April 16, 2025

(music) REWIND | Let me bore your pain away #24 | Jason Newland | 16th April 2025

(music) REWIND | Let me bore your pain away #24 | Jason Newland | 16th April 2025
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Hello, and welcome to Jasonnewland dot com. My name's Jason

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Newland and this is let me bore your pain away.

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Please only listen when you can safely close yourize. Just

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share everything that I do onto YouTube now. So that

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includes all the different six versions of the recordings. I've

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got multiple podcasts, and all the latest recordings are available

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go there and you can download them, you can stream them,

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you can even play them slower or faster. You could

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search for older recordings and what else. There's also a

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form you can fill in if you have a question

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for this upcoming Q and A Friday. I've got so far,

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I've got a few Q and a Friday questions now,

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which is good? Whatever I got? What have I got? Whatever? Whatever?

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What have I got? One? Two, three, four one from Anne, Maria,

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Georgie and Hillary so I will answer those questions on Friday.

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So what this is really is to let me boil

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your pain away. It's kind of similar to let me

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buoy you to sleep, except I am focusing on helping

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with reducing chronic pain. Now, it's important that you only

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listen to this with the permission of your doctor because

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you do need to know the cause of that physical discomfort. Okay,

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so there's a few different things I do. Ultimately, it

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is like the title I'm just going to bore you.

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When you get bored, you feel relaxed. And when you

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feel relaxed, it reduces any physical discomfort you may have

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been feeling before deciding to listen to me and enjoy

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that comfort. There's also other things that can happen. You're

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focusing on now, you know, you're no longer focusing on

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previous feelings, and you know, just it's just there's a

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few little things going on. And there's also I guess

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there's a sense of expectancy, especially if you listen to

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me regularly, maybe you listen to my other recordings, and

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you know that when you listen to my voice, you

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do you feel more relaxed, just generally you feel calmer,

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your mind slows down, your body starts to relax. It's

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just natural stuff. So I like to try and, you know,

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pick out an idea. So it's not so much that

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I'm going to go through a technique, although probably will,

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but I think it's fun to have an idea. You

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have an idea and play around with that, just ponder

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around it, wrap your mind around it, maybe test it

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for yourself. So I was just thinking, because I'm quite

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into time, and that might sound like a really weird sentence,

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it actually does now said it out loud, or like

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time I do. I mean in the sense of from

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a hypnosis perspective or from a movie perspective, time distortion,

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rewinding time, fast forward in time. And there's an old

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technique that Milton eight Erickson, who was a pioneer hypnotic

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pioneer a long long time ago, and he used to

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when someone had severe physical sensations that would come on,

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he would have them almost like pause what they were doing.

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They automatically paused and fast forward in time so that

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that feeling that discomfort is over and then they're at

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the at the end of it and they just carry on.

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I mean, this technique can only be allowed your unconscious mind.

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Can only allow yourself to do this if it's safe

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to do it. So of course you wouldn't want to

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be doing something like that if you're driving a car

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or you need to be aware of what's going on.

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But if he was in bed, or if you was

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just sitting down watching Telly, you were just relaxing, and

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that minute or that thirty seconds or that ten seconds

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of maybe sharpness that you would have normally experienced, just

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fast forwards to the end. It's a bit because I

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do this with movies, and this is going to sound weird,

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but I don't like, I'm not really into the love

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scenes in movies anymore. Say anymore, you know, I watch

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a TV There's a TV show called Power that I

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used to like, and all of a sudden, no one

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called Donathan rut Donovan, don Donathan Ruddick or Donathan Anyway

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something like that, and they both had a lot of

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like hanky panky scenes. It's a very old fashioned term,

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and for me it got in a way. I'm not

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comparing someone's physical discomfort to you know, a love scene

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on a TV show. I'm not. I'm just saying it's

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something that I don't really want to watch. I don't

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really want to be part of I don't really it's

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more of an irritation. If anything. I want to just

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get back to the action or get back to what's

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really going on. It's just a pointless bit of stuff,

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which is a complete opposite to how I used to be.

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That used to be the bit I wanted to watch

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when I was a teenager. But you know, things change.

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So what I do is I fast forward those bits

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and I is, you know, with power or the power

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whatever it was called. I was getting through an entire

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episode in our episode in about thirty five minutes by

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skipping all that stuff. I mean, it wasn't so much

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that it was like it's just got a little bit

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boring because it's the same people, you know, not that

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I wanted to watch anyone. I'll move on, but yeah,

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so I'd fast forward so I didn't have to put

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myself through it in the same way as when I'm

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watching if I watched back boxing on playback. So I've

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got the zone and they have adverts even though I

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pay money for the actual app, they have adverts in

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the middle constantly between rounds. So what I do is

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when I watch it on playback or I watch it live,

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but I'll go back and i'll leave it for an hour.

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Then i'll watch it live, go to the beginning, and

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I'll fast forward through the adverts. So because I find

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the constant adverts throughout it's just unpleasant, you know, because

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I don't know how many adverts would that be, like

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one hundred adverts in a three hour a three hour,

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three and a half hour event, that's probably like one

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two probably about thirty thirty adverts probably which I don't

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need to be sitting through, so I'll just fast forward.

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I don't mind the color of adverts at the beginning,

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it's not really a big issue. But just like all

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the way through a so and also the jibber jeller

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when they're talking about a fight coming up and they're

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talking about something else, I can just fast forward it.

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And if I know both the people that are fighting

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the boxing, I can just skip it through to the

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point where they're entering squaring off against each other, and

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just you know, I can miss all that bunk out bunk,

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if that's a word. Sometimes I like to see the

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introductions and that, but you know, occasionally with the big

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fights to have like a band playing or someone singing

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national anthems, Like I don't need to listen to all

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that stuff, so I'll just skip forward. It's all wonderful.

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I suppose it takes a little bit of the event

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out of it, a little bit of the chevaz chabaz

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the entertainment maybe, but I'm okay with that. If it's live,

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I just watch it all. So I like the idea

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of being able to just fast forward. Can you imagine

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you've got a physical feeling, so I'm just going to

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use the physical feeling, okay, that you don't want or

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that you didn't want, I'm not going to use the

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pai in word anymore during this recording. And that's the

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kind of the marker. You know that you want to

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just skip through. So what you could do is if

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you remembered the last time you had a feeling and

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just imagine just skipping through it, fast forwarding through it

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rather to the end where you don't need it anymore,

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and it can change the way you feel. Another thing

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you could do, you could rewind the rewind technique, or

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maybe you could call it the rewind machine, so it

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could be a machine that you literally just sit down in,

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or you could just attach it to your bed or

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your chair and you could turn it on and just relax.

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And you can think of a time when you went

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through that physical discomfort and just rewind it to the

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beginning before. Rewind it, Keep rewinding it, keep rewinding it

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to a point where that part of your body fine.

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Keep rewinding toil that part of your body felt relaxed,

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felt loose, whether it's a minute, whether it's an hour,

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rewinding it a day, a week, a month, a year,

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even if you rewind it fast, really fastly, rewind it

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five years or ten years to a time when that

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part of your body felt fine. And that's the only

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part of your body you're rewinding. Everything else is just

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staying the same, but you're rewinding that part of your body,

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the physical feeling in that part of your body, rewinding

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it and just keep going. And why you're rewinding it.

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There's not really any feeling occur in any way because

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it's busy. Just notice how it feels as you get

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to that time I am when it felt absolutely fine,

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absolutely relaxed, peaceful, calm, and you can notice how that feels.

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Maybe imagine moving that part of your body in your

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mind the way you used to. Perhaps imagine doing some

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of the things that perhaps you haven't done for a while,

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and how free and easy it feels that part of

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your body. Just in case you're wondering, it's Vinnie in

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the background chomping on a bony thing, just so you

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know it's not me fidgeting with I don't know what

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would sound like that if I was fidgeting knitting needles.

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Maybe would you think came first knitting these or knittle

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If I can see the word knitting needles or chopsticks,

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it's kind of similar, aren't they. It was just me.

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Makes you wonder if someone was eating using chopsticks one

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day and they got distracted and they were just talking,

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and so both the chopsticks in their one hand, and

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they got talking to someone and maybe a kitten was

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like playing around and had a ball of wall, and

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a ball of wall kind of got stuck in with

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the knitting need with the chopsticks rather, and they realized

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at the end of the conversation knitted jumper by accident.

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Maybe that's how knitting was created. Maybe not. I think

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we need a time machine for that, wouldn't we to

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find out? So notice how that part of your body feels.

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I nearly said, notice how your back feels, because that's

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the part I'm focusing on, because whenever I do these recordings,

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I always focus on my lower back because that's where

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my arthritis is. And right now, my lower back feels

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really good. It's warm, it's loose, it feels no different.

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In fact, it arguably it feels better than the rest

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of my back. I suppose it's younger, isn't it. It's

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now younger than the rest of my back. But it

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feels fine. And this is something you can repeat, so

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you can just get back. What you can do is

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just when you open your eyes, should be back to

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exactly where you were before, back here with me, or

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you just move a part of your body and I

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will stimulate you to be back here. Focus on that

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part of your body again, how it feels now, right now,

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in this moment, and rewind it again, rewind it and

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go backwards. Notice how it feels as you go back

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in time, all the way back to a time when

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it felt that body, that part of your body felt

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really relaxed and comfortable, felt free and easy, loose. What

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you may notice that this time it's quicker, which is

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a weird concept because really, when it comes to time,

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there is not really any quicker or shorter if you're

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moving time forward or backwards. It's all relative, I suppose,

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isn't it. And I realized as I said that sentence,

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it almost sounded like I knew what I was talking about,

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and I didn't even understand my own words. I understood

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the individual words, but just put them together. I don't

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think I'm ever going to be a scientist. I can't

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even play a harpsichord, not that that's really anything to

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do with is it harpsichord? A harpsy corn? What Stevie wonderplays?

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You know? The thing? Yeah, that he quits in his mouth.

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And that was not that. I just want to point

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this out. That was not my impression of Stevie Wonder

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playing the harpsichord, because I'm a big, big Stevie Wonder fan.

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That was him singing. No, it wasn't him singing. I'm

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a big fan. I love love Stevie Wonder. Can you

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believe he's been around since he was a kid? Before

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you say anything, technically we all have, I know, but

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he's I've got an album, Well, I've got a song

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that he did for Christmas, and he was about He

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started around the same time as Michael Jackson did like

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Age White. This is about ten or something I think

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it's like and he's now, what's seventy, So he's been

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going around since nineteen. I can have to look this up.

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So just why I do this? Just notice how feel

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in that part of your body, because I'm actually super

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excited to find out how long Stevie wonder he's got

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to be in his seventies. Now he's seventy four. Okay.

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His first his first wha, his first Grammy nominated. It

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was nineteen sixty seven. His first, Okay, discography, Funny Enough

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was the first nineteen sixty two. He's done twenty three

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studio albums, three soundtrack albums. I know. One of those

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was Lady in Red, Wasn't it? Was it? Lady in Red?

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The One Way Things that I Just Called to Say,

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I Love You? Ninety two singles, oh Man. So his

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very first album, The Jazz Soul of Little Stevie nineteen

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sixty two. So he was born in nineteen fifty I think, yeah,

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he was born in nineteen Yeah, that makes sense. So

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he was born in nineteen fifty that was released in

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nineteen sixty two, which means it must have recorded it

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at least a year earlier. So he was he basically

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released his first album at the age of twelve, and

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he's now seventy four. And that's like twelve, twenty two,

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thirty two, forty two, fifty two, sixty two, seventy two,

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that's over thirty years. Vinnie, So loo to everyone, not

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what I meant. I can't believe you. You've got no class.

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And so what we do go back to the beginning again,

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just as a flash bang. I don't mean well, just

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you know, yeah, just go to the beginning to now

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where we are now. I mean, you're probably where we

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are now now because I've been talking about Stevie Wonder,

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which is possibly some may argue is not necessarily relevant

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to the topic that we're talking about. But you know,

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so imagine we just just actually notice how that part

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of your body feels now in this moment. What we're

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going to do is going to go We're going to

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go back into kind of game with the older time

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what did I call it, the time portal, the rewind machine.

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It's going to rewind. Now, go back and just keep

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going back until you get to that point where it

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feels absolutely fine, going back in time, to that point

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where it feels that part of your body feels relaxed

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and loose, relaxed and peaceful and calm. Now I mean

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in and of itself, technically, this is something you could do.

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I suppose to just change how it feels in the moment.

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Here's a little thing you could do. So we can

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play around with this. So what I'd like to focus

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on is this is going to sound weird, but try

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and get that discomfort, try and increase it a bit, Okay,

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because if you can increase it, you can decrease it.

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But just try and focus on it, maybe try and

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get it back a little bit. And that's the opposite

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to what you would never normally want to do, but

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you know how to reduce it anyway, So it's fine,

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and what you want to do, it's the same kind

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of things. But what we're going to do is you've

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got the very beginning of it and you've got the

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end of it. You kind of and just basically go

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backwards and forwards in time, just fast forward and rewinding

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and just notice, just do that a little bit so

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you notice it and that feeling of it coming on

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and then going away, coming on and going away, because

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you know, there's a thing this is sporadic, really is

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it all the time? It is like sporadic comes, it goes,

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comes and goes. So just imagine it's coming on and leaving,

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coming on and leaving, but then going backwards, then forwards,

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the backwards and forwards and backwards and forwards, and just

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zipping it backwards forward, backward forward to the point where

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you can't even see it. I mean it's not that.

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I mean you might not being able to see it before,

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but it feels different, feels different as it goes forward

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forward back like that, and so many different things you

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could do with it, you know, if you can imagine that,

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it's it's almost like a the rest like a lawn.

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Can you imagine a lawn and it's all cut lovely

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like a nice maybe a golf a golf court, is

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a golf lawn or whatever, but just like a nice

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bowls or something like that. It's really short grass, but

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there's a tuft of grass looks a little bit like

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my hair. It's a bit of toft growing out that's

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really in the way. It's annoying. It doesn't need to

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be there. How did the was the lawn mower person

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drunk when they did the lawn? How did they miss that?

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Were they just too busy knitting? You don't You don't know?

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Some people get distracted, don't they. So I'll just blang

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that little thing. Wish I need to move that thing.

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I tell you, hello, Vinny, you right done, You're right done.

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In my little baby boy, Yes you are. Your daddy's

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a little baby, little chocolate honey pop.

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Oh, yes you are so okay, it's flapping his ears.

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So no, that wasn't No. I didn't so low to

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you as a reason for you to just start hassling me.

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I was just being polite. I was being a good friend.

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I was asking how you were, but not for you

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to start hassling me. He's now begging me for something.

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I don't have anything to give you other than my

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well wishes. Don't have it. He wants food. You've got

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a bowl of food down there, a whole bowl of food,

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and you've not touched it. You know what why? He

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doesn't know what I'm saying? Does he? If he knew

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half of what I said, he probably wouldn't talk to me,

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would come on, mate, just calm down, go and carry on.

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See he was minding his own business, chewing on his

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bony thing down there. He was happy doing that. What

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do I do. I start stroking him and start like

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I distracted him from what he was doing, to distract

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himself from me doing what I'm doing. And some would

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say this is probably to distract you from how you

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were feeling before. So there's a lot of distraction going on. Maybe.

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But you got that tuft of grass just really in

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the middle. It's like no good. They got that in

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a local park, right the council started leaving the strips

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of grass to grow for the wildlife. Now they left

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it for about nearly a whole probably a whole of

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the summer. It's probably a good three or four months

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that left it totally overgrown for the wildlife. And specify that. Now,

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I went in there and not once did I see

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any giraffes or elephants or gazelle's, no lions, nothing, what wildlife?

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I saw one butterfly. One butterfly. I see more than that.

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When I look in the tree. There's more butterflies fly

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into my flat in my windows than they are in

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that bit of land that's for the wildlife. All it

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did was just annoy people because it was the dogs

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love it. Docs love long grass. I don't know why,

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but and there was all these creepy crawleyes and all

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these little like knits and stuff getting onto the dogs,

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like just can you just cut it anyway? It was

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a little bit like that, but this it ruins the

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rest of the grass. You know, couldn't even get You

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had to walk around it to get to the paving

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because the grass was too long to get over to

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walk over anymore. So you mentioned if you cut that grass,

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cut it down and make it the same length as

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all the other grass, so that that part of your

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body feel the same as the rest of your body.

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That was what I was getting out. For a second,

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I actually forgot what I was talking about, which is

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hard to believe when I am so focused. Yeah, that's

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what I was focusing on. Wasn't it to have that

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one part of your body, or maybe more parts, but

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let's say one part of your body that feels different

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from the others, maybe it needs to just be even

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doubt so it's the same as all the other parts.

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It's a little bit reminds me of this, and I realized,

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as I'm about to say it, probably there's no similarity whatsoever.

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But now started I'm going to talk about it. There

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was a squeaky bathroom door in one of my places

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I lived. See, I had an en suite. It was

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a room one hundred and twenty five pounds a week, ridiculous,

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but I needed somewhere to live. I was being evicted,

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so this is the only place I could find, like

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quite quickly, and I thought, you know, so it was

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a nice room. It was a fair sized room, and

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it had a non sweet bathroom, which was the first

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time I'd ever shared a house with other occupants where

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I didn't have to share the bathroom and the toilet,

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so that was nice. Unfortunately, the main bathroom was right

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next to my bedroom and it had a squeaky door,

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and it used to really bug me because I'd be

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in bed and all I'd hear was I mean, I

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thought there was a kitten trapped in a well to

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start with, but it wasn't. It was just like, there's

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that door, and I thought, and it was causing me

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a little bit of I don't know, because I'll be

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making recordings because I've been doing this forever now. I've

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been making recordings, and if you listen to something recordings

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from twenty eleven, you'll hear it like me saying, now,

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relax your feet and your ankles and relax your calf muscles.

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It's weird. I got that the wrong way around, because

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generally I'll move my moof down from the body, you know,

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from the head downwards. It doesn't really matter. I don't

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think all. We've got the loud music now in the garden.

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They were playing it earlier and I was going to

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do recording, but I was, oh, can't because they're just

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you might not be able to hear it. It's not

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quite as bad as the music yesterday because that was vibrating,

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and that was downstairs. This is across over the fence.

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But what might happen, which often happens in these situations,

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is they'll annoy the neighbor downstairs with their music, so

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then the neighbor will start their own music going, and

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then another neighbors start their music going. It just it

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gets silly. It happened last summer and I'm sitting there

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and I was like, I don't I'd never have loud

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music ever. I mean, what if I want to if

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I it is me moaning. Really, this has not nothing

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to do with the recording. If I want to listen

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to loud music, I've got headphones for that. I don't

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know what they're playing, sounds, our bodywood music, cool. I

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had a girlfriend once. Yeah, it's not really relevant. That's

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what I just want to show off. I once touched

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the girl's hand, she held my hand. Yeah, I did,

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thirty five years ago. But it did happen.

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Ooh.

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And I think if we stay together long enough, she

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might have kissed me. The marriage didn't work out. I'm

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trying to figure like this, the noise downstairs has distracted me. Well,

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the noise that it's not downstairs, it's technique is downstairs,

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but it's over the fence. You probably can't even hear it,

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hardly because the windows closed and the microphones a long

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way away from it. And I think what happens is

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my voice bores the microphone. Sometimes I hear the microphone snoring,

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not even joking. So what do you think about the

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idea of the time the rewind machine, just rewinding that

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physical sensation. Is this something that's useful to you, to

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something that maybe you can try out a bit more often,

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play around with it. So, because of all the noise,

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star and I'm going to end this recording because I

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don't it's a little bit distracting to me. I'm not moaning.

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I just you know, Vinney's also hassling me to go out.

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So I've got no idea how long I was talking

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on this one. I think it's going to be quite

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a short recordings. Have a look, it's not that short.

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About forty minutes. Blind me. Have I really been rabbit

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in on for forty minutes? What have I said? I

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don't know, So thank you for listening. Remember to be

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kind to yourself because you do deserve to be happy

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and be gentle with yourself. He deserved to feel safe.

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Lots of love, Bye,