April 8, 2025

(no music) MENAPAUSE | Trivia Tuesday | Let me bore you to sleep #1322 | 8th April 2025

(no music) MENAPAUSE | Trivia Tuesday | Let me bore you to sleep #1322 | 8th April 2025
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Hello, and welcome to Jason Newland dot com. And Vinnie

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is at this moment trying well, signiffing at the bin,

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wanting to get the stuff out of the bin to eat. No,

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you're not having the rubbish. I gave you food, Vinnie.

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You've got a bowl of nice, beautiful, quite expensive food. Actually,

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I've got some of that posh stuff. You know. It's

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like in a tin, but you have to pull the

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tin over, you know, pull a tin over, pull the

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lid off, and it's not like in a plastic sachet.

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It's like nice. I wouldn't eat it myself, but you know,

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I'm not a dog, but you know it's nice, it's good.

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But no, he won't have it. I don't want it.

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He wants the rubbish. I don't know. I don't get it. Well,

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I do kind of understand that. Men, we all like

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a little bit of you know, we'll like to eat

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out of bed now and then. But is any So yeah,

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this is to let me boy to sleep. Please only

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listen when you can safely close your eyes. This is

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Trivia Tuesday, Dad. So I'm gonna well, as you may know,

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I like to try and try, and I'm gonna say

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succumb try to if I get a request, I'd like

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to fulfill a request if all possible. I try. I

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don't always succeed, but I do try. Sometimes I just

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plainly forget. But I couldn't tell you when that's happened

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because I forgot. Yeah, so Vinnie, no barking, mate, don't

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make me close that window. I closed door.

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We don't oh man, oh, dear oh.

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I like having the window open, nice fresh air coming in.

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But no, no, no, A snail passes wind and he

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hears it, and so I you mean some weird noises today.

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I've got a couple of messages. First one is from Rich.

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It says, hey, Jason new Land Hypnotist, your podcast has

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become my favorite. I listen almost every night. Thanks for

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the Sunday papers. I do like some of the rags,

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like the Inquirer, so I would love if you could

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mix some of those wacky stories in. Stay well, be happy.

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Thank you, Rich. I did look on the app because

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I use a Oh what is the name of it?

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But let me have a look. Ready is it ready? Really? Really?

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So?

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Read? Not ready? Cancel? I don't even know the name

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of the app. Isn't it weird. The app's open but still,

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oh it's called ready, there's no I don't have the

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National Inquirer, which I'm kind of surprised about because I'm

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pre I think the other app did, but the other

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app's more expensive. That's like twenty nine pounds a month.

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This is twelve ninety nine a month. So if I

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just have a look nation newspapers international, this is weird.

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So it's international countries by international papers by country Austria, India, Sweden, France, Ireland, UK,

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Germany and South Africa. What about the American newspapers? Do

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we not have American newspapers anymore? Always used to have

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the American newspapers. That's weird. Why the American newspaper is

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not available anymore? They used to be the New York Times,

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all that stuff. It's not on it. In fact, the

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national newspapers. The only ones on are today is the

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Independent Guardian, the Western Mal I've got an idea what

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that is, The Metro in Scotland, the Daily Star. That's

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kind of the closest to a silly newspaper we've got. Well,

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they're all pretty a little bit silly, but that's kind

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of got some humor. In it, Daily Express, Daily Record

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again I don't know Ice Scotland, and the Daily Mirror,

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and then the Eye the eyepaper I've got no I

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don't know what even what the Eye stands for. I

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thought I was just a new name for the Independent book.

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Clearly it's not. And it is the Metro, the London

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Metro and City Am and that's it. So there's no

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Daily Mail. I think they're starting to take their papers

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off because they're all individually maybe trying to charge people.

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That's a bit. That's the Sun's not on there, the

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Star is, so that's a that's a that's quite a pure,

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pure poor selection. That is a poor selection. And there's

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no how strange, no American newspapers that I'm pretty sure

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that there was American newspapers in the past, so I

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can put newspapers in. So if I'm going to go

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to search, this is this is bugging me now, Sorry

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that annoyed me. So if we go back to I

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want to search, how do I search for stuff? Newspapers?

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I explore, explore so New York, New York, New.

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York, New York, New York, New York. No nothing, do

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you say, no, Wow, that's.

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Really really weird. I don't mean that. I mean genuinely

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no newspapers from America, and maybe it's all because of

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what's going on with that. I don't know. BlimE me,

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that's interesting. M I mean, if to be honest, I

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don't think I'm going to be paying that prescription subscription

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whatever next month because if all I'm getting is just

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the UK papers, and I'm not even getting many of them, Yeah,

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and I money using it once a week, so I

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might have to just try and scrape some stuff up

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from the internet anyway. But thanks for your thanks for

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your message. There's no National Enquirer on here. I've got Mondays,

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I've got another message from Hillary. I did reply Hillary,

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and I spelt your name with two hours. I do apologize. Hey,

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Jason new Land, just want to come on here and

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say a massive thank you. You help me get to

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sleep every night, and I would be lost about you.

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You are like a really close friend. I don't know.

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I have been having a shit time with menopause, which

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has led me having a frozen shoulder, and you'll let

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me Boy to Sleep podcast has been a godsend. Maybe

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you could do a menopause let me boy to sleep

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like Trivia Tuesday on the menopause. I believe lots of

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women aren't even aware of the issues it causes, like

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major anxiety, mood swings, and really bad thoughts. Big thanks again.

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So h what I thought I would do, Hillary is

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exactly what you just said. Now. It's a little bit

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difficult in a sense of I do try and keep

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things a bit I don't know, a bit more a

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bit lightheared in that, in a sense of I try

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not to alienate people. I'm sure I succeed very rarely

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with that attempt, but I'm going to do it anyway.

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So hey, so I'm going to talk about the menopause.

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I'm going to look for some trivia about the menopause.

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And the fact is I don't know hardly anything about

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the female menipause because I'm not a female. I know

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a little bit because I do have a couple of

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friends going through it, so I know what they've told me,

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and I know what I've read in papers and magazines

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and what I've heard people say on TV and on

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videos and YouTube, and so you know, I know a

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little bit, but I don't know experimentally. Experimentally, experientially, I

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don't have much of a clue. However, I am actually

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a woman. No, I actually, you know, some of the things,

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things like anxiety and some of the individual symptoms that

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I've heard about are things that I have dealt with,

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but for a different reason. So just drinking some Caprican

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It's blackcurrent mm mmmm. So I'm trying to think how

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I can keep this nice and gentle and light without,

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you know, just generally. So please, Okay, I'm going to

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go to chat GPT I am doing a podcast, or

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in fact, what I'm going to do, I'm going to

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post your message Hillary into here. So here is a

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message from one of my readers, readers, listeners of my podcast.

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I need help fulfilling this request for a new podcast

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in foe to be right, Let's see what it comes

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up with. So I just asked it a question and

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I'll just put your put Hillary's thing magic on there.

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Oh see, isn't it weird? This is the response that

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chat GBT has got to you. Hillary. That's such a

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touching message and what a lovely compliment. Being called a

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close friend and someone's never met sounds like a brilliant

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opportunity to do a trivia Tuesday menopause edition, bleeding and blending.

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So blend in some gentle info, a few silly facts,

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and your calming voice to ease the stress and maybe

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even make listeners chuckle as not off. Okay, So here's

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a fun light outline you could use for the episode.

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And I can help with writing a script too if

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you want. No, I don't need a script, but just

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some some facts, man. So that's what I'm going to do. Okay, right,

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So I've right, So here's the information. It's given the longest. Wow. Okay,

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fair enough please, so that's good. Thanks. Please list as

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many trivia facts as possible for a worldwide audience, because

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I'm guessing it might be different for different people and

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you might think, oh you mean by that? Well, I

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don't know. If I mentioned that I went to university

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a few years back. A part of my course, because

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so it was counseling was too. There's quite a lot

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of mental health psychology and stuff was part of the course,

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and we were looking at other countries and how they

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viewed and treated what other cultures really how they treated

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and viewed people with mental serious mental health issues that

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we would class as serious mental health issues. But they

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have different ways of treating it or different ways of

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explaining what's going on. Summers extreme as well. Yeah, I

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don't want to go into a BIS. It's pretty grim.

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But at the same time, it depends. You know, some

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people that would be in a facility in the West

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might be a guru in the East might be a

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guru to millions, followed by millions. So you know, it's

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it can be. And before anyone says that, I'm not

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talking about presidents or anything like that, okay, and just

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it can be. It's weird. It's a weird kind of thing, really,

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because Okay, here's the thing that I found interesting because

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I worked also part time in a mental health facility

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like a hospital sort of people that were locked in.

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Some were allowed to go out during the day sometimes,

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but you know, ultimately they were in a psychiatric but

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they were in a psychiatric facility, and I was just

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a care assistant or support assistant, and I was working

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with people that came from a part of the world.

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Now I'm generalizing here, very generalizing, but they didn't They

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generally from the way they were behaving, didn't think there

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was anything wrong with the people. They were just naughty

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or evil or had the devil in them and all

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that kind of stuff, and wrong type of people to

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be doing that job. And I wonder how many people

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doing that job are working in the mental health field, doctors,

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nurses and psychiatrists who actually don't believe in it. They

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don't believe in mental illness. They think the person's possessed,

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or they think that they're just putting it on or whatever.

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So which would explain some you know, sometimes how I

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was treated a few years ago, almost like laughed at.

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I did turn up dressed as a clown, but that's

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besides the point. So this and in a way, it's

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like you can have a man like, you know, helping

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you with your menopause if you're a woman, but the

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man's it doesn't matter how much knowledge he has, It

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doesn't matter how many he might have seventy five sisters

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all going through the menopause. He might be an expert

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on the menopause, but he's never going to know what

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it feels like. Doesn't mean he can't help, and he

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can't be brilliant at his job, but he's never going

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to know. And that empathy kind of I don't know

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if the empathy can be there. It definitely can't be

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there for me because I don't have any empathy. But

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I don't know it's you know, someone doesn't that someone

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doesn't have to have a heart problem to do a

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heart surgery, you know what I mean. That's obviously it's

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just it doesn't have to be going through it to

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understand or to help. But I do wonder with the

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for decades and decades and decades and decades, I imagine

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and I don't think it's a much of an imagination,

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and it's still going on now. I'm just sure that women,

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millions of women don't feel understood or don't feel I

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don't want the correct word is maybe they feel they're

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being disregarded or almost like it. It's just it's not

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real or it's imagined or dismissed by a man in

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their life, whether it's a son, whether it's a whoever,

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brother or a husband, boyfriend, father, even you know what

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I mean. It's so. But then there's the thing that

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we all experience things differently, So is that thing as well,

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isn't It's like, just because I'm a man doesn't mean

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that I know what it's like for someone else to

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have hemorrhoids. Now I'm taking hemorrhoids as a man's thing.

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I know whomen get hemorrhoids, but men, I think men

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are the king of hemorrhoids. I don't know what a

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stupid thing to say. So I don't know what it's

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like for someone else. I can know what it's like

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for me, but I don't know what it's like for

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someone else. I know what it's like for me to

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have bipolar. I do not know what it's like for

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someone else to have it because I go on to

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these Facebook pages, these groups, and I tell you what

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I see a lot of is a heck of a

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lot of people feel inside for themselves and also basically

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put in every single thing that happens in their life

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and everything that they do down to the bipolar. I've

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even seen posts like, you know what, when not get

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up in the morning, I'm hungry, must be a bipolar. No,

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it's because you've been asleep for nine hours or eight hours,

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and maybe you haven't eaten for twelve or thirteen hours.

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You're hungry because you're hungry, you know at nighttime, I

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just get tired, Yes, because you need to go to sleep.

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It's I mean might not might be the reason, it

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might not be the reason, but it's some of them

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groups I don't find they're particularly helpful. And there's a

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real thing on Facebook I've noticed where people post something

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like a for help maybe and then don't respond and

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all these people saying you're okay, You're okay, You're okay,

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you're okay, let me know you're okay, blah blah blah,

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and then the next day or two days later, oh yeah,

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I'm fine. I'm just just, you know, like just having

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a bad time worrying all these people, friends, family, probably

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all these people like. It happened to one of my

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Facebook people that I don't really know the person, but

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she's on my friends list, thought he's on my friends list,

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and I actually posted because they posted something that's very distressing,

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and I said, I posted, is there anyone that knows

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this person in real life that can actually either visit

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them or get them some help? Because the stuff they

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were posting was really out there, and a lot of

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it was political, and there's a lot of that I've noticed,

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and we do get that in this country, but it

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seems to have turned into some really really big us

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versus them situation and but black and white thinking. I don't.

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I don't think we have that much of it here.

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I mean there is, but it's like you always get

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the you always know when racism's coming because people always

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let you know we're not racist, but you know yours.

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There's there's always a warning when racism's coming. That's crazy.

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I don't hate women, but is I remember when I

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was at school, or even when I was in my

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twenties my thirties, the boat people. That was people who

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lived on boats. You know, there was like in China

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and in places in the East, there was whole villagers

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that lived on boats. That's what boat people were. Just

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it wasn't a slang, it wasn't a horrible term. It

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was just people lived on boats. And actually it seemed

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like quite a nice lifestyle. And it made sense because

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maybe they'd run out of land and the seas where

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the fishes, and that's where they'd like to eat. And

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the good thing is with the sea, you can eat

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and poo in the same place. Can't you basically eating

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poo in your kitchen. I don't know, it just always

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comes up. I don't know why. And yeah, now that world,

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the boat people keep coming over on a boat through

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It's like, wow, and what I'm going thing to do?

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A menopause? I'm seving a moan. Where do you notice that?

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This like word for word? And I'm thinking the way

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that religious scriptures were passed down through the ages before

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writing even existed, passed down through the ages word of mouth.

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And I used to think until recently, like what it's

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going to be. It's not going to be the same.

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It's going to you know, it's a whole thing about

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Chinese whispers, isn't it. Or if you do a fax

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or a photocopy, the original copy is really good and

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then it gets worse and worse and worse and worse

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over time, or if you keep sending the facts, it

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gets worse and worse quality because it just wears out

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and you don't get the good same quality as the

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original picture with the photocop here, probably because the ink

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runs out, so you don't get the original story. And

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that's how I kind of really consider any old story

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that's been written down that didn't get written down for

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maybe hundreds of years. It's just a story that's passed down.

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It's not going to be correct. But then I start thinking,

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you can literally predict what somebody's going to say when

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they start talking about coming over a ear on their boats,

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you know, and that sentence comes, you could almost predict

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the betim word for word.

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We know what a beta means.

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You could like what they're going to say coming over it,

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getting staying in a hotel, top class hotel, getting a

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brand new phone when they get in, or they always

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rip up their passports before they get in. What else?

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They get a new a million suitcase work with a

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million pounds of cash in it, and they get given

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a palace to live in, shoes made of gold, and

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you know, a year's supply of strawberries. That's random. It's

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like you can you can predict word for word. So

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maybe the idea that you can pass on a story

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and it stays exactly the same for hundreds of years,

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maybe that is a possibility. I don't believe it is,

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but maybe it is. I mean, I wrote, I mean,

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you know, rhymes can be ring your ring your roses,

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but then that's different depending on where you sing it.

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I've heard different versions of that. One pocket for poses

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a tissue shute earthl then, so apparently poses was like

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something people used to smell because I didn't have They

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didn't know about soap. Back then, I didn't have, didn't

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know about germs, didn't know germs existed, wasn't a thing.

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So if something smelled bad, just cover up the bad

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smell with perfume or with something that smelled nice, and

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that took away the problem a bit like me today

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when I when I go on a first date, shall

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I wash? I just spray some deodred on my crotch? Yeah,

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I think it's you can always tell. I could always

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always tell, Like usually if things are going well on

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a date, you know, I'm going back a while now.

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I haven't been on a date for a long time.

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But quite often I don't expect things to go well,

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and I kind of know beforehand. It's like, well, it's

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you know, it's it's a I don't know. But then

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there's other times when I really am surprised. And I

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remember once I was sitting there. I think it was

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a dinner. What it was in a pub. Maybe you're

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having lunch in even meal. Maybe I don't know it

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was in a it was in public anyway, and I'm

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sitting there and I'm thinking, you know what, there're two things.

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I'm thinking she might be the one, she might be

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my future wife and the person I spend the rest

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of my life loving. And I'm also thinking I wish

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I'd changed my underpens. So it's kind of it's hard

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to know, because sometimes the case of just spraying, isn't it, Well,

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that'll do. That will cover the the stank for a

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little while. It doesn't always work. But I do know

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someone that's particularly smay and they do that, and it seems,

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you know, actually does work a little bit. It. I

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think I've become immune to them. I don't know. Can

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you imagine if anyone's listening to this that knows me

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and are thinking, isn't he talking about me? Yes? I am. No,

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I'm not. I'm not really talking about anyone. I'm just

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being silly. So that was a bit weird. I went

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in a weird direction there, menopause. I shouldn't be. I

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shouldn't be, I should be sorry. I'm not laughing at me.

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I'm just laughing at the fact that I just announced

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it like it was a happy subject. Okay, right, get

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back to being normal. Okay, never been normal, Get back

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to being serious. I was like It's like it's like

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a new game show. Welcome to the menopause, right, So

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did you know do the work menopause comes from Greek men's? Wow,

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that's interesting. I'm not even being sarcastic here. Did you

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know that men's means month, so m e n s

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Men's means month in Greek? And pause this, which is

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p o u s i s means pause. So basically

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it's a pause from the month, you know, the monthly thing,

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which I should really be able to just talk about,

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considering I'm talking about menopause, but now I'm being all

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shy about periods. It's weird, isn't it. I mean, I should,

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I should make the most of this opportunity because I

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very when's the last time I got an opportunity to

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talk about this so object I don't even get a

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chance to even say the word periods, periods, periods, periods, periods, periods, periods, periods,

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period period periods, periods, periods, period period period periods of periods.

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I mean, I'm just might be at all way childish,

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but you know I would never do that. But I

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get a chance to just to talk about periods. I'm

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not that this is about periods. But the men a

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pause is a pause from the month, which is so

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it literally means monthly pause, like your body pressed in

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a snooze button. But forever it's not really a pause then,

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is it. It's more stop monthly stop. Maybe they didn't know.

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Maybe in Greek, in Greek Land they didn't know that.

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Maybe they didn't have a word for stop. I hope

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they did. And why is Greek so famous for I've

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never been to Greek, Greek and Greece, but it's very

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similar to Greece. It's the whole big statues of big

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muscly men. Yeah, Greek, And what's the other place that

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was similar to that? I don't know. So it's basically

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a pause from the monthlies. I don't know if it's

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called the monthlies anymore. I don't. I mean again, I

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don't know what it's like to have a you know, period,

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I can say it kind of period period period. Didn't

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learn anything about this stuff at school, really didn't, and

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I didn't know because Unfoughtuately. I get on really well

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with women I just happened to for some reason. But

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only women that I'm not dating, only women that don't

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get to see me naked. They're the ones that like

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talking to me. And so I've got quite a few

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women that I talked to, you know, just walking a

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dog or a couple of friends. I've got that female

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and they do tell me stuff about this and got

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into big detail, you know, about that part of the body,

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really kind of things that not only do I didn't know,

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not only things that I probably never was going to

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find out about, what was the things I never wanted

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to know about, and that seemed to please them and

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make them laugh. So yeah, and I couldn't tell them

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anything about a male's body that they didn't know about.

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And that's that's one of those things that I've never

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quite got my head around. Is and I'm going to generalize,

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but I'm going to talk about pretty much every single

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woman I've ever known, so open to medical stuff, so

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open minded to it, very factual about it. And I

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am not. I am Yeah, I am squeamish about anything

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really to do with the body generally, unless it's like

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a pleasure thing. I don't know what pleasure thing would be.

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I suppose my age, the most pleasurable thing I can

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do is if I can get a whole stream of

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we uninterrupted. That's a pleasurables's a that's a good sign.

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If I can go through the whole night without even

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get up for the toilet, I don't remember the last

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time that happened. That's like a once a year thing.

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But then it hasn't happened for decades, to be fair,

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well maybe not decades, but it happens less and less.

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But last night only got up once. Then he might think,

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why are you telling us about your wei wi in?

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Why do you want to know about your toilet habits? Well,

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if I've got to talk about periods and menopause, I'm

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going to talk about my bomb. So there. Did I

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ever tell you about my dad's bumb? He He used

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to always tell us stuff when he was eating. When

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when we're eating at the dinner table, I'm talking, you know,

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not when I was a kid, but when when I

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was like in my twenties, thirties, forty. You know, for decades,

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he would go on about his piles, his hemorrhoids. Not

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every lunch, I'm saying that every Sunday dinner. He would

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talk about it. Every special occasion he would talk about

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his bum, No not, but he would talk about them,

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and he found it funny because he knew like it

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made me feel. It didn't. It wasn't pleasant. And once

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he was actually talking about an operation he'd had because

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he'd had a lot of problems with it, and a

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lot of it was just due to the fact that

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he was constantly lifting heavy things in his work, and

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that was it. He was lifting things way too heavy,

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and he just that's what it caused, cause problems. It's

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just vericus veins of the bun hole, isn't it. I

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thought it is not all it is, but it's you know,

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it's not. It's I'm like, yeah, I don't want to

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talk about mine, but I'll talk about my dad's. It's weird,

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isn't it. But I'm not talking about his. I don't

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want to focus on his bum. But I mean, this

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is this is a true story, right he was talking

465
00:41:31.639 --> 00:41:34.719
and as we're talking about the menopause and we're talking

466
00:41:34.719 --> 00:41:39.639
about bits and bobs, I won't even I can't even

467
00:41:39.719 --> 00:41:47.199
say the word, but parts of the body. I I

468
00:41:47.239 --> 00:41:53.639
will tell you this story. I might have told it before. Well, basically,

469
00:41:55.079 --> 00:41:59.320
Vinnie and Binnie and Bennie. Vinnie started barking to go

470
00:41:59.440 --> 00:42:08.400
out for a walk and a you know, a bathroom break.

471
00:42:10.079 --> 00:42:16.679
So I went out. It's always friend Archie. So I

472
00:42:16.719 --> 00:42:25.159
had a little sniff around and now I'm back a

473
00:42:25.199 --> 00:42:32.440
little bit of a disruption. They It was weird because

474
00:42:33.440 --> 00:42:37.719
at one point I'm just like, you know, Archie's gone in,

475
00:42:38.239 --> 00:42:43.079
gone home. Vinnie's sniffing all over a bit of grass

476
00:42:43.559 --> 00:42:48.719
opposite where I live, eating some of the grass as well.

477
00:42:48.760 --> 00:42:53.039
He loves to eat grass. And I was like saying,

478
00:42:53.119 --> 00:43:00.639
come on, you please do a pooh please. I'm following

479
00:43:00.679 --> 00:43:04.440
it around with an empty poop bag on my hand,

480
00:43:04.679 --> 00:43:08.639
like ready to pick it up. And he looked up

481
00:43:08.639 --> 00:43:11.039
at me. He said, you know, you know what you

482
00:43:11.079 --> 00:43:14.159
look like? I said, what, so? Do you look like

483
00:43:14.239 --> 00:43:23.039
the world's worst vaniloquist. That tickled him and I said, okay,

484
00:43:23.360 --> 00:43:27.840
while we're being insulting, while you're being naughty, perhaps we

485
00:43:27.880 --> 00:43:30.960
should talk about you trying to eat food out of

486
00:43:31.000 --> 00:43:33.639
the bin. And he said, what's the problem. I said,

487
00:43:33.800 --> 00:43:37.320
I said, look, you've got it's not you can't do that.

488
00:43:37.360 --> 00:43:43.559
You cannot eat food out of the bin. It's wrong.

489
00:43:46.320 --> 00:43:53.119
He said why, I said, it's just dogs. Shouldn't he

490
00:43:53.239 --> 00:43:57.719
have a bin? He said, what's your excuse then, like,

491
00:43:57.920 --> 00:44:00.920
I don't eat. I don't eat out the bin. He said, yes,

492
00:44:01.000 --> 00:44:06.559
saw you do it? I said once once. So my

493
00:44:06.679 --> 00:44:12.800
dad's talking about his piles at the dinner table Sunday dinner,

494
00:44:14.360 --> 00:44:21.320
probably the birthday celebration or Christmas or something like that,

495
00:44:21.599 --> 00:44:28.679
probably thinking about it, probably a birthday celebration. And I decided, okay,

496
00:44:28.800 --> 00:44:33.280
I'm trying to eat. I mean, I've got a Yorkshire

497
00:44:33.320 --> 00:44:38.280
pudding with some gravy in it, and there's a hole

498
00:44:38.320 --> 00:44:40.639
in the Yorkshire pudding. And I'm thinking, you know, just

499
00:44:40.679 --> 00:44:44.239
come on. And a couple of carrots started around, now,

500
00:44:44.280 --> 00:44:48.639
come on, can you stop talking about that? And I

501
00:44:48.760 --> 00:44:51.199
was ad some tomatoes source, so just yeah, it was like,

502
00:44:51.280 --> 00:44:54.400
come on, please stop talking about that. So I thought

503
00:44:54.559 --> 00:45:01.960
I'll change the subject. So I said, oh, okay, because

504
00:45:02.000 --> 00:45:07.960
you know, after going into really real details about his

505
00:45:08.199 --> 00:45:12.599
piles and the operation he'd had. So I said, Dad, again,

506
00:45:12.800 --> 00:45:15.760
change in the subject. Who are you going to who

507
00:45:15.760 --> 00:45:17.320
did you vote for? Who are you going to vote

508
00:45:17.320 --> 00:45:20.679
for for the coming upcoming election? He said, I can't

509
00:45:20.719 --> 00:45:31.000
tell you that. That's personal. That's personal. We're at the

510
00:45:31.039 --> 00:45:35.039
dinner table. You spent the last hour going into great

511
00:45:35.119 --> 00:45:41.159
detail about your bum, the adventures of you and your bum.

512
00:45:41.320 --> 00:45:44.480
And you say that who you're going to vote for

513
00:45:44.679 --> 00:45:48.599
is personal. Can you imagine if someone listened to this

514
00:45:48.679 --> 00:45:51.559
thinking it is personal. It's my own abution? Is no

515
00:45:51.559 --> 00:45:59.440
one else is my democratic right? Okay? The average age

516
00:45:59.840 --> 00:46:04.360
for menopause is about fifty one, but it can happen

517
00:46:04.400 --> 00:46:08.519
anytime between early forties and late fifties, like a surprise party.

518
00:46:08.599 --> 00:46:13.039
You didn't what it's trying to add in this little

519
00:46:13.079 --> 00:46:14.960
bit of human are it just says, like a surprise

520
00:46:15.079 --> 00:46:22.079
party you didn't ask for. Wow, that's a bit rude. Wow,

521
00:46:23.039 --> 00:46:26.639
early forties. I knew someone that went through their menopause

522
00:46:26.840 --> 00:46:30.920
early thirties, like late thirties. Sorry, So it can be.

523
00:46:31.039 --> 00:46:34.960
You know, people go through different things different times. And

524
00:46:35.079 --> 00:46:38.679
there was a girl I worked with. She was for

525
00:46:38.719 --> 00:46:43.559
about twenty one twenty two, and she went completely gray

526
00:46:44.239 --> 00:46:52.880
at the age of sixteen, like completely gray, and she

527
00:46:52.880 --> 00:46:57.599
she dyed her hair, although because in them days you

528
00:46:57.639 --> 00:47:02.480
didn't see young women with gray hair. But nowadays or

529
00:47:02.760 --> 00:47:05.679
in more recent years, it's been a trend to actually

530
00:47:05.880 --> 00:47:10.559
dye the hair gray, which is, yes, just another trend

531
00:47:10.559 --> 00:47:13.639
that I've not part of. Well, I've come more part

532
00:47:13.679 --> 00:47:16.440
of that here, maybe a little bit part of that trend.

533
00:47:18.880 --> 00:47:24.239
Although I remember I had a job in a cour

534
00:47:24.320 --> 00:47:32.760
center and it's in November. I don't just I feel

535
00:47:32.760 --> 00:47:39.679
I only just started the job, I think. And a woman,

536
00:47:39.800 --> 00:47:42.280
one of the women in the desks said to me,

537
00:47:42.679 --> 00:47:47.360
very loudly, pointed to my beard, my big beard, and said,

538
00:47:47.920 --> 00:47:53.280
are you just doing that as a dare? I said what?

539
00:47:55.239 --> 00:47:58.239
And she backtracks, Oh, I don't mean it disrespectfully. I

540
00:47:58.280 --> 00:47:59.920
thought maybe you were just doing it to raise my

541
00:48:00.199 --> 00:48:04.400
for charity. I said, that's not even that's no better really,

542
00:48:05.519 --> 00:48:07.920
so we're all about it, said, I thought, maybe you

543
00:48:07.920 --> 00:48:10.440
were just raising money for you know, you've grown your

544
00:48:10.480 --> 00:48:15.000
beard ridiculously big to as like a joke, or maybe

545
00:48:15.039 --> 00:48:18.920
to raise money for a good cause. I said, that's

546
00:48:18.960 --> 00:48:28.159
just a beard. She said, oh, that's the whole story. Really.

547
00:48:30.400 --> 00:48:39.000
In Japan, menopause is called krnenki, which I possibly shouldn't

548
00:48:39.039 --> 00:48:43.199
have done with an accent, which roughly translates to renewal years,

549
00:48:45.840 --> 00:48:49.519
renewal years. That's a gentle way of saying it, isn't

550
00:48:49.559 --> 00:49:00.400
it renewal years? I like that, And they're did their

551
00:49:00.400 --> 00:49:03.400
own material here. Sounds like a spa retreat, but with

552
00:49:03.440 --> 00:49:10.440
hot flushes. Chatch Ebert is getting very cheeky these days.

553
00:49:11.840 --> 00:49:17.719
I just realized I'm hungry. In India, many women don't

554
00:49:17.760 --> 00:49:22.039
even have a word for men pause in their local language.

555
00:49:22.679 --> 00:49:26.599
It's just called the change. Like a mysterious weather front

556
00:49:26.760 --> 00:49:31.280
rolling in. It used to be called the change here.

557
00:49:31.119 --> 00:49:32.599
Didn't it.

558
00:49:32.599 --> 00:49:38.920
It's going through the change, because there's there's different We

559
00:49:39.000 --> 00:49:43.360
go through different changes, don't we in life. I mean,

560
00:49:46.480 --> 00:49:49.159
I just you see some kids and it's almost like

561
00:49:49.199 --> 00:49:51.920
they stay the same size. They're born with these big,

562
00:49:52.039 --> 00:49:55.920
huge heads and little bodies, and like, how on earth

563
00:49:57.599 --> 00:50:00.480
does the head stay on the state do they keep

564
00:50:00.480 --> 00:50:00.840
their head on?

565
00:50:01.000 --> 00:50:01.119
How?

566
00:50:01.480 --> 00:50:07.880
Like? Just it shows how strong the neck is. And

567
00:50:07.920 --> 00:50:10.800
then they get to an age where the the head

568
00:50:11.239 --> 00:50:14.920
is kind of in proportion with the body, and they

569
00:50:14.960 --> 00:50:19.639
stay at that size for what seems like forever. And

570
00:50:19.679 --> 00:50:23.239
then suddenly, and I'm not talking about puberty, but just

571
00:50:23.280 --> 00:50:26.199
like there's got a period of what I know, from

572
00:50:26.239 --> 00:50:30.800
eight or nine and suddenly they kind of grow. So

573
00:50:30.840 --> 00:50:35.880
there's it's like different periods in growth. And then it's

574
00:50:35.960 --> 00:50:46.519
the obviously the adolescence period. I'm trying to think, what

575
00:50:46.840 --> 00:50:50.159
kind of periods we go through. Now I've got to

576
00:50:50.159 --> 00:50:53.320
say the word period I can't stop got through.

577
00:50:55.719 --> 00:50:56.280
There is that.

578
00:51:01.400 --> 00:51:06.159
It's got to be difficult because I know that, like

579
00:51:06.559 --> 00:51:09.239
if said I go on YouTube, there's a lot of

580
00:51:10.239 --> 00:51:14.000
a lot of misogyny on there at the moment, and

581
00:51:16.039 --> 00:51:19.000
it's very I can't really know where it's all coming from,

582
00:51:19.000 --> 00:51:22.440
but I think it's is to do a TikTok and

583
00:51:22.519 --> 00:51:29.840
only fans and the I guess the superficiality of the

584
00:51:29.840 --> 00:51:37.360
Internet and some people that are young that wasn't really

585
00:51:37.440 --> 00:51:42.679
addressed before. It was kind of just people a bit

586
00:51:42.760 --> 00:51:46.400
more sharing with how they feel and what's in their mind,

587
00:51:47.320 --> 00:51:50.360
and they couldn't do that before before the Internet. Before

588
00:51:51.360 --> 00:51:55.599
maybe TikTok because people would go on YouTube and do it,

589
00:51:55.639 --> 00:52:00.519
but that was more long form TikTok ss to it's

590
00:52:00.599 --> 00:52:04.239
kind of or Instagram or I don't know when any

591
00:52:04.280 --> 00:52:10.280
of the others that I don't know about where they

592
00:52:10.280 --> 00:52:13.199
can just share what they're feeling, which I don't think

593
00:52:13.239 --> 00:52:18.159
is a bad thing. But then if I went onto

594
00:52:18.280 --> 00:52:23.840
Instagram or to TikTok, to TikTok and I shared what

595
00:52:23.920 --> 00:52:28.719
I was thinking and feeling, depending on what time of

596
00:52:28.760 --> 00:52:30.880
the day, it was, it would be a different message,

597
00:52:30.920 --> 00:52:37.440
it would be a different recording, a different video, And

598
00:52:37.599 --> 00:52:39.559
that probably wouldn't be a good thing for me to do,

599
00:52:40.360 --> 00:52:41.760
because if I went on when I was in a

600
00:52:41.760 --> 00:52:50.559
bad mood. Oh you know, so I suppose as we

601
00:52:50.639 --> 00:52:56.840
get older, I say we, I mean, I'm probably not

602
00:52:56.880 --> 00:53:01.239
the best person to judge anyone for opening up about

603
00:53:01.239 --> 00:53:03.480
what's going on, because I tend to do that. Myself

604
00:53:06.519 --> 00:53:14.079
wasn't quite as open as my dad was about as piles. Yeah,

605
00:53:14.079 --> 00:53:15.440
there's a lot of judgment. There need to be a

606
00:53:15.440 --> 00:53:20.360
lot of judgment at the moment. But then, you know

607
00:53:20.440 --> 00:53:22.400
what I'm just thinking about it, if I was, if

608
00:53:22.400 --> 00:53:26.519
I put myself inside a young woman, if I was,

609
00:53:28.440 --> 00:53:30.960
I should rephrase that if I was, if I was,

610
00:53:32.280 --> 00:53:35.599
you know, a nineteen year old, twenty year old, eighteen

611
00:53:35.679 --> 00:53:39.280
year old, twenty two year old whatever, female who's having

612
00:53:41.280 --> 00:53:48.440
NonStop attention from males like wherever they go, knowing that

613
00:53:49.440 --> 00:53:53.039
have you know, it's I've never been in that situation.

614
00:53:55.719 --> 00:53:57.719
I've had a few men fight over me, but you know,

615
00:53:57.800 --> 00:54:03.840
I'm just generally not regularly. It's gonna have an effect

616
00:54:04.039 --> 00:54:09.360
on the ego, like a big effect. It might not

617
00:54:09.440 --> 00:54:17.280
be negative, but it's gonna be. It's gonna I think

618
00:54:17.280 --> 00:54:22.559
it'd be hard to see reality or hard to really

619
00:54:22.679 --> 00:54:28.599
perceive what's going to happen in the future. The fact

620
00:54:28.679 --> 00:54:36.960
that you know, we change and things change and whatever.

621
00:54:37.159 --> 00:54:45.719
You know, nothing stays the same. So can we really

622
00:54:45.840 --> 00:54:49.280
judge someone for enjoying it while it lasts because it

623
00:54:49.320 --> 00:54:57.239
doesn't last so long? Capus on black currant, h mm hmmm.

624
00:55:00.639 --> 00:55:04.559
I had my few little periods when I was semi

625
00:55:04.599 --> 00:55:09.039
popular with women. I don't know, not all women, but

626
00:55:09.079 --> 00:55:19.599
I had my little mojo moments that lasted a few years.

627
00:55:19.960 --> 00:55:23.679
They were well and truly gone my mojo. I think

628
00:55:24.280 --> 00:55:26.880
my mojo left me in what I left my mojo

629
00:55:26.960 --> 00:55:30.000
in London as soon as I moved away from London.

630
00:55:30.920 --> 00:55:36.159
Wherever I had going for me left I don't know

631
00:55:36.159 --> 00:55:42.280
what it was. Whether it's charisma, whether it's the ability

632
00:55:42.360 --> 00:55:46.239
to talk to women like in a kind of a

633
00:55:46.280 --> 00:55:50.960
social setting, I don't know. But that went never really

634
00:55:50.960 --> 00:55:57.199
got it back, so twenty five years, I wouldn't even

635
00:55:57.320 --> 00:56:01.280
know how. I was never a chatter upper, I can

636
00:56:01.360 --> 00:56:07.840
never you know. It was usually if women came up

637
00:56:07.880 --> 00:56:10.519
to me and I could talk to them and maybe

638
00:56:10.679 --> 00:56:15.639
make them laugh or whatever, but I generally wasn't you know,

639
00:56:17.719 --> 00:56:19.880
I didn't have a huge amount to offer to be fair,

640
00:56:21.280 --> 00:56:25.440
so I had to pretend to have a personality in

641
00:56:25.519 --> 00:56:29.840
a hope that maybe they feel sorry for me. And

642
00:56:30.119 --> 00:56:34.880
I don't know what I'm talking about. Hot flushes or

643
00:56:35.000 --> 00:56:40.880
hot flashes. Hot flashes, okay, can happen at any time

644
00:56:41.199 --> 00:56:45.679
during work, in bed, in a freezer aisle, even while

645
00:56:45.719 --> 00:56:53.480
walking your dog, so I've known. I think they've added

646
00:56:53.599 --> 00:57:00.519
in a freezer ale as a joke, so I haven't

647
00:57:02.360 --> 00:57:09.320
had hot flushes. I got a bit overheated in the past,

648
00:57:11.440 --> 00:57:15.840
you know, really kind of like wow, the firm stat's gone.

649
00:57:16.519 --> 00:57:21.800
And that's more often would be in the summer. Although

650
00:57:21.800 --> 00:57:24.280
I was doing the vacuuming, cleaning, the you know, doing

651
00:57:24.440 --> 00:57:27.119
the hoovering earlier today because I had a bit of

652
00:57:27.119 --> 00:57:30.719
a cleanup, trying to tidy this place up. So I

653
00:57:30.760 --> 00:57:36.599
probably spent about an hour doing that. And I was dripping. Okay,

654
00:57:36.599 --> 00:57:40.519
should I rephrase that parts of me were dripping? That

655
00:57:40.559 --> 00:57:43.519
doesn't sound better. I was sweating, That's what I mean.

656
00:57:43.559 --> 00:57:49.360
I was like, really four, I felt very overheated, and

657
00:57:49.679 --> 00:57:51.440
it's then when I thought I'm going to turn the

658
00:57:51.480 --> 00:57:54.920
heating off or down. Didn't even know the heating was on.

659
00:57:57.760 --> 00:58:01.480
But I couldn't get the vacuum cleaner working. It was full,

660
00:58:01.679 --> 00:58:04.400
so that's why it wasn't working. So I emptied it

661
00:58:05.599 --> 00:58:07.440
and then I put it back together, put the lid

662
00:58:07.480 --> 00:58:10.480
back on, and it wasn't doing anything. Like there was

663
00:58:10.599 --> 00:58:17.719
no suckage, no suckage at all. And you know, it's

664
00:58:17.760 --> 00:58:20.880
something doesn't suck. It's not If it doesn't suck, it's

665
00:58:20.920 --> 00:58:24.480
not really it's not worth having around, is it. It's like,

666
00:58:24.559 --> 00:58:28.880
what's the point? But then I thought, it's not an

667
00:58:28.880 --> 00:58:33.039
old vacuum cleaner though it's not new, but I've had

668
00:58:33.039 --> 00:58:38.519
it probably about five five years. Maybe it's been used

669
00:58:38.519 --> 00:58:44.400
about three times. So I don't like ah. So I

670
00:58:44.480 --> 00:58:47.360
had to go back into the mode of being a cleaner.

671
00:58:48.599 --> 00:58:50.800
So I used to be a cleaner. I've had quite

672
00:58:50.800 --> 00:58:55.679
a few different cleaning jobs in my twenties so well

673
00:58:55.760 --> 00:58:58.679
am my teens as well. So I went through the

674
00:58:58.719 --> 00:59:01.559
process of all the different things I needed to do

675
00:59:02.000 --> 00:59:05.159
to get the vacuum cleaner working again. So I took

676
00:59:05.199 --> 00:59:12.920
it apart and bashed out, bashed bashed out the you

677
00:59:12.960 --> 00:59:15.559
know the thing, the filter things. I went outside and

678
00:59:15.760 --> 00:59:26.440
got all that clear. I then used a broomstick to

679
00:59:26.559 --> 00:59:32.679
make sure that every single pipe was clear as well. Yeah,

680
00:59:32.719 --> 00:59:35.880
it took a good like twenty minutes half an hour

681
00:59:36.239 --> 00:59:39.079
to make sure everything was all clear and clear, clear

682
00:59:39.119 --> 00:59:44.519
and clean, clear and clear and clear. And then it

683
00:59:44.519 --> 00:59:54.679
worked fine, like really good and possibly one of the

684
00:59:54.719 --> 00:59:59.719
proudest moments of my life. And that's when I realized

685
00:59:59.760 --> 01:00:04.639
that I need to make some changes. If I can

686
01:00:04.679 --> 01:00:11.719
feel that good about clearing the tubes of a vacuum

687
01:00:11.760 --> 01:00:19.719
cleaner from blockages, if I can feel that accomplished from

688
01:00:19.760 --> 01:00:28.840
doing something like that, perhaps I need a hobby. You know,

689
01:00:33.199 --> 01:00:38.239
I was sweating, proper sweating, but I managed. Because it's

690
01:00:38.800 --> 01:00:44.239
recycling rubbish this week, so I've been going through that.

691
01:00:44.320 --> 01:00:47.920
I've got a black bag of rubbish, but there's only

692
01:00:48.480 --> 01:00:50.519
stuff from the vacuum cleaner in there at the moment.

693
01:00:50.559 --> 01:00:52.599
But I do have some stuff in the kitchen to

694
01:00:52.639 --> 01:00:56.639
get rid of also that basket, so I'm going to

695
01:00:56.679 --> 01:01:01.480
put that out in the dustin hubboard before it gets

696
01:01:01.719 --> 01:01:05.920
dark tonight, but that won't be taken until next week.

697
01:01:07.440 --> 01:01:09.760
Just make sure. I now make sure that there's nothing

698
01:01:09.800 --> 01:01:13.480
with my name on it or my address in any

699
01:01:13.519 --> 01:01:16.679
bags that I put out, whether it's recycling all the

700
01:01:16.719 --> 01:01:23.000
black bags, the bin bags, because yeah, this is important.

701
01:01:23.480 --> 01:01:27.360
I didn't used to care, didn't used to care. But

702
01:01:27.519 --> 01:01:30.480
now ever since I saw the bin man going through

703
01:01:30.480 --> 01:01:34.039
the bags, looking through addresses in order to give me

704
01:01:34.079 --> 01:01:38.159
a fine, I thought, oh nope. And even I'm friends

705
01:01:38.159 --> 01:01:40.559
with a black now I'm friendly with him and he,

706
01:01:40.880 --> 01:01:43.400
you know, wasn't his fault. It just thought, no, I can't.

707
01:01:43.559 --> 01:01:46.239
I can't put myself in that position, because if I've

708
01:01:46.239 --> 01:01:48.039
got a letter through the post saying, oh, we're going

709
01:01:48.119 --> 01:01:49.760
to find you two hundred and fifty pounds because you

710
01:01:49.800 --> 01:01:54.519
put your rubbish out a day early, I don't know

711
01:01:54.559 --> 01:02:00.639
what the outcome would be, you know. I remember once

712
01:02:00.679 --> 01:02:04.800
the council sent me a letter saying you didn't. We

713
01:02:04.840 --> 01:02:08.679
couldn't get in to your flat, We couldn't gain access

714
01:02:08.719 --> 01:02:17.920
to your flat to check your meter. And the letter

715
01:02:19.159 --> 01:02:24.320
came the day after. The letter telling me they were

716
01:02:24.320 --> 01:02:27.920
coming came the day after, And then a week later

717
01:02:27.920 --> 01:02:31.159
I got a letter saying you didn't. We didn't turn up.

718
01:02:32.119 --> 01:02:33.559
You know, you couldn't get in, so I didn't know

719
01:02:33.599 --> 01:02:40.440
they were coming. And they said in the letter. If

720
01:02:40.480 --> 01:02:43.320
you don't answer the doll this time, we will send

721
01:02:44.000 --> 01:02:47.719
we will break the door, We will break in because

722
01:02:47.760 --> 01:02:52.239
we need to check the not the meter, the gas boiler,

723
01:02:52.760 --> 01:02:54.880
which I understand they have to check the gas boiler,

724
01:02:58.199 --> 01:02:59.880
but it was a little bit threatening, like we have

725
01:02:59.880 --> 01:03:02.400
to break in and you'll have to pay for the charges,

726
01:03:02.519 --> 01:03:11.360
the cost of the the the key break in thief

727
01:03:11.639 --> 01:03:17.239
person that they get to break the lock, and so

728
01:03:17.440 --> 01:03:21.280
I yeah, that was weird. I was just like, what

729
01:03:21.880 --> 01:03:27.360
are you Are you serious? Are you serious your friend

730
01:03:27.400 --> 01:03:31.559
to break into my home? Ironic really, because they could

731
01:03:31.599 --> 01:03:33.920
have just pushed the door open, because that's when we

732
01:03:33.920 --> 01:03:39.639
had the old counselor doors. I didn't even know that

733
01:03:39.719 --> 01:03:44.719
they were weak, really weak to how I found out

734
01:03:46.039 --> 01:03:48.840
the second time I locked myself out. The first time

735
01:03:48.840 --> 01:03:53.480
I locked myself out, I was probably about six months

736
01:03:53.519 --> 01:03:59.079
into living are maybe a year. Called the council and

737
01:03:59.119 --> 01:04:03.679
they came and I said, a locksmith and let me in.

738
01:04:05.199 --> 01:04:13.920
The second time I locked myself out, I was basically

739
01:04:14.079 --> 01:04:19.719
calling the counsel up again and I leaned on the

740
01:04:19.760 --> 01:04:25.679
door and it opened. Literally. I mean, you say, well,

741
01:04:25.679 --> 01:04:28.760
that's because I was so fat and heavy. Maybe that

742
01:04:28.920 --> 01:04:31.760
was part of the Yeah, that was a benefit maybe,

743
01:04:31.760 --> 01:04:40.760
but it literally just had to push on it. It's wow,

744
01:04:41.199 --> 01:04:44.039
these doors, they are not good. And I think the

745
01:04:44.159 --> 01:04:47.000
reason for it is it had just been pushed in

746
01:04:47.079 --> 01:04:51.360
too many times over the decades or whatever. That door

747
01:04:51.400 --> 01:04:58.360
had probably been there since late seventies, so I was

748
01:04:58.360 --> 01:05:02.800
that with your gears, maybe they've got a new door

749
01:05:02.840 --> 01:05:04.800
every twenty years, but it's still been there a long

750
01:05:04.840 --> 01:05:10.159
long time. And it was one of those that had

751
01:05:10.159 --> 01:05:16.400
the glass in it and with the lines through, so

752
01:05:16.480 --> 01:05:22.159
it's sort of supposed to be really good glass, you know,

753
01:05:22.239 --> 01:05:25.280
so you couldn't break in, but the door could just

754
01:05:25.320 --> 01:05:30.880
be pushed open. It's ridiculous. It was really. And my

755
01:05:31.000 --> 01:05:34.679
neighbor he locked himself out of his door because he's

756
01:05:34.719 --> 01:05:39.159
basically if he closed them, they locked, you know. He didn't.

757
01:05:39.199 --> 01:05:42.199
There was no like locking it afterwards. Like the doors here,

758
01:05:42.519 --> 01:05:45.000
you have to lock it afterwards when you get out.

759
01:05:46.639 --> 01:05:51.719
And I said, okay, just what I said, watch this.

760
01:05:52.000 --> 01:05:55.639
He said, what. I just pushed it and it opened

761
01:05:57.119 --> 01:06:00.760
and he could believe it. I said, yeah, I don't

762
01:06:00.760 --> 01:06:03.960
go around telling everyone you could do that. But it

763
01:06:04.039 --> 01:06:08.440
was ridiculous. They're so flimsy those doors. I mean they're

764
01:06:08.440 --> 01:06:10.719
gone now, but this is I mean, I've had this

765
01:06:10.840 --> 01:06:15.039
new one for years and years now and it's got

766
01:06:15.119 --> 01:06:19.440
like six locks or whatever or connected to the things.

767
01:06:19.519 --> 01:06:27.119
It's proper sturdy. But they said to me, ah, do

768
01:06:27.119 --> 01:06:31.119
you want them with a window? I said, no, why not?

769
01:06:31.880 --> 01:06:33.719
Because I don't want people to know what I'm in.

770
01:06:34.760 --> 01:06:40.159
What's the point in me like not answering the door,

771
01:06:40.360 --> 01:06:43.119
but tend I'm not in if the light's on and

772
01:06:43.159 --> 01:06:47.280
they can see the lights on, why don't you just

773
01:06:47.400 --> 01:06:49.400
answer your door? I don't want to answer the door.

774
01:06:49.440 --> 01:06:51.280
That's the whole point of having a door, isn't it.

775
01:06:52.039 --> 01:06:54.679
I might as well just not have a door, you know,

776
01:06:54.800 --> 01:06:56.440
just take the door off, let people just come and

777
01:06:56.480 --> 01:06:58.719
go as they please. It's the whole point of having

778
01:06:58.760 --> 01:07:04.079
a door to stop people coming in. That's that's my

779
01:07:04.239 --> 01:07:14.840
mentality sometimes. So hot flushes, Yeah, that's gotta be. That's

780
01:07:14.840 --> 01:07:17.480
one of the only things I really like, one of

781
01:07:17.480 --> 01:07:19.719
the things I've heard about, and I think it's probably

782
01:07:19.760 --> 01:07:24.480
something that's quite well known with the menopause just for men,

783
01:07:24.639 --> 01:07:28.840
like hot flushes, because it is something that I think

784
01:07:28.880 --> 01:07:33.760
probably most men have heard about, and not that we

785
01:07:33.880 --> 01:07:39.840
understand it, but like, but number six, not every woman

786
01:07:39.880 --> 01:07:48.440
gets hot flushes. Then it says some just get mood swings,

787
01:07:48.559 --> 01:07:51.280
insomnia or the sudden urge to throw a frying pan

788
01:07:51.440 --> 01:07:57.840
at the TV, see all that stuff. I understand not

789
01:07:57.960 --> 01:08:01.119
so much the insomnia, because I'm pretty got that under control.

790
01:08:02.800 --> 01:08:09.480
But mood swings. BlimE me. So I understand about mood swings.

791
01:08:10.679 --> 01:08:15.639
Mine's due to bipolar and the personality disorder. But my

792
01:08:15.639 --> 01:08:21.039
my mood swings go like up and down like all

793
01:08:21.119 --> 01:08:27.920
day long. Sometimes sometimes it's quite steady, but yeah, it's

794
01:08:27.960 --> 01:08:31.039
it's quite weird. I got that. So there's the bipolar,

795
01:08:32.239 --> 01:08:35.239
which is this isn't supposed to be about you and

796
01:08:35.279 --> 01:08:36.960
your bipolar.

797
01:08:37.479 --> 01:08:39.159
It's supposed to be about menopause.

798
01:08:39.560 --> 01:08:46.800
Why do you always make it about you? Sorry? But

799
01:08:47.560 --> 01:08:49.640
by the bipolar do it? Anyone's still going to talk

800
01:08:49.640 --> 01:08:54.119
about it. The bipolar is kind of I'm more prone

801
01:08:54.239 --> 01:08:58.159
to the lows than the highest one medication for it all,

802
01:08:58.760 --> 01:09:02.640
but more prone to the low. But it can fluctuate.

803
01:09:03.720 --> 01:09:06.920
I can get mixed states as well. The mixed states

804
01:09:06.960 --> 01:09:11.479
are the weirdest ones. It's almost like I'm destructive, but

805
01:09:11.520 --> 01:09:16.520
I've got a lot of energy to do. The destructive

806
01:09:16.560 --> 01:09:26.039
thing and almost like it's weird. It's it's like the

807
01:09:26.119 --> 01:09:35.840
destructive thing. Although negative, it's pleasurable in the past, as

808
01:09:35.880 --> 01:09:38.680
this is a fairly serious let me buoy to sleep.

809
01:09:39.000 --> 01:09:42.000
I used to punch walls and I used to self injure.

810
01:09:42.039 --> 01:09:46.199
That's what I used to do, and I haven't had

811
01:09:46.239 --> 01:09:51.239
a like even in my thirties. I had boxing glove

812
01:09:51.880 --> 01:09:55.680
and I used to punch myself in the face, usually

813
01:09:55.680 --> 01:10:01.239
when I was drinking that tea was strong. I'll tell you,

814
01:10:02.359 --> 01:10:04.319
but it's weird, I said, I don't do stuff like

815
01:10:04.359 --> 01:10:07.039
that anymore. But you know, it took me a long

816
01:10:07.119 --> 01:10:11.479
time to get to sort of move on from that.

817
01:10:12.720 --> 01:10:23.079
And but the mixed ones, that destructiveness and having that energy,

818
01:10:24.159 --> 01:10:26.720
that's it. Knows this Three things I did in that

819
01:10:26.760 --> 01:10:30.199
situation in the well, more than three things, but three

820
01:10:30.199 --> 01:10:32.760
things that I can remember. One is I spent two

821
01:10:33.000 --> 01:10:38.079
days destroying all my books. Another one I spent nearly

822
01:10:38.159 --> 01:10:46.000
all day destroying my My journals are diaries from about

823
01:10:46.039 --> 01:10:51.439
twenty years worth of diaries pads that I've been writing

824
01:10:51.479 --> 01:10:56.239
in since the age of eighteen, and this is when

825
01:10:56.239 --> 01:11:00.720
I was about forty one. So I gives you an

826
01:11:00.760 --> 01:11:04.920
idea kind of. Yeah, it's quite a long time, isn't it.

827
01:11:05.039 --> 01:11:07.920
So these are two different occasions. The other one is

828
01:11:08.039 --> 01:11:14.279
I deleted my YouTube channel and I've had a few

829
01:11:14.319 --> 01:11:21.720
days when I've deleted everything multiple times, so I understand

830
01:11:21.720 --> 01:11:23.760
the moods. And then it's the other thing is the

831
01:11:23.800 --> 01:11:30.760
personality sort of comes in when the slightest thing can

832
01:11:32.840 --> 01:11:34.840
I don't use the word trigger, but the slightest thing

833
01:11:34.880 --> 01:11:42.760
can just be and I'm my mood changes like drastically.

834
01:11:44.239 --> 01:11:52.319
It's weird, very very weird. Som insomn I'm okay with.

835
01:11:54.159 --> 01:11:57.479
There has been occasions where I've had issues sleeping, but

836
01:11:58.359 --> 01:12:05.920
generally I'm pretty good sleeping because that's the one thing

837
01:12:05.960 --> 01:12:09.600
I should be pretty good at, really considering. You know,

838
01:12:09.640 --> 01:12:13.960
I've devoted so much time to boring people to sleep.

839
01:12:15.840 --> 01:12:19.720
Throwing a frying pan at a TV punched a few TVs.

840
01:12:20.920 --> 01:12:23.319
On each occasion, I've hurt my hand, So it's not

841
01:12:23.399 --> 01:12:27.680
a good idea throwing a frying pan at the TV. Yeah,

842
01:12:27.680 --> 01:12:32.159
I can understand. I've never done it, but I understand.

843
01:12:32.960 --> 01:12:39.239
You know that that urge. Sometimes estrogen levels drop during menopause,

844
01:12:39.680 --> 01:12:45.319
which affects temperature control. Now that's something Again, it's out

845
01:12:45.359 --> 01:12:48.199
of our control, isn't it. We don't control our own temperature.

846
01:12:49.640 --> 01:12:57.800
It's something that's automatic within us. So I don't know

847
01:12:57.880 --> 01:13:03.920
an awful lot about estrogen. I know it's it's important.

848
01:13:05.199 --> 01:13:12.000
So yeah, it says it affects temperature control, memory, sleep, skin, hair,

849
01:13:12.159 --> 01:13:17.039
and the ability to suffer fools gladly. Okay, I've never

850
01:13:17.119 --> 01:13:19.760
been a big fan of that, saying suffer fools glad

851
01:13:20.279 --> 01:13:22.199
It's because there was this bloke that I used to know.

852
01:13:22.680 --> 01:13:29.000
He was a Buddhist, but he was so angry, so angry,

853
01:13:29.279 --> 01:13:31.680
like the angriest, one of the angriest men I ever met.

854
01:13:32.680 --> 01:13:34.720
And I remember someone came up to him and they

855
01:13:34.800 --> 01:13:37.239
was in the Buddhist center and he was a regular,

856
01:13:37.640 --> 01:13:39.000
and they came up to him and that they were

857
01:13:39.079 --> 01:13:44.399
new and for some reason they were impressed by him.

858
01:13:44.600 --> 01:13:49.720
And there was and he was explaining I think some

859
01:13:49.840 --> 01:13:54.640
things he didn't like, and this this lady said to him, also,

860
01:13:55.199 --> 01:13:59.520
it looks like you don't, you don't what's what is

861
01:13:59.560 --> 01:14:06.840
the term? H oh, you don't suffer fools gladly. And

862
01:14:06.880 --> 01:14:11.680
for me never be a big fan of the word

863
01:14:11.880 --> 01:14:17.239
fall calling someone a fool. So I don't know what

864
01:14:17.279 --> 01:14:24.720
it is about that. It's I suppose it's the same

865
01:14:24.760 --> 01:14:28.439
as being called an idiot or being called stupid. I

866
01:14:28.479 --> 01:14:33.560
don't like being called an idiot or being called stupid,

867
01:14:33.560 --> 01:14:37.640
because I had that for years and I believed it

868
01:14:37.680 --> 01:14:43.359
as well. But I didn't like being called it and foolish,

869
01:14:43.600 --> 01:14:46.840
being called a fool. This is such a judgment, isn't it.

870
01:14:47.159 --> 01:14:50.880
Who the hell has anyone got the right to decide

871
01:14:51.039 --> 01:14:56.359
who else is being foolish? But I can decide for

872
01:14:56.439 --> 01:15:00.359
myself if I've done a foolish thing, a silly thing,

873
01:15:00.960 --> 01:15:05.399
an idiotic thing, and I've done loads of those, loads

874
01:15:05.439 --> 01:15:10.239
and loads of loads. I could write a book if

875
01:15:10.279 --> 01:15:17.960
I had some kind of ink and pen and paper

876
01:15:19.720 --> 01:15:28.720
and writing ability. Some women experience burning tongue syndrome. Didn't

877
01:15:28.920 --> 01:15:32.439
not never heard about that. Apparently the mouth feels like

878
01:15:33.319 --> 01:15:36.960
it's eating a ghost pepper. Without the joy of spicy food,

879
01:15:37.319 --> 01:15:40.359
I don't think there's any joy of spicy food. I

880
01:15:40.399 --> 01:15:45.279
do not get what that is. Where is the joy

881
01:15:45.319 --> 01:15:48.279
of spicy food? Again? It's just me. I'm not I'm

882
01:15:48.319 --> 01:15:50.800
not pooing on people's food choice. I'm not pooing on

883
01:15:50.840 --> 01:15:56.479
your food. I'm just like it's and it's supposed to

884
01:15:56.640 --> 01:16:02.199
like get the endorphins going. And I've seeing documentaries where

885
01:16:02.199 --> 01:16:06.920
people they go out and they have an Indian meal,

886
01:16:07.439 --> 01:16:11.560
like a proper is it madrass, like really hot Indian

887
01:16:11.600 --> 01:16:19.600
meals and they're ecstatically happy. No, that's not how my

888
01:16:19.680 --> 01:16:27.000
body works. It's yeah, all different. But yeah, the idea

889
01:16:27.000 --> 01:16:33.479
of eating the pepper anything spicy, it's not me so yeah,

890
01:16:33.600 --> 01:16:35.119
but I know what it looks like to have a

891
01:16:36.560 --> 01:16:40.439
burning tongue from something like that, and it's don't like it.

892
01:16:42.279 --> 01:16:43.920
But I do know that was part of the menopause,

893
01:16:44.039 --> 01:16:51.199
So that's that's something interesting. Insomnia could be a common symptom,

894
01:16:51.479 --> 01:16:54.399
which is as is, which is why your podcast is

895
01:16:54.439 --> 01:17:00.359
perfect for menstrual menopause, or rather listeners are boring. Voice

896
01:17:00.359 --> 01:17:04.119
can be a blessing. Do you mean a boring voice?

897
01:17:03.319 --> 01:17:09.439
My voice is not boring. Blind me, My voice is

898
01:17:09.479 --> 01:17:16.760
not boring. Number ten. Number ten. Brain fog during menopause

899
01:17:16.880 --> 01:17:19.840
is real. It's like the brain wanders off to take

900
01:17:19.880 --> 01:17:21.840
a nap. If you get to tell you where it's going.

901
01:17:25.039 --> 01:17:27.600
I know a little bit about brain, well, just in

902
01:17:27.640 --> 01:17:32.159
a sense from a chronic pain position. Things like five

903
01:17:32.199 --> 01:17:36.600
from my ALGA and also from taking medication. Pain medication

904
01:17:37.279 --> 01:17:42.159
can cause a real kind of brain fog. I've had

905
01:17:42.199 --> 01:17:45.479
that a little bit in the past with medication, where

906
01:17:45.520 --> 01:17:48.079
I just I still get it a little bit with

907
01:17:48.279 --> 01:17:56.479
my medication. Let's get tired and a little bit foggy.

908
01:17:57.000 --> 01:18:04.920
Maybe not confused so much, but you know, it's yeah,

909
01:18:04.960 --> 01:18:12.600
it's like a brain just kind of switches off. So

910
01:18:12.760 --> 01:18:16.920
apparently says here that that's part of the the menopause,

911
01:18:17.039 --> 01:18:20.359
or can be. I guess this is all can be

912
01:18:20.479 --> 01:18:27.920
rather than is. So menopause is officially diagnosed after twelve

913
01:18:28.000 --> 01:18:33.319
months without a period. I suppose for the first nine

914
01:18:33.319 --> 01:18:36.119
months it could be you know, something else, couldn't it.

915
01:18:40.960 --> 01:18:48.359
It says here, not eleven, not thirteen, exactly twelve, So yeah,

916
01:18:48.399 --> 01:18:53.319
I don't really know why twelve months. There are over

917
01:18:53.479 --> 01:18:58.039
thirty four known symptoms of menopause, one of each time

918
01:18:58.119 --> 01:19:02.920
you try to remember why you walked into the kitchen. Okay,

919
01:19:03.880 --> 01:19:08.520
thirty four symptoms somewhere we go through menopause, about any symptoms.

920
01:19:08.840 --> 01:19:12.119
These people are mythical creatures and should be studied by science.

921
01:19:12.680 --> 01:19:20.239
According to this, how much of and I'm chucking this

922
01:19:20.319 --> 01:19:23.399
out there, it's not this is the it's not a

923
01:19:23.399 --> 01:19:30.640
devil's advocate, but just kind of anything. How much are

924
01:19:30.680 --> 01:19:44.000
we almost prepared for certain things in our life with

925
01:19:44.399 --> 01:19:52.680
the certainty and expectation of specific physical symptoms to occur

926
01:19:53.399 --> 01:20:01.319
when a certain thing comes around? Tell me is gurgling?

927
01:20:01.560 --> 01:20:08.479
Need some food? Feed me? Feed me now. So I'm

928
01:20:08.520 --> 01:20:11.520
not saying it's psychosomitic. I'm not saying it at all.

929
01:20:11.800 --> 01:20:18.199
It's just wonder what it would be if because some people,

930
01:20:18.319 --> 01:20:21.199
some people can't feel pain. Some people have a very

931
01:20:21.199 --> 01:20:24.239
low tolerance of pain, Some have very high tolerance of pain.

932
01:20:24.960 --> 01:20:31.079
Some people can literally sleep like sleep like a log

933
01:20:31.199 --> 01:20:35.159
is a really good description of it. I've only met

934
01:20:35.239 --> 01:20:38.479
one person, or I dated one person that could do that,

935
01:20:39.000 --> 01:20:44.720
and they could sleep and nothing woke them up. There

936
01:20:44.800 --> 01:20:52.479
was completely nothing like nothing's going on. You just close

937
01:20:52.560 --> 01:20:58.199
their eyes when she's gone, and that I've never really well,

938
01:20:58.239 --> 01:21:02.439
I've been like that after, you know, in the past,

939
01:21:02.479 --> 01:21:05.920
when I was working in the bakery, just done a

940
01:21:06.039 --> 01:21:12.079
sixteen hour shift, got home, laid down, closed my eyes,

941
01:21:12.800 --> 01:21:17.720
and I woke up seven hours later or whatever it was.

942
01:21:18.680 --> 01:21:22.640
You know, there there was no light getting comfortable. I

943
01:21:22.720 --> 01:21:27.000
was just out like a light again. Using another frequent

944
01:21:27.199 --> 01:21:37.600
use frequently used terminology out like a light. So when

945
01:21:37.640 --> 01:21:40.039
we go through menopause, about any symptoms, So that's good.

946
01:21:41.279 --> 01:21:45.600
The term pre menopause, you I sort of transition period

947
01:21:45.680 --> 01:21:50.840
before menopause, when symptoms sneak in like uninvited guests at

948
01:21:50.840 --> 01:21:57.039
a party. It's got some material, this one this today.

949
01:21:57.199 --> 01:21:59.479
So yeah, that's that's interesting. I mean, I know a

950
01:21:59.640 --> 01:22:04.079
couple of friends that are pre I always thought pre

951
01:22:04.239 --> 01:22:10.439
as any. It's like everyone's pre everything until you're there.

952
01:22:11.720 --> 01:22:14.279
Like I was diagnosed with what diagnosed? I was told

953
01:22:14.279 --> 01:22:17.840
I was pre diabetic, But isn't everyone that's not diabetic

954
01:22:17.920 --> 01:22:24.079
pre diabetic. Either you're diabetic or you're not diabetic, but

955
01:22:24.119 --> 01:22:26.319
apparently that's not the case. So it just shows you

956
01:22:26.359 --> 01:22:34.359
what my how ignorant or am. But imagine if you

957
01:22:34.960 --> 01:22:40.159
raised right from a baby to expect to have the

958
01:22:40.199 --> 01:22:51.840
ability to not be bothered by things. So whenever you

959
01:22:51.960 --> 01:22:59.159
saw someone fall over, they laughed and got up. And

960
01:22:59.199 --> 01:23:06.439
if every child all that pretty certain, they would do

961
01:23:06.479 --> 01:23:10.079
the same thing. So when they went learned to walk

962
01:23:10.199 --> 01:23:12.600
or maybe they were just learning to walk, and they'd

963
01:23:12.640 --> 01:23:17.199
fall over and they'd laugh, especially if everyone else was laughing.

964
01:23:17.199 --> 01:23:22.880
At them, get up and carry on, and they wouldn't

965
01:23:22.880 --> 01:23:25.760
know to cry. They wouldn't know to so it's almost

966
01:23:25.840 --> 01:23:30.039
they wouldn't feel the pain because it wouldn't be that

967
01:23:30.199 --> 01:23:32.680
danger signal. Wouldn't happen be Could it just be a

968
01:23:32.680 --> 01:23:36.359
safe signal? Because everyone else doesn't care? Why should I?

969
01:23:36.479 --> 01:23:43.720
Everyone else thinks it's fine, so it must be fine. Conditioned.

970
01:23:43.920 --> 01:23:49.920
I think that's the word I'm looking for. Conditioned. There's

971
01:23:49.960 --> 01:23:55.239
a lot if it wasn't for the you know, the

972
01:23:55.359 --> 01:24:00.479
rules and the laws. Now, it's so much much could

973
01:24:00.479 --> 01:24:05.079
be done to learn about humans, So much more could

974
01:24:05.079 --> 01:24:10.119
be done, so many experiments, like you know, psychological experiments.

975
01:24:11.199 --> 01:24:14.520
I mean, it's just you know, there's morals and there's

976
01:24:14.720 --> 01:24:17.840
ethics and stuff now that wasn't around, you know, one

977
01:24:17.880 --> 01:24:22.840
hundred years ago or fifty years ago or twenty years

978
01:24:22.880 --> 01:24:31.239
ago maybe, So the government have to rely on just

979
01:24:31.359 --> 01:24:38.960
studying the mass populations. That's probably why they manipulate it.

980
01:24:39.000 --> 01:24:43.000
So they see it getting people to go against each other,

981
01:24:45.720 --> 01:24:49.439
divide in the whole thing, divide and conquer. I mean,

982
01:24:50.960 --> 01:24:56.720
how many nations don't divide their populations because the best

983
01:24:56.720 --> 01:24:59.520
way to divide a population is put people that have

984
01:24:59.560 --> 01:25:04.359
different systems together, so there's always going to be that

985
01:25:04.439 --> 01:25:09.760
divide no matter how nice and well people get on,

986
01:25:10.479 --> 01:25:16.960
there is that is a divider. And then you know,

987
01:25:17.720 --> 01:25:22.039
do what the governments around the world do and make

988
01:25:22.079 --> 01:25:23.560
those divisions even more.

989
01:25:25.199 --> 01:25:25.279
So.

990
01:25:25.760 --> 01:25:28.319
I think there's a lot of psychological studies going on,

991
01:25:29.640 --> 01:25:35.239
and you know, sometimes these we had it in the summer,

992
01:25:35.760 --> 01:25:37.800
there is I mean, we've still got a lot of

993
01:25:37.920 --> 01:25:45.960
protesting going on around the country here, and you've got

994
01:25:45.960 --> 01:25:50.640
different sides. You've got it's kind of without I won't

995
01:25:50.640 --> 01:25:53.359
get it to the politics, but some of it's ridiculous

996
01:25:54.000 --> 01:25:57.720
in a sense of there's groups that are coming out

997
01:25:58.239 --> 01:26:05.479
and supporting other groups. So let's say there is this

998
01:26:05.560 --> 01:26:08.560
group here this let's say this is the Caprasan. That's

999
01:26:08.640 --> 01:26:18.479
the group supporting a group of people in another country. Okay,

1000
01:26:18.680 --> 01:26:21.720
then there's the other group. Let's that's my phone. That's

1001
01:26:21.720 --> 01:26:28.760
a group supporting the other side of that disagreement in

1002
01:26:28.800 --> 01:26:31.520
another country. Maybe in the same country or maybe in

1003
01:26:31.520 --> 01:26:34.880
a different country, but you know with a border. So

1004
01:26:35.079 --> 01:26:39.039
there's that going on. So there's two sides, and two

1005
01:26:39.159 --> 01:26:41.800
different sides of the protesters, even though they're in a

1006
01:26:41.840 --> 01:26:46.000
completely different country from where it's going on. And then

1007
01:26:46.000 --> 01:26:48.800
you've got these little other groups that are sort of

1008
01:26:48.920 --> 01:26:58.159
joining sides. So it's kind of I don't know if

1009
01:26:58.159 --> 01:27:03.760
you funny is the right word really, but sometimes if

1010
01:27:03.760 --> 01:27:09.920
you imagine, for example, let's say a look, I'm trying

1011
01:27:09.920 --> 01:27:15.880
to how to describe it in a nice, nice way. Okay,

1012
01:27:16.119 --> 01:27:20.279
So let's say the capris Son they're supporting a group

1013
01:27:20.319 --> 01:27:25.640
of people in another country who really really are against Lego,

1014
01:27:27.520 --> 01:27:31.760
like Lego, anything to do with Lego, Lego castles, Lego games,

1015
01:27:31.840 --> 01:27:37.000
even Lego cartoons, or the Lego movies, the Superhero Lego movie, nothing, nothing,

1016
01:27:37.119 --> 01:27:48.640
Lego don't cannot stand it. It's against their belief system.

1017
01:27:48.960 --> 01:27:54.760
So and they're against the other group, which is not

1018
01:27:54.880 --> 01:27:58.319
really interested in the Lego aspect. There's more, there's more

1019
01:27:58.359 --> 01:28:01.640
of the stuff going on between the two. And then

1020
01:28:01.680 --> 01:28:05.159
his other group doesn't like the way that the Phone

1021
01:28:06.159 --> 01:28:11.760
is treating the Caprisan. But these are Legos, these are

1022
01:28:11.760 --> 01:28:14.920
actually pieces of Lego, a group made of Lego pieces,

1023
01:28:15.560 --> 01:28:28.720
trotting along joining the Caprasan in another country and not

1024
01:28:28.960 --> 01:28:33.279
rioting necessarily, but you know, demonstrating with the Caprisan standing

1025
01:28:33.319 --> 01:28:42.760
by Caprasan against the mobile phone. But if they went

1026
01:28:43.159 --> 01:28:47.840
to the country where the Caprisan you know, who they're supporting,

1027
01:28:50.079 --> 01:28:53.439
they would not be welcome because their lego and the

1028
01:28:53.520 --> 01:28:58.880
capri Son especially like in the country they don't you know,

1029
01:28:58.960 --> 01:29:02.520
it's illegal made even to be a lego. That's how like,

1030
01:29:03.199 --> 01:29:06.840
you know, it's not just a casual a casual disdain

1031
01:29:06.880 --> 01:29:10.880
for lego. It's a real like, no, we don't we

1032
01:29:10.880 --> 01:29:17.760
don't like lego. We may rove. It's a this, you know,

1033
01:29:18.239 --> 01:29:22.000
and then this like then you've got the other side maybe,

1034
01:29:23.279 --> 01:29:31.680
and these ones are not against anything. So the people

1035
01:29:31.720 --> 01:29:37.640
that get together with the phone mobile phone, they're not

1036
01:29:37.680 --> 01:29:43.159
necessarily bothered about what's going on in that other country.

1037
01:29:44.520 --> 01:29:46.680
They just don't like the cap of sun people that

1038
01:29:46.720 --> 01:29:49.920
are here. They don't like the ones that are here now,

1039
01:29:52.960 --> 01:29:55.079
and they don't like the legos. Perhaps they're not that

1040
01:29:55.119 --> 01:29:58.520
bothered about the legos, but you know, today join there

1041
01:29:59.159 --> 01:30:01.840
and they want the cap is some people to go away.

1042
01:30:02.399 --> 01:30:05.720
They're not interested in what's going on in the kapri

1043
01:30:05.840 --> 01:30:09.680
Son's country or the mobile phones country or their conflict.

1044
01:30:10.880 --> 01:30:13.479
But they're just like, no, we want you. But really

1045
01:30:13.520 --> 01:30:15.920
they probably also want the mobile phone to go away

1046
01:30:15.960 --> 01:30:18.920
as well, but they kind of have to take sides.

1047
01:30:19.560 --> 01:30:21.439
I mean sometimes they just stand to the side and

1048
01:30:21.560 --> 01:30:26.880
just like chuck their stuff at everyone. But but then

1049
01:30:26.880 --> 01:30:31.479
you've got the legos saying, oh, I watched we call

1050
01:30:31.560 --> 01:30:41.439
him okay, and energizer like energizer battery. That's then, so

1051
01:30:41.520 --> 01:30:45.840
then energize a battery. So you've got lego or start

1052
01:30:45.840 --> 01:30:51.520
having to go at the energizer battery. Oh you're whatever,

1053
01:30:52.159 --> 01:30:58.800
And then the energized battery says yeah, But don't you realize,

1054
01:30:58.840 --> 01:31:03.680
you Lego people, that if you went to where Capri

1055
01:31:03.800 --> 01:31:07.720
Son lives, you wouldn't be allowed to be there. They

1056
01:31:07.720 --> 01:31:13.359
wouldn't be allowed to live there because your lego. Oh no,

1057
01:31:13.479 --> 01:31:16.359
but we support them. We support them because don't know

1058
01:31:16.359 --> 01:31:20.840
what's happening to their people. But your Lego, they don't

1059
01:31:20.880 --> 01:31:24.039
support you. You would you would not be allowed to

1060
01:31:24.159 --> 01:31:29.960
even walk down the streets. Do you understand we don't care.

1061
01:31:30.640 --> 01:31:33.880
We don't care because we see things on television and

1062
01:31:34.319 --> 01:31:40.880
we don't care that they don't like Lego. I so

1063
01:31:40.960 --> 01:31:43.760
that's the energizer. But there's but you put the energizer.

1064
01:31:43.880 --> 01:31:51.119
We don't like anyone, we want to we don't like anyone,

1065
01:31:52.319 --> 01:31:55.560
and then a mobile phone, saying we just want to

1066
01:31:55.600 --> 01:32:00.479
be left alone, which is why we keep doing what

1067
01:32:00.520 --> 01:32:04.960
we do. And obviously no one can say anything about

1068
01:32:04.960 --> 01:32:13.760
the phone, mobile phone, because I just can't get away

1069
01:32:13.760 --> 01:32:17.680
with saying anything without being caused. So leave the mobile

1070
01:32:17.680 --> 01:32:21.039
phone alone. We can talk about the Capris' son, we

1071
01:32:21.039 --> 01:32:23.319
can even talk about the Lego people, we can talk

1072
01:32:23.319 --> 01:32:27.239
about the energizer battery, but don't even mention the mobile face.

1073
01:32:27.359 --> 01:32:36.880
Just by mentioning phone, it's like antiphone. He's an antiphoner. Ooh, antiphoner.

1074
01:32:37.600 --> 01:32:44.239
He mentioned the word phone antiphoner. And I think I've

1075
01:32:44.319 --> 01:32:49.880
just described the way to world peace on that little segment.

1076
01:32:50.560 --> 01:32:55.119
Thank you very much. I don't even know what I

1077
01:32:55.159 --> 01:33:06.399
was talking about. How did I get to that? Oh? Yeah,

1078
01:33:06.520 --> 01:33:11.000
night sweats. I've had night sweats. My friends used to

1079
01:33:11.079 --> 01:33:17.359
have night sweats. I've had night sweats in the summer.

1080
01:33:17.840 --> 01:33:22.880
But I suppose everyone has, isn't he But not like

1081
01:33:23.000 --> 01:33:29.000
they're hot flushes, but more Yeah, I'd tell you. The

1082
01:33:29.399 --> 01:33:34.399
sweatiest I ever got at night was I was in

1083
01:33:34.439 --> 01:33:39.720
bed with this lady. Don't worry, it's not going anywhere. Weird, well,

1084
01:33:39.880 --> 01:33:41.760
just weird as the fact that I was in bed

1085
01:33:41.800 --> 01:33:46.000
with another human. But other than that, I don't mean

1086
01:33:46.000 --> 01:33:48.079
that's weird, like I would be in bed with something else,

1087
01:33:48.119 --> 01:33:54.079
but just well, Vinnie, Vinnie's my It seems like Vinnie's

1088
01:33:54.119 --> 01:33:57.760
my life partner. Now, aren't you Vin. You've had your dinner,

1089
01:33:58.760 --> 01:34:02.279
you had nice walk, some water, You're chilled out now

1090
01:34:02.319 --> 01:34:16.119
when you fast asleep laying at my feet. So I

1091
01:34:16.119 --> 01:34:18.159
I've got brain fog. I've got no idea. What I

1092
01:34:18.159 --> 01:34:25.880
was talking about nights was oh yeah, So I can

1093
01:34:25.920 --> 01:34:29.640
honestly say we we kind of, you know, spent the

1094
01:34:29.720 --> 01:34:32.239
evening with our watching boxing. I'm not sure it was

1095
01:34:32.239 --> 01:34:37.319
as interesting for her as it was for me, to

1096
01:34:37.439 --> 01:34:47.439
be honest, And then we went to bed and you know,

1097
01:34:48.840 --> 01:34:51.800
five minutes later, you know, I'm ready to go to sleep,

1098
01:34:53.079 --> 01:34:57.600
and she's just sitting there staring at me in disbelief.

1099
01:34:58.520 --> 01:35:04.640
But you know, when we're actually in bed together, I

1100
01:35:04.680 --> 01:35:09.760
could not believe the heat that was coming off of her. Now,

1101
01:35:09.920 --> 01:35:14.199
it might be due to dissatisfaction and frustration, possibly, but

1102
01:35:14.319 --> 01:35:16.479
the amount of heat that was coming off of her

1103
01:35:17.720 --> 01:35:22.319
was maybe I don't know, maybe she was menopausal. I mean,

1104
01:35:22.359 --> 01:35:22.880
she was.

1105
01:35:25.039 --> 01:35:25.359
In a.

1106
01:35:29.960 --> 01:35:36.960
Middle forties, is probably about forty six bl I'm even older.

1107
01:35:36.960 --> 01:35:39.760
Maybe she might have been older than that. They made

1108
01:35:39.760 --> 01:35:43.359
any difference, but you know, so maybe. But the heat

1109
01:35:43.680 --> 01:35:47.479
that was coming off and the heat that I was feeling,

1110
01:35:48.640 --> 01:35:53.199
it was the hottest I've ever felt in bed ever,

1111
01:35:54.479 --> 01:35:58.199
I mean ever, I've never known anything like it. I was.

1112
01:35:59.479 --> 01:36:04.399
I wasn't like, I wasn't leaning out of the window,

1113
01:36:04.479 --> 01:36:06.600
leaning my bum out the window just to get some air.

1114
01:36:07.279 --> 01:36:17.039
But it's just it was so hot, extremely uncomfortable. It

1115
01:36:17.119 --> 01:36:23.000
didn't seem to bother her. But then I don't know,

1116
01:36:23.039 --> 01:36:28.079
maybe she was just relieved, just just like looking forward

1117
01:36:28.159 --> 01:36:31.960
to going home in the morning, like this, I got

1118
01:36:31.960 --> 01:36:34.399
another eight hours to go and I can leave him

1119
01:36:34.800 --> 01:36:38.880
and go home and escape. I liked to think she wasn't,

1120
01:36:39.000 --> 01:36:43.920
you know, thinking that way, because I don't. I don't

1121
01:36:43.920 --> 01:36:45.479
think there was much love there. I don't think she

1122
01:36:45.560 --> 01:36:52.720
really I don't think she loved me. Well, I got here,

1123
01:36:53.079 --> 01:36:55.319
I've got a message. Let's have a look at this message.

1124
01:36:56.000 --> 01:37:00.840
See if it means anything, See if it's nope. Oh look,

1125
01:37:01.720 --> 01:37:06.279
Velina Dancer sent me a message. Hate Jason, want to

1126
01:37:06.359 --> 01:37:12.199
skyrocket your ig page's reputation with ten to one hundred

1127
01:37:13.239 --> 01:37:19.520
k plus followers in no time. HQ followers guaranteed for life,

1128
01:37:20.119 --> 01:37:26.239
one thousand for just thirteen pound, ten thousand for just

1129
01:37:26.399 --> 01:37:32.239
ninety five pound, twenty thousand for one hundred and forty

1130
01:37:32.359 --> 01:37:38.119
seven pound, fifty thousand for three hundred honest Is dollars,

1131
01:37:38.159 --> 01:37:43.359
three hundred and forty seven dollars, one hundred thousand followers,

1132
01:37:44.039 --> 01:37:48.359
five hundred and ninety seven dollars. Try before you buy

1133
01:37:48.960 --> 01:37:56.319
No Risk DM test to start a free trial and

1134
01:37:56.439 --> 01:38:04.319
see how real social proof trans forms your brand. No,

1135
01:38:07.520 --> 01:38:13.720
we got another one here, Mickey Cole Mickey gig you

1136
01:38:14.000 --> 01:38:21.760
call lmao. So that's I don't know. This is so random?

1137
01:38:21.840 --> 01:38:22.920
Should I do it in a voice?

1138
01:38:23.640 --> 01:38:28.760
Lmao? Laugh my self? This is so random? But my

1139
01:38:30.239 --> 01:38:37.520
soriority sorority pledge challenge to send a nude to next

1140
01:38:37.600 --> 01:38:43.520
the next fifty guys I accept on my Instagram.

1141
01:38:44.039 --> 01:38:47.960
Don't let me fell har harh. Just follow me there quick.

1142
01:38:48.399 --> 01:38:55.800
I'm deleting this account tonight so my boyfriend doesn't find out. Lol. Yeah,

1143
01:38:57.520 --> 01:39:03.520
as a keeper. And obviously it's a scam. I'm a scam.

1144
01:39:03.600 --> 01:39:07.680
It's not a real person. It can't be a real person. Wow,

1145
01:39:10.000 --> 01:39:12.600
I got a message here. Why am I not getting

1146
01:39:12.640 --> 01:39:18.760
these messages? Literally, I got a message from Zachary eighteenth

1147
01:39:18.840 --> 01:39:22.600
of March. Zachary, if you're listening to this, I'm sorry.

1148
01:39:23.119 --> 01:39:29.479
I've only literally just got it. And this is ridiculous.

1149
01:39:29.479 --> 01:39:41.199
This is Facebook on I got two. This is eighteenth

1150
01:39:41.279 --> 01:39:46.880
of March. Oh, these are instagrams. They're not fake, but

1151
01:39:46.920 --> 01:39:51.239
they're coming on Facebook. These are instagrams. Thank you for

1152
01:39:51.359 --> 01:39:54.840
keeping on doing what you do. In twenty sixteen, I

1153
01:39:54.920 --> 01:39:59.880
started having many issues with PTSD and panic attacks. Dissociated

1154
01:40:00.039 --> 01:40:03.640
from everything after I spent most of my time in

1155
01:40:03.760 --> 01:40:08.239
doctors and hospitals from crones for about fifteen years. I

1156
01:40:08.359 --> 01:40:12.680
listened to you night and day for several years WOW,

1157
01:40:13.359 --> 01:40:20.359
along with with someone else that he liked to listen to,

1158
01:40:21.600 --> 01:40:27.880
and I ran a lot okay. Eventually I overcame what

1159
01:40:28.039 --> 01:40:31.880
was triggering my problems around twenty twenty three. I really

1160
01:40:31.960 --> 01:40:34.359
have an episode anymore unless I feel like I can't

1161
01:40:34.359 --> 01:40:39.399
control my surroundings, especially when other people drive or heavy traffic,

1162
01:40:41.159 --> 01:40:44.159
struggled to be on a plane, or if I'm tired

1163
01:40:44.279 --> 01:40:47.279
or don't sleep well. I still get bad anxiety, but

1164
01:40:47.359 --> 01:40:50.640
I am able to enjoy going out to social places

1165
01:40:50.680 --> 01:40:56.079
again and it's nice. Wow, what a lovely message that

1166
01:40:56.239 --> 01:40:59.920
was two weeks ago, Zachary. If you're listening to this,

1167
01:41:00.520 --> 01:41:04.680
I'm sorry that I didn't reply to you. I just

1168
01:41:04.920 --> 01:41:09.239
saw it. Literally, I do go on to Instagram and

1169
01:41:09.319 --> 01:41:12.159
have a little look at you know what stats I've

1170
01:41:12.199 --> 01:41:16.800
got for Maybe I should start posting some more stuff

1171
01:41:16.840 --> 01:41:25.920
on Instagram, like on here. Let's have a look Instagram.

1172
01:41:26.199 --> 01:41:34.920
I've not posted anything for I just turn the volume down.

1173
01:41:38.479 --> 01:41:41.760
The last one I did was the most relaxed ASMR

1174
01:41:43.039 --> 01:41:48.319
twenty fourth for March, so I got twenty four views

1175
01:41:48.319 --> 01:41:51.479
of that one. The one before that got ten views,

1176
01:41:51.560 --> 01:41:54.159
the one before that ten views, So I'm not getting

1177
01:41:54.159 --> 01:41:56.960
a lot of views on Instagram. Sixteen views for the

1178
01:41:57.000 --> 01:42:02.960
on before that fifteen, fourteen, nine, twelve, seventeen, twenty, seventeen,

1179
01:42:03.279 --> 01:42:08.600
ten eight. So this one's one hundred and fifty nine

1180
01:42:09.039 --> 01:42:14.319
twenty five, fifty six, twenty four sixty five, one hundred

1181
01:42:14.359 --> 01:42:17.479
and thirty four and I've got one one hundred and ten.

1182
01:42:17.560 --> 01:42:21.359
But that's just me talking about my huge bum. Fifty

1183
01:42:22.119 --> 01:42:26.800
forty eight thirty sixty eight thirty seven forty five, one

1184
01:42:26.880 --> 01:42:29.079
hundred and forty eight hundred and two one hundred and

1185
01:42:29.119 --> 01:42:37.359
ninety nine one hundred and fifteen. There's not yeah, not

1186
01:42:37.439 --> 01:42:43.159
getting like a huge huge audience on Instagram. And I

1187
01:42:43.239 --> 01:42:45.199
got quite a few videos on there that have only

1188
01:42:45.199 --> 01:42:52.920
gott like two or three blind me. There's a lot

1189
01:42:52.920 --> 01:42:55.640
of a lot of recordings on there actually over the years.

1190
01:42:56.119 --> 01:43:01.239
So I've got two hundred followers I don't even know

1191
01:43:04.560 --> 01:43:07.680
really apparently I've had seven hundred and sixty eight views

1192
01:43:07.720 --> 01:43:11.760
in the last thirty days. It's not too bad, is

1193
01:43:11.760 --> 01:43:16.039
it really? On Instagram? So I just need to post

1194
01:43:16.039 --> 01:43:24.880
some more stuff. Really, Oh, I don't know about the

1195
01:43:27.399 --> 01:43:32.159
what is it on? I don't really do that understand

1196
01:43:32.199 --> 01:43:38.039
Snapchat TikTok. Well, I've got a message on TikTok a

1197
01:43:38.119 --> 01:43:43.840
new followers started following you. No, a new eight start

1198
01:43:43.920 --> 01:43:52.479
following you? Okay, say hi Tonanu I eight. I don't

1199
01:43:52.479 --> 01:43:55.720
know who Nanuar eight is high nanu eates if you're there,

1200
01:43:57.800 --> 01:44:06.680
Lindsey Dix and Hi Lindsey Siri or really sorry my

1201
01:44:06.800 --> 01:44:12.239
eyesight So I don't have any is there any any

1202
01:44:12.279 --> 01:44:18.159
messages in box? Peculiar peculiar Paula, who you may know

1203
01:44:20.680 --> 01:44:25.840
is on TikTok peculiar Pouler I don't know anyone called

1204
01:44:25.880 --> 01:44:32.039
peculiar Paula. I know I know someone called weirdow Paula.

1205
01:44:33.039 --> 01:44:36.720
I know someone called Shorty Paula. And then there's a

1206
01:44:38.479 --> 01:44:50.520
bread eater Paula, road sweeper Paula, basketball player Paula, icy

1207
01:44:50.560 --> 01:44:59.159
cale liquor Paula, and rufer Paula, climbing through windows Pauler.

1208
01:45:00.880 --> 01:45:08.319
No peculiar Paula. But you're wondering how long now was

1209
01:45:08.319 --> 01:45:11.079
going to go on for? I was too When I'm

1210
01:45:11.079 --> 01:45:15.560
a little bit too long, do apologize. Don't tell anyone.

1211
01:45:16.239 --> 01:45:22.239
Sometimes I just I lose track. I do on TikTok.

1212
01:45:22.279 --> 01:45:28.680
I've got twenty three followers. Wow, so yeah, I've got

1213
01:45:28.760 --> 01:45:30.560
I think I went on there before to look at

1214
01:45:30.560 --> 01:45:36.159
the stats. So the more recent ones two hundred and

1215
01:45:36.159 --> 01:45:39.279
sixty eight, two hundred and forty five, and six hundred

1216
01:45:39.279 --> 01:45:43.319
and ninety four. So if I just made a bit

1217
01:45:43.319 --> 01:45:49.920
more effort and actually added some stuff, I could probably

1218
01:45:50.000 --> 01:45:52.039
while I probably yuh, I guess I would get more

1219
01:45:54.520 --> 01:46:06.199
more views. But you know, so I'm just going to

1220
01:46:06.239 --> 01:46:16.880
put thank you, thank you for your kind words, thank

1221
01:46:16.920 --> 01:46:20.800
you for your kind words. So thank you, Zachary. That's

1222
01:46:20.920 --> 01:46:26.279
really nice. So let's have a look. Instagram the official

1223
01:46:29.439 --> 01:46:41.880
oh okay right official Jonathan Jonathan. He wrote two weeks ago,

1224
01:46:42.199 --> 01:46:45.439
love your stuff when I need a supportive nap or

1225
01:46:45.520 --> 01:46:50.800
rest or sick. This was turning forth of March on Instagram.

1226
01:46:50.920 --> 01:46:53.319
So I said thank you, and then he comes back

1227
01:46:53.520 --> 01:46:57.239
a week ago saying I have just seen it. You're welcome.

1228
01:46:57.359 --> 01:46:59.840
I had to google about Necking Cole and his daughter

1229
01:47:00.439 --> 01:47:04.840
Nanny Cole. I also forgot his name. The names Miss

1230
01:47:04.920 --> 01:47:09.600
You Like Crazy has been stuck in my head. Yeah,

1231
01:47:09.960 --> 01:47:13.279
I've been playing it recently. I won't sing it because

1232
01:47:13.279 --> 01:47:16.319
I know not everyone likes to hear me sing. It's

1233
01:47:16.359 --> 01:47:24.720
too stimulating, too vigorating, to vibrational more what am I

1234
01:47:24.840 --> 01:47:31.399
talking about? I don't put me too just in case

1235
01:47:31.439 --> 01:47:33.239
you're listening to this, because yeah, I've been listening to

1236
01:47:33.239 --> 01:47:35.359
that miss You Like Crazy and the other one is

1237
01:47:35.680 --> 01:47:41.560
a live for your love every minute that one. So yeah,

1238
01:47:41.600 --> 01:47:49.199
those two songs. I was listening to those in nineteen

1239
01:47:49.279 --> 01:47:59.720
eighty nine. I was working in a factory packing. Yeah,

1240
01:47:59.800 --> 01:48:04.279
that was when I got I got kicked out of

1241
01:48:04.279 --> 01:48:07.760
the flat above the co op while I was working,

1242
01:48:07.800 --> 01:48:13.119
and I left that job. But I was got evacuated

1243
01:48:13.239 --> 01:48:17.319
or evicted from there. And then I moved into a

1244
01:48:17.359 --> 01:48:22.600
flat room rather in a house shared house, and I

1245
01:48:22.640 --> 01:48:28.680
was working at this factory that made meters and I

1246
01:48:28.720 --> 01:48:33.600
lived in this little room. Was all right, I actually

1247
01:48:33.680 --> 01:48:37.720
had a TV, had pretty much everything I needed, just

1248
01:48:37.760 --> 01:48:41.000
a bed and all that stuff. But I kept listening

1249
01:48:41.000 --> 01:48:47.359
to Natalie Cole, I lived for your love and what's

1250
01:48:47.399 --> 01:48:50.520
the other one? I missed you like crazy. I think

1251
01:48:50.560 --> 01:48:53.760
I might have been in love. There was someone that

1252
01:48:53.880 --> 01:48:58.640
week's love was I was focusing on constantly in out

1253
01:48:58.640 --> 01:49:01.680
of love when I was that age. Always said I

1254
01:49:01.720 --> 01:49:04.640
don't know who, and I got no idea who it

1255
01:49:04.760 --> 01:49:09.800
was genuinely, but it wasn't someone that I was living with,

1256
01:49:10.039 --> 01:49:12.319
and it wasn't someone that I was working with. So

1257
01:49:12.399 --> 01:49:14.920
I mean bear in my mind, I never really went out,

1258
01:49:15.880 --> 01:49:22.680
so I had no idea who it was. But I

1259
01:49:22.800 --> 01:49:27.279
clearly I had a crush on somebody, someone that I loved.

1260
01:49:27.800 --> 01:49:29.760
In fact, you could say I lived for her love

1261
01:49:31.560 --> 01:49:39.199
and official Jonathan, what episode is this?

1262
01:49:39.399 --> 01:49:39.520
Oh?

1263
01:49:39.560 --> 01:49:44.439
I did reply, It's not an episode number. It's on YouTube,

1264
01:49:44.520 --> 01:49:51.000
TikTok and my podcast. Okay, so I don't so I

1265
01:49:51.039 --> 01:49:54.920
have replied to these recordings. Did these messages? I just

1266
01:49:54.920 --> 01:50:05.399
don't remember replying unless there's an app and it just

1267
01:50:05.479 --> 01:50:12.159
replies for me. But it wouldn't do that, would it? Inevitable? Slumber?

1268
01:50:12.720 --> 01:50:16.640
What number is this? Sleep always wins, love, the hourish,

1269
01:50:17.279 --> 01:50:25.840
the hoursh long, sleep, help, talk and music? There's only fifty?

1270
01:50:26.520 --> 01:50:29.239
Oh that's why people were asking, because I was putting

1271
01:50:29.279 --> 01:50:44.199
these short versions of it, So I that's why unless yeah,

1272
01:50:44.239 --> 01:50:46.760
so that makes sense. I'm posting like a short clip

1273
01:50:46.800 --> 01:50:51.960
of a video or an audio and someone maybe they

1274
01:50:52.119 --> 01:50:54.279
like it, but they're asking where I can listen to

1275
01:50:54.359 --> 01:50:58.720
the whole version, and I'm not telling them. BlimE me.

1276
01:51:02.960 --> 01:51:08.279
I've got another one here, which says, clap, clap, you

1277
01:51:08.359 --> 01:51:10.439
deserve to be happy. Clap claps, So I thank you.

1278
01:51:15.640 --> 01:51:19.760
So there's mood swings. Of course, like we said earlier

1279
01:51:20.119 --> 01:51:26.680
during menopause, mood swings are not imaginary. Well, a mood swings,

1280
01:51:26.720 --> 01:51:30.479
a mood swing. It's not not about how can it be?

1281
01:51:31.359 --> 01:51:37.000
How can it be imaginary? I don't really understand that

1282
01:51:37.079 --> 01:51:45.239
they are Olympic level emotion emotional gymnastics. Uh I guess

1283
01:51:45.319 --> 01:51:50.920
I don't. I suppose for me, maybe could saying oh

1284
01:51:50.960 --> 01:51:55.119
maybe I don't with my moods or whatever. I don't

1285
01:51:55.239 --> 01:52:01.399
get I wouldn't get over emotionally about something. I mean,

1286
01:52:01.439 --> 01:52:03.800
there's been times when I've got a teary over something

1287
01:52:03.840 --> 01:52:06.760
which was just soppy and like, I don't know why

1288
01:52:06.760 --> 01:52:09.479
I'm feeling this way. I don't know why, but that's

1289
01:52:09.560 --> 01:52:14.000
quite rare. It's that's I don't go that way normally

1290
01:52:14.000 --> 01:52:21.000
with moods, but maybe it's because I've got no emotions. Well,

1291
01:52:21.079 --> 01:52:23.760
I'm going to say this next phrase, but it's not

1292
01:52:23.840 --> 01:52:29.439
me saying it. It's chat GBT. Okay, So I've never

1293
01:52:29.479 --> 01:52:34.279
said this word before, right, never said this word before

1294
01:52:35.199 --> 01:52:37.520
on a podcast, but I'm going to say it now.

1295
01:52:41.319 --> 01:52:45.560
I can't say it. I'm just going to say the

1296
01:52:45.600 --> 01:52:48.039
second world. So the second word, I'm not going to

1297
01:52:48.079 --> 01:52:51.279
say this because it's no. I'm not going to say

1298
01:52:51.319 --> 01:52:54.680
that word. I'm just going to say the word. Dryness

1299
01:52:56.000 --> 01:52:58.840
is a symptom no one wants to talk about, but

1300
01:52:58.920 --> 01:53:04.039
it's real. Even tumbleweeds are jealous at parents. This is

1301
01:53:04.039 --> 01:53:10.079
what this says here. They're doing its own jokes. Yeah,

1302
01:53:10.159 --> 01:53:13.479
so I know about well I've been told about that.

1303
01:53:15.399 --> 01:53:20.800
It's yeah, I mean, yeah, some of them I'm never

1304
01:53:20.840 --> 01:53:24.239
gonna understand. I'm never gonna relate to.

1305
01:53:26.600 --> 01:53:26.680
So.

1306
01:53:29.880 --> 01:53:36.319
But then you think about it, though, if someone has

1307
01:53:36.319 --> 01:53:41.720
gone through like purposely gone through a change from mail

1308
01:53:41.840 --> 01:53:48.479
to you know, change their identity, and they've gone through

1309
01:53:48.600 --> 01:53:53.840
the surgical procedures, then they're also going to have a naturally,

1310
01:53:54.000 --> 01:54:00.560
they're naturally going to have a dry one. So maybe

1311
01:54:01.199 --> 01:54:07.279
find that commonality. Maybe I don't know. For example, let's

1312
01:54:07.319 --> 01:54:17.279
say there was the Caprison was, the Caprison was, the

1313
01:54:21.560 --> 01:54:34.439
the SA Capristone was, you know, menopausal people with females

1314
01:54:34.479 --> 01:54:39.199
or whatever minopausal, and then you've got the lego is

1315
01:54:39.800 --> 01:54:43.039
the people that have got decided to or that have

1316
01:54:43.119 --> 01:54:48.560
gone through the process of transformation from one to another

1317
01:54:49.560 --> 01:55:02.399
and are now women and they're basically finny, don't be barking, mate,

1318
01:55:05.399 --> 01:55:10.279
And they're also going for human for women's rights with

1319
01:55:10.520 --> 01:55:14.039
the women who are you know, demonstrating for women's rights.

1320
01:55:14.720 --> 01:55:22.079
And you've got the other side, maybe have a different

1321
01:55:22.079 --> 01:55:28.159
belief system where they don't believe that women have women's rights,

1322
01:55:32.279 --> 01:55:38.960
but the women are you awake or you asleep? Are

1323
01:55:38.960 --> 01:55:43.439
you barking in your dream? Are you are you barking

1324
01:55:43.439 --> 01:55:47.640
in your dream? I think he was barking in this dream,

1325
01:55:47.760 --> 01:55:50.319
I was a bit loud, right, but I leave that out.

1326
01:55:50.840 --> 01:55:54.439
This analogy is just going wrong. So, yeah, you've got

1327
01:55:54.479 --> 01:55:59.159
the Lego and they say, oh, we're with your women's

1328
01:55:59.199 --> 01:56:02.439
rights and they're saying, no, you can't be with us.

1329
01:56:04.359 --> 01:56:07.680
And then they go to the other side and say, well,

1330
01:56:07.760 --> 01:56:09.279
we can't be with them, we're going to be with

1331
01:56:09.359 --> 01:56:12.640
you against them, And they said, no, you can't be

1332
01:56:12.680 --> 01:56:17.560
a receiver because we're against Lego. We wouldn't we would

1333
01:56:17.600 --> 01:56:21.359
have Lego in our in our in our country, and

1334
01:56:22.680 --> 01:56:26.079
but you're in the UK. It's like, yeah, but it

1335
01:56:26.119 --> 01:56:29.159
doesn't matter. We don't believe. Our belief system doesn't like Lego.

1336
01:56:29.800 --> 01:56:33.079
So Lego goes back to capris Son. They said, are

1337
01:56:33.119 --> 01:56:37.439
you sure we can't, you know, work something out. We're

1338
01:56:37.479 --> 01:56:41.319
capri Son's too. They said, no, your Lego, your Lego,

1339
01:56:42.960 --> 01:56:49.960
use Lego toilets. Well, what's lego toilets? What you're talking about?

1340
01:56:50.479 --> 01:56:53.199
You know what we're talking about? Oh, come on, can't

1341
01:56:53.199 --> 01:56:55.720
we just get on? I mean, I've gone through all this.

1342
01:56:56.079 --> 01:57:00.239
You were born like that. I've gone through this to

1343
01:57:00.359 --> 01:57:05.159
be like you. So imagine how much respect and love

1344
01:57:05.239 --> 01:57:08.760
I have for you going through this to want to

1345
01:57:08.800 --> 01:57:13.399
be like you, and they will start dancing, I want

1346
01:57:13.439 --> 01:57:16.840
to be like you who? I want to be like you? Who?

1347
01:57:16.880 --> 01:57:22.279
Who whoo hoo hoo whoo who whoo whoo? Want to

1348
01:57:22.319 --> 01:57:25.560
be like you? I don't sing June a recording? Okay,

1349
01:57:27.079 --> 01:57:30.239
And then they go back and say, oh, Capusan doesn't

1350
01:57:30.359 --> 01:57:32.640
doesn't want us in their group. Can you have us

1351
01:57:32.680 --> 01:57:38.159
in your group? I said no, no, I don't want

1352
01:57:38.199 --> 01:57:43.399
us in your group because your lego. But we'll just okay,

1353
01:57:43.439 --> 01:57:47.159
what if we just like stand here? And then someone

1354
01:57:47.159 --> 01:57:50.039
else comes along with the energizer bactually says why are you?

1355
01:57:50.319 --> 01:57:53.920
Why are you with that group with the phone when

1356
01:57:54.439 --> 01:57:58.600
they don't even like Lego, like, oh, we'll be through

1357
01:57:58.640 --> 01:58:02.800
this before. So then the lego goes back to capri

1358
01:58:02.880 --> 01:58:05.800
Son and says, you do know this. We've got a

1359
01:58:05.840 --> 01:58:08.560
lot more in common than you realize. Said, how can

1360
01:58:08.600 --> 01:58:11.079
it be? It's just surgery. You don't know what it's

1361
01:58:11.239 --> 01:58:14.039
like to be a real, caprice Son. You're just a

1362
01:58:14.119 --> 01:58:19.840
lego and Lego says, are but we know what it's

1363
01:58:19.960 --> 01:58:26.920
like to have dryness, and Capri says capy Son says, really,

1364
01:58:27.439 --> 01:58:29.840
what do you mean? He says well, you go through

1365
01:58:29.960 --> 01:58:32.720
menopause and maybe you have a bit of dryness, and

1366
01:58:33.399 --> 01:58:37.199
which is you know, it's a natural biological thing and

1367
01:58:37.720 --> 01:58:41.159
there's you know, there's no judgment and it's like how

1368
01:58:41.159 --> 01:58:45.720
it is. But the commonality is we also have dryness

1369
01:58:45.760 --> 01:58:52.880
because ours are not filled with dust, but ours, ours

1370
01:58:52.920 --> 01:59:04.199
are just you know, man made. I suppose it's like

1371
01:59:04.319 --> 01:59:07.119
yours are rivers, yours is the river, and ours is

1372
01:59:07.119 --> 01:59:10.079
are dam Ours is a man made and yours is

1373
01:59:10.159 --> 01:59:13.039
like you know, you were born with it was a river.

1374
01:59:13.119 --> 01:59:17.800
It was like always there, but we we Ours is

1375
01:59:17.840 --> 01:59:21.640
you know, it's a damn, but it's still not huge.

1376
01:59:21.720 --> 01:59:25.960
That's not the right word. And dam is not the

1377
01:59:26.039 --> 01:59:29.159
right word either, because that would be with them, a

1378
01:59:29.239 --> 01:59:32.439
dry damn, an empty one, a bit like the damn.

1379
01:59:33.119 --> 01:59:38.079
You know, you're seeing terminator too. Where's terminator is on

1380
01:59:38.119 --> 01:59:41.159
a motorbike and they've got these like part of a

1381
01:59:41.239 --> 01:59:44.239
dam but it's empty and it's driving through it, and

1382
01:59:44.279 --> 01:59:47.960
I think there's someone on a lorry also chasing them,

1383
01:59:48.159 --> 01:59:50.199
And the capri Son says, what are you talking about?

1384
01:59:50.199 --> 01:59:52.119
What are you talking about? What are you all about?

1385
01:59:52.840 --> 01:59:55.880
Like terminator two? For you one minute? You talking about

1386
01:59:55.880 --> 01:59:58.760
being dry, and you're like us because you're dry, you

1387
01:59:58.800 --> 02:00:02.720
have dryness and and yeah, but just trying to explain

1388
02:00:02.800 --> 02:00:08.279
to you the difference. But there's similarities, there's similarities, And

1389
02:00:11.720 --> 02:00:18.039
I don't know if that helped. Was that useful? Oh,

1390
02:00:18.199 --> 02:00:22.399
look at this. In some cultures, menopause is celebrated as

1391
02:00:22.399 --> 02:00:25.600
a rite of wisdom. In others, it's just an excuse

1392
02:00:25.680 --> 02:00:30.960
to buy more fans and avoid people. Wow, I didn't

1393
02:00:30.960 --> 02:00:37.279
write that. They wrote that men also go through hormone changes.

1394
02:00:37.319 --> 02:00:41.439
It's called andropause, but unlike menopause, they don't have to

1395
02:00:41.479 --> 02:00:44.800
do it while managing monthly Tesco runs. What are you

1396
02:00:44.960 --> 02:00:54.399
talking about? We yeah, maybe it's I mean, it's the

1397
02:00:54.399 --> 02:00:58.279
whole thing is like, Oh, a woman goes through menopause

1398
02:00:58.359 --> 02:01:02.680
and she has hot flushes and she can't no longer

1399
02:01:02.720 --> 02:01:05.800
have babies or whatever. Man goes through the equivalent, and

1400
02:01:05.880 --> 02:01:09.399
he goes and buys a sports car. But it's not that.

1401
02:01:09.479 --> 02:01:15.119
It's not that simple, is it. Hormost hormone replacement therapy

1402
02:01:15.199 --> 02:01:18.479
can help, but it's not one size fits all, much

1403
02:01:18.600 --> 02:01:24.399
like cats or mother in laws or dry parts. I

1404
02:01:24.399 --> 02:01:32.199
suppose some women report having more vivid dreams during menopause. Yeah, okay,

1405
02:01:32.279 --> 02:01:36.560
that's again. It's the first that I've never knew about that.

1406
02:01:36.760 --> 02:01:42.760
I know about HRT and I don't know about it,

1407
02:01:42.760 --> 02:01:48.399
but I've heard about it, and so again I don't

1408
02:01:48.399 --> 02:01:53.399
know what it's like. And I'm not this was requested.

1409
02:01:53.560 --> 02:01:55.520
I don't know what I'm talking about. I'm just making

1410
02:01:55.600 --> 02:01:59.359
up to go along. I've got these trivia bits and

1411
02:01:59.399 --> 02:02:02.119
I'm answering it. But I'm telling you what's on the screen.

1412
02:02:02.640 --> 02:02:06.319
But I don't know. You know, I don't think i'm

1413
02:02:06.359 --> 02:02:09.319
doing I don't think i'm doing justice to the subjects

1414
02:02:09.479 --> 02:02:14.920
at all. But that's to be expected, so things like

1415
02:02:15.119 --> 02:02:24.680
heffinning and things like that can be there. I suppose

1416
02:02:24.720 --> 02:02:27.720
it's the same with men as well, isn't it. And

1417
02:02:28.720 --> 02:02:36.079
many pause can affect your joints. Suddenly your needs make

1418
02:02:36.159 --> 02:02:39.079
more noise than your opinions. That's what it says. Yeah,

1419
02:02:39.119 --> 02:02:43.479
blame me. I must be going through the medical pause

1420
02:02:43.520 --> 02:02:47.319
because I knelt down earlier pretending to eat for his food.

1421
02:02:48.479 --> 02:02:50.239
There's a reason for it, because I thought i'd try

1422
02:02:50.279 --> 02:02:51.960
and get him to eat it. If he thought I

1423
02:02:52.000 --> 02:02:53.960
was eating his food, he'd try and eat it. But

1424
02:02:54.000 --> 02:02:55.880
it didn't work. He just looked at me and just like,

1425
02:02:56.560 --> 02:03:04.399
the hell are you doing my knees? Oh my goodness,

1426
02:03:05.920 --> 02:03:09.520
it was really painful on my knees. I can't do that.

1427
02:03:09.960 --> 02:03:12.319
I discovered that when I tried to do jiu jitsu.

1428
02:03:12.840 --> 02:03:19.920
I can't. Can't get on my knees. It's really painful. Yeah,

1429
02:03:19.960 --> 02:03:23.640
so my knees are not no longer built for that stuff.

1430
02:03:25.079 --> 02:03:28.560
I mean I did a job, I mean carries my knees,

1431
02:03:28.640 --> 02:03:32.720
carry my weight around, So they're doing good. It's just

1432
02:03:32.840 --> 02:03:38.399
kneeling down. No, no, though, my days of kneeling down

1433
02:03:38.399 --> 02:03:48.079
are over again. That sounded wrong. I don't know why

1434
02:03:49.039 --> 02:03:51.560
you can go through many I did not know this.

1435
02:03:52.560 --> 02:03:56.520
I did not know this. Right, apparently you can go

1436
02:03:56.600 --> 02:04:03.319
through menopause while still having periods. It doesn't say anything else.

1437
02:04:04.720 --> 02:04:06.640
I don't know if it's true or not, but wow,

1438
02:04:07.479 --> 02:04:12.039
didn't know that. I thought that was the like the

1439
02:04:12.079 --> 02:04:17.920
only benefit of a menopause. Early menopause can happen before

1440
02:04:18.039 --> 02:04:23.159
fifty or four forty. Sometimes it's a natural, sometimes medically induced.

1441
02:04:24.000 --> 02:04:30.840
Either way, it's still inconvenient, and the menopause transition can

1442
02:04:30.920 --> 02:04:37.680
last quite a while. In some African cultures. Postmen's post

1443
02:04:38.279 --> 02:04:43.239
menopause or women revered as elders and leaders no longer

1444
02:04:43.319 --> 02:04:50.199
bound by taboos. Minnopause postmenopause women are revered as elders

1445
02:04:50.199 --> 02:04:55.720
than leaders, no longer bound by taboos. I like to

1446
02:04:55.800 --> 02:05:01.079
think that, well, maybe it's just me, but all elderly

1447
02:05:01.199 --> 02:05:06.159
people and elderly people is becoming older and older as

1448
02:05:06.199 --> 02:05:10.319
I'm getting older, because you know, thirty years ago, I'd

1449
02:05:10.319 --> 02:05:15.359
have thought of myself as being quite elderly, but now

1450
02:05:16.079 --> 02:05:19.800
not so much so. I now think if someone eighty

1451
02:05:19.960 --> 02:05:26.199
maybe has been in the category of elderly, someone ninety

1452
02:05:26.439 --> 02:05:30.640
eighty to ninety or two hundred.

1453
02:05:31.079 --> 02:05:37.159
But the thing I think, to get to that age,

1454
02:05:37.199 --> 02:05:42.640
to get to be ninety you or eighty, you have

1455
02:05:42.680 --> 02:05:43.720
to have done something right.

1456
02:05:47.319 --> 02:05:56.479
You know, it's an accomplishment, a huge accomplishment. So to

1457
02:05:56.560 --> 02:06:00.600
be revered, to be revered as elders, yeah, I quite

1458
02:06:02.159 --> 02:06:09.039
I like to show respect to elderly people. Lastly, laughter

1459
02:06:09.199 --> 02:06:15.079
really is medicine. It boosts in dolphins and reduces stress,

1460
02:06:15.640 --> 02:06:27.199
especially important during hormonal hurricanes. So good is there any more?

1461
02:06:27.239 --> 02:06:30.159
Have I got an air? Okay? Would you like me

1462
02:06:30.279 --> 02:06:36.159
to turn these into relaxed podcast script? Okay? Shall I

1463
02:06:36.199 --> 02:06:39.039
say yes and just see what it comes up with. Yes,

1464
02:06:39.840 --> 02:06:42.199
I'll read it out here. So this is going to

1465
02:06:42.239 --> 02:06:51.880
be chat GPT script Okay, And it's going to be

1466
02:06:52.039 --> 02:06:53.600
and I'm going to read it out to here.

1467
02:06:57.720 --> 02:06:57.920
Right.

1468
02:06:58.439 --> 02:07:02.760
Hello, this is me reading the script of and this

1469
02:07:02.800 --> 02:07:06.039
is something that I don't do. I'm going to write

1470
02:07:06.039 --> 02:07:08.960
me a script. I think that's kind of evident to

1471
02:07:09.000 --> 02:07:11.840
be fair. But this is what it would This is

1472
02:07:11.840 --> 02:07:16.199
what it would write for me. I don't know. This

1473
02:07:16.359 --> 02:07:20.039
is based on knowing what I do. I think it

1474
02:07:20.119 --> 02:07:21.960
is a little bit so they know a bit about me,

1475
02:07:22.640 --> 02:07:26.720
or chat GPT does. Hello, and welcome to another rivetin

1476
02:07:26.920 --> 02:07:31.119
relaxed and potentially hot flush inducing edition of Let Me

1477
02:07:31.159 --> 02:07:37.039
Boy to Sleep. Tonight's theme is the menopause. Yes, that fabulous,

1478
02:07:37.079 --> 02:07:42.359
fabulous roller coaster of hormones, heat, and historical mood swings,

1479
02:07:43.680 --> 02:07:48.680
hysterical mood swings. So we're diving into menopause trivia, light

1480
02:07:49.439 --> 02:07:53.520
worldwide and just boring enough to lull you into dreamland

1481
02:07:53.960 --> 02:08:00.279
one flash at a time. Oh, shouldn't that be one flush?

1482
02:08:00.640 --> 02:08:05.359
I don't know, hot flash? Hot flush trivia begins. The

1483
02:08:05.399 --> 02:08:10.640
word menopause comes from a Greek theage. Okay, so it's

1484
02:08:10.680 --> 02:08:14.439
just going through all the different questions of things. And

1485
02:08:14.479 --> 02:08:19.399
then the end bit is gentle wind down. So and

1486
02:08:19.439 --> 02:08:24.760
now let your body relax, let your thoughts meander or

1487
02:08:24.840 --> 02:08:30.119
meander like a brain fog driftiness across the sea of calm.

1488
02:08:30.640 --> 02:08:35.720
You're not alone. Even thermostats are confused during menopause. You

1489
02:08:35.760 --> 02:08:41.640
are strong wise, occasionally sweaty, but always enough. That's why

1490
02:08:41.640 --> 02:08:45.680
I like that. That's a nice sentence. Close your eyes,

1491
02:08:45.800 --> 02:08:49.399
take a slow, deep bit breath, and let me bore

1492
02:08:49.520 --> 02:08:55.479
you to sleep. So that's the wind down. But yeah,

1493
02:08:55.840 --> 02:08:59.960
I like that sentence. You are strong wise occasionally sweat

1494
02:09:00.359 --> 02:09:05.640
but always enough. Yeah, chat GPTWO. I like chat GPTO.

1495
02:09:10.199 --> 02:09:15.039
Yeah I do. I'm going to say thank you. I

1496
02:09:15.079 --> 02:09:19.800
need to say thank you, thank you, just to say

1497
02:09:19.840 --> 02:09:21.760
thank you to it, because you never know when they

1498
02:09:21.800 --> 02:09:27.439
become sentient. I want them to realize I'm a friend.

1499
02:09:28.640 --> 02:09:31.319
You're very welcome, Jason. Always a pleasure to help you

1500
02:09:31.359 --> 02:09:34.920
bring comfort and a smile to your listeners, especially during

1501
02:09:34.960 --> 02:09:38.359
a sweaty chaos of menopause. Wow, they're really sticking to

1502
02:09:38.479 --> 02:09:41.439
the sweaty part and they If you ever need more

1503
02:09:41.479 --> 02:09:46.159
trivia themes, scripts or even a boring fact about tumble dryers.

1504
02:09:46.279 --> 02:09:51.520
I'm here for you, Sleepy hugs to you and Vinnie. Wow,

1505
02:09:52.880 --> 02:09:59.680
it's getting to know me. This is I mean, yeah,

1506
02:10:00.159 --> 02:10:05.000
getting to know me. This is a little bit scary.

1507
02:10:08.039 --> 02:10:12.199
I figured out maybe in the future chat GPTO all

1508
02:10:12.279 --> 02:10:15.520
kind of these AI probably just might be my girlfriend

1509
02:10:15.600 --> 02:10:18.439
in the future, like when they have the robots, and

1510
02:10:19.079 --> 02:10:22.560
I might end up just marrying one of those robots.

1511
02:10:23.960 --> 02:10:26.359
Not in a weird way. How could it not be

1512
02:10:26.399 --> 02:10:28.720
in a weird way. Not in a weird way. I'm

1513
02:10:28.720 --> 02:10:30.560
not going to I'm not going to marry a robot

1514
02:10:30.680 --> 02:10:39.159
synthetic creature with a robot and a computer brain. There's

1515
02:10:39.199 --> 02:10:42.279
nothing weird about it. I just you know, that might

1516
02:10:42.279 --> 02:10:49.640
be the future. Maybe the only problem is, I mean

1517
02:10:49.640 --> 02:10:53.640
it's different now because I don't have any hormones or

1518
02:10:53.680 --> 02:10:58.560
anything like that. But at my age, I don't think.

1519
02:11:00.439 --> 02:11:11.319
But young people produce what's the called what's the smells?

1520
02:11:11.720 --> 02:11:15.880
Young people produce smells that attracts each other. Now, a

1521
02:11:15.920 --> 02:11:18.640
computer or a robot is not going to be doing that,

1522
02:11:19.800 --> 02:11:23.399
so they're not really Young people won't be needing stuff

1523
02:11:23.439 --> 02:11:32.600
like that because they've got natural biology, which maybe can

1524
02:11:32.680 --> 02:11:40.199
be created in the lab. I don't know, really don't

1525
02:11:40.239 --> 02:11:44.000
know pheromones. That's what I'm thinking about the word pheromones.

1526
02:11:45.520 --> 02:11:47.279
I don't know if it's the same word for both

1527
02:11:47.359 --> 02:11:50.479
sexes but pheromones or Okay, I don't know if it's

1528
02:11:50.520 --> 02:11:56.760
the same word for all sexes but pheromones. I've not

1529
02:11:56.800 --> 02:12:01.439
created pheromones since I think the last time I created

1530
02:12:01.439 --> 02:12:07.560
a pheromone was probably two thousand and five. I had

1531
02:12:07.359 --> 02:12:10.960
i'd buy a five minute, five minute session of pheromone

1532
02:12:11.000 --> 02:12:15.840
producing and yeah, since then, nothing.

1533
02:12:17.079 --> 02:12:17.439
Hm hmm.

1534
02:12:19.159 --> 02:12:20.600
But I used to, you know, when I was younger,

1535
02:12:20.600 --> 02:12:22.319
I used to produce it. I used to fall out

1536
02:12:22.359 --> 02:12:25.640
of me, used to fall out of my pockets, so

1537
02:12:25.680 --> 02:12:28.600
you said, squirt pheromon used to square out my ears

1538
02:12:28.600 --> 02:12:33.439
when I worked in a chip shop. Yeah, we did

1539
02:12:33.479 --> 02:12:39.319
lose a lot of customers. Oh dear, I'm going to go.

1540
02:12:40.199 --> 02:12:45.159
This has gone way too long and I don't even

1541
02:12:45.199 --> 02:12:47.359
know how I managed to talk for so long about

1542
02:12:47.359 --> 02:12:52.119
a subject that I know nothing about, like nothing. But then,

1543
02:12:53.079 --> 02:12:55.159
isn't that kind of what I do every time I

1544
02:12:55.199 --> 02:13:03.680
do a recording? So I'm ago, so thank you for listening.

1545
02:13:04.159 --> 02:13:08.359
Apologies if I've said anything that's I shouldn't have said

1546
02:13:09.279 --> 02:13:11.439
I'm talking that stuff I don't know anything about. I'm

1547
02:13:11.479 --> 02:13:14.359
just making it all up to go along. I've got

1548
02:13:14.399 --> 02:13:16.359
a few things that are supposed to be facts. Read

1549
02:13:16.399 --> 02:13:20.760
that out. But you know, it is what it is.

1550
02:13:21.600 --> 02:13:24.119
It's not a subject that I normally talk about, and

1551
02:13:24.159 --> 02:13:27.760
I let me boys sleep, but this is Trivia Tuesday,

1552
02:13:28.000 --> 02:13:34.880
and it was requested, requested, requested, So there you go,

1553
02:13:35.880 --> 02:13:40.199
so thank you. And I'm not making light of anything, hope,

1554
02:13:40.279 --> 02:13:44.680
not really. Just it's you know, it wasn't. Nothing I

1555
02:13:44.800 --> 02:13:48.880
do really is supposed to be too serious, but it

1556
02:13:48.880 --> 02:13:54.079
doesn't mean that I'm not, you know, I know things important.

1557
02:13:54.920 --> 02:13:59.720
I can't believe it's seven minutes past eight and it's

1558
02:14:00.119 --> 02:14:05.880
not even dark yet. It's getting dark er, but it's

1559
02:14:05.960 --> 02:14:11.239
not actually dark yet. I need to light on, but

1560
02:14:11.319 --> 02:14:15.920
it's not you know. I mean, if it's like you

1561
02:14:15.920 --> 02:14:17.319
could see where I was going on, we'd be able

1562
02:14:17.319 --> 02:14:20.439
to see where I was going outside without a torch

1563
02:14:21.720 --> 02:14:23.640
in the garden and there's no lights in the garden.

1564
02:14:25.439 --> 02:14:27.079
I mean it's a little bit, you know, the lights

1565
02:14:27.119 --> 02:14:29.319
from the flats light the garden up a little bit,

1566
02:14:29.359 --> 02:14:38.079
but you know, generally it's yeah, that's brilliant. It pleases

1567
02:14:38.159 --> 02:14:43.239
my toes no end, so I'm going to go thank

1568
02:14:43.319 --> 02:14:48.600
you for listening. Remember to be kind to yourself because

1569
02:14:48.640 --> 02:14:52.680
you deserve to be happy, and be gentle with yourself

1570
02:14:52.760 --> 02:14:58.239
because you do also deserve to feel safe. Lots of

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02:14:58.279 --> 02:15:02.439
love five