Aug. 22, 2025

(music) 96 bottles of water | LMBYTS #1418 | Jason Newland | 22nd August 2025

(music) 96 bottles of water | LMBYTS #1418 | Jason Newland | 22nd August 2025
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Hello and welcome. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome to Jason

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new Land dot com. My day is Jason. Who do land?

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Do Land? New Land? Sometimes sounds like I'm saying, do Land,

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Jason Newland do Land. Maybe it's just my ex and

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I don't know. See. Yeah, Hello, welcome to. I'm going

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to stop yawning in a minute. Welcome to. Let me

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bore you to sleep. My name's somebody done, the name bitter.

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I please only listen when you can safely close shut. Yeah,

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it's six o'clock. I had a very in the morning.

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I had a very early night last night. I was

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in bed about half eight. I reckon just third to

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an early night? Really about it? Really? And what's I

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went to bed. I think he's just coming. What's going on?

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You just woke me up, you bastard. Stop it. Phinny. Hey,

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we're not going anywhere, Vinnie. You can get up here

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and have a cuddle, but I'm not coming out. Nope.

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I have to have my breakfast first. Mm Oh, here's

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a weird thing, right. Apparently all the details about Uncle's

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sausages has been lost. They lost They didn't know where

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he was, they didn't know he was like he got

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lost in the system, you know, digitally, I mean and

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I mean his fingers, but you know, and so they

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weren't able to organize his final ceremony. It's just he

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got to the end. It actually stand that he's next

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to king and said, if if we have to, if

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she has to cancel the funeral again, she's already canceled

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it before. Then it's going to end up just having

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a cremation because she has to go away for two

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weeks at the end of this week, at the end

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of next week, so she won't be here to do anything.

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So it's yeah, it's weird, weird times, but I think

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it's all sorted out. So it's going to be next Thursday,

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the twenty eighth. So what day is it now? Twenty third?

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That means Thursday. My birthdays are twenty six on Tuesday. Yeah,

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my birthday's on Tuesday. Everyone. Yeah, thirty two not bad

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at it? Looking pretty good for thirty two. Thirty two.

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It's weird because I think at thirty two and I

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still think that that's old. It's weird, isn't it. I

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think once I reached Yeah, once I reached thirty, I

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kind of I didn't didn't feel young anymore. I'm not

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young as in myself, but just in society. I didn't

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feel different inside. I mean, I mean when people say,

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you know, you see people there seventies to say, oh,

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I still feel like I'm fourteen years old, like I

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don't feel that way. Part in the fact that I

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can't remember what I felt like when I was fourteen

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years old. I don't feel physically, I don't feel the

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same as I used to when I was younger. Mentally,

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I don't feel the same. So I'm not quite sure

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what they mean when they say still feel the same

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as I did. I don't know if it's just is

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it because that sentence is just being used lots and

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lots and people are used to say in it, and

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it doesn't exactly represent perhaps what the person's feeling or

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what they're trying to convey, but just the overall sense though,

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of I don't feel as old as I look. I

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don't know what did I do yesterday before? I'd say

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about my dreams. By the way, there will be a

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Q and a Friday today because it is Friday, but

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it's very early, well it's early in the morning. It's

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too early for me. To do a Q and a Friday,

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I have to be awake to do that, and I'm

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not awake yet, So yesterday I do that. Later yesterday

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I ordered some stuff because I'm trying to get stocked

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up for the future. I don't mean the future as

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in the next hundred years, but just you know, the

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next the remainder of the year. Really, I suppose, so

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over the last week or so, a couple of weeks,

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I got two or three weeks, I got some got

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enough black bin bags, rubbish refuge bags to last me

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till the end of the year, probably to the end

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of next year. Actually, I'm buying stuff in bulk or

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just buying lots of it, multi packs, stuff like that.

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Not lots of it. But I got a bunch of mouthwash,

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so that that's plaques, isn't it plaques? So that that

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is I got one to telling them, so that will

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last me for a while. Washing up liquid that last me,

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I mean that definitely took less end of the year.

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That might last me to the end of next year

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again as well. I've got I've got four hundred black

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bin bags, so that's gonna last a while. And then

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I've got one hundred and twenty toilet rolls and middlely

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I'm nearly through one pack, but that was two three

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weeks ago I got them. So I don't mean I've

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got through a whole pack of one hundred and twenty

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in three weeks. No, I mean they've I think they're

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packs of twelve or packs of ten. I suppose twelve

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in each one and then ten packs. Yeah, that makes sense,

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isn't it. So I've got enough toilet roll probably to

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last me till the end of the year. And other

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things I've ordered is deodorant, toothpaste, but there is other

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stuff and I can't think what it is. Where is it? Toothpaste? Deodorant?

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I'm gonna look it up. You haven't got to move

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any You ain't gonna move. What are you moving for?

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All right? So look are okay? So I've ordered in

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bulk wet wipes, theodrin, oh yeah, Dove soap, so I've

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ordered loads of those, not loads, but at twelve I

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think I got ordered in bulk toatally original tea bags

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and toothpaste does so okay. I was just saying stuff dispatched, right,

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That wasn't quite as exciting as I thought. Hm, oh, well,

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so yeah, I think he's looking my feet, so I have.

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I'm just trying to get stocked up really just as

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a I don't know, not safety measure, but it's just

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a practical preparation for the wind, you know, just getting

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getting stuff in, not getting stuff in that would be

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for Christmas. Yeah, I can't think of what else that

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I might need. Our water yesterday I got because I

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do drink bottle water, bottled water if I can talk properly.

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So I've got eight packs of twelve whatever however minute

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many that makes one hundred is it ninety ninety ninety

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four or whatever, So yeah, I got I got them

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all on my shelves over there. So it's just little

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things like that, because the delivery charge sort of if

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I get a delivery, if I get a big delivery

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or a small delivery, the charge is the same amount

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of money as well. Try and well, yeah, I don't know.

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I'm trying to say, try and get a bit stocked up,

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but maybe occasionally get a big delivery. It's weird. I

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get a certain sense of satisfaction. I want to look

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over to the bookcases and see what those was as

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bottles of water or stacked up knowing that I'm not

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going to run out anytime soon. It's quite a nice

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little feeling. And this is what I used to do

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in the past. I did. I used to always have,

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not always, but when I first moved in here, because

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I had a bit more room rather than just one

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one bit of little bit of space, which is a

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room that I used to live in and bought various

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different rooms. You know, I had a bit more space

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in here when I first moved in, before I filled

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all those spaces with rubbish, and so I used to

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stock up on everything. I mean, i'd love probably about yeah, wow,

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so much stuff. There was no room to put nowhere

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to put the stuff I had it like all over

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the bath, the edge of the bath, cans of deodorant.

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It's just had so many bits and bobs. I did

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give quite a bit of it away, but this is

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I was getting it from the supermarket. And this is

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back when things were a fair bit cheaper. Actually, you know,

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you can get a lot of special offers and things.

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It were really really it's sometimes very cheap. It doesn't

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seem to be that way anymore, but it's uh, it's

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all right. I mean maybe I need to go into

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the supermarket to find these deals. Perhaps I'm going to

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struggle to find them online, not struggle, But it's probably

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easier to see it with my eyes, isn't it, you

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know what I mean? Yeah, I had some dreams last night.

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And my voice is a bit croaky. It's always like

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this on the first wake up ball w Room Star.

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I have to check that. I always have to. That's

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my that's my croaky voice. Check. Yeah. My dream was

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the very chaotic, very chaotic, so I wouldn't even know

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where to start. There's one dream, and I think I

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was living at home with you know, like when I

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was fifteen, fourteen, I was living at home. The weird

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thing about it, it's never in the house. It's never

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in the house that we lived sometimes sometimes it's the

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same people, but it's always in a much bigger house,

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like a huge place. Hm hmm. I mean that house

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we lived in could have been big if it wasn't

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for all the people. Because a big room turns into

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a small room when you feel it full of stuff,

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don't it. It's no longer a big room, you know,

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if you've if you've got a sofa, but it's still

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the same size room. Yeah, mathematically, But if it's all

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cluttered and you've got a nice sized room, if you

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put a big table in the middle war taking up

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you know, it's no longer. The word room isn't really

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correct now, is it. Yeah, because it's a room. Yeah,

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But if there's no room, then it's not really a room.

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Because it's called room because it's room there's space to maneuver.

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But if there is no space to maneuver and there's

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no room to actually do anything because you've got stuff

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in the way, then it's not really a room, is it.

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This is frying my own brain. That is something that

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I don't don't really don't really enjoy obstacles. So in here,

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in my living room, there's a big Okay, it's not

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a big room. It's it's okay, but it's not cluttered. Okay,

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it's a bit cluttered. But between me and the other

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wall on the other side of the room, because I'm

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sitting in this so well, it's an old reclining two

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person as in me and Vinny only reclining thing that

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my friend gave me. It's old. It's probably about twenty

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years old. I'd say it's an old thing, but it's okay.

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It's falling apart, but it's okay, so I might I say,

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And it's against the wall, not right against the wall,

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but you know it's near the end of the other

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side of the wall. It's a face in the other wall.

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There's two tables together, like two desks together, and the

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TVs on top of those desks, and apart from a chair,

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which to be fairies in the way at the moment,

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but generally there's nothing between me and the telly. It's

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all space. And you could argue where you wouldn't be

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able to see the telly if there was something there,

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if you suddenly if you put a bookcase in the

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middle of the room, well I wouldn't put a bookcase

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in the middle of the room, would I. That'd be silly.

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I mean I have less bookcases than I do now.

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There are three to the left of me. And you

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know I cut down my book collection, so I haven't

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got as many books anymore. But the shelves, well, there's

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no book there's bottles of water. Oh it's I'm so

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proud of that water. It's weird. But I'm not into clutter,

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as in i'd like to be able to walk through

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without banging into things. So you know, I would never

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have like my friend, you have his sofa and then

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to have this big wooden't like a coffee table thing.

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It was big and it seemed to take up half

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the room and have it in front of the sofa.

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But he didn't really use it. It was just he had

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something to the left of him. That's where he would

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put his drink. And you know, like with me, I've

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got a little table thing to the right of me.

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That's where I put my stuff. You know, that's where

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it all goes. And it's like, Okay, you don't need

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that big obstacle. Because I had to bang my leg

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on it so many times and it took up the

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whole room. Why not the whole it took up He

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had to walk around it, there was no space. And

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also because he was a sociable person, he had two

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settees for visitors. I don't want visitors, so I've got

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just this now. Originally, when I moved in to avoid visitors,

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I had one chair, one single chair. It was a recliner.

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It was a really, really cheap version of a lazy boy.

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It was called Can't Be asked, boy, it's very late.

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It was. It was a one hundred and fifty good

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I think, and it started falling apart. I think it

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started falling apart before I got it out of the box.

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But I liked it. It was a bit too squeaky ish,

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a bit too squeaky, but I liked it. You know,

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it was an okay, Yeah, yeah, it was all right.

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It was okay for me and Andre. I'm not sure

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how Vinny would have got on with it a minute,

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it'd be I reckon it'd be disintegrated by now. But

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if I still had it, I must have had it

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for at least five years, five years, six years. I

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don't know how long I've had this, because the weird

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thing about it is I remember carrying it up with

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Luke and it's the heaviest sofa I've ever carried ever,

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so heavy, and we carried it upstairs, which wasn't a

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good idea. I mean, it's a fear few years back.

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But still I had to lie down for about two

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hours because of my back. Yeah, I don't know. I

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don't know how strange I remember it just in a

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sense of how much hassle it was. But I still

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had Andre at the time. Definitely still had Andre, so

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it would have been before yeah, probably about five years ago. Then.

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H see, it's got two s it's got two chairs, right,

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I'm in the right one, the right side one. The

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left one doesn't get set by anyone. It's always got

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stuff on it. If someone insists on coming in here

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knocking on my door, they can sit on the other chair,

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which is why I use when I'm at the desk,

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or they can sit on this chair and I'll sit

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on the other chair. I don't sit next to people.

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I don't. I just know I like my space. I'm

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not saying I would never sit next to someone, because

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there are circumstances where I probably would want to sit

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next to someone, but it would take a bit of

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getting used to. But you know, generally, it's nice to

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have my space. I do think though, because I see

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some people and they've got you know, I sort of

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say old married couples. Just some people I see they've

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got their own chairs in the living room. Maybe maybe

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they're next to each other, maybe they're different sides of

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the room, but they've got their own comfortable chairs. Or

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maybe one person sits in their own chair and the

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other person sits on the sofa, and I wonder, you know,

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if they've been together a long time from young, I mean,

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they probably didn't sit in separate chairs. If those in

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their teen years or their twenties, they prop bunchs guessing

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they possibly want it to be as close together as

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possible physically. So I'm wondering, how do you introduce the

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new chair? How do you introduce sitting separately? And I

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know people that they're married, and I don't know why

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they're married. They're sleep in separate beds, lead completely separate

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lives and don't really have anything to do with each other.

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What is the point in that? Seriously, what is the point?

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I mean, that's yeah, I don't get it. Yeah, I

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just because I think if you're to feel like you're

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a lodger in your own home is not a good

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situation to be in. And I know what it's like

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to be a lodger, because I've been a lodger many

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nim nim nim nim nimni many times, many times, way

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too many times. Probably everyone knows what it's like to

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be a lodger, but I was. I've just lived in

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so many, so different places over the years. It's ridiculous

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and it's weird because I've been here for ten and

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a half years is it half years April May, June

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July August or ten years and four months and still

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kind of like, wow, I'm not even used to it yet.

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Really who I am? But I'm not. And I've never

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decorated other than the very basic decoration when I first

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moved in, just filling in the gaps, you know, making

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sure the walls are the same, and never cared about

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that because I never really thought i'd be here for long.

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I just didn't expect this to last, so I've never

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really The walls are the same kind of they were

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when I moved in, pretty much the I put a

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carpet in, and it's the same carpet, one of those thin,

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cheapy ones. I haven't you know. The doors are falling apart.

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It's the same doors as when I moved in. Really,

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they're not nice doors, and I do wonder. I mean,

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I mean, you think of all the pleasure I'm getting

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from looking at those bottled waters, bottles of water stacked up.

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But maybe if I had a new door, I'll be

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even happier or nice pink walls or yellow walls, or

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I like pastor colors like blue, pink, yellow, Green's okay,

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but definitely blue, yellow and pink. They're putting in my

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favor colors pastor. There's something soft about that. I like

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soft colors, very gentle, not too just colors that don't

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they're not demanding, you know, don't demand your attention. They're

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just happy for you to notice them. If you notice them.

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If you don't, that's also fine. Let's yourself peace. Yeah,

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So pastor colors are like, maybe I should do that,

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but I'm not really a decorator though. And also I've

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got all a lot of soundproofing up in here, so

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to take the soundproof and down, i'd have to get

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new soundproofing because I've got quite a lot of sound proofing.

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It probably does make a difference that I'm not aware of,

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because if I took it down it might I'm guessing

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it'd be a lot more echoing in here. It might

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make no difference whatsoever, and I just wasted my time

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with it all. But sure, I'm not sure. Hmm. I

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think the council have been around and if they're starting

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to do something with the flat downstairs, because they put

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one of those key locked things on the door at

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the front door so that workers can come and go

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and get in and out, which makes me think that

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I don't maybe they've changed the locks. I don't know.

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And if they did that, it must have been on

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Monday when I was out, because I didn't hear, not

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heard any drilling or anything. In fact, I think it

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was there on Monday when I got back. Yeah, because

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I was out four. I left at one and I

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got back about quarter to five, so I'll be banging

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around down there, and I don't really know what they do.

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I don't know what the council do, not really. I mean,

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I suppose they've got to check the electrics, check everything,

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so all tidy and stuff. But I don't know what

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they do. I mean, you know, if the place is full,

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then they got emptied, so that you know, I mean,

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luckily the counselor I've done a lot, A lot of

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stuff's already done for them. I've packed. I got rid

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of about over fifty bags maybe more of rubbish, and

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I've also packed probably another fifty if not more, all

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upstairs in his flat. The council told me, and initially

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they wanted the stuff moved out, and then I spoke

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to them and said, I can just leave it in

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there and they'll come and do it. So okay, So

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I've made it the job a lot easier, a lot

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quicker for them because really most of the stuff is

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just furniture now, other than the stuff that's bagged. But

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I'll take ten minutes to take that downstairs. It's they've

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got more than one person the furnit. Well they should

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have more than one person, shouldn't they, So it won't

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be able to get they won't be able to get

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the furniture down up with And yeah, so once the

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furniture is out, I don't think there's it's just be

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about tidy and cleaning up, taking the carpet up. Yeah,

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I mean, what is it now, still August? There'll be

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someone new in there, probably by October. No, they won't

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because they have not started coming in here, so fingers crossed,

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there won't be anyone here toil. No, no, wait a minute, yeah,

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fingers crossed. Nothing before the before the end of the year.

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So maybe not until next year because just from experience,

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D's likely to move in is Yeah, it's gonna be

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a lot of noise and stuff you got. It seems

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to have two types of people, those who let the

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door slam and those that don't. And those that let

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the door slam generally there's sort of a bit of

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chaos there because they don't care. They're not being considerate.

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Those that don't let the door slam are being considerate

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towards the other neighbors. It's weird. It just this is

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that's what it's like here anyway. I think one of

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the people that lets her door slam downstairs, she's she's

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a nice, nice person, so it's not it's not really

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out of vindictiveness. She's just not thinking about she's I

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don't know, I'm not sure she hears it. She might

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not be able to hear it slam. There's also people

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that you know, perhaps can't hear the noise they're making,

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so you can't really blame them for that. But the

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one next door to her, it's ironic because when she

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first moved in last summer, she said, I wish they

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wouldn't slam her door next door. It shakes the whole

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flat shake, And I said, I know, it's horrible, isn't it.

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That's why we try and tell people try, and we

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hope that people won't let the door slam because it

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shakes the building, and this noise is very loud, it echoes.

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And she said, oh, and then a few days later

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she's letting a door slam, and she did that continuously

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for the next year. I think it's the mentality of

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if you can't beat them, join them, and I've never

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really understood that one. I do wonder how people can

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let their door slam so often, though I've heard it

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downstairs go seventeen times. I realize it's probably been sad

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that I'm counting them, but seventeen times in just a

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few minut it's it's almost like they're like letting a slam,

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then opening up, pushing it open and let it slam,

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and just repeating that seventeen times, Like why why why

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would you do such a thing? Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? Yeah?

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I mean, sometimes my door slams if I don't catch it,

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or if I've got a visitor, and their natural reaction

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is just to let the door slam, which is possibly

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something I would do if I didn't know the door slammed,

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you know, because not all doors just slam shut, do they?

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When you let go over them, because these are fire

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protection doors, very very heavy, and they're just they're designed

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to slam shut. So it's not really anyone's fault because

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that's their design, because they're designed to close on their own.

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But do they have to slam? Can we not put

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some kind of silence proofer, you know, silence are on them.

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I figured if you put some kind of fuzzy tape

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just on inside the door, on the doorframe, that would

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probably take the shock, like a shock of absorbent that

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turn it from a bang to a you know, just

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just a little sound, which means we wouldn't hear it.

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I'm not hugely affected by anything that it's on downstairs.

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The door slamming, I'm used to it. It's just just

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one of those things upstairs. However, we don't have doors slamming,

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and never have done since I've lived there. So if

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the person next opposite me is another door slammer, it's

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gonna be wow annoying. Yeah, I wonder if I could do.

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I might actually look into that sea if there's anything

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I can do to fix the door from slamming or

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for making a big noise when it does slam. But

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so doesn't affect with the reason the door slams. So

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it's still sealed and everything just just a little buffer,

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a little a little something something to it, a little

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something something. Oh, come on, give me a little summer summer.

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Oh not, I don't mean like that. Yeah, how might

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look into that today, Do a little bit of research. Yeah,

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so that's my little I didn't told you about my dreams.

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I had this dream and I kept trying to get somewhere,

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and it was like a job interview, and I needed

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to be there by a certain time. And the person

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that it wasn't even a job. Was it a job

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in the view, or was it just to start the

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new job. It might have been to start the new job.

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I just couldn't get there. I did get there in

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the end, but I was struggling so much, and I

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was getting distracted by other things. And when I did

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get there, there was some weird seminar going on. And

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then I think there was vampires involved for some reason,

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or some kind of really weird yeah, very weird behavior.

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I have no idea, no idea why had that dream?

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Very strange, very strange. Indeed, it's too late now now

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I've been talking I've forgotten the dreams. Well, so I

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do Yesterday, Yeah, not much really. Friday Thursday, yes, I

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ordered stuff online to get delivered. And today I'm going

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to do Q and a Friday later. I've gone from

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one question last week so I didn't do one to

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about I think twelve questions this week. So it's going

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to be h I think it's going to be quite

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a hefty recording. Yeah, and that I think is it.

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I want to go and get my breakfast because I'm hungry.

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Lisa didn't. I didn't fall asleep during this recording like

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I did yesterday. I literally fell asleep. I edited out

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the snoring, but I was gone and that hasn't happened

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this time, although it needed it just then. But I'm

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in need of food. Food, food, food, food, So thank

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you for listening. Remember to be kind yourself because you

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do deserve to be happy and be gentle of yourself.

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You deserve to feel safe. Lots of love. Bye,