June 2, 2025

(music) RELAXATION | Let me bore your pain away #37 | Jason Newland | 2nd June 2025

(music) RELAXATION | Let me bore your pain away #37 | Jason Newland | 2nd June 2025
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Hello, welcome to Jasonnewland dot com. My name's Jason Newland.

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Please only listen when you can safely close your eyes. Yeah,

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your eyes, your eyes. Oh, I'm too tired for this. Wow. Okay,

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let you know. My website's Jasonnewland dot com with all

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my recordings. There are thousands of recordings on there. Yeah.

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What else? I got a Facebook group called Jason Newlands

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Boring Group which you can join. The link is on

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my website. Also, I also have a YouTube channel at

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Jason Newland where all my latest podcasts are added as

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they are produced, or six versions, although there's a little

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bit of a delay at the moment for some reason. So, oh,

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that's weird. How strange. So some of them, according to this,

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some of them are private. So I'm not really sure

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what's going on there. I'm confused, very confused. How strange. Ah,

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I know what's happening. That's right, it will be. It

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will be sorted by tomorrow. It's a little bit out

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of whack, but it will bit like my brain, but

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it will be back all sort of tomorrow. It's just

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I've changed over the podcast for YouTube, so it just

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takes a while to sort of sink as it were,

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does look like it's sinking. So this is let me

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boil your pain away. Please only listen when you can

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safety close your eyes, and only ever listen to any

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chronic pain relief recordings or any chronic pain recordings when

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you have permission from your doctor and you know the

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cause of the chronic pain. So what I'm going to

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do is what do I generally do, is I just

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focus on a subject and then go from there. Now

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I'm going to go back. Okay, here we go, itchy them.

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So what I do get a little bit help from

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chat ept when I'm looking for you, a bit of

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information about some of the different techniques that might be available. Yeah,

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I do think on my own as well, although I'm

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not going to say that I've ever thought of anything original,

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because I may not have done. It's it's kind of

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hard to say, you know, when if you if you've read,

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it's a bit like listening to Like if you watch

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movies and all you do is watch movies, and that's

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your your biggest pastime, your biggest hobby, your biggest love,

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and then you write a movie, you write a script

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from movie, and unless you've got a photographic memory. There's

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a good chance that you may use ideas and even

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dialogue that you previously heard accidentally. I've seen that with comedians,

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and I remember when I was working, not when I

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was doing comedy back in the nineties. Is this comedian

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like he used to moan about my material being rude,

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and then the compare of this comedy club got on

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stage and told on my jokes, and all the comedians

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we're looking at each other because everyone knew it was

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my joke because I toured London doing those same old

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jokes for quite a while. So I was criticized for

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my material. But some comedian, a comedian that was doing well,

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was using my joke. It's like, why why that I

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wasn't the only one who he used. He used someone

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else's joke, and he did it to two people and

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both of them weren't happy with him, so they sorted

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out amongst themselves. But I just thought, well, you know,

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it was just nice to hear the audience laughing at

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the joke. He did a better job of it than me,

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so hey, good luck to him. I think the joke

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was so I think it was such a silly joke.

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Like I came on the tube tonight, and what was it?

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I came on the tube like on the underground. I

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came on the tube tonight. The other passengers weren't very

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pleased something like that, and it got a laugh. It's like,

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but that's my joke. Okay here, I okay. So I

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do look up, you know, ideas trying to can't provideas

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for these recordings because it is let me boil your

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pain away. So I do just yab orn. Sometimes I

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get very very focused on a particular idea around chronic

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pain itself. For example, you know, there's no pain in

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the brain. Yet the pain creates the brain, but there's

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no pain in the brain, and that that's that fries

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my brain a little bit. The idea of it just

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it doesn't compute. I mean, it's my my my minimal,

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my minimal capacity to think, probably, but I can't. It

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doesn't just doesn't make sense, especially for things like headaches.

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So the pain in the head, yet you can't have

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pain outside of you can't feel any kind of pain

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outside of the scalp, you know, so when you feel

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something inside it, you can't. There's no pain in the brain.

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So when you're having a pain, right in the middle.

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There is no pain there because there's no physical sensation

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in the brain. You know, neurosurgeons can actually do brain

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surgery while the person is awake playing a harmonica. I'm

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not talking about the surgeon, the you know, because sometimes

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I get the people to do stuff so they can

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test which side of the brain and what parts activate

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and stuff like that. I don't know a lot about it,

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but I've seen documentaries. But there's no physical sensation. There's stimulus,

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so some sing if they touch a certain part of

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the brain, the person may start to smell cheese or

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have a taste, or have a memory, things like that,

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you know. So it's a very it's very delicate, very

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delicate organ but ultimately there's no physical sensation in it,

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which fascinates me. Yet it creates all physical sensation because

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without the brain, there is no physical sensation. It's just weird.

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It's just a concept. But yeahs as an example of

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something that I've probably talked about in the past. I

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can't remember, I don't think of I don't really remember

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much stuff what I've done. It is an interesting one.

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Finely tune in an instrument. So I guess if you're

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a musician. I used to play the violin, used to,

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you know, at the age of what ten nine or ten,

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So it's a long time ago. It's a little while ago.

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It's a hecko a long time ago. I used to

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play a bugle as well, but that was a bit different.

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You don't really tune a bugle or you just blow

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through it. It's just a lot of spitting, really blowing

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and spitting. It's a lot of tongue action. Came in

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Andy and I did the glocking spiel as well, but

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that wasn't I don't I think you can tune in.

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I don't know. Can you loosen the nubs that you

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that you bang on gone on? I don't know. Thanks Finny,

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the flapping your ears lovely. And I played the drum.

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There's there's no tune in with a drum or can

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you tighten the skin on a drum maybe, But with

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the violin is something that you tune every time every

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time you pretty much not every time you pick it up,

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because you might put it down and go look out

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the window to see if there's any UFOs and then

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come back and pick the violin up again. You don't

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need to retune it then you might put it down,

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go to the toilet and come back, and you may

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have to wait a little while because your hands or

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it makes me feel a little bit if your fingers

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might be a little bit sticky. Oh it makes my

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throg all evening to talk about sticky stuff. But you know,

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if you wash your hands, you might have to wait

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a little bit before you can get back to having

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any kind of grip grip. Whenever I say the word grip,

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I was thinking of the old action man super grip hands.

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And obviously he used to be able to put things

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in his hands, and he would he did grip really

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super a proper, proper gripped. His fingers just went back

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so you could put little objects in his hands. And

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another one was was it Hawkeye where you could you

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could move his eyes, and another one where you could

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actually look through the eyes. But that might have been

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a bionic man where you could look through one of

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the eyes and it'd be magnified so much fun. So yeah,

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tune in fine, tune in your instrument fine, and tune

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in your body so that it maybe goes back to

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how it was before before the physical discomfort started. Because

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that's Finnick can you hear that? Have you got it?

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Excuse me? An't it? Why do you have to do

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stuff like that? Really busy? Why do you want the

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one that's there when you've got a whole one? Oh well,

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I've normally edited that out, but I can't bother. So

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there was something stuck underneath the wheel of the chair,

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and he decided he wanted that even though it's only

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half of a little bone thing. He's got a whole

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one like twenty inches away. Although twenty inches is quite

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a lot, isn't it. BlimE me? That's like half way

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to the halfway to the moon. So stop staring at me?

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What you've hated Dindan's you've had lots of t r

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e e e e e e E t s. What

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are you? Why are you staring at me? He's just

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staring and he's begging you want another treat. I can't

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get him another treat, right, said? To go and get

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him a nice, juicy treat. So he's going to be

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happy for at least hopefully five minutes. Maybe then I

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just go and have a little lie down. We're gonna

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have an early night tonight because it's been a weird day.

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Uh yeah, just been a weird day, one of those

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weird days. So it's the second of June twenty twenty five.

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It's seven point thirty five pm. It's still light outside,

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which is nice. And basically I'm just I already did

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a recording earlier, did let me boy to sleep. Monday's

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boring objects. And what I will probably do is I

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will edit and upload this tomorrow morning when I wake up,

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rather than now. So I'll record it and then I'll

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do all the stuff later tomorrow, because I'm not really

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a big fan of doing the editing and the processing

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and all that stuff straight away after making the recording.

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It's sometimes nice to have a little break, you know,

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just turning equipment off and go and just do something else. Basically,

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so I asked chat ept to come up with ten

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fresh concepts. So this was like a while back. Doesn't

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have the date. It was a couple of week ago

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or something. Please think of ten different original ideas for

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a chronic pain relief audio recording. I'm looking for an

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original technique to expand on now it says here I

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thought for seven seconds, So I use check. I use

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chat ept O three, which is the Advanced Reasoning chat

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e b T four h great for most tasks. I

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like the idea of using a bit more thought and

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so it says, here are ten fresh concepts you could

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develop into full length chronic pain relief recordings. Each one

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offers a distinctive or distinct therapeutic hook hook, so you

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can choose approach that resonates most with your voice and audience.

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I don't know what resonates with my voice, and it's

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as it comes, you know. As for you, I don't

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It's about it's not necessarily about the technique, so much

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about relaxing and listening, hopefully listening to my voice. Yaboron,

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even if he goes go off on a different subject,

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can be relaxing, but at the same time by focusing

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on helping to relieve that physical discomfort as well at

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the same time. So I'll give you the ten that

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has come up with. So it says pain to pixel dissolve.

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Stop staring at me, please, Vinny doesn't say that he's

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literally coming to my peripheral vision staring right at me.

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He's gulped down that chicken stick thing. So I'm going

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to try and block him out of my hand. Put

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my hand up to my head, he's still staring. Cinematic

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visualization and color breathing listeners imagine their pain as a

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cluster of glowing pixels that fade and disperse with each exhale.

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So it says why it's novel combines classic body scan

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hypnosis with the brains of love of digital imagery and

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color theory cool hues, sequels reduced pain perception. See this

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is kind of similar really to something like talking about

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a pixel cloud. This is a technique I did in

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ninety two, thousand and six and where I had my Yeah,

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I had the newspaper article done about me, and I

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was regularly seeing this elderly man who had arthritis, and

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he's probably in his late seventies and he or early eighties,

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even probably late seventies, I don't know, it's hard, I

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can't remember. But I was visiting him in his house

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once a week, and I sent an email to the

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newspapers that tell them what I do, or did they

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contact me, I can't remember, but anyway, they asked could

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they come around and see me at work doing my

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because it was a free service. They wanted to see

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me in action, and he agreed to do this. So

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the photographer and the reporter came around and watched me

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do what I was doing, and also he talks about it. So, oh,

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I can find it. I can find it. Even Evening

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Star just on new Land. Here we go, ipswitch switch ipswich.

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Unless I'm not in there anymore, ipswich Star ipswich. They

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might have changed it. Maybe the Evening Star doesn't doesn't

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exist anymore. I'll put my name in. Don't seem to

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be anything coming up. The Internet's just I'll put my

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name in it. It's just disconnected the Internet. That's not fair.

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Why is it done that connecting? Right? Some of these

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newspapers seem to disconnect the disconnect the Internet when I

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go on them. I don't quite sure know why. If

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I'm honest, let's come out of this connect. It's very strange.

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I can't connect to this network because I try and

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go onto a newspaper website always connected on its own. Now,

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oh well, I've still got the page. I'll just ignore

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that or come on at its own time. So yeah,

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what the technique is I used? Is I still got

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the newspaper articles somewhere it's the picture of me is awful.

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I'm bored, but on purpose. Now I'm bored because nature's

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being cruel. But you know, back then I used to

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shave my head proper to the bone, and I was

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wearing all white, well my big pink face. I was

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a fair bit lighter than I am now. I was

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probably walking around about twelve and a half stone, maybe thirteen,

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so I was, yeah, I was a bit quite a

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fair bit lighter. And I did this technique where first

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thought was relaxation because as we I'm sure we all

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know that God that's allowed. Did you hear that bird

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not allowed? We all know, you know, relaxation equals payment.

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If the more relaxed you are, the more comfortable you

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feel in all different parts of your body, not just

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that particular part that is feeling more relaxed now than

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it was before, but everywhere. He's generally feel more relaxed,

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and that affects your whole body and your brain and

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your mind. Your mind slows down. And that bird is

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it a crow? It's proper going. I been there. It's

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a domestic I think that is I just see as

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a crow. It's just come home and it's it's wobbling

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a bit, so I think it's been down the pub.

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I think he's he got paid and he spent all

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his wages on beer and chips and then a fruit machine,

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and now he's his partner's tearing them off. That takes

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me back. I had a girlfriend who was always spending

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all the money in the pub. So the visualization did.

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I had this thing where I imagined, I got Bob Tom,

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let's called him Tom. I got Tom to imagine that

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the part of his body was that he focused on.

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I think it was his hips, if I remember rightly,

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was moving out in front of him, and it was

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like a I guess the same is what it says

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here an image. But then it had a color, and

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I got him to tell me what color is, and

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then to change the color, and then to change the

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color again, then to change the color again. And I'm

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not sure if I also combined changing the shape. I

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think if I was to do it now, I would

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combine change in the shape, changing the color, moving it

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further away. And there's certain things you can do. You

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can pretty much imagine sticking super glue on the back

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of it and pushing it far into the distance. Against

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the wall, impressing on it, and then you let go.

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You can turn your hand, your arms into mister tickle

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for a minute, you know, so you've got really really

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long arms, and then let it go, and it's stuck

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there and you imagine yourself moving back. And even though

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it's a visual it's possibly a weird visualization, it's amazing

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how thinking like that can actually have an effect, a

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positive to beneficial effect. Now, symphony of synapses. I bought

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the Internet's back. I want to just search that again.

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I want to say, I want to tell you about this.

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So let's have a look. Jace Ipswich. I mean, I've

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not lived there since forever. I've lived there for six years. Oh,

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I can't find it. It's like it never existed. Hmmm.

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I wonder if there's any images. There might be an

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image there might be the problem is if I put

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my name in there were images. There's so many images

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of my podcasts, like so many a lot, and also

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images of me, probably a few from Facebook and others

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from image like YouTube images as well. There's quite a lot.

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I just thought maybe by putting in the town, I'm

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beginning to you know, I was doing a recording earlier,

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and it was I was supposed to be a I

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suppose are quite quiet relaxation session and I had him

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in the background doing that what he's doing now, and

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I just had to quit because I can't do quiet

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stuff with him in the room unless he decides to

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be quiet, and there's no guarantee of that, which is

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part of the reason why I don't do whisper recordings, because

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it's hard to find a quiet time to do it.

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It really is. It's I've had it hard. Okay, let

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me see if I can find another way. Even so,

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even in star newspaper, I mean, mate, it looks like

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it's changed. So I wonder if it's going to lock

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me out again if I put in my name. Nope,

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it hasn't. But there's nothing about me in here date range. Look,

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there's a thing about potholes. This is just people called Jason. Okay,

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there's another one that's not good. Say that's not me though,

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Ah oh wow, Okay, that's something I didn't expect to see.

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And it's logged me out again. That is weird because

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why would it do that. So I've now log it's

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now logging me back in. But as soon as I

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clicked on a link. It's very strange. That's weird, weird, weird.

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A look on my phone, my phone, See if I

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can get it on there. What's the Okay, let's see

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if it comes up on this one. So yeah, it's

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the same internet, though I don't know why it's not

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doing it on the it's doing on the phone. No

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problem on the phone, okay, okay. Oh, it's actually giving

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me different ones too. What was on on the Yeah,

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it's almost like they're hid, not hiding, but they give

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me a completely different answers to the ones on the website.

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On the laptop. That's very strange. All found it?

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Ah, oh there, there's just something about it's.

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I can't even tell you, but they go right. I

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don't want to go back to that anyway. So if

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I put in the year, if I try and put

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in the year, that might be help any time, anytime,

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customer date range, customer date range, So two thousand and six,

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it's a little while ago, isn't it? BlimE me? Is

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there a way of change? I just want to change

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the year? Oh, it's allowing me okay, two thousand, two

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thousand and six, Okay, got it? Right, Oh, two thousand

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and six, it would okay to two thousand and six,

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So go back there the two thousand and six December.

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I know it wasn't I can put between the first

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of February to December and mind Power Can Beat Pain. Yes,

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I found it the nineteenth of July two thousand and six.

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This is I tell what I'm going to do right

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just for you because I love you so much. I'm

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going to post this article on my Facebook page to

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Jason Newland's boring group. So I'm going to post this now.

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You can see it if you want to. It's just

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you know, I haven't been I've been in the newspapers

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twice in my life. It was the second time and

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it was definitely my Yeah, I was pleased. I was, Yeah,

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I was. I was happy with how it worked out.

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I think I'll think so because it was an accomplishment

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to me personally. So let me have a look. I'm

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going to post a link on my rights so I

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might have to do go to the website. Oh so

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it's not coming up, so I have to act. You

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put in the mind Power can Beat Pain. Wow, I

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was famous for about an hour, all right, So I'm

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going to post it. It's just going to say mind

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power can Beat Pain, nineteenth of July two thousand and six,

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and click on that and it will take you to

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the website, the actual page. So what it says here,

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But there's no images. There's no images of me anymore. Oh,

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because they've changed the website, so the images are gone,

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but the text is still there. So it's instead of

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being the Evening Star, it's now the Ipswitch Star. So

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here we go. Hypnosis has come a long way since

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the days of dangling pocket watches and people dancing around

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like chickens. It can also be a valuable medical tool.

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Health reporter Sarah Gillett met an ipswich man who believes

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mind power can conquer anything and watched him in action. Okay,

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I'm not sure if I said that mind power can

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heal anything, but yeah, fair enough hypnosis. Okay, So, just

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going plagued by chronic pain in his legs pension up

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ron Page was at his wits end, and respite from

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his agony came only when he was asleep, and even

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then it was only ever a matter of hours before

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the constant ache became so bad that it woke him

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up again. Heavy duty painkillers prescribed to him by doctors

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failed to the involuntaries twitching in his legs, and courses

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of acupuncture proved futile. And believing that nothing could solve

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the problem, it was in sheer desperation that he decided

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to give Ipswich based hypnotherapist Jason Newland a try. I

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just want to point out acupuncture. It's different things help

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different people, don't they. And I love I love acupuncture.

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I'm a big fan of I would say I'm probably

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a big fan of all alternative therapies really pretty much.

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I just I've had I haven't had accupunture for a while,

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but I have had it a few times over the years.

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It might be time to go back and have some more. Actually,

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a friend of mine saw his card in the post

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office and told me about it. Said, Ron that I

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got blind me. This is me talking now, not the article.

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I ordered about fifty thousand postcards that I delivered in

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that town. Maybe it was less, maybe it's ten thousand.

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I'm pretty sure it's fifty thousand. It costs a lot

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of money, and I don't know how I wish I

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had one. I should I should keep this stuff as

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a as a kind of a keepsake, you know, but

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I didn't. I guess that's what keeping it is, isn't

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it keepsake? But I didn't think about it at the time,

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but it would have been good to have that as

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just so I could look at it. I remember it

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kind of in my head, but it was all different

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colors and it was it was. It was a bit

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of a model, but it was basically free pain relief

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and I had a website called free Payrelief dot co

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dot uk, which I started in January two thousand and six,

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and things started to pick up really kind of over

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the next few months, and then I sort of progressed

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from doing I can't Yeah. I focused after after about

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pretty much in two thousand and seven, I focused mainly

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on the group sessions at the rehab the alcohol Rehab Center,

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the Alcore Center, and the Drug Rehab Center. I focused

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on those and doing this stuff online as opposed to

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going into people's houses, because I went from going into

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people's houses and then I rented a therapy room on

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a Saturday morning and then I yeah, so I did

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that for a while. The therapy room charged me ten

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pounds per hour. So I had to charge the client's

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ten pounds an hour, but that was it. I just

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I got them to pay at the reception. So I

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didn't really get to touch any money. I didn't want to.

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So a friend of mine saw his card in the

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post office and told me about it, said, Ron, I

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delivered those cards for months. I should do it during

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my lunch break when I was working lunch break, and

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then in the weekends in the evenings after work, I

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delivered thousands. I put them up in all the different shops,

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post offices, they had newsagents. I also, I think I

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stuck them to LEMP posts. I think I put them.

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I went into the bookshop and put them inside people

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into some of the books, which perhaps wasn't the right

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thing to do. I don't know. I also put an

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advert in the newspaper that was in there for every

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I don't know if it's every day, but yeah, I

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went in for a few times. So I went all out.

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Really cost me. Yeah, it cost me a few grands

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to get all that sortid. So yeah, so Ron says

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this is a last resort. Really. The next bit says,

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for six weeks, Jason has been visiting Ron in his

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Norridge Road home, and he invites us all along to

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watch a session. Sitting in his wheelchair, Ron and closed

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his eyes as Jason's soothing voice took cold. Slowly and calmly,

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Jason asked Ron to relax, to listen to all the

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noises around him, and then feel them fadeing into the background.

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Once Ron was completely still, he asked him to feel

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the pain in his foot and to give it a

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color and a shape. Oh okay, a blue square, Ron

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murmured in a drowsy voice. Good, said Jason. Now change

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it into another color in shape. I probably didn't talk

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like that. This routine was repeated several times before Jason

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eventually asked him to imagine that shape being frozen and

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turning into a block of ice in Ron's mind. This

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ice was then left to sit in the garden and

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melt away in sunshine before Jason slowly brought him out

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of his trance like state. I sound quite good there,

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don't I? Although looking this is nineteen years ago. See,

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00:44:18.320 --> 00:44:22.400
I don't think people believe when I Sometimes when I

471
00:44:22.440 --> 00:44:24.559
mention it, Oh, I've been doing this nineteen I don't

472
00:44:24.599 --> 00:44:28.519
think everyone believes it. It's abstoutely true, I have. I

473
00:44:28.559 --> 00:44:33.360
think it's because maybe some people would think that i'd

474
00:44:33.400 --> 00:44:36.360
be good at it by now. Maybe that's why you're

475
00:44:36.400 --> 00:44:38.400
kind of been do it in nineteen years, you'd have

476
00:44:38.480 --> 00:44:44.280
some kind of skill by now. So, although looking slightly bleary,

477
00:44:44.360 --> 00:44:50.679
eyd Ron was immediately able to talk coherently about the experience.

478
00:44:52.679 --> 00:44:56.119
You don't this is him talking. You don't feel that

479
00:44:56.159 --> 00:44:58.440
you're gone. You don't, And I want to do a voice.

480
00:44:58.760 --> 00:45:02.039
You don't feel that you're just gone, he said. I

481
00:45:02.079 --> 00:45:05.920
can remember him talking, and I can hear noises in

482
00:45:06.039 --> 00:45:08.639
the room. Bear in the mind. There was four of

483
00:45:08.719 --> 00:45:11.559
us in the room, and I think a couple of cats.

484
00:45:12.519 --> 00:45:15.760
So there was the bloke taking pictures, so he would

485
00:45:15.800 --> 00:45:19.480
have heard that because it was flashing as well. It's

486
00:45:19.559 --> 00:45:22.400
quite a dark house, so he would have seen that

487
00:45:22.840 --> 00:45:26.639
or heard that, probably seen it through his eyelids to flashing.

488
00:45:28.320 --> 00:45:31.920
The lady was writing down stuff and then pad, so

489
00:45:31.960 --> 00:45:37.800
he probably would have heard that. I did, And there

490
00:45:37.880 --> 00:45:40.599
was me. He's in the mass bar, so I probably

491
00:45:40.599 --> 00:45:46.159
would have heard that as well. And the photographers eating

492
00:45:46.159 --> 00:45:48.480
a He had a kit kat. And what we did

493
00:45:48.519 --> 00:45:51.239
in the end is we chucked the wrappers at each other.

494
00:45:51.280 --> 00:45:54.559
And it was. It was quite funny, but I'm not

495
00:45:54.559 --> 00:46:01.400
sure that helped. And then it says Jason explained, this

496
00:46:01.440 --> 00:46:05.440
is my voice back then. Some people would call it

497
00:46:05.480 --> 00:46:10.320
a trance, but it's really a state of absolute relaxation.

498
00:46:11.400 --> 00:46:13.199
So I probably will have talked more like this, and

499
00:46:15.039 --> 00:46:20.960
some people would call it a trance, but it's really

500
00:46:21.079 --> 00:46:34.239
a state of absolute relax sation. And maybe I'm not

501
00:46:34.320 --> 00:46:39.880
sure how inflected my voice was back then. All the

502
00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:43.440
background noises are still there. It's very much like when

503
00:46:43.480 --> 00:46:46.480
you are on a beach sunbathing and you're completely relaxed.

504
00:46:46.960 --> 00:46:51.280
I never said naked then, for some reason, really completely relaxed.

505
00:46:52.239 --> 00:46:54.480
You can still hear or I didn't need to tell

506
00:46:54.519 --> 00:46:57.679
you that, did I? I nearly said naked. I could

507
00:46:57.679 --> 00:46:59.199
have just not said it, or I didn't say it,

508
00:46:59.280 --> 00:47:00.880
did I? But I didn't have to tell you that

509
00:47:00.920 --> 00:47:06.000
I nearly said it. Why why you can still hear

510
00:47:06.079 --> 00:47:08.360
all the noises around you, but you might sort of

511
00:47:09.760 --> 00:47:16.360
jolts awake. And I think what it is is when

512
00:47:16.360 --> 00:47:19.440
you feel comfortable a bit like being on a beach. Really,

513
00:47:20.199 --> 00:47:23.639
so I can't somebathe It's not I'm not allowed to.

514
00:47:23.719 --> 00:47:27.400
It's not illegal, but I'm not not banned from the beach,

515
00:47:28.159 --> 00:47:31.920
not all beaches, and I can't because of my skin.

516
00:47:32.079 --> 00:47:39.039
I blister. I'm one of them, you know. At the moment,

517
00:47:40.679 --> 00:47:44.519
my body's three different colors. I've got a red face

518
00:47:44.960 --> 00:47:53.760
from the sun. My arms are paler, and my feet

519
00:47:54.199 --> 00:48:00.559
I see through, they're just white, like so white. But

520
00:48:00.679 --> 00:48:03.320
my face is a really different color. So I went

521
00:48:03.360 --> 00:48:05.079
out on a T shirt today, so I thought I

522
00:48:05.079 --> 00:48:10.039
need to start getting some sun onto my arms. Two

523
00:48:11.360 --> 00:48:18.239
so people don't think that I'm I don't know, just

524
00:48:20.440 --> 00:48:23.800
it's just out of proportion colorwise. I'm never going to

525
00:48:23.880 --> 00:48:25.840
be white. I'm not white. I don't have white skin

526
00:48:25.880 --> 00:48:29.559
on my face. It's pink skin. But at the moment

527
00:48:29.639 --> 00:48:36.480
it's really quite red because of the sun. This isn't

528
00:48:36.519 --> 00:48:42.199
part of the burt then, sorry, I don't know you

529
00:48:42.239 --> 00:48:44.320
might have heard it, so I'm just I didn't there's

530
00:48:44.360 --> 00:48:47.599
any any stop it. What I just said then was

531
00:48:47.599 --> 00:48:49.880
on part of the article, because that would have gone on.

532
00:48:49.880 --> 00:48:52.280
They probably would have They probably wouldn't have included that,

533
00:48:53.280 --> 00:48:55.960
would they At some point she probably would have said,

534
00:48:56.280 --> 00:49:02.039
can we bring it back to the subject please? But anyway,

535
00:49:02.079 --> 00:49:04.679
what what I was like saying here, you know, not

536
00:49:04.719 --> 00:49:08.320
in the article, although I mentioned that in the article.

537
00:49:08.960 --> 00:49:13.280
Is when you're on the beach, and I remember being

538
00:49:13.320 --> 00:49:21.480
on the beach, and there's something beautiful about it, sitting

539
00:49:21.519 --> 00:49:23.480
in the sun, if your son, you know, if you're

540
00:49:24.480 --> 00:49:26.800
if you're able to, or even if you're in the shade,

541
00:49:27.400 --> 00:49:35.239
but just there's a certain there's a sound, there's a smell.

542
00:49:36.079 --> 00:49:39.639
Everyone's kind of got. I mean, you've pretty much got

543
00:49:39.639 --> 00:49:43.320
the smell of suntown lotion in your nostrils. I mean,

544
00:49:43.519 --> 00:49:45.639
you're not supposed to squirt them in your nostrils, I know.

545
00:49:45.719 --> 00:49:53.719
But is there's that sound of the sea. There's the

546
00:49:53.920 --> 00:49:59.079
smell of the sea, there's the I don't know, it's

547
00:49:59.199 --> 00:50:02.599
it's a certain It's going to be different depending where

548
00:50:02.639 --> 00:50:06.519
you are, but there's a lot of sounds. And if

549
00:50:06.559 --> 00:50:11.599
you're on a busy beach, I wouldn't have, you know,

550
00:50:12.760 --> 00:50:14.599
looking on I wouldn't think that it would be a

551
00:50:14.719 --> 00:50:17.920
very relaxing place. But it actually can really be a

552
00:50:18.039 --> 00:50:23.079
very relaxing place. Even if you've got someone playing a

553
00:50:23.159 --> 00:50:26.480
radio or some music, if it's not right close to you,

554
00:50:27.400 --> 00:50:33.400
even that like background, like it can be fairly relaxing.

555
00:50:34.960 --> 00:50:39.239
And other people talking, maybe laughing, and and it's I

556
00:50:39.239 --> 00:50:47.000
guess it's that zoning out where you don't I guess

557
00:50:47.039 --> 00:50:50.159
you don't care anymore, You're not interested in It's like

558
00:50:50.280 --> 00:50:57.840
it's just sound. It's just feelings and feeling comfortable and

559
00:50:57.960 --> 00:51:05.880
calm with your eyes closed. Maybe it's just nice. It

560
00:51:05.960 --> 00:51:11.000
feels nice, and it's almost like you're in touch with

561
00:51:11.079 --> 00:51:14.320
how you feel. But at the same time, you're not

562
00:51:14.400 --> 00:51:21.960
really bothered about how you feel. You're just it's a

563
00:51:21.960 --> 00:51:25.320
weird sensation. And it's been a long time since I

564
00:51:26.039 --> 00:51:32.199
last sat on the beach. I've been on beaches since,

565
00:51:32.440 --> 00:51:34.519
but I have to be you know, I have to

566
00:51:34.599 --> 00:51:37.840
kind of cover myself up and have a shade over

567
00:51:37.840 --> 00:51:40.519
my face otherwise, you know, I burn. It's just one

568
00:51:40.559 --> 00:51:53.920
of those things. But it's a calmness. I mean you could, actually,

569
00:51:55.199 --> 00:51:57.519
I say you could. I remember once I was some

570
00:51:57.719 --> 00:52:01.480
babing and I just start smelling food and I thought,

571
00:52:02.880 --> 00:52:06.480
it's making me hungry. But what got cooked? So so

572
00:52:06.679 --> 00:52:10.199
close to me, so my eyes, someone's finding an egg

573
00:52:10.239 --> 00:52:20.000
on my forehead. It was just a bit rude. Uh.

574
00:52:20.159 --> 00:52:23.760
In Ron's case, Oh, I get people to visualize their

575
00:52:24.239 --> 00:52:28.440
visualize their pain in different ways. To see it as

576
00:52:28.480 --> 00:52:31.000
a color or as a shape, and then to visualize

577
00:52:31.039 --> 00:52:35.320
that shape moving away from their body. That way, they

578
00:52:35.320 --> 00:52:38.400
are using a different sensory organ and everything is not

579
00:52:38.519 --> 00:52:44.400
focused on just one thing. In Run's case, the problems

580
00:52:44.440 --> 00:52:47.519
with his right leg began years ago and despite a

581
00:52:47.559 --> 00:52:52.960
major operation, has never really gone away. He said. Initially

582
00:52:52.960 --> 00:52:57.000
they thought, okay, this is now Ron talking, He said,

583
00:52:57.039 --> 00:52:59.639
Initially they thought it was to do a trap nerve.

584
00:53:00.400 --> 00:53:03.800
But I've developed after this in my ankle now it's

585
00:53:03.880 --> 00:53:06.199
very swollen. I used to do a lot of sports

586
00:53:06.280 --> 00:53:10.599
years ago, and I think that's taken its toll. So

587
00:53:10.679 --> 00:53:13.519
the pain started in his ankle, spreads across the top

588
00:53:13.559 --> 00:53:15.719
of my foot and up through my leg and blah blah,

589
00:53:16.079 --> 00:53:19.840
and Ron seventy four. I was seventy four. Oka can't

590
00:53:19.840 --> 00:53:22.440
walk far, but can get up to answer his door

591
00:53:22.519 --> 00:53:26.599
and manage the stairs in his house. Shortly after this,

592
00:53:27.000 --> 00:53:30.199
his family moved him out of that house into a

593
00:53:30.199 --> 00:53:36.239
bungalow because he couldn't manage the stairs anymore. He admits

594
00:53:36.280 --> 00:53:41.639
that he was cynical about hypnotherapy, but has been genuinely

595
00:53:41.960 --> 00:53:47.239
or genuinely surprised by the quick results. The pain is

596
00:53:47.280 --> 00:53:50.239
not as bad as it was. I used to sit

597
00:53:50.360 --> 00:53:52.519
here and every now and then my leg would jump,

598
00:53:53.639 --> 00:53:56.280
the muscle, so that's the thing. It wasn't just that

599
00:53:56.840 --> 00:54:01.679
it reduced it there, and then I was only seeing

600
00:54:01.719 --> 00:54:04.519
him once a week, yeah, for six weeks, but only

601
00:54:04.559 --> 00:54:08.480
once a week for an hour, and then I wouldn't

602
00:54:08.519 --> 00:54:13.079
see him for a whole week. So between weeks he

603
00:54:13.159 --> 00:54:19.119
was feeling better, and as he said, the pain is

604
00:54:19.159 --> 00:54:21.679
not as bad as it was. He used to sit

605
00:54:21.760 --> 00:54:23.840
there and every now and then the leg would jump,

606
00:54:24.960 --> 00:54:27.800
and the muscles going to spasms, and I can't control

607
00:54:27.840 --> 00:54:30.920
it was really painful. But over the last few weeks

608
00:54:30.960 --> 00:54:35.119
that seems to have stopped. Seems to have stopped. So

609
00:54:35.159 --> 00:54:36.719
I don't know why I'm pointing to the south, but

610
00:54:37.880 --> 00:54:40.840
I'm excited. Nineteen years ago and now I'm getting excited.

611
00:54:41.559 --> 00:54:43.880
I can now sit here without a twitching all the time.

612
00:54:44.920 --> 00:54:48.599
I really noticed the difference at nights too. I used

613
00:54:48.639 --> 00:54:51.519
to start twitching as soon as I laid down when

614
00:54:51.519 --> 00:54:55.239
I went to bed, But that's got much better. I

615
00:54:55.239 --> 00:54:57.880
can actually get a good night's sleep now, and that

616
00:54:57.920 --> 00:55:02.639
hasn't happened for ages. I know it's not going to

617
00:55:02.639 --> 00:55:05.599
be one hundred percent perfect, and I'm never going to

618
00:55:05.599 --> 00:55:08.239
be able to get up and run again, but it

619
00:55:08.280 --> 00:55:16.320
helps relieve things. Yeah, I mean I'm never going to

620
00:55:16.360 --> 00:55:18.239
be able to get up and run again. I can't

621
00:55:18.320 --> 00:55:26.119
run either. And I'm a lot younger than he was then. Wow,

622
00:55:26.440 --> 00:55:31.159
See he was seventy three. Eighty three, it'd be ninety

623
00:55:31.199 --> 00:55:35.679
two now. It says a little bit about me for

624
00:55:35.840 --> 00:55:40.400
Jason thirty five. See, I did once used to be

625
00:55:40.440 --> 00:55:44.280
thirty five. You didn't believe that I used to be younger, didjah? Well?

626
00:55:44.320 --> 00:55:48.000
I did? See for Jason thirty and it talk about

627
00:55:48.000 --> 00:55:54.079
me thirty five. Seeing the change in ron has been

628
00:55:54.239 --> 00:55:59.400
hugely rewarding. The practicing Buddhist who works in insurance during

629
00:55:59.440 --> 00:56:06.440
the day has chosen to offer his services free of charge. People. Well,

630
00:56:06.559 --> 00:56:10.119
this is interesting. People always ask me why I'm doing

631
00:56:10.119 --> 00:56:13.519
it for free, said Jason. They're very cynical about why.

632
00:56:13.639 --> 00:56:15.480
I don't want to make any money out of it.

633
00:56:15.920 --> 00:56:18.559
But my Buddhists and I believe very strongly in giving

634
00:56:18.599 --> 00:56:24.159
something to someone without getting anything back from it. Seeing

635
00:56:24.199 --> 00:56:27.679
the reactions and the difference in people I treat is

636
00:56:27.800 --> 00:56:34.159
enough reward for me. And I come across quite nice

637
00:56:34.199 --> 00:56:40.320
to know in this what happened to me record. Recognizing

638
00:56:40.400 --> 00:56:43.559
the limits of his hypnotic ability is also important for Jason.

639
00:56:44.800 --> 00:56:47.960
I believe I can help anyone, but what I have

640
00:56:48.079 --> 00:56:51.079
to stress to people is that I'm not a doctor.

641
00:56:52.239 --> 00:56:54.639
I can't get rid of the causes of pain altogether.

642
00:56:56.519 --> 00:57:01.320
And so yeah, if someone's got any illness or something

643
00:57:01.320 --> 00:57:03.880
that's causing the pain, I can't. I can't do anything

644
00:57:03.920 --> 00:57:08.960
about that kind but I can maybe help to change

645
00:57:09.719 --> 00:57:17.800
how that feeling or the response they get, which is

646
00:57:17.920 --> 00:57:21.039
ultimately what we want, isn't it. I'm not maybe not

647
00:57:21.079 --> 00:57:25.320
all you want, but it definitely helps. I would say

648
00:57:26.000 --> 00:57:29.760
I will only perform hypnotherapy on someone who has checked

649
00:57:30.000 --> 00:57:34.119
checked that their doctor is happy with it first. So

650
00:57:34.239 --> 00:57:38.440
I'm talking about chronic pain relief. And that's why I

651
00:57:38.480 --> 00:57:41.119
say this at the beginning to recording as well. So

652
00:57:41.199 --> 00:57:43.800
I said it then, I would not see anyone unless

653
00:57:43.840 --> 00:57:48.679
they knew what the did, what the issue was, and

654
00:57:48.719 --> 00:57:53.039
if their doctor is happy. I was very I was

655
00:57:53.119 --> 00:58:03.079
almost semi professional. I'm not even partially professional now, am I.

656
00:58:03.079 --> 00:58:07.119
I was so much better back then. The first time

657
00:58:07.159 --> 00:58:11.280
I came around here, his ankle was so swollen that

658
00:58:11.360 --> 00:58:13.320
I had to do the recording. I had to stand

659
00:58:13.320 --> 00:58:19.239
outside and talk to him. That's not true. Oh dude,

660
00:58:19.760 --> 00:58:24.679
there's a leg was sticking out of the door, and

661
00:58:24.719 --> 00:58:27.320
I sat on his foot the first time I came

662
00:58:27.320 --> 00:58:30.440
around here. His ankles were so slowly swollen that all

663
00:58:30.480 --> 00:58:35.000
I did was some relaxation techniques. I didn't want to

664
00:58:35.039 --> 00:58:37.880
focus on his leg or the pain there until he'd

665
00:58:37.920 --> 00:58:40.159
been to the doctor and checked that it would be

666
00:58:40.199 --> 00:58:48.840
okay for him to see me. Okay, so the fig

667
00:58:49.039 --> 00:58:54.480
is oh snipping, it's And I said that to people.

668
00:58:54.519 --> 00:58:59.719
I did also sometimes, So I had someone that came

669
00:58:59.760 --> 00:59:05.880
to me with phantom limb pain, and that I class

670
00:59:05.880 --> 00:59:13.039
sat amongst my most successful clients, just for the simple

671
00:59:13.159 --> 00:59:27.639
fact that I I don't know. It was a subject

672
00:59:27.679 --> 00:59:34.880
that interested me how someone that doesn't have that part

673
00:59:34.880 --> 00:59:38.840
of their body can feel that part of the body,

674
00:59:41.000 --> 00:59:45.000
but not only that is also have discomfort. I'm going

675
00:59:45.039 --> 00:59:50.639
to use that word discomfort in that part of the body.

676
00:59:51.599 --> 00:59:56.960
But what also interested me because when I saw this man,

677
00:59:57.079 --> 01:00:01.280
he'd had a motorbike accident I think about six years

678
01:00:01.280 --> 01:00:06.119
earlier and or eight years earlier, and he had about

679
01:00:06.119 --> 01:00:12.119
two years with the really badly damaged leg and then

680
01:00:12.239 --> 01:00:17.199
they had to amputate, or he chose to have it amputated.

681
01:00:17.239 --> 01:00:20.199
I think he was in so much distress. But then

682
01:00:20.239 --> 01:00:25.800
he was still still in pain for another six years.

683
01:00:27.239 --> 01:00:30.719
And I knew instinctively the one thing not to say

684
01:00:30.760 --> 01:00:41.039
to him was, but you don't have a leg. There's

685
01:00:41.079 --> 01:00:45.440
no leg there. I knew, even though that's something that

686
01:00:45.519 --> 01:00:47.440
probably so many people would have said to him in

687
01:00:47.440 --> 01:00:49.639
the past. He didn't tell me that, but I just

688
01:00:49.960 --> 01:00:55.159
kind of knew that that's how humans sometimes are. It's

689
01:00:55.199 --> 01:00:58.079
like pointing out the obvious, like he's not going to know.

690
01:00:58.599 --> 01:01:06.039
Of course he knows. So and he explained that his

691
01:01:06.159 --> 01:01:11.239
leg was it felt like it did after the crash,

692
01:01:11.679 --> 01:01:14.719
like it was still in the same position. I'm not

693
01:01:14.719 --> 01:01:18.360
going to go to details, but it wasn't nice. So

694
01:01:18.400 --> 01:01:23.280
what I did is I relaxed his body, you know,

695
01:01:23.360 --> 01:01:25.599
I went through his body like a body scan, but

696
01:01:25.639 --> 01:01:28.719
a relaxation, starting the top of his head moving down.

697
01:01:31.039 --> 01:01:36.800
And all I did was include his leg in the relaxation,

698
01:01:41.280 --> 01:01:46.360
and then I got him to straighten the leg. I

699
01:01:46.440 --> 01:01:49.920
got it to refit into the normal position that it

700
01:01:50.039 --> 01:01:55.960
used to be in, sort of un tangled kind of

701
01:01:56.280 --> 01:01:59.559
you know, so it was back into the position that

702
01:01:59.679 --> 01:02:04.159
it work was when it used to feel fine before

703
01:02:04.239 --> 01:02:10.000
the accident, and no one had ever done that. I mean,

704
01:02:10.000 --> 01:02:12.599
he'd never kept I don't think he might have had

705
01:02:12.639 --> 01:02:17.480
hypnosis before, actually, but I'm not sure, but he'd I

706
01:02:17.599 --> 01:02:20.400
was again last resort. I was always the last resort.

707
01:02:22.039 --> 01:02:26.119
Hypnosis often is a last resort. And I personally wouldn't

708
01:02:26.119 --> 01:02:32.880
even really call it hypnosis. It was just focused. I

709
01:02:33.079 --> 01:02:36.400
like to think of it more instead of called a hypnotherapist,

710
01:02:36.400 --> 01:02:41.840
I'd like to think of myself as being a I

711
01:02:41.920 --> 01:02:54.199
don't know, a therapeutic genius. I think that suits me better. So, Yeah,

712
01:02:54.280 --> 01:02:58.079
he relaxed his leg the same as he relaxed all

713
01:02:58.079 --> 01:03:00.519
the other parts of his body, and he drained it

714
01:03:00.559 --> 01:03:07.400
out through in his Mind's got his eyes closed. When

715
01:03:07.400 --> 01:03:15.880
he opened his eyes, nothing like everything was how it

716
01:03:15.920 --> 01:03:20.639
had been before the accident. I don't mean the leg reappeared.

717
01:03:21.159 --> 01:03:26.480
I mean physically, that's ridiculous. What I mean is not

718
01:03:26.519 --> 01:03:34.559
a magician. That's just crazy. I can't believe. But he

719
01:03:34.639 --> 01:03:42.280
felt fine. His leg felt fine. It wasn't just it

720
01:03:42.320 --> 01:03:47.519
didn't just feel better, It just there was nothing. It

721
01:03:47.559 --> 01:03:55.360
was just felt the same as the other leg and

722
01:03:55.639 --> 01:04:02.119
he couldn't understand it. He couldn't what he did and

723
01:04:02.159 --> 01:04:05.440
what everyone does, and it's natural is they try and

724
01:04:05.440 --> 01:04:13.440
get the pain back, and it seems ridiculous to do that,

725
01:04:13.760 --> 01:04:17.760
but I would do exactly the same. It's so natural.

726
01:04:18.000 --> 01:04:21.039
It's natural. It's like if you go and you get

727
01:04:22.639 --> 01:04:26.639
help with a phobia. Let's say it's whatever it is

728
01:04:27.159 --> 01:04:31.840
is almost it's natural to want to test it, isn't it.

729
01:04:36.639 --> 01:04:40.039
And I think every single person I ever helped face

730
01:04:40.119 --> 01:04:46.000
to face with chronic pain, and I'd say at that

731
01:04:46.199 --> 01:04:53.480
period I had one hundred percent success rate according to

732
01:04:53.519 --> 01:04:56.199
the people that came to see me. I mean, of

733
01:04:56.199 --> 01:05:01.440
course they may have been lying, you know. I mean it

734
01:05:01.559 --> 01:05:03.800
might be like, oh, thank you so much, I can't

735
01:05:03.800 --> 01:05:06.000
believe I'm out of paying for the first time in

736
01:05:06.079 --> 01:05:09.000
six years. And they when I got outside the building,

737
01:05:09.079 --> 01:05:11.639
shaking my hand and smiling, get outside of the building,

738
01:05:11.800 --> 01:05:15.119
like what a pile of shit out? That was rubbish?

739
01:05:15.800 --> 01:05:21.039
Maybe as possible, But then why would they send me

740
01:05:21.159 --> 01:05:26.159
letters telling me months later how much it helped and

741
01:05:26.199 --> 01:05:30.840
how to still find So that's kind of yeah, maybe

742
01:05:32.599 --> 01:05:41.679
there's a hero. I just I loved doing that, and

743
01:05:41.719 --> 01:05:46.800
I would have It was an impossibility for me to

744
01:05:46.880 --> 01:05:54.639
do that as a full time thing, to see people

745
01:05:54.880 --> 01:05:59.360
face to face not charging them. And I say full time,

746
01:05:59.360 --> 01:06:03.320
I wouldn't want to see people. Only maybe three or

747
01:06:03.360 --> 01:06:06.119
four people a days enough, I think, unless I was

748
01:06:06.159 --> 01:06:09.199
to do group sessions. But if I had an office

749
01:06:09.639 --> 01:06:17.559
and I was seeing people specifically for chronic pain, it

750
01:06:17.599 --> 01:06:22.159
could be. Yeah, I think it'd be quite satisfying occupation

751
01:06:22.719 --> 01:06:27.800
as long as I didn't charge them. And the thing

752
01:06:27.920 --> 01:06:32.719
is this, this whole idea, and I do understand it.

753
01:06:34.280 --> 01:06:38.760
The people. There's a theory and it's repeated a lot,

754
01:06:38.880 --> 01:06:45.679
especially in self help books and motivational books and even Buddhists.

755
01:06:45.719 --> 01:06:49.719
I've heard say to me in the past that people

756
01:06:49.760 --> 01:06:55.320
don't appreciate stuff that's free. An early Nightingale said that

757
01:06:55.400 --> 01:06:58.360
as well, but he also pointed out that the most

758
01:06:58.360 --> 01:07:02.760
important things in life are free, like your health, your family,

759
01:07:02.920 --> 01:07:05.960
your loved ones, your you know, the things that we're

760
01:07:06.000 --> 01:07:12.719
born with that there's free. We don't but they're the

761
01:07:12.800 --> 01:07:15.760
things that perhaps we don't appreciate, and so that makes sense.

762
01:07:17.519 --> 01:07:20.440
I understand it from that perspective. There's a lot of

763
01:07:20.440 --> 01:07:24.400
stuff that I don't appreciate, possibly or haven't that came free.

764
01:07:25.639 --> 01:07:27.360
But I don't think it's because it was free that

765
01:07:27.400 --> 01:07:31.639
I didn't appreciate it. I don't think I appreciate my

766
01:07:31.679 --> 01:07:34.400
big TV because it costs me a lot of money,

767
01:07:35.480 --> 01:07:38.559
you know, five six years ago, whatever it was, any

768
01:07:38.599 --> 01:07:43.519
more than I would have appreciated my TV if it

769
01:07:43.559 --> 01:07:47.840
had been half that price. It's just handy to have

770
01:07:47.880 --> 01:07:50.880
a TV I can see because my eyesight is not

771
01:07:50.920 --> 01:07:53.639
as good as what it was. And you know, I

772
01:07:53.639 --> 01:07:56.480
can watch movies with subtitles and still see the writing,

773
01:08:00.079 --> 01:08:02.400
you know, Just things like that, little things I do appreciate,

774
01:08:02.480 --> 01:08:05.679
but I don't think i'd of I wouldn't like it

775
01:08:05.719 --> 01:08:10.679
anymore if it was free at the time. I would.

776
01:08:11.400 --> 01:08:14.559
But you know, I'm not going to get a TV

777
01:08:14.639 --> 01:08:20.640
outside for free, so it's fine. But that used to

778
01:08:20.680 --> 01:08:23.800
bug me though, really used to bug me because I

779
01:08:23.880 --> 01:08:26.119
remember I went to I talked about this before, and

780
01:08:26.119 --> 01:08:29.119
I'll probably be talking about this forever. It was such

781
01:08:29.159 --> 01:08:37.720
an important event in my life. There was a friend

782
01:08:38.359 --> 01:08:40.520
someone I went to college with. This was a game

783
01:08:40.600 --> 01:08:46.760
back in two thousand and six. Her husband was seriously

784
01:08:46.800 --> 01:08:54.439
ill and he wouldn't have a I'm not going to details,

785
01:08:54.439 --> 01:09:00.000
but he won't have it wouldn't have a physical treatment,

786
01:09:01.119 --> 01:09:05.960
medical treatment procedure until I went along and helped him

787
01:09:06.000 --> 01:09:09.560
to relax and you know, to deal with the pain

788
01:09:09.600 --> 01:09:14.159
and stuff. Bearing in mind, he had never seen me

789
01:09:14.199 --> 01:09:16.479
in action, don he met me once at his wedding,

790
01:09:17.439 --> 01:09:19.880
didn't really know anything about me other than what his

791
01:09:19.960 --> 01:09:25.399
wife would have told him. But for some reason he

792
01:09:25.479 --> 01:09:31.720
had faith in me, and I never understood that. So

793
01:09:31.760 --> 01:09:35.199
I went along. And this was a ward, a hospital

794
01:09:35.239 --> 01:09:41.600
award that was very noisy for many different reasons, but

795
01:09:42.680 --> 01:09:45.640
every possible reason that you can imagine why it was

796
01:09:45.680 --> 01:09:50.880
noisy really noisy. So we pulled the curtain around just

797
01:09:50.880 --> 01:09:53.359
for a bit of privacy, didn't block out the sound.

798
01:09:53.640 --> 01:09:58.720
Not sound proof. They they're basically just shower curtains, an't they.

799
01:09:59.359 --> 01:10:01.439
Although it was upon if you start having a shower

800
01:10:03.399 --> 01:10:08.319
or if you're stealing for your shower. So I sitting

801
01:10:08.359 --> 01:10:10.960
behind this, the nurses said they'd leave us alone for

802
01:10:11.319 --> 01:10:14.279
half an hour. So the nurses knew what we were doing,

803
01:10:14.920 --> 01:10:16.800
so we weren't going to be disturbed, which was good.

804
01:10:17.920 --> 01:10:20.279
But there was a lot of screaming and shouting, you know,

805
01:10:20.600 --> 01:10:27.720
lots of stuff, and even in that environment, bearing in mind,

806
01:10:28.319 --> 01:10:32.640
I'm not allowed speaker, so I was talking quite fairly quietly.

807
01:10:33.720 --> 01:10:44.119
He was listening, and the end result was probably one

808
01:10:44.159 --> 01:10:47.600
of the at the time, one of the most satisfying

809
01:10:47.640 --> 01:10:53.279
experiences of my life, because he did relax deeply. He

810
01:10:53.359 --> 01:11:01.319
was seriously the opposite of being relaxed, relaxed, felt fine,

811
01:11:01.479 --> 01:11:05.039
didn't have any pain or anything. I left. He had

812
01:11:05.039 --> 01:11:12.079
the procedure, and the procedure went fine, and he was okay.

813
01:11:12.960 --> 01:11:16.760
Previously he had that procedure and it was he didn't

814
01:11:16.760 --> 01:11:18.560
want to have it again because of how it went.

815
01:11:19.560 --> 01:11:26.680
This time, he was so relaxed that he almost didn't care.

816
01:11:30.439 --> 01:11:35.039
So the next day I go to So this is

817
01:11:35.079 --> 01:11:37.359
two thousand and six. I was working in insurance. Yes,

818
01:11:37.399 --> 01:11:40.359
I was working in insurance. I went to the Buddhist

819
01:11:40.680 --> 01:11:44.359
center for my lunch and I met up with one

820
01:11:44.399 --> 01:11:46.640
of the I think they might have been working in

821
01:11:46.680 --> 01:11:49.119
the evolution shop. So I went to lunch at one

822
01:11:49.199 --> 01:11:54.359
of the lads there and he was talking about his

823
01:11:54.399 --> 01:11:57.159
own thing. Then he don't be barking, please make he

824
01:11:57.279 --> 01:12:00.760
was talking about his own thing that he did. And

825
01:12:04.520 --> 01:12:08.000
I don't think we were just talking about because I

826
01:12:08.000 --> 01:12:10.039
think everyone knew about the free I think I had

827
01:12:10.039 --> 01:12:14.920
a poet like, yeah I did. Yeah, I had a

828
01:12:14.960 --> 01:12:17.840
pile of postcards on the counter of the Evolution shop

829
01:12:18.640 --> 01:12:21.039
and a couple in the window and stuff. So everyone

830
01:12:21.119 --> 01:12:24.800
knew what I was doing. I told everyone what I

831
01:12:24.840 --> 01:12:29.359
was doing. There wasn't anyone that didn't know. And in fact,

832
01:12:29.399 --> 01:12:31.560
I put one of the ones up because it was

833
01:12:31.600 --> 01:12:34.800
pain relief, free pain relief. I put it up on

834
01:12:34.199 --> 01:12:37.920
the board in the staff room at work, you know

835
01:12:37.920 --> 01:12:40.199
where we're going to have a coffee and stuff, and

836
01:12:40.319 --> 01:12:44.720
someone crossed out the word pain and wrote a hand instead,

837
01:12:45.680 --> 01:12:49.079
so they had a giggle for that. But I didn't

838
01:12:49.079 --> 01:12:53.319
get any takers. Well, I got one taker. Then I

839
01:12:53.359 --> 01:12:56.800
explained to him that it was supposed to be pain relief,

840
01:12:58.039 --> 01:13:02.960
and he just walked off sheepishly. He wasn't a sheep, well,

841
01:13:03.000 --> 01:13:12.680
I mean like he was probably a bit embarrassed. So okay,

842
01:13:14.319 --> 01:13:20.600
oh dear, And so everybody knew what I did. I

843
01:13:20.640 --> 01:13:27.079
told everyone, And he was this bloke. I mean, I

844
01:13:27.199 --> 01:13:29.479
haven't dinner with him, so clearly it was like a friend.

845
01:13:31.880 --> 01:13:34.399
But he said to me that people don't appreciate stuff

846
01:13:34.439 --> 01:13:41.760
that's free, and I think I might have had a

847
01:13:41.840 --> 01:13:47.319
go at him for that. Because it upset me so

848
01:13:47.479 --> 01:13:51.600
much because literally the evening before I'd been in the

849
01:13:51.640 --> 01:13:57.319
hospital ward with my friend's husband, and at no point

850
01:13:57.479 --> 01:14:02.640
did money change hands. You know, I didn't say, oh,

851
01:14:02.680 --> 01:14:05.039
by the way, that's thirty quid please, or that's fifty

852
01:14:05.119 --> 01:14:10.800
quid he and it wasn't really I've got an issue

853
01:14:10.800 --> 01:14:18.439
with money or we need it. But the idea that

854
01:14:18.479 --> 01:14:23.920
he didn't appreciate what I'd done for him, or he

855
01:14:23.960 --> 01:14:29.960
didn't appreciate the he didn't appreciate it, or me, it

856
01:14:30.119 --> 01:14:35.199
just didn't make sense because he showed his appreciation at

857
01:14:35.239 --> 01:14:38.600
the time, and he contacted me afterwards. I also went

858
01:14:38.640 --> 01:14:40.800
around his house to help him with some pain relief

859
01:14:40.840 --> 01:14:44.399
as well a week later or a couple of weeks later.

860
01:14:47.560 --> 01:14:52.479
But the idea that someone doesn't you know, it's like, no,

861
01:14:53.439 --> 01:14:57.439
some people won't, But then plenty of people don't appreciate it,

862
01:14:57.560 --> 01:15:03.479
appreciate stuff that they pay for. I mean, look at

863
01:15:03.520 --> 01:15:08.800
how some people react, Like if you're in a restaurant,

864
01:15:08.840 --> 01:15:10.960
they're paying for a meal, but they tea they're treating

865
01:15:11.000 --> 01:15:16.800
the staff sometimes horribly, being rude to them and stuff,

866
01:15:16.840 --> 01:15:24.680
when actually if that food was free guaranteed, the staff

867
01:15:24.720 --> 01:15:31.960
would be treated with utmost respect. I've not only been

868
01:15:32.000 --> 01:15:34.800
to a soup kitchen. I've given food out a soup

869
01:15:34.920 --> 01:15:39.199
kitchen in two different towns. And these are people that

870
01:15:39.960 --> 01:15:43.319
pretty much they don't have to be respectful if they

871
01:15:43.319 --> 01:15:48.760
don't want to. A lot of them are homeless, drunk, whatever,

872
01:15:49.479 --> 01:15:52.039
and maybe also you've got a lot of issues, and

873
01:15:52.079 --> 01:15:58.199
that they would argue amongst themselves. Always respectful to the

874
01:15:58.239 --> 01:16:01.920
people given out food, no matter what their condition was.

875
01:16:02.039 --> 01:16:05.760
All I saw was respect and gratitude. They were grateful.

876
01:16:09.039 --> 01:16:15.199
That's the one thing I saw. And so to say

877
01:16:15.239 --> 01:16:19.319
that someone is not grateful, I guarantee that if they

878
01:16:19.479 --> 01:16:22.880
if they were charging a pound of sandwich, although it's

879
01:16:22.920 --> 01:16:26.439
a lot cheaper than Gregs, there's gonna be some people saying,

880
01:16:26.439 --> 01:16:29.640
oh I don't like that, Oh I don't like that sandwich.

881
01:16:29.680 --> 01:16:32.399
I don't like that cheese wasn't very nice. Have you

882
01:16:32.399 --> 01:16:36.840
got one with more? With more celery? I want more lettuce.

883
01:16:39.239 --> 01:16:41.239
But you don't get that. If it's free, you don't

884
01:16:41.279 --> 01:16:45.199
get the complaints. This. It's almost like there's more respect

885
01:16:46.680 --> 01:16:49.279
if it's not being charged for you can't they can't

886
01:16:49.319 --> 01:16:51.079
give it back, can they? They can't ask for their

887
01:16:51.079 --> 01:16:56.319
money back if it's free. Maybe that's what I'm saying

888
01:16:56.399 --> 01:16:58.720
is they can't ask for their money back, they can't

889
01:16:58.760 --> 01:17:04.039
put a complaint in. Yeah, it's just one of those things.

890
01:17:08.520 --> 01:17:16.840
It's fascinating times. That was seeing the relief on somebody's face,

891
01:17:18.439 --> 01:17:25.279
the disbelief as well as the relief just listening to

892
01:17:25.359 --> 01:17:29.199
my voice. It's they were to change the way you

893
01:17:29.239 --> 01:17:35.239
feel without you having to do anything, and the surprise

894
01:17:35.359 --> 01:17:40.199
that you have almost like how that doesn't make sense

895
01:17:40.359 --> 01:17:46.159
really because all I've done is just waffle on about

896
01:17:46.199 --> 01:17:50.439
nothing maybe for an hour or an hour and a

897
01:17:50.479 --> 01:17:55.399
half or however long. So how can that be useful?

898
01:17:58.760 --> 01:18:01.680
It's a strange one. Really, I can't really, I don't

899
01:18:03.119 --> 01:18:10.319
have an answer. Really, I guess it is what it is.

900
01:18:11.920 --> 01:18:17.680
Our experiences are what they are, aren't they. So when

901
01:18:17.720 --> 01:18:26.560
you feel relaxed, you feel relaxed. Maybe we don't need

902
01:18:26.600 --> 01:18:33.439
to try to investigate why we're now, why you're now

903
01:18:33.439 --> 01:18:36.399
feeling better than you did before. Maybe it's something that

904
01:18:36.439 --> 01:18:41.199
you can We don't do it with medication, do it.

905
01:18:43.520 --> 01:18:46.960
You know someone that has a let's say they have

906
01:18:47.000 --> 01:18:49.760
a headache and they take a headache tablet and a

907
01:18:49.840 --> 01:18:54.800
headache goes and that's what they expected to happen. There's

908
01:18:54.840 --> 01:18:57.720
no big conversation and get a big pad out and

909
01:18:57.720 --> 01:19:01.600
try and work out like, how did that happen? I'm

910
01:19:01.640 --> 01:19:05.920
just surprised. I didn't expect it to No, it wouldn't

911
01:19:05.920 --> 01:19:10.319
happen with it all. Look look at this, there's more.

912
01:19:10.840 --> 01:19:17.640
I didn't realize there's more to read. And Jason has

913
01:19:17.680 --> 01:19:22.199
been practicing hypnotherapy for many years. Well practicing. I was

914
01:19:22.239 --> 01:19:26.600
more studying than practicing. Really. I did a bit for

915
01:19:26.600 --> 01:19:28.960
a couple of years previous, but that was just friends,

916
01:19:29.520 --> 01:19:34.640
bit of family and as qualified as a Master practitioner

917
01:19:34.680 --> 01:19:39.920
in New Alinguistic Programming NLP, which brings lots of different therapies,

918
01:19:39.920 --> 01:19:45.399
including a hypnotherapy. And I was in what nineteen ninety nine,

919
01:19:46.920 --> 01:19:50.800
ninety eight and then ninety nine. He said, everyone has

920
01:19:50.880 --> 01:19:55.840
feelings of confidence and relaxation in them somewhere, and what

921
01:19:55.960 --> 01:19:58.840
I do is give them a shortcut to tap into them.

922
01:19:59.520 --> 01:20:02.640
It's a bit like a computer. All those emotions are

923
01:20:02.640 --> 01:20:04.840
there on the hard drive, but you need some way

924
01:20:04.840 --> 01:20:09.960
of accessing them quickly. I was quite into computers back then.

925
01:20:10.920 --> 01:20:15.039
In recent months we have started. Yeah, it would have

926
01:20:15.079 --> 01:20:18.760
been a different answer when I was into goldfish. In

927
01:20:18.880 --> 01:20:24.199
recent months, he has started. In recent months, he has

928
01:20:24.239 --> 01:20:28.439
started has decided offering It doesn't make sense, but anyway,

929
01:20:28.479 --> 01:20:32.840
in recent months he's decided to start offering hypnotherapy free

930
01:20:32.840 --> 01:20:37.000
of charge and is building up a core of clients

931
01:20:37.079 --> 01:20:41.119
with wide ranging problems. Yeah, this is something that I

932
01:20:41.159 --> 01:20:45.520
didn't expect, and I wasn't. I don't know. It wasn't

933
01:20:45.680 --> 01:20:50.079
really wasn't what I wanted to be doing, he said.

934
01:20:50.159 --> 01:20:53.720
One lady I've been seeing is preparing for a major operation.

935
01:20:55.199 --> 01:20:58.319
This is a this is a separate thing. Anyway, that

936
01:20:58.479 --> 01:21:00.680
was that came for a free and a friend of

937
01:21:00.680 --> 01:21:04.159
a friend. So one lady I've been seeing is preparing

938
01:21:04.159 --> 01:21:08.760
for a major operation and is absolutely petrified at the

939
01:21:08.880 --> 01:21:12.760
thought of it. So we have been working on relaxation techniques.

940
01:21:13.720 --> 01:21:17.319
Another man was going to hospital for some invasive medical procedures,

941
01:21:17.800 --> 01:21:20.319
and I actually worked with him in the hospital to

942
01:21:20.359 --> 01:21:23.000
help calm him down. That's the man I was just

943
01:21:23.039 --> 01:21:26.560
talking about. I've also helped people prepare for driving tests

944
01:21:26.560 --> 01:21:30.239
and overcome a fear of flying. So I was getting

945
01:21:30.239 --> 01:21:33.399
people coming from other things once they found out about me,

946
01:21:34.439 --> 01:21:43.039
and wasn't I wasn't interested. So I was interested in

947
01:21:43.079 --> 01:21:45.720
the moment when they were there. It's not like I

948
01:21:45.800 --> 01:21:49.119
was like, now, re action your legs, air, re action,

949
01:21:49.119 --> 01:21:54.880
your hands. Now, think of let's start counting ten nine.

950
01:21:55.359 --> 01:22:04.760
I wasn't being I didn't have an attitude, but ultimately

951
01:22:04.840 --> 01:22:07.239
I wanted to help. I wanted to deal with people

952
01:22:07.840 --> 01:22:09.600
with chronic pain. That was the thing that I was

953
01:22:09.680 --> 01:22:16.920
most interested in. While Jason's hypnotherapy work is currently restricted

954
01:22:16.920 --> 01:22:20.720
to evenings and weekends, his ultimate aim is to use

955
01:22:20.760 --> 01:22:27.439
his skills within hospitals. Yeah, it was never happened apart

956
01:22:27.439 --> 01:22:31.159
from that one time he said, the NHS is becoming

957
01:22:31.239 --> 01:22:34.479
much more open to alternative therapies, and I really believe

958
01:22:34.520 --> 01:22:38.800
that I could help a lot of people. For more information,

959
01:22:39.000 --> 01:22:43.640
see at www dot free, payrelief, dot co dot uk.

960
01:22:44.479 --> 01:22:48.399
I don't have that url anymore. I made it a

961
01:22:48.399 --> 01:22:52.039
little bit of a mistake because what I did is

962
01:22:52.399 --> 01:22:55.000
I let that go. Someone else bought the domain name,

963
01:22:55.800 --> 01:22:58.920
and they instantly had traffic and they started selling stuff

964
01:22:58.960 --> 01:23:03.439
like pain relief stuff. So I was getting what about

965
01:23:03.439 --> 01:23:07.920
one hundred thousand visitors a year, So they suddenly had

966
01:23:07.960 --> 01:23:10.600
all these visitors. So I probably made someone a bit

967
01:23:10.640 --> 01:23:17.079
of money hypnofiary put it. It just goes through what

968
01:23:17.239 --> 01:23:23.800
hypnosis is at the end. Okay, there's no no one's

969
01:23:23.840 --> 01:23:33.520
left any messages, but there's no pictures of me. Oh,

970
01:23:33.920 --> 01:23:36.239
I'm just gonna have a look. I'm just going to

971
01:23:36.279 --> 01:23:38.079
see if it's anywhere else, because it might have been

972
01:23:38.119 --> 01:23:43.880
in other newspapers. You know, it's possible. I'm going to

973
01:23:44.000 --> 01:23:52.680
come out of there and come out of there, come

974
01:23:52.720 --> 01:24:05.840
out there, right, I'll just come out altogether. Right, mind

975
01:24:05.920 --> 01:24:11.640
power can beat pain. Right, So I'm not coming up

976
01:24:11.680 --> 01:24:15.239
so that that title was not bringing up. The thing

977
01:24:15.399 --> 01:24:20.720
is it's nineteen years ago, so it's quite a long time.

978
01:24:23.039 --> 01:24:30.800
I could have been famous, couldn't I. Yes, if I

979
01:24:30.840 --> 01:24:40.000
only had found a way be famous. By the way,

980
01:24:40.039 --> 01:24:42.760
if you work in a hospital, if you're a boss,

981
01:24:44.319 --> 01:24:46.960
you're gonna just get me into do a bit of

982
01:24:46.960 --> 01:24:55.000
pain release with some of the patients or a hospice.

983
01:24:55.399 --> 01:25:01.560
I tried to get into the two different hospices to

984
01:25:01.600 --> 01:25:04.319
do pay relief, and neither of them would take me.

985
01:25:05.760 --> 01:25:11.039
But I just don't think I came across in a way.

986
01:25:11.960 --> 01:25:13.680
I think what it was is because I didn't know

987
01:25:13.960 --> 01:25:18.800
enough about I didn't have the qualifications of a nurse

988
01:25:18.920 --> 01:25:22.199
or of a doctor or palliative care or any kind

989
01:25:22.199 --> 01:25:27.359
of medical practitioner. I didn't have any medical experience, and

990
01:25:27.399 --> 01:25:34.399
I think that they probably didn't. I don't know. Maybe

991
01:25:34.439 --> 01:25:41.279
I just didn't fit in with that environment in their eyes.

992
01:25:42.960 --> 01:25:48.680
But then I went into a drug rehab center. I

993
01:25:48.800 --> 01:25:51.720
wasn't a former addict. I've never been through that process,

994
01:25:53.199 --> 01:25:58.119
and yet I was welcome there to do group sessions

995
01:25:59.560 --> 01:26:03.680
with not just people that were well for people who

996
01:26:03.680 --> 01:26:06.720
are going to the center, the rehab center also the

997
01:26:06.800 --> 01:26:12.560
staff also and people that are on day release from

998
01:26:12.560 --> 01:26:16.000
prison would come along, so I all people that were

999
01:26:16.039 --> 01:26:18.960
at prison that come come along to the rehab. So

1000
01:26:19.039 --> 01:26:22.359
I was. I was in a room with people of

1001
01:26:22.439 --> 01:26:29.039
all different situations. But for some reason, the hospitals and

1002
01:26:29.039 --> 01:26:36.880
stuff didn't didn't he want me. It's a shame because

1003
01:26:36.880 --> 01:26:39.199
that would have been a great way to spend the

1004
01:26:39.239 --> 01:26:48.880
last twenty years. Okay, So I can't find it anywhere,

1005
01:26:49.439 --> 01:26:52.359
So it's if I put my name, maybe it'll come up.

1006
01:26:54.479 --> 01:26:59.800
What is going on? I think this this laptop is

1007
01:26:59.840 --> 01:27:01.880
to play up a little bit. I might have to

1008
01:27:03.079 --> 01:27:08.000
I don't know something. Oh no, if I put it

1009
01:27:08.039 --> 01:27:11.399
in mind, power can beat paying Jason Newland. Welcome to

1010
01:27:11.439 --> 01:27:14.319
Stress and Pain Relief of therapeutic podcast Hot to Boasted

1011
01:27:14.319 --> 01:27:23.600
by Jason Newland. Okay, so yeah, it's that newspaper article.

1012
01:27:25.319 --> 01:27:35.000
It's pretty much disappeared, but it is still undown and

1013
01:27:35.000 --> 01:27:41.399
it's still on that website. But I can't. Yeah, So

1014
01:27:41.520 --> 01:27:43.840
what I've done is I have added it to my

1015
01:27:44.079 --> 01:27:49.319
faithbook page.

1016
01:27:47.600 --> 01:27:51.840
And let me have a look b to b b

1017
01:27:52.079 --> 01:28:03.600
b bd bddd and mind Power can Beat Pain and

1018
01:28:03.680 --> 01:28:07.399
there's a link. So what i'd do if I edit it?

1019
01:28:10.680 --> 01:28:16.960
So here?

1020
01:28:20.920 --> 01:28:27.399
Oh? Okay, mind? Oh, I just want to put in

1021
01:28:27.439 --> 01:28:35.159
what it is my website, my newspaper news paper article

1022
01:28:38.880 --> 01:28:48.399
from two thousand and six when I was offering free

1023
01:28:49.000 --> 01:29:00.600
payment if service, My newspaper article from two thousand and

1024
01:29:00.640 --> 01:29:06.479
six when I was offering my free pain relief service,

1025
01:29:07.439 --> 01:29:12.039
mind Power Mind Power can Beat Pain, nineteenth of July

1026
01:29:12.119 --> 01:29:21.560
two thousand and six. A weird pick all wait a minute, Okay,

1027
01:29:21.760 --> 01:29:25.760
there's no images, so that image has gone, the weird

1028
01:29:25.760 --> 01:29:29.439
image of me with my baldy head and my I

1029
01:29:29.479 --> 01:29:33.119
can't even explain it. It's not there anymore. I wonder

1030
01:29:33.199 --> 01:29:39.800
if I can if I go to edit, can I all?

1031
01:29:39.880 --> 01:29:43.920
I can. In fact, I'm going to increase the size.

1032
01:29:44.199 --> 01:29:49.319
Oh brilliant. As if there's any change preview, No, let's

1033
01:29:49.399 --> 01:29:55.359
go back. Oh that's mainly very happy. No, I didn't

1034
01:29:55.359 --> 01:29:58.279
want that on there. I'm gon have to edit it again.

1035
01:29:59.279 --> 01:30:06.880
I edit it again, gain edit post by done dun

1036
01:30:06.920 --> 01:30:12.239
to dundune dun dun b b and it should come

1037
01:30:12.520 --> 01:30:20.920
to Yeah, it's not quite nine years nineteen years. I

1038
01:30:21.039 --> 01:30:24.640
say nine years. It's not quite nineteen years, but it

1039
01:30:24.680 --> 01:30:33.399
will be in about six weeks. This amazes me, just

1040
01:30:33.479 --> 01:30:39.720
time time time time, It doesn't it really does go

1041
01:30:39.800 --> 01:30:46.680
by it really do. What have I got? I've got messages?

1042
01:30:48.279 --> 01:30:56.520
Oh I don't know what that's about. So I've gone

1043
01:30:56.560 --> 01:31:04.560
from talking about retuning and instrument to pain to pixel

1044
01:31:04.960 --> 01:31:15.720
dissolve to just talking about myself my favorite subject. But

1045
01:31:17.239 --> 01:31:27.119
how do you feel? That's always the bottom line. Really

1046
01:31:27.680 --> 01:31:30.680
to me, that's the bottom line. How do you feel?

1047
01:31:39.600 --> 01:31:45.079
How do you feel physically? How do you feel emotionally?

1048
01:31:47.840 --> 01:31:56.439
How relaxed do you feel? How calm is your body?

1049
01:31:57.560 --> 01:32:02.359
It's your mind slowed down, Maybe you've even fallen asleep.

1050
01:32:09.760 --> 01:32:14.720
Now I'm going to go, thank you for listening. Remember

1051
01:32:14.800 --> 01:32:17.199
to be kind to yourself because you do deserve to

1052
01:32:17.239 --> 01:32:23.159
be happy and be gentle of yourself. You deserve to

1053
01:32:23.199 --> 01:32:32.520
feel safe, lots of love. Bye, but that was a

1054
01:32:32.520 --> 01:32:39.359
bit of high picture on it. Bye bye you know.

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Dom