hmm, I don't know. I'm working in there.

1051
01:28:53.760 --> 01:29:02.319
What is this? Oh yeah, okay, So I'm trying to

1052
01:29:02.359 --> 01:29:07.680
think of anything else that just just to find interesting.

1053
01:29:08.560 --> 01:29:11.560
That's a book confusing. I think some of the words

1054
01:29:11.560 --> 01:29:16.199
that take, you know, the terminology I find just different.

1055
01:29:16.560 --> 01:29:19.079
But then I've grown up listening to it, so it's

1056
01:29:19.079 --> 01:29:24.159
not like it's unusual, but it does. I do sometimes think,

1057
01:29:26.239 --> 01:29:33.960
really really, no, I do think, oh, Finny, thanks mate,

1058
01:29:34.319 --> 01:29:42.079
make a bit more noise, can you please? Thanks? Cheers? Yeah,

1059
01:29:42.199 --> 01:29:49.119
I don't know, baffle me. It's not really the American people,

1060
01:29:49.359 --> 01:29:55.640
just more the I suppose the the impression that what

1061
01:29:55.920 --> 01:30:00.560
I see on TV as opposed to in real life,

1062
01:30:00.600 --> 01:30:02.640
because I don't know in real life, I don't know

1063
01:30:02.640 --> 01:30:08.159
any American people like in actual face to face life.

1064
01:30:08.840 --> 01:30:10.880
I have met them, but I just haven't. I've never

1065
01:30:10.920 --> 01:30:17.039
been to America, and I guarantee that America is nothing

1066
01:30:17.439 --> 01:30:21.680
alike how it's portrayed on the TV and in movies,

1067
01:30:23.279 --> 01:30:27.000
just in the same way that England is nothing like

1068
01:30:27.039 --> 01:30:37.119
how it's portrayed in America. You know, there's I've been

1069
01:30:37.119 --> 01:30:40.520
told that by lots of people as well, and even

1070
01:30:40.960 --> 01:30:49.880
stars have said it, that what's he doing. He's staring

1071
01:30:51.560 --> 01:30:55.359
at the floor and there's a flyer on the floor

1072
01:30:55.399 --> 01:30:59.319
and he's just staring at it and his inches away

1073
01:30:59.319 --> 01:31:01.279
from it because he knows if he goes near it,

1074
01:31:01.199 --> 01:31:12.119
it or just fly off hours of entertainment for him.

1075
01:31:12.159 --> 01:31:26.000
So I'm just trying to think. I do sometimes wonder why, okay,

1076
01:31:26.119 --> 01:31:28.560
this this could be. I don't mean it's in a

1077
01:31:28.600 --> 01:31:35.079
controversial way. It's the same here though, But why people

1078
01:31:35.159 --> 01:31:38.760
would live in a place that has a hope and

1079
01:31:39.039 --> 01:31:43.920
not hope and season well wind season or whatever it's called.

1080
01:31:45.520 --> 01:31:49.560
What is it? Not wirlwind? What are they called? What's

1081
01:31:49.600 --> 01:31:54.960
the thing from the Wizard of Us. It's like it

1082
01:31:55.159 --> 01:31:59.000
just if there's an area which gets completely flattened every

1083
01:31:59.039 --> 01:32:03.960
time every year at a certain time like that seems

1084
01:32:04.000 --> 01:32:07.279
like a not very good place to be building land

1085
01:32:07.439 --> 01:32:12.960
or building places to live. But maybe it's a really

1086
01:32:13.000 --> 01:32:17.039
lovely place to live. So who am I to say?

1087
01:32:17.319 --> 01:32:20.640
But it's the same here. There's they've been built houses

1088
01:32:20.720 --> 01:32:27.560
and properties on floodland. But that's the builder's fault, isn't

1089
01:32:27.600 --> 01:32:29.119
it as a council and the builder's fault, and not

1090
01:32:29.119 --> 01:32:32.319
the people have moved in because they probably didn't know.

1091
01:32:33.239 --> 01:32:36.479
I don't think anyone would purposefully move into a place

1092
01:32:36.520 --> 01:32:41.439
that's going to get flooded. That just doesn't seem very likely.

1093
01:32:54.800 --> 01:33:02.960
I find the what else speffles me? I think it's

1094
01:33:03.000 --> 01:33:05.520
just because it's all based on what I see on TV,

1095
01:33:06.239 --> 01:33:11.239
what I've seen in movies and TV shows, reality shows, cartoons.

1096
01:33:12.880 --> 01:33:16.159
You know, it's not really based in not really based

1097
01:33:16.199 --> 01:33:22.199
in reality. It's based on my interpretation of someone's someone

1098
01:33:22.199 --> 01:33:32.439
else's interpretation of America. So yeah, it's just something I

1099
01:33:32.680 --> 01:33:36.479
especially like the drink driving thing, like getting them to

1100
01:33:36.520 --> 01:33:41.119
do somersaults and the splits and jumping up and down

1101
01:33:41.239 --> 01:33:47.680
like a bunny across an invisible straight line. It just

1102
01:33:47.720 --> 01:33:53.319
seems just seems pointless in a sense of just do

1103
01:33:53.399 --> 01:33:58.279
a breathalyzer seems to be the thing, the most ideal thing,

1104
01:33:59.319 --> 01:34:02.159
another thing. I mean, I want to go through differences,

1105
01:34:02.199 --> 01:34:12.600
but I'm surprised that just the amount of guns out there.

1106
01:34:13.319 --> 01:34:15.600
If there is as many guns in America as what

1107
01:34:15.920 --> 01:34:21.960
is portrayed, then I'm surprised that anybody goes around causing

1108
01:34:22.000 --> 01:34:27.359
problems of each other. Because if you put if you

1109
01:34:27.600 --> 01:34:32.479
gave guns to everyone in this country, you'd lose probably

1110
01:34:32.520 --> 01:34:37.479
half the population in the first weekend. You know, it's this,

1111
01:34:38.760 --> 01:34:42.680
there's a reason the population, the populace do not have guns,

1112
01:34:43.399 --> 01:34:47.960
especially in this country. There's there's people wouldn't be able

1113
01:34:48.000 --> 01:34:54.439
to Yeah. No, I'm including myself in that one. No, no, no,

1114
01:34:57.399 --> 01:34:59.920
So I do wonder. It baffles me what it might

1115
01:35:00.199 --> 01:35:07.760
be like to grow up with guns around. And it

1116
01:35:07.880 --> 01:35:10.079
used to be I used to If you'd have asked

1117
01:35:10.119 --> 01:35:12.520
me this question twenty years ago, I would have like

1118
01:35:12.760 --> 01:35:17.359
been going, how can you stand seeing the police walking

1119
01:35:17.359 --> 01:35:22.640
around with guns? But now we have guns here. It's

1120
01:35:22.680 --> 01:35:25.199
more and more police with guns. There always used to

1121
01:35:25.279 --> 01:35:29.239
be in London that was standard, but now there's more

1122
01:35:29.279 --> 01:35:33.279
and more armed police walking around and they have tasers

1123
01:35:33.319 --> 01:35:41.039
as well. But it's yeah, it's more norm It's yeah,

1124
01:35:41.079 --> 01:35:44.920
it's just more kind of how it is now. But

1125
01:35:47.319 --> 01:35:49.640
that baffled that has always baffled me a little bit.

1126
01:35:52.720 --> 01:35:59.640
The whole gun thing, I understand, but I understand different

1127
01:35:59.680 --> 01:36:02.159
sides of the argument with that one. Not that I'm

1128
01:36:02.159 --> 01:36:07.239
getting into politics, but I understand. You know, it's kind

1129
01:36:07.239 --> 01:36:11.119
of it baffles me. This is nothing that baffles me,

1130
01:36:11.119 --> 01:36:14.119
but in a good way. It's more it baffles me

1131
01:36:14.239 --> 01:36:17.359
why we aren't more like that in this country. See,

1132
01:36:17.399 --> 01:36:21.399
in America, you can defend your property, you can protect

1133
01:36:21.399 --> 01:36:27.760
yourself someone breaks into your house or someone attacks you,

1134
01:36:27.760 --> 01:36:34.199
you can defend yourself. In this country, we can't. We can,

1135
01:36:34.359 --> 01:36:38.399
but you're going to get in trouble, serious trouble. And

1136
01:36:40.640 --> 01:36:44.239
even like defending yourself against an attack in the street

1137
01:36:45.680 --> 01:36:52.000
minimal or my stomach gurgling. It's almost like unless you're

1138
01:36:52.279 --> 01:36:56.880
some kind of martial artist expert and knows how to

1139
01:36:57.720 --> 01:37:05.000
softly unarmed someone and just put them into a gentle, cradling,

1140
01:37:05.600 --> 01:37:10.720
sleepy position whilst you wait for the police to come.

1141
01:37:12.720 --> 01:37:21.640
You know, it's kind of ridiculous because we can't carry anything.

1142
01:37:23.279 --> 01:37:25.640
We can't. We're not allowed to carry guns obviously, because

1143
01:37:25.640 --> 01:37:27.680
we don't have guns, but we're not allowed to carry

1144
01:37:27.720 --> 01:37:32.720
anything to protect ourselves at all, nothing that could be

1145
01:37:32.760 --> 01:37:38.800
classed as a weapon. So if you're going to walk

1146
01:37:38.840 --> 01:37:42.439
around of a baseball bat in your bag, you better

1147
01:37:42.439 --> 01:37:45.239
make sure that you've got a baseball ball, a baseball ball,

1148
01:37:45.960 --> 01:37:49.720
a baseball in there as well, and have a good

1149
01:37:49.760 --> 01:37:55.159
reason for having the baseball bat in there, even though

1150
01:37:55.159 --> 01:37:58.760
that could save your life. It's one of these weird things,

1151
01:37:58.800 --> 01:38:04.680
you know. It's just I'm going to get some dogs

1152
01:38:04.680 --> 01:38:08.039
spray because we can't use mace is illegal in this country.

1153
01:38:10.039 --> 01:38:14.760
Everything that could help you it's illegal pretty much. But

1154
01:38:14.880 --> 01:38:19.239
you can get dog mace. So if a dog with

1155
01:38:19.319 --> 01:38:21.560
a dog attack, who has sprayed that. So if you've

1156
01:38:21.560 --> 01:38:23.720
got a dog, if your dog owner, you can carry

1157
01:38:23.760 --> 01:38:27.479
that around and use that if necessary against is going

1158
01:38:27.520 --> 01:38:29.000
to work with a human just as it does with

1159
01:38:29.039 --> 01:38:38.560
a dog. It's weird. It's really strange the way I

1160
01:38:38.560 --> 01:38:41.239
think America seems to it seems to be a bit

1161
01:38:41.560 --> 01:38:45.640
more pro taking care of yourselves and being able to

1162
01:38:45.640 --> 01:38:53.239
look after your family. Here, there's nothing, it's really it

1163
01:38:53.319 --> 01:38:58.079
seems to be whoever's willing to do whatever they do,

1164
01:38:58.880 --> 01:39:11.800
we'll get away with it. Very strange. I don't understand it.

1165
01:39:11.800 --> 01:39:15.159
That's gone in a weird, weird direction. But yeah, it's

1166
01:39:15.199 --> 01:39:18.159
just there are things like that that baffles me. That's

1167
01:39:18.239 --> 01:39:22.920
not about American There's more about the difference between here

1168
01:39:22.960 --> 01:39:28.159
and there. So I'm trying to think what other things

1169
01:39:29.039 --> 01:39:31.880
I'd like to visit. I mean to be welcome, but

1170
01:39:31.920 --> 01:39:37.800
I'd like to visit America providing things, you know, sort

1171
01:39:37.840 --> 01:39:42.159
out in the world and everyone gets on. That's all

1172
01:39:42.199 --> 01:39:44.279
I really want in life. I want everyone to get on.

1173
01:39:46.640 --> 01:39:50.239
I don't have to agree with each other, but just

1174
01:39:50.239 --> 01:39:54.880
just get on, you know, just work through it. There

1175
01:39:54.920 --> 01:39:59.600
seems to be there's a lot more focus on things

1176
01:39:59.600 --> 01:40:02.840
that DIVI than things that actually pull us together. And

1177
01:40:02.920 --> 01:40:06.520
there's more things that pull us together. I mean, I

1178
01:40:06.600 --> 01:40:10.039
live I'm a Buddhist. I live in a place a

1179
01:40:10.079 --> 01:40:15.920
local person that's a Muslim, and there's more. We've got

1180
01:40:15.960 --> 01:40:20.479
more in common than we have difference. It's completely different religion,

1181
01:40:21.319 --> 01:40:25.880
different ideals, you know, different kind of belief systems, I guess,

1182
01:40:27.079 --> 01:40:30.760
but we get on really well. He's got a lovely

1183
01:40:30.800 --> 01:40:33.720
family and they all like me, and I mean his

1184
01:40:33.800 --> 01:40:41.199
wife cooks, cooks me food. You know, it's like It's

1185
01:40:41.279 --> 01:40:47.680
just like we can get on as long as we

1186
01:40:47.720 --> 01:40:51.880
don't have conversations that there's certain conversations that we probably

1187
01:40:51.920 --> 01:40:55.199
couldn't have. And in the same way, there's certain things

1188
01:40:55.239 --> 01:40:58.840
I couldn't talk about, like if you know someone has

1189
01:40:59.039 --> 01:41:04.840
a strong opinion, maybe just don't talk about that subject.

1190
01:41:07.039 --> 01:41:12.479
Maybe right, noises started from somewhere else in the building.

1191
01:41:12.600 --> 01:41:16.680
So I don't think it helped with Vinnie Barkin, who

1192
01:41:16.800 --> 01:41:19.159
just had to be old barked then, and that's sometimes

1193
01:41:19.199 --> 01:41:24.039
what happens. He barks, the music goes on because I

1194
01:41:24.119 --> 01:41:26.800
don't want to hear him barking, which I understand because

1195
01:41:26.800 --> 01:41:34.239
I don't want to hear in barking either. Ali asks,

1196
01:41:34.359 --> 01:41:43.800
what are your thoughts believes around manifestation? Manifestation? Well, I've

1197
01:41:43.880 --> 01:41:50.640
read or listened to loads of books on this subject,

1198
01:41:51.399 --> 01:41:54.760
and for me, I've kind of gone quite deep with it,

1199
01:41:56.119 --> 01:42:00.399
just to find out what the original people believe even

1200
01:42:00.560 --> 01:42:03.119
and where it came from and all that stuff. It

1201
01:42:03.159 --> 01:42:10.000
goes back a long time, and the main book is

1202
01:42:12.079 --> 01:42:18.640
Think and Grow Rich. That's the main book. And I mean,

1203
01:42:18.800 --> 01:42:20.760
I know I'm coming up from a different angle, I suppose,

1204
01:42:20.800 --> 01:42:29.439
But if anyone wants to really understand about the well

1205
01:42:29.479 --> 01:42:31.960
should we call it the secret? It's not a secret,

1206
01:42:32.039 --> 01:42:38.439
but you know, the manifestation. The best teacher, he's unfortunately

1207
01:42:38.479 --> 01:42:44.119
passed away a couple of years ago. Bob Procter devoted

1208
01:42:44.199 --> 01:42:52.800
his entire life to teaching the basically what's in Think

1209
01:42:52.880 --> 01:42:56.720
and Grow Rich. The book and Think and Grow Rich

1210
01:42:57.079 --> 01:43:03.560
was written by uh blind me. It's gone out of

1211
01:43:03.560 --> 01:43:15.359
my head. That's ridiculous, Think and Grow Rich Napoleon Hill.

1212
01:43:18.439 --> 01:43:22.920
To me, there's two of the biggest exponents of that

1213
01:43:22.960 --> 01:43:29.800
book that are promoted the most, I mean over decades

1214
01:43:29.840 --> 01:43:42.159
and decades and decades, would be Bob Procter and Earl Nightingale.

1215
01:43:43.279 --> 01:43:49.119
Now Earl Nightingale has a video of him on YouTube.

1216
01:43:49.159 --> 01:43:54.279
It's called The Secret. Is it called the Secret? I

1217
01:43:54.319 --> 01:43:56.720
have a Secret or something like that. That's why I

1218
01:43:56.840 --> 01:44:07.359
came over him probably six years ago. And the actual

1219
01:44:07.800 --> 01:44:15.359
the movie The Secret, The Secret, which was the Law

1220
01:44:15.399 --> 01:44:22.560
of Attraction Manifest Your Dreams two thousand and six, and

1221
01:44:22.640 --> 01:44:26.479
it just had a bunch of people just talking about

1222
01:44:26.520 --> 01:44:30.399
the law of attraction and it became not really popular

1223
01:44:30.479 --> 01:44:37.479
and everyone was talking about it. I just I was interested,

1224
01:44:38.079 --> 01:44:40.600
you know, I read it, I watched it, on YouTube

1225
01:44:41.760 --> 01:44:46.439
online and stuff when it first came out, and it

1226
01:44:46.479 --> 01:44:51.319
was interested and it was something that I didn't really

1227
01:44:51.800 --> 01:44:53.640
know what they were talking about, like just get on

1228
01:44:53.680 --> 01:44:57.800
with it. What is the secret? Bob Procter was one

1229
01:44:57.840 --> 01:45:01.079
of the main people on that video on that secret thing,

1230
01:45:01.680 --> 01:45:08.319
Ronda Byrne. But it seemed to be for me. People

1231
01:45:08.359 --> 01:45:11.479
were reading it or watching the video and it wasn't

1232
01:45:11.479 --> 01:45:17.399
actually telling them what it was. It's like it was

1233
01:45:17.439 --> 01:45:23.159
a very very surface level. Asked just how I perceived

1234
01:45:23.199 --> 01:45:28.359
it to be at the time. Bob Procter goes really

1235
01:45:28.399 --> 01:45:32.239
deep with it, like really deep. He devoted his entire

1236
01:45:32.560 --> 01:45:36.960
adult life to that book, Think and Grow Rich, and

1237
01:45:37.000 --> 01:45:40.119
that's where the secret came from. That's where it was

1238
01:45:42.640 --> 01:45:47.479
El Nightingale. They got the idea, the terminology, the secret

1239
01:45:47.640 --> 01:45:53.920
really from him. Although Thinking Go Rich, they did talk

1240
01:45:53.960 --> 01:45:56.720
about the secret You're going to hear it in each

1241
01:45:56.880 --> 01:46:04.199
chapter and whatever. L Nightingale loved the book. But then

1242
01:46:04.239 --> 01:46:07.640
he started to study, and he studied lots of books

1243
01:46:07.680 --> 01:46:11.199
and he became a huge He was one of the

1244
01:46:11.239 --> 01:46:16.560
first real stars, one of the first real stars of

1245
01:46:17.880 --> 01:46:25.800
self help, I mean Nightingale and Conant. Conant and Nightingale

1246
01:46:25.840 --> 01:46:29.239
or whatever that that company sold self help books and

1247
01:46:29.319 --> 01:46:37.199
audios for decades, and he was quite a big star

1248
01:46:37.239 --> 01:46:43.439
in America in the fifties and sixties. I think he

1249
01:46:43.600 --> 01:46:46.800
was on radio and things like that. I think he was.

1250
01:46:46.840 --> 01:46:50.039
There's also videos of him on TV as well. I think.

1251
01:46:52.359 --> 01:46:58.159
So he expanded upon it. Bob Procter really went deep

1252
01:46:58.199 --> 01:47:01.880
on it. It also expanded on but he kind of

1253
01:47:03.039 --> 01:47:08.319
I find El Nightingale the way he describes it different.

1254
01:47:08.640 --> 01:47:12.039
You know, it's nice to hear him describe it in

1255
01:47:12.279 --> 01:47:17.680
certain ways that really makes sense. Bob Proctor goes, as

1256
01:47:17.680 --> 01:47:21.800
I said, really in a different direction, but he covers everything.

1257
01:47:23.680 --> 01:47:28.119
And then you've got the actual person that wrote the book,

1258
01:47:29.199 --> 01:47:36.840
Think and Grow Rich and Napoleon Hill. I've got tapes

1259
01:47:36.840 --> 01:47:40.880
of him talking as well books where he's talking, and

1260
01:47:40.920 --> 01:47:43.439
I've got i think three different versions of that book

1261
01:47:43.520 --> 01:47:49.880
on audio. I've also got audio of Napoleon Hill talking himself.

1262
01:47:50.239 --> 01:47:52.960
Because he devoted like twenty years of his life to

1263
01:47:53.079 --> 01:47:59.479
interviewing successful people. I think he also interviewed people that

1264
01:47:59.520 --> 01:48:02.279
weren't that sort as well, but that is focus was

1265
01:48:02.319 --> 01:48:08.760
successful people, and he got introduced by oh, what's his name,

1266
01:48:15.239 --> 01:48:20.399
Tycoon in America he was. I was gonna say Lego,

1267
01:48:20.560 --> 01:48:23.640
not Lego tycoon, although whoever owns a Lego is going

1268
01:48:23.720 --> 01:48:32.600
to be a tycoon, isn't they? Is it Iron Usa tycoons?

1269
01:48:35.319 --> 01:48:43.760
Nineteen sixties? Literally literally? So it wasn't Rockefeller? Was it Rockefeller?

1270
01:48:46.439 --> 01:48:51.079
Richest American? Who is Rockefeller? Maybe it was Rockefeller? I

1271
01:48:51.119 --> 01:49:05.600
don't think so it was she wasn't held Hughes, really

1272
01:49:07.720 --> 01:49:12.359
John D. Rockefeller Standard All Trust. It wasn't Rockefeller. It

1273
01:49:12.439 --> 01:49:20.920
was wasn't Henry Ford. I don't know understand. How can

1274
01:49:21.000 --> 01:49:27.960
Henry Ford not be like at the time of his life,

1275
01:49:28.039 --> 01:49:31.439
you know, the original Henry Ford. How can he not

1276
01:49:31.560 --> 01:49:35.199
be the richest man in the world when he basically

1277
01:49:37.359 --> 01:49:42.720
owned cars? How could he have not been one of

1278
01:49:42.800 --> 01:49:48.319
the most richest in history? It's weird, isn't it? Ford?

1279
01:49:48.560 --> 01:49:53.800
I mean Henry Ford, man, I can't remember. I can't find.

1280
01:49:54.239 --> 01:49:58.600
It wasn't Rockefeller. It was someone steal he was into

1281
01:49:58.640 --> 01:50:09.039
steel steel companies, and oh, it's going to bug me now.

1282
01:50:09.159 --> 01:50:14.239
I don't know why. It doesn't really matter Henry Ford.

1283
01:50:16.920 --> 01:50:27.560
I'm just going down. Nope, Henry Joe's that's weird. I

1284
01:50:27.600 --> 01:50:30.079
know the name, It's just got right out of my head.

1285
01:50:30.680 --> 01:50:39.720
Steal tycoons. Okay, steal steel tycoons. Ten most interesting steel tycoons.

1286
01:50:39.920 --> 01:50:42.520
Here we go, it'll be on this one here, this

1287
01:50:42.560 --> 01:50:45.399
one will be the one. Yeah, I've seen his face

1288
01:50:45.439 --> 01:50:50.840
straight away. I know his face. So not Andrew Andrew Milton,

1289
01:50:52.720 --> 01:50:59.199
William Henry Moore. Nope, JP Morgan, the JP Morgan. Isn't

1290
01:50:59.239 --> 01:51:05.920
that the same? Still is? Wow? He bought the steel

1291
01:51:05.960 --> 01:51:13.319
company off of the one I'm thinking of, Andrew Carnegie,

1292
01:51:14.439 --> 01:51:17.960
who is the number one Andrew Carnegie. I thought it

1293
01:51:17.960 --> 01:51:19.359
would have been one of the richest men in the

1294
01:51:19.359 --> 01:51:24.399
world at the time. So JP Morgan bought the steel

1295
01:51:24.439 --> 01:51:28.239
company off of Andrew Carnegie and then went on to

1296
01:51:28.279 --> 01:51:35.199
be fairly well off. I mean JP Morgan is I mean,

1297
01:51:35.199 --> 01:51:38.560
it's the bank, isn't it isn't JP Morgan one of

1298
01:51:38.560 --> 01:51:41.520
the play days like run the Banks in the World

1299
01:51:41.640 --> 01:51:49.439
or something. Anyway, So I got quite deep into it

1300
01:51:51.479 --> 01:51:54.520
and still reading. I read Think and Grow Rich. I

1301
01:51:54.560 --> 01:51:58.359
listened to it every every day, every couple of days

1302
01:51:58.520 --> 01:52:03.199
I listened to it. And it's not about grown rich,

1303
01:52:03.439 --> 01:52:06.359
clearly because I ain't got no money, so it's not

1304
01:52:06.680 --> 01:52:12.560
it's not about that, And it's not about manifesting. Really,

1305
01:52:12.600 --> 01:52:16.079
it's I think, in some ways from a practical perspective,

1306
01:52:16.640 --> 01:52:20.159
is you do. It's what you do. You get what

1307
01:52:20.199 --> 01:52:26.800
you you You you you sow what you reap. You know.

1308
01:52:26.880 --> 01:52:30.079
It's really is quite as simple as that. You get

1309
01:52:30.079 --> 01:52:31.880
what you put in, You get out what you put in.

1310
01:52:33.199 --> 01:52:40.199
You do nothing, you get nothing. Old Nightingale his phrase,

1311
01:52:40.239 --> 01:52:45.439
which is my favorite phrase of all time. Really well, no,

1312
01:52:45.640 --> 01:52:53.199
I mean outside of a relationship, would be is we

1313
01:52:53.319 --> 01:52:58.479
become what we think about? And that resonated with me

1314
01:53:00.279 --> 01:53:05.239
when I first heard it. It resonated with me, and

1315
01:53:05.279 --> 01:53:07.920
it makes sense because it fits in with everything I've

1316
01:53:08.000 --> 01:53:13.840
learned psychologically, from the hypnosis perspective, from the Buddhist perspective,

1317
01:53:14.640 --> 01:53:19.319
even from any religion really in the sense it fits together,

1318
01:53:20.000 --> 01:53:22.199
and I've seen it with my own eyes, heard it

1319
01:53:22.239 --> 01:53:27.119
with my own ears, experienced both personally how my thoughts

1320
01:53:27.119 --> 01:53:30.720
have affected my life and how other people's thoughts have

1321
01:53:30.800 --> 01:53:38.880
affected their lives. And it's pretty much undeniable to me.

1322
01:53:40.640 --> 01:53:45.119
So that is my thoughts and beliefs about I don't

1323
01:53:45.119 --> 01:53:53.800
really think if it's manifestation, but that's kind of what

1324
01:53:53.880 --> 01:53:57.119
it is. It's that ballpark isn't it. It's like manifestation,

1325
01:53:57.600 --> 01:54:02.439
the law of attraction. We become what we think about.

1326
01:54:03.880 --> 01:54:07.600
So if you spend if someone spends all the time

1327
01:54:07.640 --> 01:54:11.880
thinking about something that's not good or focusing on things

1328
01:54:11.920 --> 01:54:14.760
that are not going well, then they're kind of invited

1329
01:54:14.760 --> 01:54:17.479
more of that into their life. They don't mean to be,

1330
01:54:17.520 --> 01:54:21.479
and it's not it's not purposely doing that, and it's

1331
01:54:21.560 --> 01:54:25.079
not a judgment. It's just there's so many examples of

1332
01:54:25.119 --> 01:54:28.520
that if we look around, and I used to be

1333
01:54:28.560 --> 01:54:33.720
one of those examples, and sometimes I still am. So

1334
01:54:37.880 --> 01:54:43.399
my whole life is based around this. We become what

1335
01:54:43.439 --> 01:54:47.399
we think about. So I think about this, and it

1336
01:54:47.399 --> 01:54:49.399
doesn't mean that I want to turn in I want

1337
01:54:49.439 --> 01:54:54.600
to turn into a podcast. I mean, I am the podcast.

1338
01:54:56.319 --> 01:55:00.279
There used to be a time when I was, Yeah,

1339
01:55:00.319 --> 01:55:03.000
I feel like I am the podcast now Really this

1340
01:55:03.199 --> 01:55:10.640
is me and I think that, Yeah, I don't know.

1341
01:55:10.800 --> 01:55:12.359
I mean, I'm not trying to make this about me,

1342
01:55:12.439 --> 01:55:16.680
but I just want to say about the American figure,

1343
01:55:16.680 --> 01:55:18.239
I don't want it. I hope that didn't come across

1344
01:55:18.279 --> 01:55:22.560
as bad because I know a lot of my audience,

1345
01:55:22.880 --> 01:55:25.680
maybe the majority of my audience from America, and I

1346
01:55:25.920 --> 01:55:29.199
really really appreciate anyone that listens to me and it

1347
01:55:29.239 --> 01:55:35.520
finds me useful. So it's never a criticism. And every

1348
01:55:35.560 --> 01:55:43.000
country's got its. You're not the only weird ones. We're

1349
01:55:43.039 --> 01:55:49.279
all weird. We're all weird England. Wow. What I do

1350
01:55:49.399 --> 01:55:51.720
like about Americans is it seems to be more upbeat,

1351
01:55:52.159 --> 01:55:56.800
more positive. You know, have a good day, have a

1352
01:55:56.800 --> 01:56:01.760
good day here in this country. How are you? Not

1353
01:56:01.880 --> 01:56:07.000
too bad? Could be worse? You know, it's a very

1354
01:56:07.520 --> 01:56:10.479
and it's not even negative, but it is negative but

1355
01:56:10.520 --> 01:56:15.640
not negative. It's yeah, there's kind of like that, or

1356
01:56:15.760 --> 01:56:19.960
just expect the worst, no good, no good to no

1357
01:56:20.039 --> 01:56:23.640
good deed goes unpunished, all that kind of crub. It'sch

1358
01:56:24.960 --> 01:56:29.840
I understand that mentality because I've I go in and

1359
01:56:29.840 --> 01:56:35.680
out of that, you know. So I'm trying to for me,

1360
01:56:36.199 --> 01:56:40.640
I'm trying to try and get some sentence out of

1361
01:56:40.680 --> 01:56:47.359
that keeps saying aord trying. The attempt is by focusing

1362
01:56:47.399 --> 01:56:54.279
on positive stuff, I can get out of that hole

1363
01:56:54.439 --> 01:56:59.359
quicker when I fall into it, as it were, and

1364
01:56:59.479 --> 01:57:06.960
maybe not fall as deep and have a reason. I

1365
01:57:07.000 --> 01:57:10.359
think that this is what I've I think I've come

1366
01:57:10.399 --> 01:57:12.800
to this conclusion I know this isn't supposed to be

1367
01:57:12.840 --> 01:57:21.239
a philosophy of life, you know, but I kind of

1368
01:57:21.279 --> 01:57:32.399
come to the idea of the conclusion that really I

1369
01:57:32.399 --> 01:57:34.920
do have to go. I've got finished. What was I

1370
01:57:34.960 --> 01:57:43.439
going to say, just trying to just do our best

1371
01:57:43.479 --> 01:57:47.640
in it. What we could do is our best and

1372
01:57:51.600 --> 01:57:54.479
big brothers are now, so I'm going to go. See.

1373
01:57:55.119 --> 01:57:57.079
I was about to tell you what my philosophy of

1374
01:57:57.119 --> 01:58:04.640
life is, focus on one thing, and this is this.

1375
01:58:04.640 --> 01:58:07.279
This is what I do. This is my entire life,

1376
01:58:09.119 --> 01:58:15.600
and hopefully it'll be good. They'll continue, So thank you

1377
01:58:15.640 --> 01:58:18.279
for listening. Remember to be kind to yourself because you

1378
01:58:18.359 --> 01:58:21.840
do deserve to be happy. Be gentle with yourself. You

1379
01:58:21.960 --> 01:58:28.319
deserve to feel safe. Lots of love. Bye,