April 25, 2025

(music) Q&A Friday | LMBYTS #1339 | 25th April 2025

(music) Q&A Friday | LMBYTS #1339 | 25th April 2025
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Hello, and welcome to Jasonnewland dot com. This is this

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is Q anny Q any que and a Friday. It's

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been a year. Literally, I've been doing this Q and

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a Friday for over a year now. It was a

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year last week. I still haven't figured out a tune.

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Nice little tune. Nicely, all ease into it. It's you

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and it Friday. Maybe one day. So my name's Jason Newland.

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Please only listen when you can safety close your eyes.

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What else.

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Do?

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My website's called got all my recordings on there. You

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can stream, you can download, and you can also ask

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me questions for future Q and A Fridays. Send me

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a message, send me a request. Also, I've got a

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Facebook group called Jason Newland's Boring Group, and that's another

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place I do post requests for Q and a Friday,

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usually Wednesday or Thursday. When was it twenty third, so yeah,

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it would have been Wednesday. And this time I've actually

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got eight questions. A couple of weeks ago, I've got

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I think two questions. Last week I had a few more,

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but I think eight the most I've had for all.

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So yeah, and what else, I've got YouTube channel at

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Jason Newland where I post. It's basically my podcast now

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as well. It's another place to listen to my recordings,

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so all my latest recordings go on there. It's yeah,

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I think I'm kind of ruining my YouTube channel a

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bit by doing this, but maybe over time it will

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be appreciated. I don't know, you know, it might be

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maybe over time people think, oh, that's Handy, it's another

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place we can go and listen to him. And I

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don't know. YouTube At the moment, it's you know, I've

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lost subscribers since I've been doing this, since I stopped

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making videos of my my funny face talking subscribe subscribers

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have gone down, not gone down a lot apart from okay,

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the views on a month hasn't gone down, but on

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a daily basis it's not. Yeah, it's gone a bit down.

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So I don't know. We'll see what happens. I just

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don't want to make videos really, but if that's the

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only way, I mean, maybe I need to keep the

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YouTube channel solely for hypnosis recordings, get rid of all

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the other stuff. Just have hypnosis recordings maybe, or just

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have a whisper hypnosis recordings. Maybe we'll see, right, So

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first question. So it's the twenty fifth of April twenty

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twenty five, and let's sort of look at all the questions,

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view all all the questions. So the first question according

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to this is from Ben Right. So I'm just I'm

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mildly distracted myself by doing I'm also editing another recording

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at the same time. I will give you my full attention. Partly,

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it's just I'm not editing, I'm just processing. So the

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editing's been done. This bit is just the easy bit,

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but it's time consuming. Is basically I can partly editing

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as well, so adding the background music or adding the

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bits where I'm just talking and doing affirmations and things

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like that. So okay, I need to go back music,

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just the music, right. The thing is, we got to

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a point where the day's gone by. I left things

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a little bit late. So I made a recording this

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morning and it was a whisper, just a Friday whisper,

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and I've done one for the last few days. I

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don't know why, but I just have. And then so

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I edited that. That takes a few hours to do

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all that.

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And then I made to let me boil your pain

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away this afternoon because it's now seven two in the evening.

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I finished that around five maybe, yeah, probably about five,

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and then I had something to eat, watched a bit

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of Telly. Then I took Vinnie out. I was out

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for a lot longer than I normally am because he's

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one of the neighbor's daughters. Was excited to see Vinnie,

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so he was like she was playing in the park

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with him. And I got back. I probably left here

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twenty to six, got back about twenty to seven in

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that time. Really, I should have had all the editing done,

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but I didn't, which meant I didn't know what to

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do because I like, it's twenty to seven. I still

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haven't done the Q and A, still haven't edited the

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let me boil your pain away, which gets priority. But

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if I record, then let me boil your If I know,

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if I record the Q and A Friday, I'm not

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going to be able to edit it and upload it

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for tonight because Big brothers on at nine, the live eviction,

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the final, the actual final show, and I'm not going

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to miss that, and that finishes, so yeah, that starts

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at nine, so let's be a Big Brother Final eviction

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finishes at half ten. I think and unless I feel

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energetic and do the editing then or I suppose potentially,

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just potentially, I could do it while I if I

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do the very first edit, and then I can do

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the rest of the processing while I watch it. That

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is a possibility, I suppose. So yeah, I kind of

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left myself a little bit late in the day to

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get everything done. You know, it's it's no one's fault.

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I'm the one that decided for some reason to do

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another Let me boil your pain away. I don't know why,

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I do know, but I started laughing during that one.

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I mean, you know, it's not hypnosis. It's not supposed

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to be hypnosis. It's just me talking. But you know,

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I just I caught myself off guard and said something

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silly and it made me laugh. But what can you do.

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You know, there's going to be some people that take

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it serious, like what are you doing laughing? This is

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But you know what, I don't know, if something makes

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me laugh, it makes me laugh. I thought about editing

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it out, and then I just changed my mind. I

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reduced to sound on that bit because it was a

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little bit loud, But other than that, it's left it

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in so only a few seconds. It was this silly,

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silly thing. So we'll see you never know. I'll By

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the way, I've lost Jason Newland's boring group on Facebook.

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It was two hundred and seventeen members. Now it's two

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hundred and sixteen. What's happened? Who's left? And why? Why

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have you left? That's the big question. Why would you eve?

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But I love you? Why would you leave me? So yeah,

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it's it's all right. I'm okay with that. Well clearly

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not because I just made a big deal about it,

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but yeah, generally I'm not too bothered. Other than yeah,

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a little bit. It just makes me curious. I mean,

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the person might have actually left Facebook or come off

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Facebook temporarily. And as it is, I don't have any

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friends or family on my Facebook, and if I accidentally

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have them on there, I'll block them. Not because I'm

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being rude. I just don't have friends or family on

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my Facebook. It is our Facebook is how many more

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times I can save Facebook? It's specifically for what I

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do online. That's what this is. You know, it always

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has been pretty much from the beginning, since two thousand

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and six, I mean two thousand and five, when was

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Facebook first come out. Was it two thousand and seven,

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two thousand and six too. I don't know. I mean

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it might have come out. I was never necessarily trendy,

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so I might have discovered it once it became popular,

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So it might have been around a while before. So okay,

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here we go. Ben asks me, Oh, a couple of

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questions all rolled into one. So I've got questions from

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Ben Rich, Hillary, Tammy, and Cindy, Cindy and Ali. So

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Ben asks me best thing about life at the moment.

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I don't know. I think I quite like the change

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in the weather. I like this time of year. I do.

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I'm a springy person. I like spring. I got no

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issue with any time of the year, but I do

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I quite like spring. It's the I like the lighter evenings,

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the lighter mornings, the birds singing till you know, late

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at night, the bird's waking up again early hours of

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the morning, and more flexibility for when I can go

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out with the little one because it's lighter. Long ago

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in the winter, I was having to try and go

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out while it was light and get everything done before

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it got dark. Now we've got a bit more flexibility.

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Although I generally I'm in bed by ten anyway, so

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it hasn't made that much difference. But even just going

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in the garden so he can do a weei, I

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can see what he's doing up till is it nine

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o'clock Now he's dark. I'm not sure. I'm sure. I

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don't think it's lightlight at nine, but it's fairly light.

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It's not dark dark. So I quite like spring. That's

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probably the thing I'm liking about life. The other thing,

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I seem to be having a bit of motivation to

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be making recordings, so that's not surprised me. Yeah, it

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surprised me a little bit because I went through a

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bit of a mildly maniced states a couple of weeks ago,

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and I was doing like three recordings a day, and

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I was just getting so much done, and then I

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thought I thought I was going to crash. And although

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I did, I didn't kind of completely crash. It was

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sort of temporary. It wasn't like full on. So I'm

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quite grateful for that. I know you've not asked you

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what I'm grateful for, but it's a similar kind of question,

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is it what's the best thing at light about life?

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At the moment, I feel quite good about sending my

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first step month the flowers are easter. Even though it's

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not opened up. It's not open up communication. And I

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wasn't doing it for that. I was just doing it

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just there's a nice thing, and just to say thank

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you really for all she did all those years ago,

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and to let her know that she's appreciated. And I

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do appreciate what she did. I probably didn't at the time,

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to be honest, because I was a kid, and when

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she left, I probably she wasn't my favorite person for

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quite a while because she left. But ultimately it's kind

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of you know, if it wasn't for those nine years

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living with her, where would my life be? Where would

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I be now? I think she just caught me in time.

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I was just young enough to be positively affected by

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her in a substantial way that allowed me to survive

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at least, you know, I've got through got through life.

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I mean, made loads of mistakes. But I think I

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don't know. I just I like to think that people

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like her, my my nan Andre and some other people,

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my friends, you know, people, family, whatever, that I've been

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close to over the years, I've all had a positive

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impact and maybe perhaps made me a better person. Or

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want to be a better person. There's still a lot

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of work to be done. It will never be complete.

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I'm like the is it the Golden gate Bridge? Once

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you start painting one, you just basically once you get

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to the end of it, you have to start painting

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it again. It's never complete, It's never finished. I'm nothing

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like the Golden gate Bridge. That wasn't a good analogy. Really,

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I thought it was. Before I said it, I could

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have stopped myself saying it. I just didn't. I don't

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know why. So best things that life I suppose I'm

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I seem to be functioning well enough to make recordings,

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and hmmm, I think I'm seeing life a little bit

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differently these days and realizing that I can't put stuff off.

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You know. It's I can like think, well, next year

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I'll do I'll sort of maybe do two recordings a day.

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But actually all I is now, all I've got is

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this moment and try and make the most of it.

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I guess and hope that it's good enough, or that

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I'm good enough, or that I'm useful, that I've you know,

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that I've made a difference, because ultimately I know I'm

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going to be forgotten maybe maybe during my lifetime, but

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I know that, you know, eventually I won't be remembered.

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There's nothing's gonna nothing's going to make people remember me,

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not in decades or centuries. So only really what really

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matters is now and the people that are around now

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that hopefully I can help a little bit, and when

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I get feedback, I feel better about it. I felt

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feel bitter about what I'm doing, because otherwise it can

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turn into a little bit of an ego thing, like

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I have to pretend that I'm successful or pretend that

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I'm helping people. But when I see it in writing,

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you know that it's like, Okay, well I'm not pretending

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someone's actually is find and what I do useful because

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at the moment I'm doing this is let me buil

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your pain away. I don't know if anyone's I know

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people are listening to them, so that that's not an issue.

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I know that's happening, but I don't know really like how,

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I don't know what's the right word. I don't know

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if how people like, if they people like them or

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or not. Because mind you, then I look and I said,

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the last thirty days, yep, stats has happened, so ten

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hours Let Me Boy to Sleep one three, one one,

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twenty fifth of March, the Woman's Toilet, then Trivia Tuesday,

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first of April twenty twenty five, let Me Boy to

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Sleep Q and a Friday twenty eighth March Willy Wonka,

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two three the fourth most popular one of the month.

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The fifth most popular one was Sunday Papers, thirtieth of March,

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moving Things okay, let me board to sleep third of

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March one two, three, four, five six, But the seventh

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most popular one was the let Me Boil Your Pain

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away twenty five Ernest, and then a couple down another

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one face pain. Let me Bore your performance anxiety way

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has been quite popular as well, which was a request

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let me bore you pay. Another one the relaxation Techniques

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that was fairly popular. So people are listening. I say popular,

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I mean like as far as statistics go within the

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different you know, over the last five thirty days, I

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mean I don't know over the last to received that

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I hold this whole year. What's been the most popular

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recording or should I say, for the last twelve months,

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for the last twelve months most popular recording. In fact,

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I did oh, I deleted and stuff didn't I I

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can't stop doing that. I just go just this month

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this year, this year January to now, which is the

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twenty fifth, so the most popular. It's been noisy all right, okay,

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so this is for the last three months January very

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much nearly four months, one hundred and seven thousand total downloads.

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That's a what that's on speaker. I've also got SoundCloud

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one as well. Did okay? Just check in something you're

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working on the editing, don't you know? Yes? You are? Okay?

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Maybe why can't you do that? Put it on pause

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and do that. Why have we got to listen to

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you doing it? Well, you're not listening to me do it?

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I mean I might not be doing it. The fact

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that I just told you I am doesn't mean I

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am constantly lying. So the last two weeks has been

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last the last three weeks have been quite busy.

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So anyway, it's it's quite weird. It's been noisy. That

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was number one. Susan Sue special Let Me Bore You

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to Sleep Q and A. That was one of the

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most popular ones for the last this year, Magic Mirrors,

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Deep Sleep, Whisper Let Me Boil Your Pain Away Number eleven,

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ten hours of music eighth of January. So that was

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the one, two, three, four, five, sixth most popular one

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of the year so far. So someone's listening to them.

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I just don't know if it's it's kind of like

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I don't I want to do something if no one's listening.

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I know they entertain me sometimes and it might seem

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correctly so probably that I'm just entertaining myself when I'm

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doing these, and there is a degree of that. It's

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not why I'm doing it, but if it entertains me,

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then I'm going to enjoy doing it. If you know

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what I mean. It makes sense, really, doesn't it. And

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with the let Me Buoy Your Pain Away, I'm talking

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about stuff that I'm interested in. Yeah, I'm not just

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talking about my life. I'm talking about a subject that

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is that I'm actually quite passionate about. Actually don't tell anyone.

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But at the same time, do I really know what

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I'm talking about? I don't know. I like to think

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I know a little bit about it, but I'm not

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qualified in any way when it comes to medical stuff.

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And I do say that right at the beginning, you know.

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So if it helps, it helps. If it doesn't, then

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as a shame. But hopefully if people are still listening,

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then it must have something going for it, because I

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believe that people are too intelligent really to be listening

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to stuff if it's not useful, even if it's just entertaining,

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or it's you know, a friendly voice to listen to

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a familiar voice, or relaxing. I mean, relaxing is a

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really good things. Is so important to be able to relax.

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So if listening to me wobblon it helps, think good?

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What's your chill out zone out music? Right blue? I

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like classical music. I like piano music. But I've noticed

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when I listened to piano music, you can hear the

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clinking of the keys. It's almost like they've got the

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microphone in, like on the lap of the like of

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the penis. So I kind of it's a bit clattery.

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Not all of them, but Richard, some of the older ones,

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like Richard Claydenman and you know from the eighties, who

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was a huge star back then. The reason actually I

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like piano music is because my first step mom was

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a pianist and she had a piano in the house

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and she was really good, really really really great, great

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at doing it. And she used to play classical music,

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and I said, love listening to it. One of my

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favorite things. And I mean, really, I've been listening to

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music to relax since I was a kid, since I

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was really really young. I've been listening to I say

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really young, as far back as ten, as far back

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as ten. I can remember lying down listening to classical

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music and also listening to an album of movie songs

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or soundtracks, and I just used to relax me. And

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then when I moved upstairs in the family home, I

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used to listen to albums like Buddy Holly, used to

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listen to Madness the Monkeys, like just my favorite albums.

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I'd listen to and I would just relax, you know,

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whatever it was, it was something I enjoyed listening to.

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I didn't so much. I'm i usicedally listening to the

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radio as well. Once I left there. I can't just

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answer a question simply. Can I have to give you

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my whole life story every time I answer a question.

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Sauls about that. And I when I moved always loved music.

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I remember I went to my uncle's and he bought

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me a Walkman and it was one of those. Yeah,

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it was a really good Walkman. And I got our

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Greatest Hits album on tape. I'd already got it and

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I was listening. So I was in the basement because

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that's where my bed was down there, and that was

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like his playrooms who had computed and all kinds of stuff.

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So I was sleeping down there, and sometimes I just

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go down for arrest and I listened to the music

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and it just be you know, now this know that

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was it. Now that's what I call music number two

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or number three or number four. It's very early on.

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So it was like nineteen eighty three times. And I

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used to relax, just lay on the bed and relax

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because I remember one of those songs. I just remembered

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one of the songs. Now that's what I call call music.

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Don't give up Now, that's why I call music number eight. See,

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that's what does me in really, because I get the

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dates wrong. How can that be number eight nineteen eighty six,

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so it must have been a completely different time that

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we went up there. Don't give up because we have friends.

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Nineteen eighty six. BlimE me, I really really thought it

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was earlier than that. I thought it was like eight,

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not a lot earlier, but I thought it was. And

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then that's what I call music number four or three,

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nineteen eighty six. I loved it. Now that's what I

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call music. So that's why I commune. So let's go.

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And that's what I call music number eight. So let's

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see if it's got the various now as whe I

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call music. A few credits reviews. Tracks. Okay, here we go,

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so Duran Duranne Notorious. So this is the first side,

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pet Shop Boys, Suburbia Notorious, Suburbia, Run DMC, walk this way,

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Walk this way, the Communads don't leave me this way.

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Swing Out, Sister, break Out, break Out. Steve Winwood, you

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gotta higher love then you've got orchestral maneuvers in the dark,

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living Ly Die No, Live and Die Forever. So I

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don't know what that one is, Genesis into Deep, don't

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know that one cameo World Up, Grace Jones. I'm not perfect,

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but I'm perfect for you. Melan Kim showing out, Get

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Fresh at the Weekend, showing out, Germaine Stewart. We don't

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have to take our clothes off to have a good time.

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Oh no, Jackie Graham, step right up. Janet Jackson, what

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have you done for me lately? Human League? Human Human?

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And Boris Gardner. I want to wake up with you.

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I want to wake up with you, baby and Peter,

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Greg Gabriel and Kate Bush the one I was thinking

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about earlier, Don Giver because you have us or friends

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the house Martins. Think for a minute, Think for a minute.

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O can madness? Ghost train? This? Looking for a ghost train?

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All the girls nurse the wrong one status quote in

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the army now, oh well we're in the army now,

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how Huey Lewis and the News. Stuck with you, stuck

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with you, going of feeling down deep in my soul? No,

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stuck with you, stuck with you, Big Country, one great thing. Nope.

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This is really weird because I used to listen to

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this album and none of these songs I know the

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sock well, I remember most of them, but I don't remember.

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It doesn't seem like it sounds very relaxing. Cutting Crew,

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a Dirn in your Arms, The Node and Billy Bragg.

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Greetings to the new Brunette, Kim Wild you keep me

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hanging on it, Bites calling all the holes calling all

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the heroes. Carleonarda here he goes. I don't know. That's

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why I need to I need to forget that one

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and listen doctor in the Medics with Roy Wood Wadloo,

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how can you believe that you won the war? That

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was number one. I remember that one, Debbie Harry French

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kissing in the USA. French kissing in the US. Hey,

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Robert Palmer, I didn't mean to turn you on, but

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I remember that. Totally addicted to love Robert Palmer, Paul Hardcastle,

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the Wizard, the we were a wizard, they were were wizards.

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Gwen Guffrie DeLong. They longed to be close to you.

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Nick Berry, Oh, Nick Berry, I love nick Berry. Every

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loser wins wants to dream be in time. You'll see

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fatal the key in every Loser nose, not every winner nose.

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Do so Nick Berry. He was in EastEnders and great Song.

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I just love it. He also did Buddy Holly's Heartbeat

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because he went away. It was a TV show called

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Heartbeat and Heartbeat and yeah it was good. So that's

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probably one of the only out of all these people

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that were in TV shows like soaps that went on

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to do a song, I would say Nick Berry's Every

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Loser Wins. Yeah, that's the only song I liked pretty

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much that I really liked out of all of the

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songs that were done from soapstars, apart from Eaglely New

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nob Lily what was it now? Was she and Home

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and Away or East or Neighbors? I can't remember her name,

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but she did a song in that ninety seven, ninety eight,

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ninety nine that was really good day, going to be

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there have a day. I can't remember the name. Yeah,

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I might not be doing it very good justice, but

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it was a good song. And then when I left school, I, yeah,

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I'm probably on a Sunday. I used to listen to

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music in the evening or now on a Sunday, she

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listened to music during the day. Michael Jackson, mainly his

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albums that used to relax me. I also got in

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the habit during the nineties, like the whole of the nineties,

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and yeah, yeah, the whole of the nineties. I'd listened

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to the Top forty on the radio, and that would

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relax because I just sit there, We'll lie down and

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just fall asleep listening to it. And yeah, I did.

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I just used to listen to just general music. Really,

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I think as the Internet's come in and there's more

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options like classic FM and with the streaming audio places,

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they're good. I like them. I've used Spotify, but I

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now use Amazon. No, I don't, Yes, I do, do

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I or Apple? I use one of them. I don't

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even know who I use. That's terrible. It is that

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Amazon Music. It's I don't even know Amazon. Did I

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just bang the microphone. I think it's Amazon Music. I

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don't know who I'm with. I need to check this.

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I think it's either Apple or Amazon Amazon Apple subscriptions.

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I was Apple Music, okay, So why did I think

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it was of Amazon. I used to do with Amazon

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as well, not as well, but instead of I don't

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really need to but Apple. Apple suits me. I like Apple,

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the Apple Music. It's what I do or what I

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listen to nowadays. I like to listen to classical music.

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I do have a tendency of listening to audio books

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to zone out, and really so the only podcasts I

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do like. I mean, I don't listen to many podcasts now.

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I spend so much time making them and I do.

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I have started to listen to my own recordings every

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now and then, maybe a couple of times a week

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I listen to, but I only listen to the ones

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without music and for the length of the duration of

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the actual original recording, So if it lasts for an

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hour or fifty minutes or an hour and a half, whatever,

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they're the only ones I listen to. And I hope

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that answers your question. I think, well, I don't think,

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I hope I do hope. Rich asks me what kind

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of breed is your dog? And I've never seen a

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video and have never heard him bark? Is he boring too? Oh? Well?

467
00:40:17.719 --> 00:40:24.480
Is Jack Russell? You'll never hear him bark? The reason

468
00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:27.559
he does bark during the videos or during the recordings,

469
00:40:28.320 --> 00:40:31.679
but I have to edit it out because it's so loud,

470
00:40:34.199 --> 00:40:37.440
and you might occasionally you're hear him in the background.

471
00:40:39.400 --> 00:40:43.599
At the moment, he's obsessed with a fly. I wish

472
00:40:43.639 --> 00:40:45.480
he was obsessed with his food. He's just not been

473
00:40:45.480 --> 00:40:48.880
eating recently. If you didn't other stuff, he just won't

474
00:40:49.079 --> 00:40:50.960
you eat dry food. He doesn't want the wet food

475
00:40:50.960 --> 00:40:57.360
at the moment, just a bit bored of it. I think, I, yes,

476
00:40:57.400 --> 00:41:06.679
he's a little Jack Russell's red. He's I don't know

477
00:41:06.679 --> 00:41:12.239
how to describe him. Really, he is loud, and he

478
00:41:12.320 --> 00:41:16.480
goes from zero to you know, super loud in a

479
00:41:16.800 --> 00:41:21.360
second and in an instant. I try and keep the

480
00:41:21.400 --> 00:41:23.880
noise down because the problem is if he barks a lot,

481
00:41:25.079 --> 00:41:29.440
then the dog over the other in the garden will bark,

482
00:41:30.519 --> 00:41:36.480
or if the dog barks, he barks and then someone

483
00:41:36.599 --> 00:41:40.119
starts shouting to the dog stop barker, Or if it

484
00:41:40.239 --> 00:41:44.400
happens too often, then I hear music go on in

485
00:41:44.400 --> 00:41:49.599
one of the neighbor's flats and then he barks again.

486
00:41:50.199 --> 00:41:52.400
And sometimes it gets to the point where another neighbor

487
00:41:52.400 --> 00:41:55.199
puts music on to cover up the music. From that,

488
00:41:55.440 --> 00:41:58.960
you know, it just gets silly. So I just kind

489
00:41:58.960 --> 00:42:04.199
of I try to avoid that situation by keeping him quiet.

490
00:42:05.599 --> 00:42:10.679
Well that's weird noise, but it doesn't always work. I mean,

491
00:42:10.880 --> 00:42:17.440
earlier on today, I was in bed and he literally

492
00:42:17.480 --> 00:42:20.559
woke me up while I was asleep by barking in

493
00:42:20.599 --> 00:42:25.719
my ear. Not the best way to be woken up,

494
00:42:25.880 --> 00:42:28.960
if I'm honest. So that's why I don't, you know,

495
00:42:29.039 --> 00:42:33.679
I don't leave his barking in the recording. If it

496
00:42:33.840 --> 00:42:38.280
wasn't supposed to be relaxing, then I probably would. I'd

497
00:42:38.280 --> 00:42:43.320
probably leave him in there, but because especially you know,

498
00:42:43.400 --> 00:42:47.000
after maybe an hour in or something, it just wouldn't

499
00:42:47.000 --> 00:42:50.800
be ideal. Although occasion I do leave in my laughing,

500
00:42:50.840 --> 00:42:54.039
which is probably just as loud. I try not to,

501
00:42:54.159 --> 00:42:59.039
but occasionally I just yeah, sometimes I just laugh. I

502
00:42:59.159 --> 00:43:06.960
say something and it makes me giggle. Is he boring?

503
00:43:07.719 --> 00:43:12.800
BlimE me? And did you say too? Are you calling

504
00:43:12.840 --> 00:43:18.840
me boring? Is he boring? No? No, he's full of it.

505
00:43:18.880 --> 00:43:24.320
He's really full of energy, very excitable, very excited. He

506
00:43:24.400 --> 00:43:28.119
loves seeing people. He's got a few dogs that he

507
00:43:28.239 --> 00:43:31.639
likes to say lo to, but he loves people, really does.

508
00:43:33.039 --> 00:43:36.360
And I do sometimes think I'm his least favorite person.

509
00:43:36.800 --> 00:43:39.079
But that's probably because he spends all his time with me.

510
00:43:41.320 --> 00:43:43.320
You know, if he got to spend a bit more

511
00:43:43.320 --> 00:43:47.599
time away with someone else, he might appreciate me a

512
00:43:47.639 --> 00:43:52.159
little bit. I don't know. But no, he does sleep

513
00:43:52.239 --> 00:43:57.119
quite a bit. But I do take him out a

514
00:43:57.159 --> 00:44:00.679
few times a day for a walk. So I just

515
00:44:00.719 --> 00:44:08.639
said that word. Yeah, he's all right, he's okay boor Now,

516
00:44:08.679 --> 00:44:11.960
I wouldn't say it's boring annoying, but I'm a boring

517
00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:18.599
and cute as well. So Hillary asks me, have you

518
00:44:18.639 --> 00:44:23.760
ever heard of missus Hinch? She sounds like the malver,

519
00:44:24.159 --> 00:44:27.079
You sound like the malversion of her, And she says,

520
00:44:27.119 --> 00:44:33.239
BlimE me as much as you do. I say, blimey.

521
00:44:33.360 --> 00:44:37.079
I don't really notice saying that, do I say BlimE

522
00:44:37.079 --> 00:44:42.599
me A lot? I noticed, I say so. I try

523
00:44:42.639 --> 00:44:46.119
not to say so so so so, but BlimE me,

524
00:44:48.239 --> 00:44:57.559
BlimE me, I don't do I I have to listen back, am.

525
00:45:00.800 --> 00:45:03.360
I think that's what you call a blind spot. I

526
00:45:03.400 --> 00:45:08.320
don't really notice, so I guess I suppose we all do.

527
00:45:08.360 --> 00:45:12.639
But I imagine I do have a few verbal mannerisms

528
00:45:13.840 --> 00:45:21.400
that I'm not aware of, and I know sometimes I

529
00:45:21.440 --> 00:45:24.360
can be a little bit. I don't always pronounce my

530
00:45:24.440 --> 00:45:32.199
words correctly. Sometimes, especially if I've been talking for a

531
00:45:32.199 --> 00:45:35.920
long time, occasionally are slur a little bit. It's not

532
00:45:35.960 --> 00:45:38.159
because I'm drunk. I think it's just because I'm tired.

533
00:45:38.519 --> 00:45:42.159
My mouth is a little bit tired. And Vinny just

534
00:45:42.199 --> 00:45:45.199
barked then, so I left it in so you can

535
00:45:45.239 --> 00:45:48.840
hear it, okay, rich, so you can hear him barking.

536
00:45:49.519 --> 00:45:52.880
But that was just a tiny little bark. Then, just

537
00:45:52.920 --> 00:45:59.280
as I was talking, He's trying to get that he's

538
00:45:59.519 --> 00:46:02.599
just rushed, traded with the fly, the flea, the fly,

539
00:46:02.760 --> 00:46:07.400
rather that he's trying to catch. I've never heard of

540
00:46:07.440 --> 00:46:10.840
missus Hinch, so I sound like a male version of her.

541
00:46:10.920 --> 00:46:12.639
And she says blind men nearly as much as you.

542
00:46:13.280 --> 00:46:15.159
Is it just what? Does she do the same kind

543
00:46:15.199 --> 00:46:20.760
of stuff as me? Never heard of missus Hinch? Is

544
00:46:20.760 --> 00:46:22.719
it someone that you actually know personally? Or is it

545
00:46:23.079 --> 00:46:26.199
a podcast? Or is missus Hinch? I'm going to look

546
00:46:26.199 --> 00:46:31.039
it up, look her up rather Missus Hinch. Sophie Rose

547
00:46:31.280 --> 00:46:38.960
hitch Hinchcliff born sixteenth February nineteen ninety, known as missus Hinch,

548
00:46:39.119 --> 00:46:43.719
is a British influencer whose Instagram account features tips for

549
00:46:43.960 --> 00:46:47.760
home cleaning. Well, that's where we divide it. I'll definitely

550
00:46:49.480 --> 00:46:52.639
I'm definitely very different from her, and that's that the

551
00:46:52.800 --> 00:46:57.519
fifth I can't say the word. Her cleaning books and

552
00:46:57.559 --> 00:47:00.639
her memoir has been included on a Sunday Times best

553
00:47:00.679 --> 00:47:08.440
sellers list. Wow. Hinchcliff was born Sophie Barker in Basildon, Essex,

554
00:47:09.159 --> 00:47:11.360
so it's not that far from where I live. Before

555
00:47:11.360 --> 00:47:15.760
creating her Instagram account, she was a hairdresser. She stated

556
00:47:15.800 --> 00:47:18.360
that she suffers from anxiety and that cleaning helped her

557
00:47:18.440 --> 00:47:22.440
cope with it. I know someone that's a bit like that.

558
00:47:22.880 --> 00:47:27.000
This person said that I love cleaning. I didn't believe her.

559
00:47:27.800 --> 00:47:30.239
It's like, why do you mean you love cleaning? That

560
00:47:30.400 --> 00:47:36.159
just seems And her name is Sophie as well. Now,

561
00:47:36.760 --> 00:47:39.199
I just like I couldn't get my head around the

562
00:47:39.280 --> 00:47:46.119
idea that someone would enjoy cleaning. Really I don't. Yeah,

563
00:47:46.119 --> 00:47:51.840
I still can't, right, So she changed her name for

564
00:47:51.920 --> 00:47:59.199
the thing. March twenty eighteen, she created Instagram account, initially

565
00:47:59.239 --> 00:48:02.440
to show how she and her husband were redecorating the house.

566
00:48:03.159 --> 00:48:07.440
Within two years, she'd accumulated two million followers on the platform,

567
00:48:07.800 --> 00:48:12.559
known as hinches and by the hashtag hinch Army. By

568
00:48:12.599 --> 00:48:17.320
twenty nineteen two point five million. October two, twenty twenty twenty,

569
00:48:17.360 --> 00:48:20.199
more than three point eight million so. Her content includes

570
00:48:20.280 --> 00:48:25.559
stories and short fifteen second videos in which she cleans

571
00:48:27.719 --> 00:48:33.599
and organizes her home. BlimE Me. March twenty twenty one,

572
00:48:33.960 --> 00:48:38.920
ratings site go compare listed her as the highest paid

573
00:48:39.440 --> 00:48:44.960
home fluencer or clean fluencer in the United Kingdom, second

574
00:48:45.000 --> 00:48:51.360
highest worldwide. Our first book, Hint Yourself Happy, sold one

575
00:48:51.440 --> 00:48:58.239
hundred and sixty three hundred and two copies in three days. Really, wow?

576
00:48:59.719 --> 00:49:02.119
Is I guess that I suppose? Is that be a

577
00:49:02.159 --> 00:49:07.679
digital version? I really don't know. I don't know if

578
00:49:07.719 --> 00:49:15.000
people if that's a lot, then't it. In October twenty twenty,

579
00:49:15.119 --> 00:49:18.360
her memoile this Is Me also became a number one

580
00:49:18.400 --> 00:49:31.920
bestsellerh Wow, that's really so saying. Hinchcliff suffered health problems

581
00:49:31.960 --> 00:49:37.079
after a gastic gastric band operation. She lost eight stone

582
00:49:37.920 --> 00:49:41.400
and she was prescribed anti the presant's due to anxiety.

583
00:49:42.239 --> 00:49:46.239
Hinchcliff and her son Ronnie have been both being diagnosed

584
00:49:46.239 --> 00:49:52.840
as autistic. Wow. No, it's a first. I don't even

585
00:49:52.840 --> 00:49:55.039
know what she looks like, not that it's relevant, but

586
00:49:56.800 --> 00:50:01.800
never Maybe I saw on TV. I don't really watch.

587
00:50:02.280 --> 00:50:09.079
There's a picture of her. She's with a baby seven

588
00:50:09.159 --> 00:50:12.960
days ago. Wow, she's a star, isn't she. I've never

589
00:50:13.039 --> 00:50:19.000
heard of her? I have? Now? Did I just say

590
00:50:19.039 --> 00:50:22.239
playing me again? Didn't I? Well, I'm still I'm going

591
00:50:22.320 --> 00:50:25.480
to be self conscious. I got to stop. I can't

592
00:50:25.480 --> 00:50:35.159
be self conscious about things like that. Tammy, ask me

593
00:50:35.679 --> 00:50:39.719
what you're up to this weekend. There's only one thing

594
00:50:40.039 --> 00:50:44.679
that I'm up to. Not only one thing, but there's

595
00:50:44.679 --> 00:50:48.280
one thing that's the main thing, and that is watching

596
00:50:48.360 --> 00:50:54.199
boxing on Saturday night, which is Connor Bend versus Chris

597
00:50:54.239 --> 00:50:57.880
hu Bank Jr. There's been a huge build up to

598
00:50:58.000 --> 00:51:02.760
it and lots of controversy, and yeah, I'm going to

599
00:51:02.800 --> 00:51:08.239
watch that tomorrow night. I want to close this window.

600
00:51:08.599 --> 00:51:10.519
He gets so stuffy in here because I've got all

601
00:51:10.519 --> 00:51:14.039
this electric equipment and maybe it needs a little bit

602
00:51:14.119 --> 00:51:16.519
dusting to be fair, so it really gets on my

603
00:51:17.920 --> 00:51:21.920
chest a little bit. The heating might be on as well,

604
00:51:22.679 --> 00:51:28.920
I don't know. And so, yeah, that is it. Sunday.

605
00:51:29.119 --> 00:51:34.679
I like to just relax if I can. I have

606
00:51:34.719 --> 00:51:37.079
a tendency of staying in bed for a lot of Sunday.

607
00:51:38.239 --> 00:51:46.679
That's usually my Sunday, listen to some music, chill out.

608
00:51:49.519 --> 00:51:51.760
I mean technically that could be every day, I suppose,

609
00:51:51.840 --> 00:51:56.239
but I try, and I like to think that even

610
00:51:56.280 --> 00:52:00.239
though I'm not working, I'm not earning a living or

611
00:52:00.360 --> 00:52:05.639
doing anything like that, but I am contributing in my

612
00:52:05.679 --> 00:52:13.679
own little way towards society. Maybe not local society, but hopefully,

613
00:52:14.960 --> 00:52:22.159
you know, the wider society. And yeah, I hope that's

614
00:52:22.920 --> 00:52:27.960
the case. But yeah, on yeah, temmy boxing. That's what

615
00:52:28.000 --> 00:52:30.559
I'm gonna be doing. I canna be watching boxing tomorrow

616
00:52:30.679 --> 00:52:36.000
night with Vinnie and I watch all the fights. I

617
00:52:36.079 --> 00:52:39.679
watch it from beginning to the end, and then I

618
00:52:39.719 --> 00:52:44.840
go to bed, So that that's it. That's tomorrow. I

619
00:52:44.920 --> 00:52:48.719
may make a recording tomorrow. I don't know. See how

620
00:52:48.760 --> 00:52:56.599
I feel Sunday. There's Sunday papers. In Saturday, I generally

621
00:52:56.639 --> 00:53:04.280
do like catch up or Saturday Summary. We'll see see

622
00:53:04.320 --> 00:53:06.679
how I feel. It depends what kind of noise is

623
00:53:06.719 --> 00:53:09.320
going on around as well, because if it's a nice

624
00:53:09.400 --> 00:53:12.440
day Saturday, there probably be a lot of activity in

625
00:53:12.480 --> 00:53:15.920
the garden and stuff. So we'll just say, see what happens,

626
00:53:15.960 --> 00:53:19.320
see what goes on. But boxing, that's the thing I'm

627
00:53:19.360 --> 00:53:23.719
going to be focusing on, and hopefully I'm not disturbed

628
00:53:23.719 --> 00:53:31.199
by anyone sudden. I got and did you ever get

629
00:53:31.239 --> 00:53:35.800
your chocolate egg from your neighbor? I did? I did?

630
00:53:35.840 --> 00:53:41.320
I did? I did? I did I. I didn't ask

631
00:53:41.360 --> 00:53:43.039
him because I was playing around with the idea of

632
00:53:43.800 --> 00:53:50.039
trying to figure out a way to be subtle and

633
00:53:50.480 --> 00:53:52.679
you know, remind him to get me the egg, or

634
00:53:52.840 --> 00:53:55.039
remind him if he has already brought the egg to

635
00:53:55.079 --> 00:53:56.679
give it to me so I could put it in

636
00:53:56.679 --> 00:54:07.639
my tummy, and he knocked on my door. I think Saturday.

637
00:54:09.480 --> 00:54:13.559
Was it Saturday? I think it was Saturday evening and

638
00:54:13.679 --> 00:54:16.719
he gave me a chocolate egg. Or was it Sunday?

639
00:54:16.760 --> 00:54:22.360
It might have been Sunday. Actually was it Monday? I

640
00:54:22.920 --> 00:54:25.880
think it was Saturday. I lose track, but yeah, I

641
00:54:25.920 --> 00:54:28.760
did get an egg. It was a Cadbury's cream egg

642
00:54:29.480 --> 00:54:31.679
chocolate egg, so it's a big, well, you know, it's

643
00:54:31.719 --> 00:54:36.280
a fair sized egg. And yeah, it was lovely, So

644
00:54:36.360 --> 00:54:38.920
that was nice. I know I'm not supposed to eat chocolate.

645
00:54:41.039 --> 00:54:44.400
I just got another letter from the NHS talking about

646
00:54:44.400 --> 00:54:48.280
my pre diabetic and how I'm a high risk and

647
00:54:48.280 --> 00:54:54.360
all that stuff. So yeah, after my chocolate's now done.

648
00:54:55.039 --> 00:54:57.880
I've eaten a fair bit of chocolate over the last

649
00:54:58.480 --> 00:55:01.719
probably two and a half week because of Easter. But

650
00:55:01.840 --> 00:55:07.599
now that's done, I'm not gonna have any more till tomorrow.

651
00:55:08.159 --> 00:55:12.599
I don't know, maybe, but yeah, so I did get

652
00:55:12.599 --> 00:55:15.960
the Easter egg, and it was the first Easter egg

653
00:55:15.960 --> 00:55:19.400
I've had for decades that I've had anyone give me,

654
00:55:19.519 --> 00:55:23.199
I think, unless of course I've just forgotten. There's a

655
00:55:23.320 --> 00:55:30.000
chance I've forgotten. Yeah, but yeah it was. It was

656
00:55:30.079 --> 00:55:34.440
nice and I didn't have to sort of put any

657
00:55:34.519 --> 00:55:41.800
hints like putting a new Yeah, I suppose I could

658
00:55:41.800 --> 00:55:46.119
have just have had a new letterbox put in in

659
00:55:46.199 --> 00:55:50.360
the shape of an Easter egg, but that would be

660
00:55:50.400 --> 00:55:53.400
expensive and i'd probably get probably get kicked out of

661
00:55:53.440 --> 00:55:55.960
my flat for doing that by the council. So it's

662
00:55:56.000 --> 00:55:59.639
not really worth it for the sake of a five

663
00:55:59.639 --> 00:56:07.440
pounds Easter is five pounders in money, not weight. But

664
00:56:07.519 --> 00:56:09.519
I don't know what the weight of an Easter egg is.

665
00:56:09.960 --> 00:56:18.360
I've never weighed one. I really don't know. And Cindy,

666
00:56:18.599 --> 00:56:23.559
what are some habits or things Americans do that baffle

667
00:56:23.679 --> 00:56:29.760
you that puts me on the spot, doesn't it? I

668
00:56:29.800 --> 00:56:35.280
have to be very careful what I say next. Oh,

669
00:56:40.039 --> 00:56:46.400
so I'm going to answer the next question. First. Do

670
00:56:46.440 --> 00:56:52.039
you have Cabri's Cabri eggs all year or only at Easter? Right?

671
00:56:52.480 --> 00:56:55.400
We only have Easter eggs at Easter. Well, the build

672
00:56:55.480 --> 00:57:01.800
up I'd say probably maybe January until Easter and then

673
00:57:01.800 --> 00:57:06.119
they're after shelves. I mean, it's been a while since

674
00:57:06.159 --> 00:57:09.159
I've been in the supermarket, but it always used to

675
00:57:09.199 --> 00:57:11.960
be a case of if they weren't sold, they'd be

676
00:57:12.000 --> 00:57:16.480
sold for a discounting rate the day after whatever, and

677
00:57:16.480 --> 00:57:21.079
they'd all be gone very quickly, and then no East

678
00:57:21.119 --> 00:57:25.000
Dreggs again until the next year, which will probably be

679
00:57:25.159 --> 00:57:30.840
you know, maybe January February. I'd say possibly January. So

680
00:57:30.920 --> 00:57:33.440
it's only during that period that East Dregs are available.

681
00:57:35.880 --> 00:57:43.599
Cabrey's Creamix on the other side, again, they're only available

682
00:57:44.239 --> 00:57:49.079
generally during that period as well. They're like beginning of

683
00:57:49.119 --> 00:57:53.679
the year, and some people buy them in they buy

684
00:57:53.719 --> 00:57:56.639
them so they can have them for much longer, so

685
00:57:56.639 --> 00:58:00.559
they'll buy like huge amounts and they'll like garage. I

686
00:58:00.559 --> 00:58:02.679
think they have them for like six months of the year,

687
00:58:03.519 --> 00:58:09.119
but eventually they run out. So you kind of have

688
00:58:09.199 --> 00:58:12.440
to make do with if you like chocolate in this country,

689
00:58:12.559 --> 00:58:17.360
just have to make do with chocolate bars or those

690
00:58:17.440 --> 00:58:22.280
kinds of candy or treats, whatever you call them. So

691
00:58:22.280 --> 00:58:25.159
so we don't call them candy in this country, at

692
00:58:25.199 --> 00:58:27.559
least my age group don't. I don't know, maybe it's

693
00:58:27.599 --> 00:58:32.159
now called candy. I can't keep track, I really can't.

694
00:58:32.920 --> 00:58:37.719
Is things that you know, I now kind of a

695
00:58:37.719 --> 00:58:42.400
little bit understand how frustrating. It was for the older

696
00:58:42.440 --> 00:58:48.320
generation when I was younger, because they weren't keeping up

697
00:58:48.360 --> 00:58:52.280
with the times, and now I'm not. I like to

698
00:58:52.280 --> 00:58:56.760
think I'm not way behind the times because I'm online

699
00:58:56.800 --> 00:58:59.760
and I'm seeing what's being said, and I'm kind of

700
00:58:59.800 --> 00:59:02.360
ke up to date with the news and stuff like that.

701
00:59:02.440 --> 00:59:11.840
But when it comes to conversations, I'm you know, I

702
00:59:11.880 --> 00:59:15.440
was literally in the park just now, well a couple

703
00:59:15.480 --> 00:59:19.960
of hours ago, and my neighbor's kids and she's she

704
00:59:20.079 --> 00:59:22.159
was literally my neighbor was pregnant with her when I

705
00:59:22.239 --> 00:59:28.719
moved in here, so she's but nine or something. Not

706
00:59:28.880 --> 00:59:32.800
my neighbor who's pregnant her daughter, and she was with

707
00:59:32.840 --> 00:59:34.880
her friend in the park and she loves Vinny, and

708
00:59:34.880 --> 00:59:39.480
Phinny loves her. He's known her for years, and I've

709
00:59:39.480 --> 00:59:43.440
known her since she was born. But these two little

710
00:59:43.480 --> 00:59:45.880
girls have kept saying this. They kept saying, it's not

711
00:59:46.039 --> 00:59:50.400
that deep, it's not that that's like is that a

712
00:59:50.400 --> 00:59:52.800
new saying? Now, I know what it means. I've seen

713
00:59:52.840 --> 00:59:55.800
it on Big Brother, and I've seen people say it.

714
00:59:55.880 --> 00:59:59.840
But but what I've noticed and it happened, I've seen

715
00:59:59.840 --> 01:00:05.320
it loads of times in the past where people that

716
01:00:05.519 --> 01:00:12.440
overuse it and it loses its context. In it was

717
01:00:12.440 --> 01:00:15.159
one of those where a lot of the young people

718
01:00:15.159 --> 01:00:19.440
would say in it, it's cold in it. But then

719
01:00:19.440 --> 01:00:23.360
they'd be saying, it's like I'm hungry in it. No,

720
01:00:23.480 --> 01:00:29.119
that's not a sentence I'm hungry, isn't it. That's not yeah,

721
01:00:29.159 --> 01:00:34.119
that's not like grammatically correct. So it went from but

722
01:00:34.199 --> 01:00:36.679
then there was like in it, every other word is

723
01:00:36.679 --> 01:00:42.960
in it. But then when I was growing up, probably

724
01:00:46.360 --> 01:00:50.199
fifteen sixteen, I was constantly saying you know what I mean,

725
01:00:50.639 --> 01:00:53.159
you know what I mean? After every sentence, you know

726
01:00:53.159 --> 01:00:54.840
what I mean, you know what I mean? You know

727
01:00:54.840 --> 01:00:59.480
what I mean? And I blame Frank Bruno for that,

728
01:01:00.360 --> 01:01:02.559
because he was an absolute hero in this country and

729
01:01:02.599 --> 01:01:09.559
he used to say you know what I mean, and

730
01:01:09.559 --> 01:01:13.079
and I really loved him, so I wanted to be

731
01:01:13.320 --> 01:01:18.280
like Frank. So I was like constantly, you know what

732
01:01:18.280 --> 01:01:20.599
I mean? And I was saying it all the time

733
01:01:20.639 --> 01:01:25.960
without even realizing it. And I think, I don't know.

734
01:01:26.119 --> 01:01:28.360
I've seen it as well. You get me, you get me.

735
01:01:29.320 --> 01:01:31.079
I heard that a lot in London. You get me,

736
01:01:32.960 --> 01:01:39.239
And it's there's another thing like swear down. Now I've

737
01:01:39.280 --> 01:01:41.440
heard people say that as a kind of a joke

738
01:01:43.960 --> 01:01:47.840
and then it turns into normal language. It's weird. I

739
01:01:47.880 --> 01:01:54.760
don't know, it's it's kind of I think, and I'm

740
01:01:54.800 --> 01:01:59.320
the same. We just pick up from other people, just

741
01:01:59.480 --> 01:02:06.320
little men. I've noticed that my friend Luke, he would

742
01:02:07.360 --> 01:02:12.000
spend some time with someone and he'd come back. I'm

743
01:02:12.039 --> 01:02:14.840
not saying he didn't. He wasn't a mimic, but he'd

744
01:02:14.840 --> 01:02:18.519
come back and he'd have their mannerisms if he was

745
01:02:18.559 --> 01:02:21.519
with them for a couple of days, just solely with them,

746
01:02:22.559 --> 01:02:27.119
and then come back and it just just a few

747
01:02:27.159 --> 01:02:29.079
things because I knew the person had spent time with

748
01:02:29.679 --> 01:02:34.280
and he'd come back and he's like, yeah, one is this,

749
01:02:34.400 --> 01:02:37.639
that and the other. Now he never said that any

750
01:02:37.639 --> 01:02:40.000
other time. And this is something that I saw every

751
01:02:40.079 --> 01:02:43.320
day for years. But whenever he spent time with this

752
01:02:43.360 --> 01:02:46.320
one particular person who did say this, that and the

753
01:02:46.320 --> 01:02:50.519
other quite often, you know, as a like a cord

754
01:02:50.559 --> 01:02:55.039
bob to explain about this, that and the other. And

755
01:02:55.079 --> 01:02:59.719
I was just like wow. He just absorbed of a

756
01:02:59.760 --> 01:03:05.199
peace pause mannerisms sometimes a bit like when his dad visited,

757
01:03:05.199 --> 01:03:07.760
he kind of took on some of those mannerisms and

758
01:03:07.800 --> 01:03:10.639
I wonder if you took any any mine on, but

759
01:03:10.719 --> 01:03:12.679
I noticed I took some of his on as well,

760
01:03:15.599 --> 01:03:18.400
So it's kind of if you're around someone. I suppose

761
01:03:18.440 --> 01:03:23.079
it's natural, isn't it. And the other person that you

762
01:03:23.119 --> 01:03:25.039
know this that, and the other was a very close

763
01:03:25.079 --> 01:03:28.400
friend of his as well, so I guess someone that

764
01:03:28.440 --> 01:03:37.320
he respected. And yeah, I don't know, it's I don't

765
01:03:37.320 --> 01:03:41.440
know where I was really going with that, to be honest. Huh. Okay,

766
01:03:41.519 --> 01:03:45.480
so caby's the chocolate's being sordid? Right? I can't of

767
01:03:45.519 --> 01:03:48.800
come back to this. What are some habits of things

768
01:03:48.880 --> 01:03:53.440
Americans do that baffle you? Okay? Baffle baffles an okay, world,

769
01:03:53.440 --> 01:03:56.760
isn't it? I was thinking more annoyed, but nope, not

770
01:03:56.760 --> 01:04:06.039
doing annoying baffle Okay, things Americans do that battle you, right.

771
01:04:07.039 --> 01:04:14.480
I'm not going to get into politics, okay, right, But

772
01:04:16.199 --> 01:04:19.239
I do find and this is just from It's not

773
01:04:19.280 --> 01:04:22.039
really from the news. It's what I see online. I

774
01:04:22.119 --> 01:04:29.119
see a lot of stuff online and people seem willing

775
01:04:29.320 --> 01:04:39.599
to fall out with family members over a difference of opinion.

776
01:04:42.840 --> 01:04:46.559
That baffles me. I had a friend that did that

777
01:04:46.599 --> 01:04:52.199
with her son. They had a political completely different political opinions,

778
01:04:53.800 --> 01:04:58.840
like really drag, you know, extreme different opinions. And she said,

779
01:04:59.079 --> 01:05:01.320
I can't talk to him. I don't have nothing to

780
01:05:01.360 --> 01:05:05.639
do with him because he thinks differently to me. And

781
01:05:05.639 --> 01:05:08.840
when I sat down and I said, I don't mean

782
01:05:08.840 --> 01:05:13.599
to be harsh here, but he's not your friend, he's

783
01:05:13.639 --> 01:05:22.320
your child. You're not friends. You're his mother because he

784
01:05:22.400 --> 01:05:26.039
was only like seventeen eighteen at the time. It doesn't

785
01:05:26.039 --> 01:05:28.559
matter what he thinks, what his opinions are, does he

786
01:05:28.639 --> 01:05:32.559
treat you right? Is he kind to you? He's got

787
01:05:32.599 --> 01:05:37.960
different opinions. That's just normal, you know. The idea I've

788
01:05:38.000 --> 01:05:44.400
seen people actually heard people say I can never be

789
01:05:44.440 --> 01:05:47.559
any friends of anyone unless they agree with everything that

790
01:05:47.599 --> 01:05:54.480
I agree with. Well, I bet anybody any amount of

791
01:05:54.480 --> 01:05:56.760
money that you will never find anyone that agrees with

792
01:05:56.800 --> 01:06:02.519
you completely ever, because you'd have to really delve into

793
01:06:02.679 --> 01:06:07.840
every single subject. There'll be something you disagree on, whether

794
01:06:07.960 --> 01:06:12.760
the person keeps it quiet or not. Sometimes it's easier

795
01:06:12.840 --> 01:06:16.719
to do that, but I've known loads of people. I

796
01:06:16.760 --> 01:06:23.880
had completely different belief systems to my friend Luke downstairs.

797
01:06:24.519 --> 01:06:28.880
Didn't stop me being good friends with him. Completely different,

798
01:06:29.000 --> 01:06:32.360
not completely like not completely completely different, but you know,

799
01:06:32.639 --> 01:06:37.199
extreme different views. But we still cared about each other.

800
01:06:37.280 --> 01:06:39.840
We still had a laugh at each other. I laughed

801
01:06:39.880 --> 01:06:46.639
at each other and with each other. It just wasn't

802
01:06:46.639 --> 01:06:52.639
that deep. You know, you get me in it, swear down.

803
01:06:52.960 --> 01:06:57.360
It's that baffles me. But it's not just about anyone.

804
01:06:58.199 --> 01:07:02.719
It's the extreme side of things. And I think, well,

805
01:07:04.360 --> 01:07:08.639
I've had a friend stop being my friend because of

806
01:07:08.679 --> 01:07:12.280
a situation like this, because I just had a difference

807
01:07:12.280 --> 01:07:17.119
of opinion and it wasn't over anything political. It wasn't

808
01:07:17.159 --> 01:07:19.719
over anything. I think, whether he's having a bad day

809
01:07:19.840 --> 01:07:25.400
or I said something that he didn't like. But you know,

810
01:07:25.559 --> 01:07:32.039
a friendship that was from nineteen eighty nine all the

811
01:07:32.079 --> 01:07:37.159
way to two thousand and fifteen, quite a long time,

812
01:07:37.239 --> 01:07:40.599
isn't it. You know, he was happy just to let

813
01:07:40.639 --> 01:07:48.639
that that friendship go because of a disagreement. You know,

814
01:07:48.760 --> 01:07:53.400
it's it's strange. I don't know. I think that's what

815
01:07:53.480 --> 01:07:57.639
it is, like disagreements. I like to think that we

816
01:07:57.719 --> 01:08:03.880
can disagree and still get on. But if it's family members,

817
01:08:05.159 --> 01:08:08.079
you know, if I had to agree, if I never

818
01:08:08.119 --> 01:08:11.679
spoke to anyone that I disagreed with, then I never

819
01:08:11.719 --> 01:08:16.760
speak to anyone, because I've never met one person ever

820
01:08:16.840 --> 01:08:20.840
in my life that I completely agree with with every

821
01:08:20.920 --> 01:08:25.800
single thing they say or every opinion they have. And

822
01:08:25.840 --> 01:08:31.159
in a way, I think it's quite interesting to have

823
01:08:31.239 --> 01:08:36.640
different opinions. And I realize extremely if different opinions can

824
01:08:36.760 --> 01:08:40.680
lead to war. I realize that so that's not ideal.

825
01:08:43.319 --> 01:08:45.359
That's probably not the right word in is it. You know,

826
01:08:45.720 --> 01:08:51.439
war really isn't ideal, is it? No? But so that

827
01:08:51.479 --> 01:08:53.960
baffles me. But again, it's not just Americans, but I've

828
01:08:54.000 --> 01:08:57.520
noticed it recently, and we had a similar thing here

829
01:08:57.640 --> 01:09:02.239
during Brexit in this country where people are really against

830
01:09:02.239 --> 01:09:07.119
each other and the press and constantly bringing stuff up

831
01:09:07.119 --> 01:09:09.319
trying to get people to go against each other. And

832
01:09:09.359 --> 01:09:14.319
I don't know why. It's like, we can't we just

833
01:09:14.359 --> 01:09:18.800
cuddle and get along, you know, things that people weren't

834
01:09:18.800 --> 01:09:23.039
even thinking about now I'm thinking about it. And that

835
01:09:24.000 --> 01:09:30.119
just surprises me. How easily people are manipulated. I don't

836
01:09:30.119 --> 01:09:34.239
know why it surprises me, but it just seems so

837
01:09:34.640 --> 01:09:40.399
obvious in ways sometimes. I mean, I'm no doubt I'm

838
01:09:40.399 --> 01:09:44.199
being manipulated as well, So I'm you know, the things

839
01:09:44.239 --> 01:09:46.800
that I'm not aware of is the things that are

840
01:09:46.840 --> 01:09:51.840
going to affect me, I guess, but other things. I'll

841
01:09:51.840 --> 01:09:55.359
tell you one thing that really really surprised me, and

842
01:09:55.399 --> 01:09:59.039
I don't get this at all, And this is probably

843
01:09:59.079 --> 01:10:07.680
something that is going to make you maybe curious. In America,

844
01:10:08.920 --> 01:10:13.520
I don't know if it's every state or everywhere. I

845
01:10:13.600 --> 01:10:16.640
watched these YouTube videos of and I've seen them on

846
01:10:16.680 --> 01:10:18.720
TV as well, but I don't watch TV much now,

847
01:10:19.119 --> 01:10:26.760
but YouTube videos of police pulling people over and who

848
01:10:26.800 --> 01:10:40.760
they've suspected are drinking, driving or whatever intoxicated, and they

849
01:10:40.840 --> 01:10:43.800
spend the next thirty minutes trying to get them to

850
01:10:43.840 --> 01:10:46.960
walk down a straight line and hop on one leg

851
01:10:47.079 --> 01:10:51.880
and do a headspin and do handstands and all that

852
01:10:51.960 --> 01:10:57.199
kind of stuff to test their sobriety, get them to

853
01:10:57.279 --> 01:11:00.680
blow into a thing. It takes like two minutes and

854
01:11:00.720 --> 01:11:02.520
you can see whether or not they're over the limit

855
01:11:02.600 --> 01:11:10.439
or not. It's really simple. It's like faffing around. And

856
01:11:10.479 --> 01:11:14.439
I don't know why they do it. It's just in this country.

857
01:11:15.399 --> 01:11:17.920
As far as I'm not not a driver, but as

858
01:11:17.960 --> 01:11:21.000
far as I'm aware, if they think you're over the limit,

859
01:11:21.239 --> 01:11:26.920
they give you a breathalyzer, and if you refuse a breathalyzer.

860
01:11:27.640 --> 01:11:33.920
You get arrested and you get taken in and you

861
01:11:33.960 --> 01:11:36.039
know so. But when they do do the breath lieser

862
01:11:36.039 --> 01:11:39.880
and they take you into the police station and then

863
01:11:39.880 --> 01:11:41.960
they do another sample I think it might be a

864
01:11:41.960 --> 01:11:46.359
blood sample this time, and they get a correct reading.

865
01:11:46.720 --> 01:11:54.319
So the breathalyzer is a ball ballpark figure. And I

866
01:11:54.319 --> 01:11:56.159
don't know if they put the two together to kind

867
01:11:56.159 --> 01:12:02.079
of make the correct figure. But if you refuse to

868
01:12:02.119 --> 01:12:05.479
have the breathalyzer and you refuse to get tested when

869
01:12:05.479 --> 01:12:10.920
you get back to the police station, then you're in trouble.

870
01:12:11.239 --> 01:12:17.760
You run the naughty step. So I never I never

871
01:12:17.800 --> 01:12:21.439
really understood what because it seems like a waste of

872
01:12:21.479 --> 01:12:24.479
police time and the time of the person, you know,

873
01:12:25.159 --> 01:12:28.800
the the human. I don't know what you want to

874
01:12:28.800 --> 01:12:32.680
get the driver to be theft and around for like

875
01:12:32.840 --> 01:12:37.279
half an hour when it can be over and done

876
01:12:37.319 --> 01:12:42.279
with maybe five ten minutes. If they if they passed

877
01:12:42.359 --> 01:12:48.560
the breathalyzer, they're under see ya, I sit in it.

878
01:12:50.079 --> 01:12:54.079
But yeah, I'm sure there's a reason for it. Maybe

879
01:12:54.079 --> 01:12:57.199
it's it's just the way things are done, that's just

880
01:12:58.119 --> 01:13:01.119
maybe it works. It works in a way that I

881
01:13:01.119 --> 01:13:04.000
don't understand. Because I'm not a police, am I, So

882
01:13:04.119 --> 01:13:08.279
I don't know. It just seems a little bit wasteful,

883
01:13:08.439 --> 01:13:11.399
a little bit of a waste of time trying to

884
01:13:11.399 --> 01:13:16.920
get someone, especially when they're clearly drunk or clearly intoxicated.

885
01:13:17.560 --> 01:13:23.840
You know, some people are obviously intoxicated unless they've got

886
01:13:23.960 --> 01:13:30.279
a physical problem, you know, Other than that, I've been

887
01:13:30.279 --> 01:13:35.079
around enough intoxicated people to generally tell when someone is.

888
01:13:37.119 --> 01:13:46.359
I think I might be wrong, though, I feel the

889
01:13:46.399 --> 01:13:49.239
thing is with It's like it's an old joke, but

890
01:13:49.399 --> 01:13:53.039
like the same kindition and used to say, or was

891
01:13:53.079 --> 01:13:55.479
it Bill Hicks? I don't know he's so well drunk

892
01:13:55.560 --> 01:13:59.840
people would never a sober person would never drink and drive.

893
01:14:00.119 --> 01:14:04.399
Most suburb people would never drink and drive. But a

894
01:14:04.439 --> 01:14:08.680
drunk person perhaps doesn't know, doesn't realize that they're not sober.

895
01:14:09.600 --> 01:14:12.159
This is one of those weird things. So in this country,

896
01:14:12.479 --> 01:14:18.680
how silly it is is pubs and places where they

897
01:14:18.760 --> 01:14:22.319
serve alcohol. Not only do loads of them have car

898
01:14:22.399 --> 01:14:28.119
parking space, but you're allowed to drink and drive in

899
01:14:28.119 --> 01:14:36.239
this country, but only a specific small amount drink drive

900
01:14:36.600 --> 01:14:44.960
limit UK. So the UK limit is you can drink

901
01:14:45.960 --> 01:14:52.840
blood alcohol libit I don't know part of lager one,

902
01:14:53.920 --> 01:15:01.319
so let's go one part of lager. I had two

903
01:15:01.359 --> 01:15:05.239
point five approximately of alcohol. You should wait at least

904
01:15:05.279 --> 01:15:18.119
three point five hours before driving one pint of standard lager. Wow,

905
01:15:20.640 --> 01:15:25.680
two point five of alcohol. You should. But this is

906
01:15:25.880 --> 01:15:30.680
but it's not illegal to anyway. I don't know what

907
01:15:30.720 --> 01:15:34.720
the limit is, but you can. You are allowed to

908
01:15:34.760 --> 01:15:37.880
have a certain amount of alcohol, which just seems ridiculous.

909
01:15:37.920 --> 01:15:43.159
It makes the law harder. I think personally, just drink

910
01:15:43.239 --> 01:15:46.520
or not drink. Just make the raw no alcohol and

911
01:15:46.640 --> 01:15:52.880
driving cool done, you know, just simple. But they had

912
01:15:52.920 --> 01:15:56.680
to make it well. Actually, I remember the I've seen

913
01:15:56.720 --> 01:16:01.680
clips from the seventies on late seventies maybe early eighties

914
01:16:02.439 --> 01:16:06.000
when they were going to do the drink driving thing.

915
01:16:06.159 --> 01:16:10.720
So you can't and the amount of people are saying,

916
01:16:12.000 --> 01:16:16.039
I drink I they just did this documentary and it

917
01:16:16.079 --> 01:16:19.520
was in the seventies, like seventy eight, seventy seven. People

918
01:16:19.560 --> 01:16:22.720
were saying, I drink better, I drive better when I'm drunk,

919
01:16:23.079 --> 01:16:26.479
when I'm drinking. So they did a test. They put

920
01:16:26.880 --> 01:16:30.000
like a bunch of people in the pub, gave them

921
01:16:30.000 --> 01:16:34.279
the exact same amount of drinks. And before they did

922
01:16:34.319 --> 01:16:36.960
that they got everyone to drive around this little course.

923
01:16:38.319 --> 01:16:43.119
Everyone did fine, and after the drinks got everyone to

924
01:16:43.159 --> 01:16:47.119
do exactly the same thing. But they gave them, some

925
01:16:47.199 --> 01:16:48.880
of them more drinks than others. So they kind of

926
01:16:48.920 --> 01:16:53.039
gave someone like a couple of pints then four pints,

927
01:16:53.079 --> 01:16:55.720
you know, like that, so that they could judge it.

928
01:16:55.760 --> 01:16:57.600
So they had like five people and a certain amount,

929
01:16:57.640 --> 01:17:05.159
and you know, and so forth and this that and

930
01:17:05.159 --> 01:17:10.960
the other. And it was funny because these people that

931
01:17:11.039 --> 01:17:16.319
were really good at driving weren't once they had some

932
01:17:16.359 --> 01:17:18.800
Alcohl in them, and the ones that had the most

933
01:17:18.920 --> 01:17:23.680
there was knocking cones over and it was just they

934
01:17:23.680 --> 01:17:27.960
didn't even know. They thought they'd done really well. So

935
01:17:30.680 --> 01:17:32.840
I don't really know what the laws are in America

936
01:17:32.880 --> 01:17:37.800
over that. So Americans baffle me. That caused me just

937
01:17:37.880 --> 01:17:44.359
a bit surprise. Who but this is new. But I

938
01:17:44.399 --> 01:17:48.880
think some of the TV shows where the adults are

939
01:17:49.319 --> 01:17:53.079
the kids that look like adults so in high school

940
01:17:53.119 --> 01:17:57.119
and they look in twenties. It just seems to be

941
01:17:58.199 --> 01:18:01.640
especially like you was it nine oh one oh or

942
01:18:01.680 --> 01:18:05.800
whatever it is, and they all like they all look

943
01:18:05.880 --> 01:18:11.079
older than the age. And what's it that the age

944
01:18:11.119 --> 01:18:14.000
of consent is a weird one as well, not just

945
01:18:14.199 --> 01:18:28.279
for whoopee but also drinking. So let's have a look. Okay,

946
01:18:28.560 --> 01:18:35.039
I know it might change depending on where you lived,

947
01:18:35.199 --> 01:18:44.720
you have, but it's eighteen for whoopee. But then driving

948
01:18:45.640 --> 01:18:53.880
list of minimum driving ages is it seventeen in America?

949
01:18:54.640 --> 01:19:04.279
Algeria eighteen, Cameraon sixteen and Marley twenty one. That's a

950
01:19:04.279 --> 01:19:10.840
good age. I know, Morocco eighteen sixteen motorbikes. It's kind

951
01:19:10.840 --> 01:19:17.159
of the same everywhere. South Africa seventeen provisional license. Yeah,

952
01:19:17.239 --> 01:19:24.680
same here America, United Kingdom sixteen. So United States sixteen

953
01:19:24.880 --> 01:19:32.680
is legal driving age, but permits can be obtained at fifteen. Okay,

954
01:19:32.800 --> 01:19:35.159
so you can get a driving permit, you can drive

955
01:19:35.199 --> 01:19:51.680
at sixteen in America and drinking age twenty one five

956
01:19:52.000 --> 01:19:57.880
years twenty one, so you can drive a car around,

957
01:20:01.560 --> 01:20:06.279
but you can't drink it just obviously the two don't

958
01:20:06.319 --> 01:20:10.600
go together. But that's something that's very different from over here.

959
01:20:12.119 --> 01:20:18.640
So it's I'm surprised it's not more Americans coming to

960
01:20:18.720 --> 01:20:23.560
the UK or anywhere to be any part of the

961
01:20:23.600 --> 01:20:30.680
world where you can drink at eighteen, because wait, into

962
01:20:30.760 --> 01:20:37.960
twenty one is it's a long time it's you know,

963
01:20:38.159 --> 01:20:43.239
I mean I was. I think I was, and they don't.

964
01:20:43.319 --> 01:20:45.760
Let's face it, who waits to let twenty one? Anyway?

965
01:20:46.920 --> 01:20:51.439
So I think when I was so's another word I

966
01:20:51.439 --> 01:20:59.159
thing to say quite a lot BlimE me. Oh, I

967
01:20:59.279 --> 01:21:03.359
started drinking in pubs when I was sixteen, but I

968
01:21:03.439 --> 01:21:07.079
didn't look sixteen. I didn't even probably look fourteen. They knew.

969
01:21:09.159 --> 01:21:13.079
The only time I could get served was in a

970
01:21:13.119 --> 01:21:16.279
pub when it's really quite midweek when there's no one around,

971
01:21:17.159 --> 01:21:19.319
and I have kind of had to hide in a corner.

972
01:21:22.079 --> 01:21:25.479
Sometimes you know that'd be it. But the other times

973
01:21:25.560 --> 01:21:28.800
is when it if it's really busy at the weekend,

974
01:21:29.439 --> 01:21:33.720
where you kind of just you pale into the background,

975
01:21:33.760 --> 01:21:38.199
no one really knows you there, and so yeah, and

976
01:21:38.279 --> 01:21:40.960
other people who knew people, so they'd buy me a

977
01:21:41.079 --> 01:21:46.760
drinks or buy it buy it for me. I think

978
01:21:46.800 --> 01:21:48.520
it helped a little bit because I worked in the

979
01:21:48.600 --> 01:21:51.000
chip shop, so a lot of people knew who I

980
01:21:51.159 --> 01:21:55.039
was or I served them their chips, you know, so

981
01:21:56.680 --> 01:22:00.159
they probably felt that maybe I was eighteen. I just

982
01:22:00.159 --> 01:22:06.359
looked very young, and I did look very young when

983
01:22:06.399 --> 01:22:09.399
I was sixteen. I probably looked about fourteen when I

984
01:22:09.439 --> 01:22:14.680
was eighteen probably sixteen now I was about two years

985
01:22:14.720 --> 01:22:21.920
behind really, so I find that I just find it

986
01:22:21.960 --> 01:22:25.199
interesting the legal age twenty one. I don't know what

987
01:22:25.279 --> 01:22:31.359
it used to be. I don't know why is that though,

988
01:22:34.760 --> 01:22:36.239
I don't know what the rules are. I don't know

989
01:22:36.239 --> 01:22:39.560
what the history. I don't know what the history for

990
01:22:39.680 --> 01:22:45.720
it was. Most laws apply only to drinking our call

991
01:22:45.800 --> 01:22:54.479
in public places in so even it just barked again

992
01:22:54.520 --> 01:23:05.800
there so you can purchase twenty one, So I mean,

993
01:23:06.600 --> 01:23:11.319
this does make sense. Though it's an effort to reduce

994
01:23:11.319 --> 01:23:14.840
the amount of drunk driving rates among teenagers and young adults.

995
01:23:15.319 --> 01:23:17.880
So you can't I can't say that's not a good thing.

996
01:23:18.520 --> 01:23:22.760
So that actually, so yeah, thinking about it that way,

997
01:23:22.880 --> 01:23:25.039
because you think about it like they get used to

998
01:23:25.159 --> 01:23:33.199
driving and let's say sixteen five years, So yeah, yeah,

999
01:23:33.319 --> 01:23:37.199
it's a good idea. Actually, So this is things that

1000
01:23:37.239 --> 01:23:41.640
I just find they said like a bit baffling. I

1001
01:23:41.640 --> 01:23:44.960
think it's not. But I mean, I personally don't think

1002
01:23:44.960 --> 01:23:48.119
it's a bad idea to have people not driving untill

1003
01:23:48.119 --> 01:23:54.760
they're thirty and ban alcohol together. I'd be popular, woudn't I.

1004
01:23:57.279 --> 01:24:02.680
But it's one of those things you can't aren't. You

1005
01:24:02.720 --> 01:24:05.439
can't do that. It just wouldn't go down very well,

1006
01:24:05.479 --> 01:24:10.880
would it. And other countries have tried to ban alcohol

1007
01:24:11.760 --> 01:24:17.520
and it just led to crime, don't it lead to? Yeah?

1008
01:24:17.680 --> 01:24:25.560
The what's it? People like, what's his name? Al Capone

1009
01:24:26.800 --> 01:24:36.079
doing naughty things? Anny. I don't know what other things.

1010
01:24:37.720 --> 01:24:41.439
I think some of the words I find strange, just

1011
01:24:41.720 --> 01:24:44.159
not just baffling me. I don't know quite how we

1012
01:24:44.279 --> 01:24:50.399
got there, like pronounced differently. I mean maybe in this

1013
01:24:50.479 --> 01:24:54.840
country we pronounce it wrong. It's possible, I don't know.

1014
01:24:55.119 --> 01:25:03.079
But things like illuminum, aluminum aluminum, we call it aluminium,

1015
01:25:03.119 --> 01:25:15.680
aluminum aluminium, what other words? Roof we say roof, and

1016
01:25:15.800 --> 01:25:25.479
like in America roof, sidewalk, pavement, just little things like that.

1017
01:25:25.600 --> 01:25:31.680
It's just zebra zebra we call them zebras. The alphabet

1018
01:25:33.039 --> 01:25:37.600
you know, it's L M, N, O, P, q R, S,

1019
01:25:37.640 --> 01:25:42.159
T U, V W X y Z. It's not Z.

1020
01:25:42.640 --> 01:25:46.199
We don't say Z here. Perhaps we used to. I

1021
01:25:46.239 --> 01:25:52.359
don't know. They definitely said it on Sesame Street, and

1022
01:25:52.640 --> 01:25:59.880
I've heard people say Z like in this country, like

1023
01:26:00.079 --> 01:26:05.239
English people use Z, not just by saying jay Z.

1024
01:26:06.199 --> 01:26:08.439
I call him jay Z because I don't do z

1025
01:26:09.119 --> 01:26:15.920
it said. And I won't back down from there. I

1026
01:26:16.000 --> 01:26:21.159
just can't. But then if I met him, I just

1027
01:26:21.159 --> 01:26:22.960
called him JA, wouldn't I or though that would be

1028
01:26:23.119 --> 01:26:27.800
uncomfortable because I'm Jay, not him. I'm the original J.

1029
01:26:28.760 --> 01:26:31.560
Because I'm older? Am I older? He might be older

1030
01:26:31.560 --> 01:26:39.920
than me? Jay z our older Z. He might be older.

1031
01:26:43.079 --> 01:26:46.239
He is. He is a year older than me. But

1032
01:26:46.279 --> 01:26:48.720
that's not his name anyway. It's not Ja. It's Sean

1033
01:26:48.880 --> 01:26:54.880
Cory Carter. So he was born December nineteen sixty nine.

1034
01:26:56.720 --> 01:26:59.920
We don't really hear much over here about what's going

1035
01:27:00.159 --> 01:27:07.600
on with him, and just like with yeah, just that

1036
01:27:07.680 --> 01:27:16.439
kind of stuff, and what's his name? Puff? Daddy? Did he?

1037
01:27:18.880 --> 01:27:21.039
And I don't know if what's happened. I don't want

1038
01:27:21.039 --> 01:27:30.520
to go down that rabbit hole, but Puffy Puff, I

1039
01:27:30.560 --> 01:27:34.359
don't know is he I don't know where he is

1040
01:27:34.439 --> 01:27:39.159
right now. I don't mean like I've got no cameras

1041
01:27:39.159 --> 01:28:04.119
on him, but personal life BlimE me uh m, all right, Okay,

1042
01:28:04.840 --> 01:28:13.199
so he's still in the same place he was before. Okay. So,

1043
01:28:15.199 --> 01:28:17.680
and I watched the news, and you know, I'm not

1044
01:28:17.720 --> 01:28:20.159
like watching the news all the time. I dip in

1045
01:28:20.199 --> 01:28:23.079
and out of it, but we don't seem to see

1046
01:28:23.159 --> 01:28:30.239
much about American celebrities on the news so much. I'm

1047
01:28:30.279 --> 01:28:32.279
sure there's a lot of it online, and I do

1048
01:28:32.399 --> 01:28:35.880
go on YouTube quite a bit, but they don't seem

1049
01:28:35.920 --> 01:28:40.840
to be covering it a lot as much as they

1050
01:28:41.039 --> 01:28:51.319
used to. Hm hm hmmm. I don't know. I'm working

1051
01:28:51.479 --> 01:28:58.039
in there. What is this? Oh yeah, okay, So.

1052
01:29:01.800 --> 01:29:06.560
I'm trying to think of anything else that just just

1053
01:29:06.600 --> 01:29:10.039
I find interesting. That's the book confusing.

1054
01:29:10.399 --> 01:29:12.119
I think some of the words that take, you know,

1055
01:29:12.199 --> 01:29:17.760
the terminology I find just different. But then I've grown

1056
01:29:17.840 --> 01:29:20.640
up listening to it, so it's not like it's unusual,

1057
01:29:21.560 --> 01:29:29.920
but it does. I do sometimes think, really really, no

1058
01:29:29.960 --> 01:29:34.720
I do think, oh, Finny, thanks, mate, make a bit

1059
01:29:34.760 --> 01:29:42.720
more noise, can you please? Thanks? Cheers. Yeah, I don't know,

1060
01:29:46.279 --> 01:29:49.680
baffle me. It's not really the American people, just more

1061
01:29:49.760 --> 01:29:56.199
the I suppose the the impression that what I see

1062
01:29:56.239 --> 01:30:00.920
on TV as opposed to in real life, because I

1063
01:30:00.960 --> 01:30:03.279
don't know. In real life, I don't know any American

1064
01:30:03.319 --> 01:30:09.000
people like in actual face to face life, I have

1065
01:30:09.199 --> 01:30:12.880
met them, but I just haven't I've never been to America,

1066
01:30:13.239 --> 01:30:18.960
and I guarantee that America's nothing alike how it's portrayed

1067
01:30:20.039 --> 01:30:23.840
on the TV and in movies, just in the same

1068
01:30:23.880 --> 01:30:31.319
way that England is nothing like how it's portrayed in America.

1069
01:30:31.960 --> 01:30:37.960
You know, there's I've been told that by lots of

1070
01:30:38.000 --> 01:30:43.119
people as well, and even stars have said it, that

1071
01:30:45.359 --> 01:30:50.520
what's he doing. He's staring.

1072
01:30:51.560 --> 01:30:55.359
At the floor and there's a flyer on the floor

1073
01:30:55.399 --> 01:30:59.319
and he's just staring at it and his inches away

1074
01:30:59.319 --> 01:31:01.279
from it because he knows if he goes near it

1075
01:31:01.399 --> 01:31:03.079
or just fly off.

1076
01:31:06.239 --> 01:31:21.439
Hours of entertainment for him. So I'm just trying to think.

1077
01:31:22.119 --> 01:31:27.840
I do sometimes wonder why, Okay, this could be. I

1078
01:31:27.840 --> 01:31:30.359
don't mean it's in a controversial way. It's the same

1079
01:31:30.439 --> 01:31:37.359
here though, But why people would live in a place

1080
01:31:37.399 --> 01:31:40.000
that has a hope and not hope and season and

1081
01:31:40.960 --> 01:31:45.920
well wind season or whatever it's called. What is it?

1082
01:31:46.079 --> 01:31:50.199
Not whirlwind? What are they called? What's the thing from

1083
01:31:50.520 --> 01:31:54.479
the Wizard of Us?

1084
01:31:54.520 --> 01:31:54.960
Like it?

1085
01:31:55.159 --> 01:31:59.000
Just if there's an area which gets completely flattened every

1086
01:31:59.039 --> 01:32:03.960
time every year at a certain time like that seems

1087
01:32:04.000 --> 01:32:07.279
like a not very good place to be building land

1088
01:32:07.439 --> 01:32:12.960
or building places to live. But maybe it's a really

1089
01:32:13.000 --> 01:32:16.600
lovely place to live. So who am I to say,

1090
01:32:17.319 --> 01:32:20.640
but it's the same here. There's they've been built houses

1091
01:32:20.720 --> 01:32:27.560
and properties on floodland. But that's the builder's fault, isn't

1092
01:32:27.560 --> 01:32:29.079
it as a council and the building's fault, and not

1093
01:32:29.119 --> 01:32:32.319
the people have moved in because they probably didn't know.

1094
01:32:33.239 --> 01:32:36.479
I don't think anyone would purposefully move into a place

1095
01:32:36.520 --> 01:32:41.479
that's going to get flooded. That just doesn't seem very likely.

1096
01:32:54.800 --> 01:33:02.960
I find the what else speffles me. I think it's

1097
01:33:03.000 --> 01:33:05.520
just because it's all based on what I see on TV,

1098
01:33:06.239 --> 01:33:11.239
what I've seen in movies and TV shows, reality shows, cartoons.

1099
01:33:12.880 --> 01:33:16.159
You know, it's not really based in not really based

1100
01:33:16.199 --> 01:33:22.199
in reality. It's based on my interpretation of someone's someone

1101
01:33:22.199 --> 01:33:32.479
else's interpretation of America. So yeah, it's just something I

1102
01:33:32.680 --> 01:33:36.479
especially like the drink driving thing, like getting them to

1103
01:33:36.520 --> 01:33:41.119
do somersaults and the splits and jumping up and down

1104
01:33:41.239 --> 01:33:47.680
like a bunny across an invisible straight line. It just

1105
01:33:47.720 --> 01:33:53.319
seems just seems pointless in a sense of just do

1106
01:33:53.399 --> 01:33:57.600
a breathalyzer. Seems to be the thing that the most

1107
01:33:57.640 --> 01:34:01.359
ideal thing. Another thing. I mean, I want to go

1108
01:34:01.399 --> 01:34:11.840
through differences, but I'm surprised that there's the amount of

1109
01:34:11.840 --> 01:34:14.520
guns out there. If there is as many guns in

1110
01:34:14.560 --> 01:34:20.039
America as what is portrayed, then I'm surprised that anybody

1111
01:34:20.079 --> 01:34:26.840
goes around causing problems of each other, because if you

1112
01:34:26.920 --> 01:34:31.039
put if you gave guns to everyone in this country,

1113
01:34:31.720 --> 01:34:34.399
you'd lose probably half the population in the first weekend.

1114
01:34:36.840 --> 01:34:41.760
You know. It's there's a reason the population, the populace

1115
01:34:41.800 --> 01:34:45.439
do not have guns, especially in this country. There's there's

1116
01:34:45.920 --> 01:34:52.560
people wouldn't be able to. Yeah, no, I'm including myself

1117
01:34:52.560 --> 01:34:58.119
in that one. No, no, no, So I do wonder.

1118
01:34:58.239 --> 01:35:01.359
It baffles me what it might be like to grow

1119
01:35:01.479 --> 01:35:08.760
up with guns around. And it used to be I

1120
01:35:08.840 --> 01:35:10.920
used to If you'd have asked me this question twenty

1121
01:35:11.039 --> 01:35:15.319
years ago, I would have like been going, how can

1122
01:35:15.359 --> 01:35:20.159
you stand seeing the police walking around with guns? But

1123
01:35:20.279 --> 01:35:23.399
now we have guns here. It's more and more police

1124
01:35:23.439 --> 01:35:26.680
with guns. There always used to be in London that

1125
01:35:26.840 --> 01:35:30.399
was standards, but now there's more and more armed police

1126
01:35:31.479 --> 01:35:38.159
walking around and they have tasers as well. But it's yeah,

1127
01:35:38.600 --> 01:35:42.479
it's more normal. It's yeah, it's just more kind of

1128
01:35:42.520 --> 01:35:48.560
how it is now. But that baffled that has always

1129
01:35:48.600 --> 01:35:57.680
baffled me a little bit. The whole gun thing I understand,

1130
01:35:58.680 --> 01:36:01.640
but I understand different sides of the argument with that one.

1131
01:36:01.760 --> 01:36:04.800
Not that I'm getting into politics, but I understand. You know,

1132
01:36:06.760 --> 01:36:10.600
it's kind of it baffles me. This is nothing that

1133
01:36:10.600 --> 01:36:13.520
baffles me, but in a good way. It's more it

1134
01:36:13.560 --> 01:36:17.359
baffles me why we aren't more like that in this country. See,

1135
01:36:17.399 --> 01:36:21.399
in America, you can defend your property, you can protect

1136
01:36:21.399 --> 01:36:27.760
yourself someone breaks into your house or someone attacks you,

1137
01:36:27.760 --> 01:36:34.239
you can defend yourself. In this country, we can't. We can,

1138
01:36:34.359 --> 01:36:38.399
but you're going to gain in trouble, serious trouble, and

1139
01:36:40.640 --> 01:36:44.239
even like defending yourself against an attack in the street

1140
01:36:45.680 --> 01:36:52.000
minimal or my stomach gurgling. It's almost like unless you're

1141
01:36:52.279 --> 01:36:56.880
some kind of martial artist expert and knows how to

1142
01:36:57.720 --> 01:37:05.000
softly unarmed someone and just put them into a gentle, cradling,

1143
01:37:05.600 --> 01:37:10.720
sleepy position whilst you wait for the police to come.

1144
01:37:12.720 --> 01:37:21.640
You know, it's kind of ridiculous because we can't carry anything.

1145
01:37:23.279 --> 01:37:25.640
We can't. We're not allowed to carry guns, obviously because

1146
01:37:25.640 --> 01:37:27.680
we don't have guns, but we're not allowed to carry

1147
01:37:27.720 --> 01:37:32.720
anything to protect ourselves at all, nothing that could be

1148
01:37:32.760 --> 01:37:38.800
classed as a weapon. So if you're going to walk

1149
01:37:38.840 --> 01:37:42.439
around of a baseball bat in your bag. You better

1150
01:37:42.439 --> 01:37:44.960
make sure that you've got a baseball ball, a baseball

1151
01:37:45.000 --> 01:37:49.479
ball a baseball in there as well, and have a

1152
01:37:49.520 --> 01:37:54.840
good reason for having the baseball bat in there, even

1153
01:37:54.920 --> 01:37:58.119
though that could save your life. It's one of those

1154
01:37:58.119 --> 01:38:02.880
weird things, you know. It's just I'm going to get

1155
01:38:02.920 --> 01:38:07.359
some dogs spray because we can't use mace is illegal

1156
01:38:07.399 --> 01:38:11.760
in this country. Everything that could help you it is

1157
01:38:12.119 --> 01:38:18.159
illegal pretty much. But you can get dog mace, so

1158
01:38:18.319 --> 01:38:20.720
if a dog with a dog attack, you would spray that.

1159
01:38:21.159 --> 01:38:22.920
So if you've got a dog, if your dog owner,

1160
01:38:23.239 --> 01:38:26.439
you can carry that around and use that if necessary.

1161
01:38:26.640 --> 01:38:28.640
Against is going to work with a human just as

1162
01:38:28.640 --> 01:38:35.560
it does with a dog. And it's weird. It's really

1163
01:38:35.640 --> 01:38:40.840
strange the way I think America seems to it seems

1164
01:38:40.840 --> 01:38:44.720
to be a bit bit more pro taking care of

1165
01:38:44.720 --> 01:38:47.960
yourselves and being able to look after your family. Here,

1166
01:38:50.359 --> 01:38:55.319
there's nothing. It's really it seems to be whoever's willing

1167
01:38:55.399 --> 01:39:02.239
to do whatever they do, we'll get away with it.

1168
01:39:02.399 --> 01:39:12.560
Very strange. I don't understand it. It's gone in a weird,

1169
01:39:12.720 --> 01:39:16.199
weird direction. But yeah, it's just there are things like

1170
01:39:16.239 --> 01:39:19.520
that that baffles me. That's not about American There's more

1171
01:39:19.560 --> 01:39:26.399
about the difference between here and there. So I'm trying

1172
01:39:26.399 --> 01:39:30.520
to think what other things I'd like to visit. I

1173
01:39:30.560 --> 01:39:33.119
mean to be welcome, but I'd like to visit America.

1174
01:39:34.039 --> 01:39:40.039
Providing things, you know, sort out in the world and

1175
01:39:40.079 --> 01:39:43.239
everyone gets on. That's all I really want in life.

1176
01:39:43.279 --> 01:39:47.159
I want everyone to get on. I don't have to

1177
01:39:47.199 --> 01:39:51.039
agree with each other, but just just get on, you know,

1178
01:39:51.199 --> 01:39:57.319
just work through it. There seems to be there's a

1179
01:39:57.560 --> 01:40:01.439
lot more focus on things that than things that actually

1180
01:40:01.439 --> 01:40:04.640
pull us together. And there's more things that pull us together.

1181
01:40:06.039 --> 01:40:08.399
I mean, I live I'm a Buddhist, I live in

1182
01:40:08.439 --> 01:40:15.520
a place a local person that's a Muslim, and there's more.

1183
01:40:15.560 --> 01:40:19.239
We've got more in common than we have difference. It's

1184
01:40:19.279 --> 01:40:24.239
completely different religion, different ideals, you know, different kind of

1185
01:40:24.600 --> 01:40:28.159
belief systems, I guess. But we get on really well.

1186
01:40:30.000 --> 01:40:32.760
He's got a lovely family and they all like me,

1187
01:40:32.840 --> 01:40:36.960
and I mean his wife cooks cooks me food. You know,

1188
01:40:37.039 --> 01:40:47.199
it's like it's just like we can get on as

1189
01:40:47.239 --> 01:40:51.359
long as we don't have conversations that there's certain conversations

1190
01:40:51.399 --> 01:40:54.479
that we probably couldn't have. And in the same way,

1191
01:40:54.520 --> 01:40:58.039
there's certain things I couldn't talk about, Like if you

1192
01:40:58.119 --> 01:41:03.840
know someone has a strong opinion, maybe just don't talk

1193
01:41:03.880 --> 01:41:11.920
about that subject. Maybe right, noises started from somewhere else

1194
01:41:11.960 --> 01:41:15.720
in the building, So I don't think it helped with

1195
01:41:15.800 --> 01:41:18.000
Vinnie Barkin, who was just said to be old, barked then,

1196
01:41:18.399 --> 01:41:22.199
and that's sometimes what happens. He barks, the music goes

1197
01:41:22.239 --> 01:41:26.039
on because I don't want to hear him barking, which

1198
01:41:26.039 --> 01:41:28.079
I understand because I don't want to hear him barking either.

1199
01:41:29.199 --> 01:41:40.920
Ali asks, what are your thoughts believes around manifestation? Manifestation? Well,

1200
01:41:43.560 --> 01:41:50.640
I've read or listened to loads of books on this subject,

1201
01:41:51.399 --> 01:41:54.760
and for me, I've kind of gone quite deep with it,

1202
01:41:56.159 --> 01:42:00.640
just to find out what the original people even and

1203
01:42:00.680 --> 01:42:03.359
where it came from and all that stuff. It goes

1204
01:42:03.399 --> 01:42:12.319
back a long time, and the main book is Think

1205
01:42:12.359 --> 01:42:18.640
and Grow Rich. That's the main book. And I mean,

1206
01:42:18.800 --> 01:42:20.760
I know I'm coming up from a different angle, I suppose.

1207
01:42:20.800 --> 01:42:29.399
But if anyone wants to really understand about the well,

1208
01:42:29.479 --> 01:42:31.960
should we call it the secret? It's not a secret,

1209
01:42:32.039 --> 01:42:38.800
but you know, the manifestation. The best teachers unfortunately passed

1210
01:42:38.800 --> 01:42:44.279
away a couple of years ago. Bob Procter devoted his

1211
01:42:44.680 --> 01:42:52.960
entire life to teaching the basically what's in Think and

1212
01:42:53.000 --> 01:42:57.239
Grow Rich. The book and Think and Grow Rich was

1213
01:42:57.800 --> 01:43:03.880
written by uh blind me. It's gone out of my head.

1214
01:43:03.920 --> 01:43:18.760
That's ridiculous, Think and Grow Rich Napoleon Hill. To me,

1215
01:43:18.960 --> 01:43:23.920
there's two of the biggest exponents of that book that

1216
01:43:24.000 --> 01:43:30.439
are promoted the most, I mean over decades and decades

1217
01:43:30.479 --> 01:43:43.479
and decades, would be Bob Procter and Earl Nightingale. Now

1218
01:43:43.520 --> 01:43:49.359
Earl Nightingale has a video of him on YouTube. It's

1219
01:43:49.399 --> 01:43:54.399
called The Secret. Is it called the Secret? I Have

1220
01:43:54.479 --> 01:43:57.079
a Secret or something like that. That's why I came

1221
01:43:57.119 --> 01:44:07.960
over him probably six years ago. And the actual the

1222
01:44:08.000 --> 01:44:15.439
movie The Secret, The Secret, which was the Law of

1223
01:44:15.479 --> 01:44:22.680
Attraction Manifest Your Dreams two thousand and six, and it

1224
01:44:22.800 --> 01:44:26.560
just had a bunch of people just talking about the

1225
01:44:26.640 --> 01:44:30.960
Law of attraction and it became really popular and everyone

1226
01:44:31.079 --> 01:44:38.279
was talking about it. I just I was interested, you know.

1227
01:44:38.319 --> 01:44:42.279
I read it. I watched it on YouTube online and

1228
01:44:42.319 --> 01:44:47.199
stuff when it first came out, and it's interested and

1229
01:44:47.239 --> 01:44:52.199
it was something that I didn't really know what they

1230
01:44:52.279 --> 01:44:54.000
were talking about, like just get on with it. What

1231
01:44:54.439 --> 01:44:58.239
is the secret? Bob Procter was one of the main

1232
01:44:58.279 --> 01:45:04.399
people on that video on that secret thing ronder Burn,

1233
01:45:05.239 --> 01:45:09.000
But it seemed to be for me. People were reading

1234
01:45:09.039 --> 01:45:13.479
it or watching the video, and it wasn't actually telling

1235
01:45:13.520 --> 01:45:17.840
them what it was. It's like it was a very

1236
01:45:18.199 --> 01:45:23.399
very surface level. Asked just how I perceived it to

1237
01:45:23.439 --> 01:45:29.000
be at the time. Bob Procter goes really deep with it,

1238
01:45:29.199 --> 01:45:34.039
like really deep. He devoted his entire adult life to

1239
01:45:34.199 --> 01:45:37.600
that book, Think and Grow Rich, and that's where the

1240
01:45:37.680 --> 01:45:44.920
secret came from. That's where it was El Nightingale. They

1241
01:45:45.000 --> 01:45:49.239
got the idea, the terminology, the secret really from him.

1242
01:45:49.439 --> 01:45:54.800
Although thinking go Rich, they did talk about the secret

1243
01:45:54.840 --> 01:45:58.079
You're going to hear it in each chapter and whatever.

1244
01:46:01.000 --> 01:46:05.000
L Nightingale loved the book. But then he started to

1245
01:46:05.119 --> 01:46:08.920
study and he studied also books, and he became a

1246
01:46:09.119 --> 01:46:15.039
huge He was one of the first real stars, one

1247
01:46:15.079 --> 01:46:20.960
of the first real stars of self help. I mean

1248
01:46:21.720 --> 01:46:26.600
Nightingale and Conant Conant, Conant and Nightingale or whatever that

1249
01:46:26.600 --> 01:46:31.359
That company sold self help books and audios for decades

1250
01:46:33.600 --> 01:46:38.600
and he was quite a big star in America in

1251
01:46:38.640 --> 01:46:44.239
the fifties and sixties. I think he was on radio

1252
01:46:44.359 --> 01:46:47.319
and things like that I think he was. There's also

1253
01:46:47.399 --> 01:46:52.439
videos of him on TV as well, I think, so

1254
01:46:52.640 --> 01:46:58.760
he expanded upon it. Bob Procter really went deep on it.

1255
01:46:58.760 --> 01:47:03.520
It also expanded on but he kind of I find

1256
01:47:03.600 --> 01:47:08.840
eld Nightingale the way he describes it different. You know,

1257
01:47:08.960 --> 01:47:13.319
it's nice to hear him describe it in certain ways

1258
01:47:13.680 --> 01:47:18.000
that really makes sense. Bob Proctor goes, as I said,

1259
01:47:18.119 --> 01:47:24.640
really in a different direction, but he covers everything. And

1260
01:47:24.680 --> 01:47:28.119
then you've got the actual person that wrote the book,

1261
01:47:29.199 --> 01:47:36.840
Think and Grow Rich and Napoleon Hill. I've got tapes

1262
01:47:36.840 --> 01:47:40.880
of him talking as well books where he's talking, and

1263
01:47:40.920 --> 01:47:43.039
I've got I think got three different versions of that

1264
01:47:43.119 --> 01:47:49.039
book on audio. I've also got audio of Napoleon Hill

1265
01:47:49.079 --> 01:47:52.119
talking himself. Because he devoted like twenty years of his

1266
01:47:52.159 --> 01:47:58.399
life to interviewing successful people. I think he also interviewed

1267
01:47:58.720 --> 01:48:01.399
interviewed people that weren't. That's all as well, but that

1268
01:48:01.560 --> 01:48:07.920
is focus was successful people, and he got introduced by oh,

1269
01:48:07.960 --> 01:48:19.640
what's his name? Tycoon in America. He was I was

1270
01:48:19.640 --> 01:48:23.000
gonna say lego, not lego tycoon. Although whoever owns a

1271
01:48:23.039 --> 01:48:31.119
Lego is going to be a tycoon, don't they? Is it? Iron? Usa?

1272
01:48:31.239 --> 01:48:43.760
Tycoons nineteen sixties. Literally literally, it wasn't Rockefeller. Was it Rockefeller?

1273
01:48:46.439 --> 01:48:51.079
Richest American? Who was Rockefeller? Maybe it was Rockefeller. I

1274
01:48:51.119 --> 01:49:05.600
don't think so it was she wasn't held Hughes, really

1275
01:49:07.720 --> 01:49:12.399
John D. Rockefeller Standard All Trust. It wasn't Rockefeller. It

1276
01:49:12.479 --> 01:49:20.920
was wasn't Henry Ford. I don't know understand. How can

1277
01:49:21.000 --> 01:49:27.960
Henry Ford not be like at the time of his life,

1278
01:49:28.039 --> 01:49:31.439
you know, the original Henry Ford. How can he not

1279
01:49:31.560 --> 01:49:35.199
be the richest man in the world when he basically

1280
01:49:37.359 --> 01:49:42.720
owned cars? How could he have not been one of

1281
01:49:42.800 --> 01:49:48.319
the most richest in history? It's weird, isn't it? Ford?

1282
01:49:48.560 --> 01:49:53.800
I mean Henry Ford, Man, I can't remember. I can't find.

1283
01:49:54.239 --> 01:49:59.000
It wasn't Rockefeller. It was someone steel. He was into steel,

1284
01:49:59.520 --> 01:50:09.479
steel companies. It's going to bug me now. I don't

1285
01:50:09.479 --> 01:50:17.319
know why. It doesn't really matter Henry Ford. I'm just

1286
01:50:17.359 --> 01:50:28.159
going down. Nope, Henry Joe's that's weird. I know the name.

1287
01:50:28.199 --> 01:50:32.600
It's just got right out of my head. Steal Tycoons. Okay,

1288
01:50:32.800 --> 01:50:40.520
steal steel Tycoons, ten most interesting steel Tycoons. Here we go,

1289
01:50:40.920 --> 01:50:43.039
It'll be on this one here, this one will be

1290
01:50:43.079 --> 01:50:46.079
the one. Yeah, I've seen his face straight away. I

1291
01:50:46.159 --> 01:50:55.359
know his face so not Andrew Andrew Milton, William Henry Moore. Nope,

1292
01:50:56.439 --> 01:51:03.640
JP Morgan, the JP Morgan. Isn't that the same? Still is? Wow?

1293
01:51:04.560 --> 01:51:07.199
He bought the steel company off of the one I'm

1294
01:51:07.239 --> 01:51:17.159
thinking of, Andrew Carnegie, who is the number one Andrew Carnegie.

1295
01:51:17.560 --> 01:51:19.000
I thought it would have been one of the richest

1296
01:51:19.039 --> 01:51:22.159
men in the world at the time. So JP Morgan

1297
01:51:22.319 --> 01:51:27.760
bought the steel company off of Andrew Carnegie and then

1298
01:51:27.800 --> 01:51:32.000
went on to be fairly well off. I mean JP

1299
01:51:32.159 --> 01:51:37.640
Morgan is I mean, it's the bank, isn't it isn't

1300
01:51:37.680 --> 01:51:40.560
JP Morgan one of the play days like run the

1301
01:51:40.560 --> 01:51:48.159
Banks in the World or something anyway, So I got

1302
01:51:48.239 --> 01:51:53.319
quite deep into it and still reading. I read Think

1303
01:51:53.359 --> 01:51:57.239
and Grow Rich. I listened to it every every day.

1304
01:51:57.399 --> 01:52:01.920
Every couple of days I listened to it. And it's

1305
01:52:02.000 --> 01:52:05.399
not about grown rich, clearly because I ain't got no money,

1306
01:52:05.880 --> 01:52:09.399
so it's not it's not about that, and it's not

1307
01:52:09.479 --> 01:52:14.880
about manifesting really, it's I think, in some ways from

1308
01:52:14.920 --> 01:52:19.560
a practical perspective, is you do. It's what you do,

1309
01:52:19.680 --> 01:52:24.000
you get what you you you you you sow, what

1310
01:52:24.039 --> 01:52:28.279
you reap. You know. It's really is quite as simple

1311
01:52:28.319 --> 01:52:31.039
as that. You get what you put in, you get

1312
01:52:31.039 --> 01:52:34.520
out what you put in. You do nothing, you get nothing.

1313
01:52:37.800 --> 01:52:41.880
Old Nightingale his phrase, which is my favorite phrase of

1314
01:52:41.920 --> 01:52:47.800
all time. Really well, no, I mean outside of a relationship,

1315
01:52:49.119 --> 01:52:56.279
would be is we become what we think about. And

1316
01:52:57.399 --> 01:53:01.960
that resonated with me when I first heard it. It

1317
01:53:02.039 --> 01:53:06.920
resonated with me, And it makes sense because it fits

1318
01:53:06.960 --> 01:53:12.479
in with everything I've learned psychologically, from the hypnosis perspective,

1319
01:53:12.479 --> 01:53:16.720
from the Buddhist perspective, even from any religion. Really in

1320
01:53:16.720 --> 01:53:20.800
a sense, it fits together, and I've seen it with

1321
01:53:20.880 --> 01:53:24.479
my own eyes, heard it with my own ears, experienced

1322
01:53:24.800 --> 01:53:29.039
both personally how my thoughts have affected my life and

1323
01:53:29.079 --> 01:53:37.239
how other people's thoughts have affected their lives. And it's

1324
01:53:37.399 --> 01:53:42.920
pretty much undeniable to me. So that is my thoughts

1325
01:53:42.920 --> 01:53:46.640
and beliefs about I don't really think if it's manifestation,

1326
01:53:52.840 --> 01:53:55.239
but that's kind of what it is. It's that ballpark,

1327
01:53:55.279 --> 01:54:01.199
isn't it. It's like manifestation the law of attraction. We

1328
01:54:01.279 --> 01:54:06.479
become what we think about. So if you spend if

1329
01:54:06.520 --> 01:54:09.520
someone spends all the time thinking about something that's not

1330
01:54:09.600 --> 01:54:12.960
good or focusing on things that are not going well,

1331
01:54:13.399 --> 01:54:15.960
then they're kind of invited more of that into their life.

1332
01:54:16.560 --> 01:54:19.680
They don't mean to be, and it's not yeah, it's

1333
01:54:19.760 --> 01:54:22.479
not purposely doing that, and it's not a judgment. It's

1334
01:54:22.560 --> 01:54:26.800
just there's so many examples of that if we look around,

1335
01:54:27.800 --> 01:54:30.439
and I used to be one of those examples, and

1336
01:54:30.520 --> 01:54:39.199
sometimes I still am. So my whole life is based

1337
01:54:39.239 --> 01:54:44.319
around this. We become what we think about. So I

1338
01:54:44.359 --> 01:54:48.239
think about this, and it doesn't mean that I want

1339
01:54:48.239 --> 01:54:50.840
to turn in I want to turn into a podcast.

1340
01:54:53.159 --> 01:54:56.840
I mean, I am the podcast. There used to be

1341
01:54:56.840 --> 01:55:00.960
a time when I was. Yeah, I feel like I

1342
01:55:01.000 --> 01:55:08.760
am the podcast now really this is me and I

1343
01:55:08.800 --> 01:55:11.359
think that, Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I'm not

1344
01:55:11.399 --> 01:55:15.479
trying to make this about me, but I just want

1345
01:55:15.479 --> 01:55:17.079
to say about the American figure, I don't want it.

1346
01:55:17.119 --> 01:55:19.800
I hope that didn't come across as bad because I

1347
01:55:21.359 --> 01:55:23.840
know a lot of my audience, maybe the majority of

1348
01:55:23.840 --> 01:55:27.600
my audience from America, and I really really appreciate anyone

1349
01:55:27.680 --> 01:55:31.840
that listens to me and it finds me useful. So

1350
01:55:31.880 --> 01:55:40.880
it's never a criticism. And every country's got its You're

1351
01:55:40.920 --> 01:55:44.359
not the only weird ones we're all weird. We're all

1352
01:55:44.399 --> 01:55:50.479
weird England. Wow. What I do like about Americans? It

1353
01:55:50.520 --> 01:55:55.520
seems to be more upbeat, more positive, you know, have

1354
01:55:55.600 --> 01:56:00.159
a good day, have a good day here in this country.

1355
01:56:00.720 --> 01:56:06.399
How are you not too bad? Could be worse? You know,

1356
01:56:06.439 --> 01:56:09.279
it's a very and it's not even negative, but it

1357
01:56:09.720 --> 01:56:14.960
is negative but not negative. It's yeah, there's kind of

1358
01:56:15.000 --> 01:56:18.840
like that, or just expect the worst, no good, no

1359
01:56:18.920 --> 01:56:22.479
good to no good deed goes unpunished, all that kind

1360
01:56:22.479 --> 01:56:29.319
of ubi psych I understand that mentality because I've I

1361
01:56:29.399 --> 01:56:33.199
go in and out of that, you know. So I'm

1362
01:56:33.239 --> 01:56:38.640
trying to for me, I'm trying to try and get

1363
01:56:38.840 --> 01:56:41.960
some sentence out of that keeps saying a word trying.

1364
01:56:43.720 --> 01:56:50.159
The attempt is by focusing on positive stuff, I can

1365
01:56:52.199 --> 01:56:57.199
get out of that hole quicker when I fall into it,

1366
01:56:57.239 --> 01:57:05.479
as it were, and maybe not fall as deep and

1367
01:57:05.600 --> 01:57:09.319
have a reason. I think that this is what I've

1368
01:57:09.760 --> 01:57:11.960
I think I've come to this conclusion. I know this

1369
01:57:12.039 --> 01:57:18.960
isn't supposed to be a philosophy of life, you know,

1370
01:57:19.079 --> 01:57:22.439
but I kind of come to the idea of the

1371
01:57:22.479 --> 01:57:33.319
conclusion that really I don't have to go I've got

1372
01:57:33.359 --> 01:57:42.640
finished what was I going to say, just trying to

1373
01:57:42.680 --> 01:57:45.720
just do our best in it. All we could do

1374
01:57:45.840 --> 01:57:52.960
is our best and big brothers are now, so I'm

1375
01:57:52.960 --> 01:57:56.039
going to go see. I was about to tell you

1376
01:57:56.159 --> 01:58:03.039
what my philosophy of life is, focus on one thing,

1377
01:58:03.720 --> 01:58:06.199
and this is this, This is what I do. This

1378
01:58:06.279 --> 01:58:14.279
is my entire life, and hopefully it'll be good, it'll continue,

1379
01:58:15.039 --> 01:58:17.319
So thank you for listening. Remember to be kind to

1380
01:58:17.359 --> 01:58:21.079
yourself because you do deserve to be happy. Be gentle

1381
01:58:21.119 --> 01:58:28.159
with yourself. You deserve to feel safe. Lots of love. Bye,