June 20, 2025

(music) BLOWING BUBBLES - Relaxation Hypnosis For Stress #243 - 20th June 2025

(music) BLOWING BUBBLES - Relaxation Hypnosis For Stress #243 - 20th June 2025
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Hello and welcome to Who's that? Why did you jump

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off like that? Vinny? Oh oh, he just trodden me

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balls out. He's very straight. He's now sitting on my lap. Honestly,

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he hasn't. He did this I think last week the

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second time pretty much in years that he's done it.

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There's something about me making recordings sitting on the chair

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on my city excuse me, as opposed to sitting on

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the desk, because when I at the desk, I'm literally

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got my back to him. We kind of sit you

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down at my feet and stuff. But he prefers to

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be on the sofa because or comfy and normally just

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sort of lies down next to me. But for some

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reason he's sitting on my lap. I'm stroking his back

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and he seems to be happy doing that. Okay, Anyway,

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this is stress Basically, this is going to be a

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stress relief technique. So this is relaxation for stress and anxiety.

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It's this is a technique, which it's very childish, but

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that's one of the good things about it. I want

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to say childish, I'm not saying I don't. I'm not

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I'm not going to say go into supermarket, roll around

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having a tantrum in the vegetable aisle. No, not that

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kind of childishness. But I think this is something that

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is actually based in science, believe it or not. H wow.

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I wasn't even yawning before I started doing a recording,

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so as I said, my name is Jason luland please

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only listen when you could safety close your eyes. This

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is not going to be a long recording, and when

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I do release it, when I edit it and upload it,

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there'll be one version without music, one version with music.

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I mean, it doesn't really seem to It almost feels

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like it's going to be a two minute recording because

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it's really really simple, blowing bubbles. I mean, it's the

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most simple thing in the world. And you might think,

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you might think lots of things. You might think, why

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have I listened to this? I thought it was going

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to be something more interesting, And why did I buy

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that car instead of the one I really wanted. You

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might be thinking about something completely, you know, irrelevant to

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the recording. You might be thinking, why are you suggesting

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to do something that I don't have the tools. I

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don't have a bubble blowing bubbles chew thing. I guess

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they still make them. You know those tubes and you

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take the top off and the lid's actually got a

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little round bit in it, and you just shake it

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and then you blow through it. But I guess everyone

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knows how bubbles blowing bubbles how to do that. There's

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other ways of doing it, though, you know, you can

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anything with a circle and just washing up liquid and

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some water. You can blow bubbles in the barth. Can

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you You can it? I mean it's quite easy, just

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need a circular object to blow through. But if you can.

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You know, if you've got some bubbles, maybe if you

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listen to this and you have some of your own,

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or maybe you've got kids that have got some bubbles,

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or one of the bubble blower things, or maybe not

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the ones that you throw through the air, that you

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push through the air, one that you actually blow into.

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Maybe your grandkids do. Maybe a cat or your dog

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has them. Then he doesn't have one, but I think

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he'd love it. I'm going to get one. Wow, this

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has been beneficial to me. I'm going to get some

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bubbles and blow it. Go to the park and just

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see him get all excited. Shina pop them. Oh Id,

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I've never been more excited. I was really looking forward

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to that now like I have been more excited, but

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I am looking forward to it. It sounded like psycasm,

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but I yeah, I'm really looking forward to that. Yeah, really, no,

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I am, I am honest. Anyway, how this works, I'm

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actually going to teach you how to blow bubbles. Now

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you don't need to be taught. You know how to

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blow bubbles. How it works. It basically works on the

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principle of with an anxiety attack, we breathe in more

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than we breathe out. Yeah, and sometimes breathing techniques in

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my personal experience, I'm always so easy to do. I

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didn't find it very easy to necessarily do the whole breathing,

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and it's kind of reversing it so that you're breathing,

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we're just not breathing in as much, so you're not

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taking too much oxygen. So blowing bubbles is a way

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to blow out to exhale. But you get rewarded for

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it because it's a bubble there, and you might think,

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but I'm not five years old, JJ. A bubble is

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a reward is really what I'd expect a reward would

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be a chocolate bar or a new TV. That's a reward. Well,

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I can't a TV. You're not going to like, I'd

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hurt your foot, wouldn't it. Imagine if you're blew into

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the bubble when a television fell on the floor. I mean, yeah,

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that wouldn't be any good. So but the other benefits

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is with your imagination. You imagine the every time you

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blow into that bubble thing, you know, the little circle

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or the square or whatever it is, you're blowing out

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the stress out of your body. And each bubble represents

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just a little a thing that you don't need anymore,

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an issue, maybe a little memory, a little something that's

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no longer necessary. And a good thing about this is

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you can watch them pop. You can even name them.

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I don't mean like Henry Paul Sean, but maybe the

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argument that you had with the next door neighbor about

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the wheelbarrow. I mean, I don't know if you've had

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an argument with a neighbor about a wheelbarrow. I never have,

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but it's possibly could happen. But it's could say, Okay,

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that's this one, that's that one, but just watch them pop,

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or you could just have that it's just a bit

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of stress, I know, a bit of stress popping. And

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the thing about a bubble, you can never get it back.

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Once the bubble's gone, it's gone. You literally can never

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get that bubble back. It's gone forever. So once a

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bubble bursts, that's it. I can I have a long life?

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Really do they bubbles? So as you blow through the

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circle or the square thingy where that you know, you're

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putting in the into the liquid and basically it's just

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washing up liquid, isn't it. I don't know what it's

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made of when you buy it, but you can just

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fill it with washing up liquid and shake. It does

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the same thing, really, and you blow through it. It

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can be a massive bubble. So in that process you

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breathed out, but you're not focusing on t trying to

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change your breathing. That to me is what I'm trying

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to get across with this is in the past, when

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I was having regular panic attacks, the thing I struggled

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with was the breathing. Even doing breathing exercises when I

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wasn't having a panic attack sometimes used to make me

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feel worse. I know it's supposed to be the greatest thing,

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and you control your breathing. Sometimes we might need something

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a little bit different, and this is one of those

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things that can be another option, and it's a little

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bit more fun than just standing there focusing on your

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breath when actually, let's face it, if someone's in the

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middle of a panic attack, they feel unwell, don't they

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They do, I feel good and the breathings are not.

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It's not enjoyable, so by and you can't distract yourself

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by breathing if you're if someone's in it, if someone's

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in a panic attack mode, breathing is not a distraction

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To me. It's almost the last thing I wanted to

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think about or focus on when I was having a

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panic attack. I'm not saying this is for everyone, and

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of course not everyone is the same. This might be

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useful for someone that maybe would like an opportunity to

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breathe out and by blowing it helps to get that

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out of your body so that you're not breathing in

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more than you need, and it can help calm down

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your mind as well as you're breathing, of course, but

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because you're focused on the bubble, I mean, arguably, it

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might not be the most exciting thing in the world,

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but it's a hell of a lot more interesting than

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sitting there suffering, wondering when you're going to be able

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to start breathing normally again and when you're going to

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feel normal again. So it's just something different to do,

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something a bit strange maybe, and something that perhaps you

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could do with your family. You can stop that, Vinny,

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stop it, you little monkey head. And it's something that

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you can do with other people as well. I don't

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mean Mike at a nightclub or at a wedding, but

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I'll be your kids or your grandkids, with your partner

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or with your grumbling stomach. My stomach grumbled so loudly

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then that even Finny looked at me like, what the

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hell was that? Is it an earthquake? No, it's a

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grumbling stomach. How big must my stomach be? If he

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thinks bless blessed? He's now laying down on my it's

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half on the the arm rest on the right hand side,

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and his bums and his half his body started lying

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on my leg on my waist. Doesn't normally do this.

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It's very strange, really, Perhaps he just wanted a little

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bit at TLC, a little bit of cuddling. He's not

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a very cuddly dog. Really, everything has to be on

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his terms anyway. That's it. So just give it a go.

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See if you like it, see if it's if it's useful.

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I mean, this is based in science, by the way,

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but I'm not going to get you bogged down with why.

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But it's something that might be useful, you know. In fact,

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I'm going to get myself some myself, get myself some myself.

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That made sense when I said it. So take care.

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Remember to be kind to yourself because you do deserve

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to be happy. Be gentle with yourself if you deserve

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to feel safe. Lots of love, Bye,