Aug. 22, 2025

(no music) 96 bottles of water | LMBYTS #1418 | Jason Newland | 22nd August 2025

(no music) 96 bottles of water | LMBYTS #1418 | Jason Newland | 22nd August 2025
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Hello and welcome. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome to Jason

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new Land dot com. B DA is Jason Who do land?

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Do Land? New Land? Sometimes sounds like I'm saying, do land,

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Jason Newland do Land. Maybe it's just my ex and

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I don't know. See. Yeah, Hello, welcome to. I'm going

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to stop yawning in a minute. Welcome to. Let me boy,

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you to sleep. My name's somebody done the name bitter.

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I please only listen when you can safety close ies. Yeah,

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it's six o'clock. I had a very in the morning.

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I had a very early night last night. I was

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in bed boo about half eight, I reckon deferred to

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an early night. Really spout it really, and so I

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went to bed. Vinnie's just coming. What's going on? You

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just woke me up, you bastard. Stop it, Phinny. Hey,

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we're not going anywhere, Vinnie. You can get up here

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and have a cuddle. But I'm not going out. Nope.

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I have to have my breakfast first. Mmm. Oh, here's

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a weird thing, right. Apparently all the details about Uncle's

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sausages has been lost. They'd lost they didn't know where

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he was, they didn't know like he got lost in

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the system, you know, digitally. I mean, I don't mean

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his fingers, but you know, And so they weren't able

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to organize his final ceremony. It's just he got to

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the end. It actually stanned that he's next to King said,

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if if we have to if she has to cancel

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the funeral again, she's already canceled it before. Then it's

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going to end up just having a cremation because she

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has to go away for two weeks at the end

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of this week, at the end of next week, so

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she won't be here to do anything. So it's yeah,

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it's weird, weird times, but I think it's all sorted out.

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It's going to be next Thursday, the twenty eighth. So

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what day is it now? Twenty third? That means Thursday.

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My birthdays are twenty six on Tuesday. Yeah, my birthday's

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on Tuesday. Everyone. Yeah, thirty two not bad at it?

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Looking pretty good for thirty two. Thirty two. It's weird

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because I think at thirty two and I still think

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that that's old. It's weird, isn't it. I think once

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I reached Yeah, once I reached thirty, I kind of

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I didn't didn't feel young anymore, not young as in myself,

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but just in society. I didn't feel different inside. I mean,

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I mean when people say, you know, you see people

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there seventies to say, oh, I still feel like I'm

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fourteen years old, Like I don't feel that way. Par

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from the fact that I can't remember what I felt

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like when I was fourteen years old, but I don't

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feel physically, I don't feel the same as I used

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to when I was younger. Mentally, I don't feel the same.

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So I'm not quite sure what they mean when they

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say still feel the same as I did. I don't

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know if it's just is it because that sentences is

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being used lots and lots and people are used to

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saying it, and it doesn't exactly represent perhaps what the

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person's feeling or what they're trying to convey, but just

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the overall sense though of I don't feel as old

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as I look. I don't know what did I do yesterday?

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If what I say about my dreams. By the way,

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there will be a Q and a Friday today, because

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it is Friday, but it's very early, well it's early

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in the morning. It's too early for me to do

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a Q and a Friday, I have to be awake

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to do that, and I'm not awake yet. See yesterday,

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I do that later yesterday I ordered some stuff because

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I'm trying to get stocked up for the future. I

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don't mean the future as in the next hundred years,

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but just you know, the next the remainder of the year. Really,

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I suppose, so over the last week or so, a

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couple of weeks, I got two or three weeks. I

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got some got enough black bin bags, rubbish refuge bags

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to last me till the end of the year, probably

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to the end of next year. Actually, So I'm buying

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stuff in bulk or just buying lots of it, multi packs,

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stuff like that. Not lots of it. But I got

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a bunch of mouthwash, so that that's plaques, is it? Plaques?

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So that that is I got one to ten and them,

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so that will last me for a while. Washing up

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liquid that last me. I mean that definitely took the

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less end of the year. That might last me to

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the end of next year again as well. I've got

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I've got four hundred black bin bags, so that's gonna

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last a while. And then I've got one hundred and

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twenty toilet rolls and middlely. I'm nearly through one pack,

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but that was two three weeks ago I got them.

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So I don't mean I've got through a whole pack

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of one hundred and twenty in three weeks. No, I

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mean they've I think they're packs of twelve or packs

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of ten. I suppose twelve in each one and then

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ten packs. Yeah, that makes sense, isn't it. So I've

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got enough toilet role probably to last me till the

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end of the year. And other things I've ordered is deodorant, toothpaste,

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but boo, there is other stuff and I can't think

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what it is. What is it? Toothpaste, deodorant? I'm gonna

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look it up. You haven't got to move any You

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ain't gonna move. What are you moving for? A right? So? Look?

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Are okay? So I've ordered in bulk wet wipes, diodrin. Oh, yeah,

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Dove soap, So I've ordered loads of those, not loads,

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but about twelve I think I got ordered in bulk

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Tetley original tea bags and toothpaste Doves. So okay, I

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was just saying stuff dispatched, right, That wasn't quite as

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exciting as I thought. H oh, well, so, yeah, I

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think he's looking my feet, so I have. I'm just

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trying to get stocked up really just as a I

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don't know, not safety measure, but it's just a practical

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preparation for the wind, you know, just getting getting stuff in,

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not getting stuff in that would be for Christmas. Yeah,

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I can't think what else that I might need. Our

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water yesterday I got because I do drink bottle water,

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bottled water if I can talk properly. So I've got

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eight packs of twelve whatever however minute many that makes

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one hundred is it ninety ninety ninety four or whatever,

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So yeah, I got I got them all on my

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shells over there. So it's just little things like that,

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because the delivery charge sort of get if I get

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a delivery. If I get a big delivery or a

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small delivery, the charge is the same amount of money

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as well. Try and well, yeah, I don't know. I'm

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trying to say, try and get a bit stocked up,

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but maybe occasionally get a big delivery. It's weird. I

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get a certain sense of satisfaction. I want to look

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over to the bookcases and see all those was those

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bottles of water or stacked up knowing that I'm not

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going to run out anytime soon. It's quite a nice

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little feeling. And this is what I used to do

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in the past. I did. I used to always have,

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not always, but when I first moved in here, because

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I had a bit more room rather than just one

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one bit little bit of space which is a room

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that I used to live in and bought various different rooms.

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You know, had a bit more space in here when

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I first moved in. Before I filled all those spaces

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with rubbish, and so I used to stock up on everything.

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I mean, i'd love probably about yeah, wow, so much stuff.

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There was no room to put nowhere to put the

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stuff I had it like all over the bath, to

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the edge of the bath, cans of deodorant. It's just

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had so many bits and bobs. I did give quite

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a bit of it away, but this is I was

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getting it from the supermarket. And this is back when

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things were a fair bit cheaper. Actually, you know, you

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can get a lot of special offers, and things were

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really really it's sometimes very cheap. It doesn't seem to

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be that way anymore, but it's uh, it's all right.

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I mean, maybe I need to go into the supermarket

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to find these deals. Perhaps they're going to struggle to

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find them online, not struggle, But it's probably easier to

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see it with my eyes, isn't it, you know what

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I mean? Yeah, I had some dreams last night, and

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my voice is a bit croaky. It's always like this

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when I first wake up, ball Room Star, I have

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to check that. I always have to that's my that's

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my croaky voice. Check. Yeah, my dream was very chaotic,

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very chaotic, so I wouldn't even know where to start.

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There's one dream, and I think I was living at

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home with you know, like when I was fifteen, fourteen,

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I was living at home. The weird thing about it,

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it's never in the house. It's never in the house

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that we lived sometimes sometimes it's the same people, but

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it's always in a much bigger house, like a huge place.

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Hm hmm. I mean that house we lived in could

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have been big if it wasn't for all the people.

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Because a big room turns into a small room when

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you feel it full of stuff, don't it. It's no

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longer a big room, you know, if you've if you've

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got a sofa, mean it's still the same size room.

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I mean, you know mathematically. But if it's all cluttered

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and you've got a nice sized room, if you put

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a big table in the middle war taking up you

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know it, it's no longer. The word room isn't really

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correct now, is it. Yeah, because it's a room. Yeah,

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But if there's no room, then it's not really a room.

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Because it's called room because it's room there's space to maneuver.

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But if there is no space to maneuver and there's

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no room to actually do anything because you've got stuff

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in the way, then it's not really a room, is it.

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This is frying my own brain. That is something that

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I don't don't really don't really enjoy obstacles. So in here,

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in my living room, there's a big Okay, it's not

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a big room. It's it's okay, but it's not cluttered. Okay,

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it's a bit cluttered. But between me and the other wall,

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the other side of the room, because I'm sitting in

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this so well, it's a old reclining two person as

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in me and Vinny only reclining thing that my friend

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gave me. It's old. It's probably about twenty years old.

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I'd say it's an old thing, but it's okay. It's

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falling apart, but it's okay, so might hey. And it's

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against the wall, not right against the wall, but you

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know it's near the end of the other side of

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the wall. It's a facing the other wall. There's two

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tables together, like two desks together, and the TVs on

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top of those desks, and apart from a chair, which,

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to be fair, is in the way at the moment.

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But generally there's nothing between me and the telly. It's

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all space. And you could argue where you wouldn't be

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able to see the telly if there was something there,

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if you suddenly if you put a bookcase in the

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middle of the room, well I wouldn't put a bookcase

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in the middle of the room, would I. That'd be silly.

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I mean I have less bookcases than I do now,

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got three to the left of me, and you know,

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I cut down my book collection, so I haven't got

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as many books anymore. But the shelves were there's no

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book there's bottles of water. Oh it's I'm so proud

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of that water. It's weird. But I'm not into clutter,

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as in, I like to be able to walk through

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without banging into things. So you know, I would never

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have like my friend you have his sofa and then

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to have this big wooden't like a coffee table thing.

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It was big and it seemed to take up half

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the room and have it in front of the sofa.

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But he didn't really use it. It was just he had

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something to the left of him. That's where he would

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put his drink. And you know, like with me, I've

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got a little table thing to the right of me.

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That's where I put my stuff. You know, that's where

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it all goes. And it's like, Okay, you don't need

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that big obstacle. Because I used to bang my leg

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on it so many times and it took up the

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whole room. Why not the whole it took up He

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had to walk around it, there was no space. And

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also because he was a sociable person, he had two

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settees for visitors. I don't want visitors, so I've got

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just this now. Originally when I moved in to avoid visitors,

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I had one chair, one single chair. It was a recliner.

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It was a really really cheap version of a lazy boy.

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It was called can't be asked boy. It's very late.

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It was It was a one hundred and fifty coud

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I think, and it started falling apart. I think it

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started falling apart before I got it out of the box.

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But I liked it. It was a bit too squeaky ish,

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a bit too squeaky, but I liked it. You know.

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It wasn't okay, Yeah, yeah, it was all right. It

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was okay for me and Andre. I'm not sure how

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Vinny would have got on with it a minute, it'd

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be I reckon it'd be disintegrated by now. But if

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I still had it, I must have had it for

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at least five years, five years, six years. I don't

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know how long I've had this, because the weird thing

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about it is I remember carrying it up with Luke

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and it's the heaviest sofa I've ever carried ever, so heavy,

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and we carried it upstairs, which wasn't a good idea.

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I mean, you know, it's a fear a few years back.

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But still I had to lie down for about two

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hours because of my back. Yeah, I don't know. I

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don't know how strange I remember it, just in the

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sense of how much hassle it was. But I still

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had Andre at the time, definitely still had andre, so

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it would have been before, yeah, probably about five years ago. Then.

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See it's got two s it's got two chairs, right,

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I'm in the right one, the right side one, the

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left one. Doesn't get set by anyone. It's always got

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stuff on it. If someone insists on coming in here

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knocking on my door, they can sit on the other chair,

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which is what I use when I'm at the desk,

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or they can sit on this chair and I'll sit

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on the other chair. I don't sit next to people.

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I don't. I just know I like my space. I'm

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not saying I would never sit next to someone, because

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there are circumstances where I probably would want to sit

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next to someone, but it would take a bit of

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getting used to. But you know, generally it's nice to

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have my space. I do think though, because I see

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some people and they've got you know, I just want

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to say, old married couples, just some people I see

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they've got their own chairs in the living room. Maybe

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maybe they're next to each other, maybe they're different sides

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of the room, but they've got their own comfortable chairs.

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Or maybe one person sits in their own chair and

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the other person sits on the sofa, and I wonder,

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you know, if they've been together a long time from

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young I mean, they probably didn't sit in separate chairs.

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If there was in their teen years or their twenties,

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they probably just guessing they possibly want it to be

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as close together as possible physically. So I'm wondering, how

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do you introduce the new chair, how do you introduce

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sitting separately? And I know people that they're married, and

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I don't know why they're married. They're sleep in separate beds,

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lead completely separate lives and don't really have anything to

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do with each other. What is the point in that? Well, seriously,

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what is the point? I mean that's yeah, I don't

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get it. Yeah, I just because I think if you're

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to feel like you're a lodger in your own home

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is not a good situation to be in. And I

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know what it's like to be a lodger because I've

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been a lodger menymim nim nim nim nim many times,

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many times, way too many times. Probably everyone knows what

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it's like to be a lodger, but I was I've

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just lived in so many, so different places over the years,

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it's ridiculous, and it's weird because I've been here for

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ten and a half years is it half years April May,

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June July August or ten years and four months, and

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still kind of like, wow, I'm not even used to

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it yet. Really I am, but I'm not. And I've

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never decorated other than the very basic decoration when I

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first moved in, just filling in the gaps, you know,

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making sure the walls are the same, and never cared

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about that because I never really thought i'd be here

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for long. I just didn't expect this to last, so

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I've never really The walls are the same color they

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were when I moved in, pretty much the I put

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a carpet in, and it's the same carpet. It's one

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of those thin, cheapy ones. Haven't you know? The doors

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are falling apart. It's the same doors as when I

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moved in. Really, they're not nice doors, And I do wonder.

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I mean, I mean, you think of all the pleasure

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I'm getting from looking at those bottled waters, bottles of

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water stacked up. Maybe if I had a new door,

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I'll be even happier. Or nice pink walls or yellow

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walls or I like pastor colors like blue, pink, yellow greens, okay,

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but definitely blue, yellow and pink. They're putting in my

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favor colors pastor. There's something soft about that. I like

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soft colors, very gentle, not to just colors that don't.

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They're not demanding, you know, don't demand your attention. They're

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just happy for you to notice them if you notice them.

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If you don't, that's also fine. Let's you also have peace. Yeah,

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so pastor colors are like, maybe I should do that.

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I'm not really a decorator though. And also I've got

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all a lot of soundproofing up in here, so to

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take the soundproof and down, I'd have to get new

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soundproofing because I've got quite a lot of sound proofing.

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It probably does make a difference that I'm not aware of,

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because if I took it down it might I'm guessing

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it'd be a lot more echoing in here. It might

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make no difference whatsoever. And I just wasted my time

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with it all. But sure, it's not sure hmm. I

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think the council have been around and if they're starting

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to do something with a flat downstairs, because they put

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one of those key lock things on the door at

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the front door so that workers can come and go

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and get in and out, which makes me think that

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maybe they've changed the locks. I don't know, And if

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they did that, it must have been on Monday when

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I was out, because I didn't hear, not heard any

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drilling or anything. In fact, I think it was there

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on Monday when I got back. Yeah, because I was

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out four. I left at one and I got back

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about quarter to five, so I'll be banging around down there,

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and I don't really know what they do. I don't

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know what the council do, not really. I mean, I

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suppose they've got to check the electrics, check everything so

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tidy and stuff, But I don't know what they do.

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I mean, you know, if the place is full, then

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they've got emptier, so that you know, I mean, luckily

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the counselor I've done a lot, A lot of stuff's

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already done for them. I've packed I got rid of

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about over fifty bags maybe more of rubbish, and I've

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also packed probably another fifty if not more, all upstairs

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in his flat. The council told me, and initially they

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wanted the stuff moved out, and then I spoke to them.

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They said, I can just leave it in there and

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they'll come and do it. So okay, So I've made

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it the job a lot easier, a lot quicker for

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them because really most of the stuff is just furniture now,

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other than the stuff that's bagged, but that'll take ten

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minutes to take that downstairs. It's they've got more than

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one person the furnit. Well, they should have more than

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one person, shouldn't they, So it won't be able to

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get they won't be able to get the furniture down

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up a with and yeah, so once the furniture's out,

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I don't think there's it's just be about tidy and

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cleaning up, taking the carpet up. Yeah, I mean, what

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is it now, still August? There'll be someone new in there,

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probably by October. No, they won't because they have not

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started coming in yet, so fingers crossed, there won't be

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anyone here toil. No, no, wait a minute, yeah, fingers crossed.

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Nothing before the before the end of the year, so

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maybe not until next year because just from experience, what's

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likely to move in is, Yeah, it's gonna be a

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lot of noise and stuff. You've got seems to have

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two types of people, those who let the door slam

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and those that don't. And those that let the door

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slam generally there's sort of a bit of chaos there

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because they don't care. They're not being considerate. Those that

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don't let the door slam are being considerate towards the

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other neighbors. It's weird. I just this is that's what

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it's like here anyway. I think one of the people

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that lets her door slam downstairs, she's she's a nice,

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nice person, so it's not it's not really out of vindictiveness.

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She just not thinking about she's I don't know, I'm

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not sure she hears it. She might not be able

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to hear it slam. There's also people that you know,

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perhaps can't hear the noise they're making, so you can't

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really blame them for that. But the one next door

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to her, it's ironic because when she first moved in

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last summer, she said, I wish they wouldn't slam her

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door next door. It shakes the whole flat shake you,

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And I said, I know, it's horrible, isn't it. That's

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why we try and tell people try and we hope

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that people won't let the door slam because it shakes

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the building, and this noise is very loud, it echoes.

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And she said, oh, and then a few days later

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she's letting a door slam, and she did that continuously

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for the next year. I think it's the mentality of

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if you can't beat them, join them, and I've never

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really understood that one. I do wonder how people can

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let their door slam so often, though I've heard it

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downstairs go seventeen times. I realized it's probably a bit

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sad that I'm counting them, but seventeen times in just

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a few minut and it's it's almost like they're like

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letting a slam, then opening up, pushing it open and

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let it slam, and just repeating that seventeen times, Like

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why why why would you do such a thing? Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? Yeah?

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I mean, sometimes my door slams if I don't catch it,

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or if I've got a visitor, and their natural reaction

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is just to let the door slam, which is possibly

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something I would do if I didn't know the door slammed,

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you know, because not all doors just slam shut today

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when you let go over them. Because these are fire

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protection doors, very very heavy, and they're just they're designed

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to slam shut, so it's not really anyone's fault. That's

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their design because they're designed to close on their own.

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But do they have to slam? Can we not put

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some kind of silence proofer, you know, silence are on them.

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I figured if you put some kind of fuzzy tape

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just on inside the door, on the doorframe, that would

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probably take the shock, like a shock of absorbent that

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turn it from a bang to a you know, just

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just just a little sound, which means we wouldn't hear it.

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I mean, I'm not hugely affected by anything that go

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who's on downstairs? The door slamming, I'm used to it.

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It's just just one of those things. Upstairs. However, we

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don't have door slamming, and never have done since I've

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lived there. So if the person next opposite me is

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another door slammer, it's gonna be wow annoying. Yeah, I

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wonder if I could do. I might actually look into

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that sea if there's anything I can do to fix

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the door from slamming or from making a big noise

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when it does slam, but so doesn't affect with the

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reason the door slams, so it's still sealed and everything

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just just a little buffer, a little a little something

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something to it, A little something something. Come on, give

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me a little summer summer? Oh not, I do, I

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mean like that? Yeah? How am I look into that today?

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Do a little bit of research? Yeah, so that's my

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little I didn't have told you about my dreams. I

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had this stream and I kept trying to get somewhere,

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and it was like a job interview, and I needed

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to be there by a certain time, and the person

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that it wasn't even a job. Was it a job

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interview or was it just to start the new job?

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It might have been to start the new job. I

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just couldn't get there. I did get there on the end,

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but I was struggling so much and I was getting

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distracted by other things. And when I did get there,

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there was some weird seminar going on. And then I

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think there was vampires involved for some reason, or some

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kind of really weird yeah, very weird behavior. I have

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no idea, no idea why had that dream? Very strange,

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very strange. Indeed, it's too late now now I've been talking.

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I've forgotten the dreams. Well, so I do Yesterday? Yeah,

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not much really. Friday Thursday, yes, I ordered stuff online

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to get delivered, and today I'm going to do QE

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a friday later. I've gone from one question last week

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so I didn't do one to about I think twelve

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questions this week, so it's going to be I think

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it's going to be quite a hefty recording. Yeah, and

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that I think is it. I want to go and

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get my breakfast because I'm hungry. Lisa didn't. I didn't

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fall asleep during this recording, and like I did yesterday,

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I literally fell asleep. I edited out the snoring, but

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I was gone and that hasn't happened this time, although

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it needed it just then. But I'm in need of food. Food, food, food, food,

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So thank you for listening. Remember to be kind to

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yourself because you do deserve to be happy and be

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gentle of yourself. You deserve to feel safe. Lots of love, Bye,